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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When a man's heart has been broken so deeply...

that he can no longer feel it beat

When another woman once had his heart and ripped it to pieces....she left nothing behind but pain...

She left nothing behind but hate..

She left nothing behind for me

I arrived too late.....

Because she left nothing behind for me

His heart is gone..

He is just a stone.

She left nothing behind ...for me.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"When a man's heart has been broken so deeply...

that he can no longer feel it beat

When another woman once had his heart and ripped it to pieces....she left nothing behind but pain...

She left nothing behind but hate..

She left nothing behind for me

I arrived too late.....

Because she left nothing behind for me

His heart is gone..

He is just a stone.

She left nothing behind ...for me.

"
. .Thats me just one empty shell

x x X

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

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ye how about us girls that have had our hearts broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My heart is shrivelled and black and broken and locked in a steel cage behind a brick wall and a mine field now. x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

This has happened to not only myself, but to many people over the years.

Look to the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a man's heart has been broken so deeply...

that he can no longer feel it beat

When another woman once had his heart and ripped it to pieces....she left nothing behind but pain...

She left nothing behind but hate..

She left nothing behind for me

I arrived too late.....

Because she left nothing behind for me

His heart is gone..

He is just a stone.

She left nothing behind ...for me.

. .Thats me just one empty shell

x x X"

if i put you to my ear, can i hear the sea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i used to go out with a lovely girl when i was young (18, she would have been 15 at the time)

really lovely she was.

we split up, she lived her life

met her about 3 years ago and she is the most nasty person i have ever run into.

really hates men

hasnt a nice word to say about anyone she has had in her life.

very bitter

but thats what life can do to some people that dont get it right, but she is now ruined (for want of a better term) for the next decent bloke that would like to get with her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ye how about us girls that have had our hearts broken

I know! But I am a woman! And straight! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By the way. ..thankyou everyone for not laughing or taking the piss. I was a bit nervous what people might say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds familiar...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's life x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view "

I meet them like that too. I usually fix them so that are ready to meet the perfect person for them. My track record is almost perfect on that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By the way. ..thankyou everyone for not laughing or taking the piss. I was a bit nervous what people might say. "

Why would people do that? Feelings are tough.

I've chosen not to feel in recent years as a way to survive but I'm trying to move past that but it's hard work making yourself emotionally vulnerable again after being hurt. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view

I meet them like that too. I usually fix them so that are ready to meet the perfect person for them. My track record is almost perfect on that.

Yep!!!! Me too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have Philophobia

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view

I meet them like that too. I usually fix them so that are ready to meet the perfect person for them. My track record is almost perfect on that.

Yep!!!! Me too!!!"

Then it's not all bad as two people are left happy and loving.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"When a man's heart has been broken so deeply...

that he can no longer feel it beat

When another woman once had his heart and ripped it to pieces....she left nothing behind but pain...

She left nothing behind but hate..

She left nothing behind for me

I arrived too late.....

Because she left nothing behind for me

His heart is gone..

He is just a stone.

She left nothing behind ...for me.

. .Thats me just one empty shell

x x X

if i put you to my ear, can i hear the sea?"
. . .no but only because im the shell of a monkey nut

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view

I meet them like that too. I usually fix them so that are ready to meet the perfect person for them. My track record is almost perfect on that.

Yep!!!! Me too!!!

Then it's not all bad as two people are left happy and loving.

I suppose so.....but it would be nice one day...if I wasnt too late...x

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view

I meet them like that too. I usually fix them so that are ready to meet the perfect person for them. My track record is almost perfect on that.

Story of my bloody life that is. I've even driven the ones who have never married and never wanted to marry, to marry!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view

I meet them like that too. I usually fix them so that are ready to meet the perfect person for them. My track record is almost perfect on that.

Story of my bloody life that is. I've even driven the ones who have never married and never wanted to marry, to marry! "

Jesus! What are we doing wrong?? Lol! Is there really such a thing as being too nice? I get told I am lovely, gorgeous, sexy., blah blah blah. ..then they go off with a bitch from hell! Wtf??????

