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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bet the ones that spot them are the ones with more than one profile, hence they get the same one in each profile account...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are so general and not personal. no mention about our profile and you just know 100 others got the same message.

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Where they're not personal to you is a sign

And how about the ones that just send you their profile in a message?

That always makes me laugh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

unfortunately most of the messages I get of from single guys, and we know the effort they make, otherwise its winks and friend invites from couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where they're not personal to you is a sign

And how about the ones that just send you their profile in a message?

That always makes me laugh "

Lol, didn't know people did that

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

I spotted one very easily.... received the exact same message from a guy 5 times in 1 hr.

Started "Hi xxxxxx"... different name on each mail, and the silly bugger never even used my name on any of them xx

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By *uton_coupleCouple
over a year ago

luton


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in"

you have got to be realistic , and not expect a single male to compose unique individualy composed e mails , as he has to send rather a lot out before geting a reply

but you would expect them to alter them a little so that they apply to the person they are sent to

my advice would be not to send an exteemly long letter as it is obviously cut and paste

but a short one that looks like it is personal to the person its sent to , saying if your interested let me know and i will reply with a detailed letter about myself etc

a longer cut and paste lol

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Where they're not personal to you is a sign

And how about the ones that just send you their profile in a message?

That always makes me laugh

Lol, didn't know people did that "

They do lazy beggars

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By *ignbouncybabeWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I had a message saying Hi Ruby. Dead give away it was copied and pasted my name is Carrie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in

you have got to be realistic , and not expect a single male to compose unique individualy composed e mails , as he has to send rather a lot out before geting a reply

but you would expect them to alter them a little so that they apply to the person they are sent to

my advice would be not to send an exteemly long letter as it is obviously cut and paste

but a short one that looks like it is personal to the person its sent to , saying if your interested let me know and i will reply with a detailed letter about myself etc

a longer cut and paste lol"

I hardly message people but when I do, it is personal to them and only usually cause of something thats been discussed in the forums, I'm part of the minority I guess.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

Hello you


"Where they're not personal to you is a sign"

This is why we have a "password" hidden within our profile, if it's not quoted the mail gets filed in the shredder

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Hello you

Where they're not personal to you is a sign

This is why we have a "password" hidden within our profile, if it's not quoted the mail gets filed in the shredder "

Now I quite like hello you

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hello you

Where they're not personal to you is a sign

This is why we have a "password" hidden within our profile, if it's not quoted the mail gets filed in the shredder

Now I quite like hello you

"

Take your pic Oi / Miss / Madam Madam, wtf!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"Hello you

Where they're not personal to you is a sign

This is why we have a "password" hidden within our profile, if it's not quoted the mail gets filed in the shredder

Now I quite like hello you

Take your pic Oi / Miss / Madam Madam, wtf!!!! "

Cheeky!! remember what I said last time you called me madam?

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham


"Hello you

Where they're not personal to you is a sign

This is why we have a "password" hidden within our profile, if it's not quoted the mail gets filed in the shredder

Now I quite like hello you

Take your pic Oi / Miss / Madam Madam, wtf!!!!

Cheeky!! remember what I said last time you called me madam? "

Yes I do and it's never to be repeated on an open forum again it's on a need to know basis and no one else needs to know

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ill keep it zipped then

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

They rarely put your name in the message

Often its the same message as on the profile

I tell you what messages I like to receive and its this

What do I have to do with a a view to meeting you?

Then I tell him simples ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in"

They tend to be either quite general, "one fits all" style emails or they have obviously been created without the profile message been read.

Both are marginally irritating as they send the message that the sender is not really interested in the person(s) but only in their genitals... we tend to reply to all messages but the response to a" cut and paste" tends to be polite but short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the giveaway is exactly as others have said when the message says "hi Julie" my name is Kate!! or you get the same message from the same guy every week, despite replying with a no thanks answer the first time, nice if someone takes the time to make an effort x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the giveaway is exactly as others have said when the message says "hi Julie" my name is Kate!! or you get the same message from the same guy every week, despite replying with a no thanks answer the first time, nice if someone takes the time to make an effort x"

An when the email addresses just the one instead of both of us ...lol

Now that is a turn-off too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the giveaway is exactly as others have said when the message says "hi Julie" my name is Kate!! or you get the same message from the same guy every week, despite replying with a no thanks answer the first time, nice if someone takes the time to make an effort x"

Think its the same guy who mails us every week too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the giveaway is exactly as others have said when the message says "hi Julie" my name is Kate!! or you get the same message from the same guy every week, despite replying with a no thanks answer the first time, nice if someone takes the time to make an effort x

Think its the same guy who mails us every week too "

I think we get him too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the giveaway is exactly as others have said when the message says "hi Julie" my name is Kate!! or you get the same message from the same guy every week, despite replying with a no thanks answer the first time, nice if someone takes the time to make an effort x

Think its the same guy who mails us every week too

I think we get him too "

hes not doing very well then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive been very lucky and received very few cut and paste messages but do get alot of friend invites without people messaging which proves they havent bothered to read my profile so they just get deleted! hint for all is as previous if you like the look of someone read their profile first then if you still like send short "hi how are you?" mail and if get a reply go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

If I get a Hi how are you? mail I usually ignore it

As I do the what are you up to today?

Or the what are you into? mails

I think they're rubbish mails

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Oh and the do you do MSN? ones too

Im on a roll now

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in"

Had one today with a bit of a give-away in it.... one line said... " And have a Merry Xmas and a happy New Year".

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in

Had one today with a bit of a give-away in it.... one line said... " And have a Merry Xmas and a happy New Year"."

Hahahaha thats a good one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in"

An example of a C & P message is like the one we keep getting - or used to until I blocked the sender from viewing our profile.

In it would come, every other night, exactly the same: "Hi, fancy coming over and joining me in my jacuzzi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what are the signs for spotting these as a lot of profile say they're not interested in them, what's in a cut a paste email that puts you off replying?

Discuss sorry just had to throw that bit in

Had one today with a bit of a give-away in it.... one line said... " And have a Merry Xmas and a happy New Year"."

tsk, shame on you, that could have been for THIS year and he was just getting them done early so he didn't forget.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Some of the more recent obvious giveaways are (when it is sent to a single):

"love to meet you both"

"been looking for my first couple experience and stumbled across you guys"

"would love to watch you do your wife"

"I don't mind your other half watching"

"look forward to hearing from you both"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of the more recent obvious giveaways are (when it is sent to a single):

"love to meet you both"

"been looking for my first couple experience and stumbled across you guys"

"would love to watch you do your wife"

"I don't mind your other half watching"

"look forward to hearing from you both"

"

will have to cum up with something different for you then!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can normally tell by quite a few different things.

Wrong name, they sent an identical one last week, the message relates to things that ain't in our profile, loads of things really.

We don't tend to answer cut and paste messages to tell you the truth.

Tony

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

The ones that start of by telling me im an attractive looking couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The ones that start of by telling me im an attractive looking couple "

Maybe they mised out the "have"

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