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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Parents getting a fine for being late getting their children to school, I'm all for it my sons class about 4 or more children a day 10 mins late which disrupts his class

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

if the child has no hurry up about themselves to get ready (V has had this in the past) then there isnt much can be done except get them to school half dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it should be re_iewed in a case by case basis, there might be reasons for their lateness. My kids are rarely late I think I can count on one hand how many times in the last 2/3 years, i live 5 minutes walk away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope not otherwise the company I work for will go bust

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It's 12 times late in a term ,

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By *ustamysteryWoman
over a year ago

south cumbria

Unfair there are lots of reasons for children being late.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yep goin to bed late that's one of them,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this persistant lateness? Then im all for it,rushing children into school late everyday can't be good for them,what are schools meant to do? send people round to get kids up and ready for school on time because parents can't?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zero tolerance!!

Pisses me off every morning watching the same parents running late,but fining isn't the solution.

March the parents into the office and give them a good caning !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him. "

see, i can only go from personal experience, and some kids take their time to get ready for school.

Vs youngest is ready an hour early.

her older ones leave at the very last minute then dawdle up the road and were constantly late, yet they were up 2 hours some mornings, before they had to be in.

so is this the parents faults?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him. "
Yes there are loads of slob parents around these days and we thought Wayne and Waynetta were only from a comedy sketch

Lets hope most of the kids do not follow suit and take in whats taught at school to give them a chance because relying on a lot of parents these days just is not the answer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him. "

I was told by a few mums back in the nursery days that they are just so disorganised they can't get their child to school on time,6 years on and they are still doing it.My child would be horrified if I got him to school on time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

see, i can only go from personal experience, and some kids take their time to get ready for school.

Vs youngest is ready an hour early.

her older ones leave at the very last minute then dawdle up the road and were constantly late, yet they were up 2 hours some mornings, before they had to be in.

so is this the parents faults?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

see, i can only go from personal experience, and some kids take their time to get ready for school.

Vs youngest is ready an hour early.

her older ones leave at the very last minute then dawdle up the road and were constantly late, yet they were up 2 hours some mornings, before they had to be in.

so is this the parents faults?"
Personally i can only say that my parents used to make sure i was at school 10/15 minutes before lessons started,this held me in good stead and stays with you through life .

Maybe you should push her a little to be out of the door that 15 mins earlier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

I was told by a few mums back in the nursery days that they are just so disorganised they can't get their child to school on time,6 years on and they are still doing it.My child would be horrified if I got him to school on time."

Ooops not on time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some parents are just lazy and inconsiderate these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

if the child has no hurry up about themselves to get ready (V has had this in the past) then there isnt much can be done except get them to school half dressed"

I know some children can be slouches but remember the parent is always in charge. If the parent is wanting to get the children on time it will be achieved. Believe me they won't want to get changed from their pj's into their uniform on the walk to school more than once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Zero tolerance!!

Pisses me off every morning watching the same parents running late,but fining isn't the solution.

March the parents into the office and give them a good caning !!"

Darn it, no kids to make late for school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My daughter has to get the bus to the next town.

She gets up at six, leaves at 7.15 and on odd ocassions the bus late.

Should I be fined for that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter has to get the bus to the next town.

She gets up at six, leaves at 7.15 and on odd ocassions the bus late.

Should I be fined for that? "

No but caned yes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter has to get the bus to the next town.

She gets up at six, leaves at 7.15 and on odd ocassions the bus late.

Should I be fined for that? "

This isn't about being late on the odd occasion which we all know can happen to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My daughter has to get the bus to the next town.

She gets up at six, leaves at 7.15 and on odd ocassions the bus late.

Should I be fined for that? "

The school should know how your daughter travels to school and presumably she isn't the only child to get this bus. An easy check by a member of staff should be able to check if the bus was late and then no further action should be taken.

The only time my children were late for school was because of public transport and then twenty odd children would all walk in together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

see, i can only go from personal experience, and some kids take their time to get ready for school.

Vs youngest is ready an hour early.

her older ones leave at the very last minute then dawdle up the road and were constantly late, yet they were up 2 hours some mornings, before they had to be in.

so is this the parents faults?"

Yes for sure. You are in charge of your children not them in charge of you. I have three children. Two who would take forever getting ready if we weren't there making sure they got ready. This is why they say being a parent is hard work. We get up an hour and a half before school and leave on time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parents. Plural.

By eck, you go to a posh school don't yer.

If there are no mitigating circumstances then by all means fine them. Heavily.

Though it did make me wonder recently when a guy lost at Court and had to pay near on a £1000 for taking holidays in term time ( and he had exceptional reasons for doing so).

How fucking perfect are those who issue such fines and penalties, do they never do a thing wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of fining them maybe just send them home with their parents.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Parents. Plural.

By eck, you go to a posh school don't yer.

If there are no mitigating circumstances then by all means fine them. Heavily.

Though it did make me wonder recently when a guy lost at Court and had to pay near on a £1000 for taking holidays in term time ( and he had exceptional reasons for doing so).

How fucking perfect are those who issue such fines and penalties, do they never do a thing wrong? "

What were those exceptional reasons. Don't know much about this story.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I am sure they will have tried other ways to ensure persistent offenders improve their performance.