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Ah feck it, I'm off to the offy anyway, who needs women

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Here is my take on this:

When men (or women) say they don't want to commit or marry they don't. What changes is that they meet the person they want to commit to, the person they want to marry. No amount of cajoling, being nice, sexy or whatever will change that (in a real sense) if you are not the one they want.

I can still meet all of the men I have ever fallen in love with as a friend. They loved me in their way but none were in love with me. I helped them to develop the skills and awareness to spot when they were in love and they now have long-lasting healthy relationships.

There may have been people who were in love with me but because I didn't feel that way about them I didn't spot it.

The past is the past and each new relationship is a fresh chance.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Here is my take on this:

There may have been people who were in love with me but because I didn't feel that way about them I didn't spot it.

The past is the past and each new relationship is a fresh chance.

I agree and of course you are right. But every now and then....it just ticks me off! Lol! X

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Here is my take on this:

There may have been people who were in love with me but because I didn't feel that way about them I didn't spot it.

The past is the past and each new relationship is a fresh chance.

I agree and of course you are right. But every now and then....it just ticks me off! Lol! X"

I've had my moments too. It's human.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have that very tshirt - signed many times unfortunately

......Does anyone have a few meters of rope handy? I know the knot!

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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago

solihull

Bloody hell littlekitten that has struck straight to my heart. I have tried to pm you but cant, would love you to pm me though please. Xxxx rob

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bloody hell littlekitten that has struck straight to my heart. I have tried to pm you but cant, would love you to pm me though please. Xxxx rob"

I PMd you. Sorry didn't want to upset anyone. I write when I feel stuff. ...not well...but I try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have that very tshirt - signed many times unfortunately

......Does anyone have a few meters of rope handy? I know the knot!

Lol...sorry...I seem to have depressed everyone!

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By *taffsfella1Man
over a year ago

Newcastle-under-Lyme

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

Maybe they just need a little more time to be able to give their heart again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

Maybe they just need a little more time to be able to give their heart again."

More time....more patience....more love...more comfort. .more hugs....more kisses...more understanding. ..more space...more sex.....more...more....more.....until finally they are ready.....

...to say goodbye and straight into anothers arms x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And so.....it begins again. ...eventueally with someone new....

And the wheel keeps turning....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think my avatar says it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And so.....it begins again. ...eventueally with someone new....

And the wheel keeps turning....x"

Very touching thread. May be you are doing something wrong and you keep making the same mistake. May be you are too nice and opening your heart too much and your feelings for them are like an open book. It shows a lot of longing and passion that leaves them nothing more to run after and discover. May be you should share your feelings towards him with a friend but keep some of them hidden from him. The string should be hold with smoothness. You need to let go a bit at times and loossen the grip. O ther time you hold tight and firm when necessary but not all the time. Men like to solve the misterious complexe enigms. An easy one would just get them borred and run away. You look very sexy in your pics and you sound a deep sensual woman who is not asking for much but loved back. I wish you the best. xxx

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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago

Wellington

I so know where you are at!!

Been there and then he broke me by running to another! Now I am the one who is stone!

I hope one day I meet someone

Who knows what they have when they hold me, how much I have to give! I also hope I am brave enough to let him in!

Big Hugs xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's never too late if you're the right person.

Be clear that I mean no disrespect to the Op or any contributor, but although the Op is well written and I understand the message, I strongly disagree with it.

I do believe that timing can have an effect, but it is never too late. If you're the wrong person then it doesn't matter how you 'play it'. No amount of cajoling will change the inevitable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It has been my lifes misfortune to always meet a good man when someone else has already fucked them up....hence too late!

But yes..I know it happens for women and men. I just say it from a straight single womans point of view "
. This has happened to me too Hun and I'm still in the spin cycle with it. The guy in question happens to be my best friend, it's very hard as we both have feelings for each other but he's too messed up still for anything more.

. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One other point. It also comes down to whether the new person is percieved across the key wants and needs (which may have changed a bit) as being a better match than the ex was.

If yes, then the loss is much easier to forget, if not then they can actually highlight the 'loss'.

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By *exycleanerWoman
over a year ago

pontefract

"I so know where you are at!!

