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"Just be open to any questions they have. Make it clear that it's your life your choice. And remove the person that fold them from your life. It wasn't their place to tell anyone. " Thanks hun x Yeah, she had no right to say what she said. At least my family know that this person is on here as well lol | |||
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"Just be open to any questions they have. Make it clear that it's your life your choice. And remove the person that fold them from your life. It wasn't their place to tell anyone. Thanks hun x Yeah, she had no right to say what she said. At least my family know that this person is on here as well lol" Good luck with it. Can't people respect the privacy of others, feckin twats. As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X | |||
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" Good luck with it. Can't people respect the privacy of others, feckin twats. As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X" I won't be explaining anything or even apologising as I have nothing to hide or be ashamed of but what was said has painted a very horrid picture in my families eyes. So to put their mind at ease I'm being truthful...always a good time to start | |||
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"Why did the member feel It's his information to be spending? More importantly why did he,what did he get out of it? If this certain member is reading this post :- you reap what you sow." Thats a good question I'd like to know as well but it'll be getting buried soon enough and left alone once I tell our side of the lifestyle | |||
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" Good luck with it. Can't people respect the privacy of others, feckin twats. As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X I won't be explaining anything or even apologising as I have nothing to hide or be ashamed of but what was said has painted a very horrid picture in my families eyes. So to put their mind at ease I'm being truthful...always a good time to start " You sound pretty together, you'll be fine. X | |||
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"Not commenting directly on this situation since I don't know both sides but what on earth goes through anyones head to out people to friends and family? Is its some sort of revenge have they no care for the "innocent" people on the situation who might be upset. I use the word innocent tongue on cheek." My family member kept what was said to herself for a week and has affected her more than some would believe! Loss of sleep with worry and worried about saying it to me in case our relationship would be strained. Myself and baldr have nothing to be sorry for because this member should have done the decent thing and kept our private life just that, private. I know after this I'll be looked at differently from my family but its a sacrifice for things that make me happy | |||
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" My family member kept what was said to herself for a week and has affected her more than some would believe! Loss of sleep with worry and worried about saying it to me in case our relationship would be strained. Myself and baldr have nothing to be sorry for because this member should have done the decent thing and kept our private life just that, private. I know after this I'll be looked at differently from my family but its a sacrifice for things that make me happy " Yes that's the kind of thing I meant, someone who presumably didn't need to know has gone through a week of upset when they didn't need too. What motivates people to cause that? | |||
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" My family member kept what was said to herself for a week and has affected her more than some would believe! Loss of sleep with worry and worried about saying it to me in case our relationship would be strained. Myself and baldr have nothing to be sorry for because this member should have done the decent thing and kept our private life just that, private. I know after this I'll be looked at differently from my family but its a sacrifice for things that make me happy Yes that's the kind of thing I meant, someone who presumably didn't need to know has gone through a week of upset when they didn't need too. What motivates people to cause that? " Good question, I'd love to know as well but no doubt I'll never find out why | |||
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"After a lovely member on here decided to tell my family about myself and baldr's private life on here, today I'm coming clean (no pun intended). I can't deny any detail, as what was said has painted the wrong picture of my partner and i'm doing this to clear up the mess that this member has created. The joys of explaining things to closed minded people lol! Any tips? " the more you react, the more they win. your partner knows the scene in Scotland well, he is well known and liked by many. he will also know that with popularity, also comes jealousy & pettyness from a minority. it is not nice what has happened and I hope it goes well with your family. | |||
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"Thanks everyone, things went well. I don't expect them to understand what I said today but they did except it as our choice. At least I'll sleep tonight knowing its out the way " Glad it all went ok for you! x | |||
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"im sorry that someone has blabbed the way they did - not necessary at all - hope you all come out of it ok xxx" I haven't been taken away with the men in the white coats yet but no doubt I'll still get the weird looks from time to time. Glad I'm used to being branded the odd biscuit in the family lol | |||
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"Thanks everyone, things went well. I don't expect them to understand what I said today but they did except it as our choice. At least I'll sleep tonight knowing its out the way " We are very glad it went well even if they were not able to accept your choice. | |||
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"7 weeks in on fab " 7 weeks with this profile but we're not new to fab lol I could have denied what was said but it was the content of what was said that I had to clear up. They know now so its their choice to make up their own minds | |||
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"At the root of this issue is the excessive and unjustified importance placed on sex by society. Many on Fab have realised that sex is simply another very pleasant bodily function and can enjoy it on a casual basis without causing any harm. If your ex-friend had told them you had gone for a haircut elsewhere, to another dentist, had a massage by another person, or (perish the thought) used the toilet in someone else's house!!! Those being told would say "What are you on about??" Because it is sex; society has programmed them to believe it is massively important. I wish you luck but warn you, society's imprinting on those with closed minds often means they just cannot get past believing sex is the ultimate measure of love and fidelity, personal morality. Good luck!!" You just said a cotton pickin mouthful x well said. A young friend of ours - just 23 - is probably the biggest prude I've ever come across. Yet comes from a generation that is portrayed as being so forward thinking. | |||
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"....... As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X" Wasn't that Leroy Jethro Gibbs? | |||
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"....... As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X Wasn't that Leroy Jethro Gibbs?" Stop googling. Nixon was reiterating. A good quote is a good quote is a good quote x | |||
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"....... As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X Wasn't that Leroy Jethro Gibbs? Stop googling. Nixon was reiterating. A good quote is a good quote is a good quote x" who said that? lol | |||
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"....... As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X Wasn't that Leroy Jethro Gibbs? Stop googling. Nixon was reiterating. A good quote is a good quote is a good quote x who said that? lol" Moi. Muhahaha. Either that or it was Oscar Wilde. He said everything, apparently. | |||
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"....... As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X Wasn't that Leroy Jethro Gibbs? Stop googling. Nixon was reiterating. A good quote is a good quote is a good quote x who said that? lol Moi. Muhahaha. Either that or it was Oscar Wilde. He said everything, apparently. " momma said 'life is like a box of chocolates.by the end you are left with the hard centres and the nuts! | |||
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"....... As above as far as advice: as Richard Nixon once said, 'never apologise, never explain.' X Wasn't that Leroy Jethro Gibbs? Stop googling. Nixon was reiterating. A good quote is a good quote is a good quote x who said that? lol Moi. Muhahaha. Either that or it was Oscar Wilde. He said everything, apparently. momma said 'life is like a box of chocolates.by the end you are left with the hard centres and the nuts!" Almost | |||
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"... Either that or it was Oscar Wilde. He said everything, apparently. " Oscar Wilde or Dr Johnson said most stuff, if you're in a quiz and stuck for an answer | |||
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