But hey, it will be unfair and unjust to some. It usually is.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

see, i can only go from personal experience, and some kids take their time to get ready for school.

Vs youngest is ready an hour early.

her older ones leave at the very last minute then dawdle up the road and were constantly late, yet they were up 2 hours some mornings, before they had to be in.

so is this the parents faults?"

Sorry, Hercules, but if the only reason the child is late is because they can't be bothered to shift their arse then it's the parent's responsibility to ensure they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this needs to be addressed on an individual basis. I am sure the schools know which families are 'repeat offenders' and this needs addressing as it disrupts the other children's education. However I would like to think that common sense could be applied. Buses can be late, traffic bad etc.

A part of raising children is teaching them about the real world. I am sure their boss of the future would not tolerate persistant lateness.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Instead of fining them maybe just send them home with their parents. "
now that's the best way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parents are responsible for making sure their children arrive at school on time so good idea. Every morning I have to make sure 6 children are at school on time. And we have never been late. My eldest is the worst at getting dressed/organised and yes I did once take him to nursery in his pjs with his clothes in a bag. Just the once, mind. Parents are all too easily blame everyone else for their children's behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Parents. Plural.

By eck, you go to a posh school don't yer.

If there are no mitigating circumstances then by all means fine them. Heavily.

Though it did make me wonder recently when a guy lost at Court and had to pay near on a £1000 for taking holidays in term time ( and he had exceptional reasons for doing so).

How fucking perfect are those who issue such fines and penalties, do they never do a thing wrong?

What were those exceptional reasons. Don't know much about this story. "

It was in the news recently, i seem to recall he was in the army, or some emergency service, and could not get leave during term time for the last five years. So it was reported.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

................"

It's the Tory answer to everything.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"Parents are responsible for making sure their children arrive at school on time so good idea. Every morning I have to make sure 6 children are at school on time. And we have never been late. My eldest is the worst at getting dressed/organised and yes I did once take him to nursery in his pjs with his clothes in a bag. Just the once, mind. Parents are all too easily blame everyone else for their children's behaviour."

You're spot on, Ms Seduction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

................

It's the Tory answer to everything."

Lol do you have toilet paper with the faces of the current cabinet on each sheet so you can have the satisfaction of wiping shit in their faces every time you take a dump?

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

................

It's the Tory answer to everything.

Lol do you have toilet paper with the faces of the current cabinet on each sheet so you can have the satisfaction of wiping shit in their faces every time you take a dump?"

I'm still working my way through Mr Salmond's Shite Paper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

................

It's the Tory answer to everything.

Lol do you have toilet paper with the faces of the current cabinet on each sheet so you can have the satisfaction of wiping shit in their faces every time you take a dump?

I'm still working my way through Mr Salmond's Shite Paper."

Shortly to be known as Scottish pound notes.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

................

It's the Tory answer to everything.

Lol do you have toilet paper with the faces of the current cabinet on each sheet so you can have the satisfaction of wiping shit in their faces every time you take a dump?

I'm still working my way through Mr Salmond's Shite Paper."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of taking the kids out to school in their pj's. They would be too ashamed to do that more than once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the idea of taking the kids out to school in their pj's. They would be too ashamed to do that more than once! "

Hence why I only did it the once!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I know, was wondering about it, as it would be wrong.

Too many kids hanging around shops for ages

Nette

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"and taking money from already hard up families is the answer to everything?

................

It's the Tory answer to everything.

Lol do you have toilet paper with the faces of the current cabinet on each sheet so you can have the satisfaction of wiping shit in their faces every time you take a dump?

I'm still working my way through Mr Salmond's Shite Paper.

Shortly to be known as Scottish pound notes. "

I doubt Scottish bank issued £1 notes will survive the transition to plastic notes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think kids should be banned for using buses to, we who pay gets no seats in the morning, the school should provide transport

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think kids should be banned for using buses to, we who pay gets no seats in the morning, the school should provide transport "

Do school kids not have to pay to use buses anymore? Always had to when I was at school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No they get special bus passes that does a special noice so you know its someone from a school lol.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"I think first you need to try and help the parents that are making their children late for school with parenting classes or something. If after that they are still late then yes fine them. If they are hard up maybe they won't do it again. I feel so sorry for those children that are late every day the same ones. The parents are not rushing because they are late like I would be. They are leisurely taking their time. They don't care. I have even heard one child telling his mum to walk faster because he would be late again and it's embarrassing. I felt so sorry for him.

see, i can only go from personal experience, and some kids take their time to get ready for school.

Vs youngest is ready an hour early.

her older ones leave at the very last minute then dawdle up the road and were constantly late, yet they were up 2 hours some mornings, before they had to be in.

so is this the parents faults?"

of course it is the parents fault. Dear god it is called parenting, if they can not get their child to do as they are told, the fault lies with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lolz!

Who else read the thread title as:

"Parents being filmed"?...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like the idea of taking the kids out to school in their pj's. They would be too ashamed to do that more than once!

Hence why I only did it the once! "

We must of both attended the same school of parenting.

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