Been there and then he broke me by running to another! Now I am the one who is stone!

I hope one day I meet someone

Who knows what they have when they hold me, how much I have to give! I also hope I am brave enough to let him in!

Big Hugs xxx "

but alas for me i not know if i will ever trust a guy again ,so trying my best to learn to live alone which aint easy but doing my best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can be very difficult sometimes, after suffering a lost love in the past, to believe that you'll meet the "one". I think it's important to remain true to yourself about who you really are. The right one will find you, because you are only right for them too if you're being yourself, and not faking it.

Taking a little bit of time in getting to know someone makes all the difference.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"It can be very difficult sometimes, after suffering a lost love in the past, to believe that you'll meet the "one". I think it's important to remain true to yourself about who you really are. The right one will find you, because you are only right for them too if you're being yourself, and not faking it.

Amen to that. I hate to hear people talk about 'playing it' a certain way. Pretending to be something you are not messes up people's lives!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen to that. I hate to hear people talk about 'playing it' a certain way. Pretending to be something you are not messes up people's lives!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here is my take on this:

There may have been people who were in love with me but because I didn't feel that way about them I didn't spot it.

The past is the past and each new relationship is a fresh chance.

this is spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When a man's heart has been broken so deeply...

that he can no longer feel it beat

When another woman once had his heart and ripped it to pieces....she left nothing behind but pain...

She left nothing behind but hate..

She left nothing behind for me

I arrived too late.....

Because she left nothing behind for me

His heart is gone..

He is just a stone.

She left nothing behind ...for me.

And the funny thing about the ones who break their hearts will always call and the broken hearted will go running back!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thankyou everyone...for your interesting and insightful comments to my thread. When I posted it..I never imagined it would prove so interesting and thought provoking to so many ..so thankyou.

I might post more words (wouldn't dare call them poems...too poor! Lol

) another time..if people didnt object? Different themes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thankyou everyone...for your interesting and insightful comments to my thread. When I posted it..I never imagined it would prove so interesting and thought provoking to so many ..so thankyou.

I might post more words (wouldn't dare call them poems...too poor! Lol

) another time..if people didnt object? Different themes?"

They were lovely words both poetic and moving. I hope you're soon on time!

I am thankful that my heart remains intact having never been truly broken. So I still feel strong enough to allow myself to be vulnerable and feel deeply

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thankyou everyone...for your interesting and insightful comments to my thread. When I posted it..I never imagined it would prove so interesting and thought provoking to so many ..so thankyou.

I might post more words (wouldn't dare call them poems...too poor! Lol

) another time..if people didnt object? Different themes?

They were lovely words both poetic and moving. I hope you're soon on time!

I am thankful that my heart remains intact having never been truly broken. So I still feel strong enough to allow myself to be vulnerable and feel deeply

Thats lovely to hear and I hope that happens for you....to feel deeply I mean..NOT have your heart broken! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's only one way for me since my old self was destroyed years ago......

I am now the nicest person I know.....

I only have friends who match myself and I treat them all ( male and female ) with total respect, as I would like to be treated......I never "fall in love" but I have my own way of showing it.

My life is fantastic, my friends mean the world to me and when sex happens for me, it is the best, my God, is it.........

Life ain't all about physical sex, that's just the finale.

I hope you understand........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds familiar

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Amen to that. I hate to hear people talk about 'playing it' a certain way. Pretending to be something you are not messes up people's lives!!"

would agree and say that when people do pretend etc deliberately then that is pretty unforgiveable, however its not always as clear cut as someone pretending..

some folk will have a strong friendship and/or lean on someone for support and if that person is giving out the wrong signals for other reasons than a pretence then that may well also cause confusion..

like most aspects, communication is key..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"There's only one way for me since my old self was destroyed years ago......

I am now the nicest person I know.....

I only have friends who match myself and I treat them all ( male and female ) with total respect, as I would like to be treated......I never "fall in love" but I have my own way of showing it.

My life is fantastic, my friends mean the world to me and when sex happens for me, it is the best, my God, is it.........

Life ain't all about physical sex, that's just the finale.

I hope you understand........

good post..

glad you 'got there' so to speak..

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