FabSwingers.com forum: Who is your "go to" person?

By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

When things go tits up?

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

mummy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mummy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad, he is the coolest person i know, apart from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. Always has been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

husband or son, of course.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

"mummy

+1"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest its me, I have a hard time asking others for help. This is something that frustrates Ruby to no end, but I'm working on it.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

hubby ......then my mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no one

don't even have a mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"mummy

+ 3

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

I can be mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a best friend who I turned to once when I didn't know what to do. But usually I'm a private person so just get on with things, I'm more her go got to person!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had a mummy for a couple of years now, or a partner for a couple more before that. When things go wrong I do my best to sort them myself. Not out of choice - you have to do what you have to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always me but I'm there for everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum would always be there but in that one instance I didn't want to tell her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

grandma

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my fb always at the end of a text but whatever the problem he turns it to sex

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Unfortunately me, unless it involves something mechanical or DIY related. I'm also the go to person for a lot of family and friends who come a cropper. No idea why, as I'm a nincompoop, but there you go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The mirror - I look myself and say" sort yourself out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

I can be mum "

Aww thanks wish you were closer, damn I'm blocked from private messaging! Sweet thing to say thanks

I have been looking for one hehe!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Depends really. A lot of the time its my dad. Increasingly its letsbe. Sometimes it will be my mum or my sister that lives down the road.

It depends what the problem is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

jay as well but on the days i dont see my mum must ring her at least 5 times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my dad because he is straight talking no nonsense and practical.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

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Mary Poppins?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm head of our family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I mainly rely on myself, as whilst my mum is great she has enough on her plate with 2 of my siblings!

Though it would depend on the problem....I do have an ex I am still friends with and also my dad, mainly just me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

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Dick Van Dyke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my sister and a really good friend whom are both good listeners. But I do try and deal with things myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As bizarre as it sounds....the mountains

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

My OH

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

Dick Van Dyke?

LMFAO I will call him that

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

Dick Van Dyke?

LMFAO I will call him that

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Dont you dare!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be a very good friend and fb but he's now an ex, so I don't turn to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find my dogs are the best ever listeners and they never ever judge

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I find my dogs are the best ever listeners and they never ever judge

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You have a point there!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Myself

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

My O/H...but also have 2 very good friends whose advice i'd be lost without x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

Dick Van Dyke?

LMFAO I will call him that

Dont you dare!

I will I will tell him you called him it too

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

Dick Van Dyke?

LMFAO I will call him that

Dont you dare!

I will I will tell him you called him it too

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You do as you see fit but THERE WILL be consequences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to be my mum and dad till they passed away march last year but Mark's a very easy to talk to guy,and I'd also like to take this chance to thank Diamondsmiles for all the texts and advice and listening to me moan for the past 10 months

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

Ditto.........too independant and dont like asking for help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Myself"

Billy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

Dick Van Dyke?

LMFAO I will call him that

Dont you dare!

I will I will tell him you called him it too

You do as you see fit but THERE WILL be consequences

How bad?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

Ditto.........too independant and dont like asking for help

It's all I've known so I wouldn't know how to talk... far too independent too. My mum passed away when I was 4, she was only 24/5 at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont actually go to anyone really, tend to try and sort it myself. Parents are gone, sister gone and one brother very poorly . so wont burden him with anything.

Ive always done it, stubborn and self sufficient to a fault im afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no-one, but then tits up is a good thing for us guys

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

me and em ...myself and er ..i

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find my dogs are the best ever listeners and they never ever judge

You have a point there!

About to lose one soon due to old age

after 14 years will be hard to see my best bud go

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"When things go tits up?

Have a fuckin guess!

Mary Poppins?

Hairier than Mary

Dick Van Dyke?

LMFAO I will call him that

Dont you dare!

I will I will tell him you called him it too

You do as you see fit but THERE WILL be consequences

How bad?

"
Do it and find out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely ask for help, even when I really need it.

I don't want to be let down, so if I don't ask, then they can't let me down x

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

i AM the go to person.

if i have any problems, i have no one to go to, seems i'm expected to sort my own problems myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"grandma "

Your lucky to have a nice gran, my gran was a bitch.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

my best friend for everything and her to me for everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sons dad is my go to person and I seem to be his, my best friends (she told me she was pregnant before the dad!) Her lads, both my sisters and my nanas, no one seems to think I have my own problems!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend that I have known since 1992

My boss and one over one boss if my work performance is going to be affected

A family friend that has known me since 1979

My ex hubby

Luckily I seldom have crises, and long may that continue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"grandma

Your lucky to have a nice gran, my gran was a bitch. "

in the past 8 years shes more like my mum

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

My dad - the best man I know

Or if it's to do with men, then my best friend Pete - always gives great advice and a useful insight into the inner workings of a man's mind!

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

My best mate. We're as different as chalk & cheese but she's seen me through some tough times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My twins

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

If I haven't managed on my own then my sister. If it's about men then my ex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

Me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no one

don't even have a mum

Me too

Lost mine at 4

she was younger than me now! only 24 herself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me myself and I

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Lots of people saying just themselves, I think that is more common than we like to think, its always good to have someone to talk to , when things are getting on top of you.....but I spose when you are used to it, it gets easier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of people saying just themselves, I think that is more common than we like to think, its always good to have someone to talk to , when things are getting on top of you.....but I spose when you are used to it, it gets easier?"

Well I never have talked to others so it seems natural to me and i don't know any different. I'd find it even harder talking to someone.

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By *emmefatale OP Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Well I never have talked to others so it seems natural to me and i don't know any different. I'd find it even harder talking to someone."
Although its not my cup of tea, some people find it therapeutic to talk to strangers, apparently its easier. Thanks for sharing xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've two old friends who can help clear my view on things. But first I will try to get there under my own steam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to sort stuff out myself always have. But if I'm really in a pickle and struggling I bring the other half into the equation.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Myself I suppose, then my wife and, believe it or not, a lady on this thread who gave me some useful advice last year and was a stranger to talk to. She knows who she is.

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