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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gone to someones home for a meet they have opened the door and you have thought OMG! MINGER!

The pik they had shown was very misleading so I told them so and left.

Would you do this or would you stay be polite and muddle through?

As I know of at least one person on here who did.Bless them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Questions: Did you leave a verification? If yes, were you truthful in your write up???

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

not ever gone to someones house but did meet for a drink and just made it clear not interested right from the kick off

Steve

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

Surely its all relative as to what a minger is tho

we cant all be jolie and clooney surely

Any verification that you might leave if not entirelly positive, would not be shown in public probably

Its a shame some people have to deceive others in such a way.

Best thing to do is leave but I think maybe others might find them more appealing if you dont

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

oh and to answer your question, yes met someone that looks nothing like his foto, more than once

I have said "I'll leave now" and for this reason

But I would never assume that someone else might not find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have opened the door and thought "oh fuck"

NOT very often though.,..

you learn by your mistakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gone to someones home for a meet they have opened the door and you have thought OMG! MINGER!

The pik they had shown was very misleading so I told them so and left.

Would you do this or would you stay be polite and muddle through?

As I know of at least one person on here who did.Bless them. "

What is your definition of a minger though?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely its all relative as to what a minger is tho

we cant all be jolie and clooney surely

Any verification that you might leave if not entirelly positive, would not be shown in public probably

Its a shame some people have to deceive others in such a way.

Best thing to do is leave but I think maybe others might find them more appealing if you dont

"

I agree with you but was hurt by the deception and lack of thought for how long I had to drive to get there plus all the preening not to mention the amount I was looking forwards to seeing them in the flesh as it where.

And NO I did not leave a verification.

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

I have a friend that takes 2 brown paper bags in her car for such an eventuality

NO JOKE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a friend that takes 2 brown paper bags in her car for such an eventuality

NO JOKE"

OMFG I'm laughing out loud here as that's so wrong but so funny

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Hav'nt had this yet,I expect at some point it will happen

Not sure how I would react though?......maybe say we were meant to be meeting someone different and who the hell are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Surely its all relative as to what a minger is tho

we cant all be jolie and clooney surely

Any verification that you might leave if not entirelly positive, would not be shown in public probably

Its a shame some people have to deceive others in such a way.

Best thing to do is leave but I think maybe others might find them more appealing if you dont

I agree with you but was hurt by the deception and lack of thought for how long I had to drive to get there plus all the preening not to mention the amount I was looking forwards to seeing them in the flesh as it where.

And NO I did not leave a verification. "

mmmmmmm sorry but im curious - did they change their approach after your feedback?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a friend that takes 2 brown paper bags in her car for such an eventuality

NO JOKE"

pmsl This one would have needed a sack.

My opinion of a minger is someone who is not at all attractive to me but could well be attractive to someone else hence I like to see a face pik the one supplied was a fake.

No doubt there is someone out there for everyone but this person was not for me so on a scale of one to minger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your definition of a minger though?"

.

One that you are prepared to cut off your arm if you find yourself hand-cuffed to the bed post, while he/she is still asleep next to you, with both the brown paper bags still over his/her head?

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"I have a friend that takes 2 brown paper bags in her car for such an eventuality

NO JOKE

OMFG I'm laughing out loud here as that's so wrong but so funny "

as she puts it

shes only there for his cock, not to measure him up for any wedding album

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Honestly is the best policy in my opinion, i would have said i was disapointed and told em straight ....NO CHANCE!!!!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

when we go to a meet,we always make the effort, to look the best we can.we have gone to a meet,where the people looked like they had just finished gardening.we cant all look like george clooney.but we can all make a bit of an effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is your definition of a minger though? "

We wrote to a couple and they said they didn't do mingers... so suppose they look like us

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Surely its all relative as to what a minger is tho

we cant all be jolie and clooney surely

Any verification that you might leave if not entirelly positive, would not be shown in public probably

Its a shame some people have to deceive others in such a way.

Best thing to do is leave but I think maybe others might find them more appealing if you dont

I agree with you but was hurt by the deception and lack of thought for how long I had to drive to get there plus all the preening not to mention the amount I was looking forwards to seeing them in the flesh as it where.

And NO I did not leave a verification.

mmmmmmm sorry but im curious - did they change their approach after your feedback?"

Not allowed to say because that would be breaking Fabs rules and I am a good girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly is the best policy in my opinion, i would have said i was disapointed and told em straight ....NO CHANCE!!!!"

True.

But then the fella may lie to save his own failure.....

What do you do then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly is the best policy in my opinion, i would have said i was disapointed and told em straight ....NO CHANCE!!!!

True.

But then the fella may lie to save his own failure.....

What do you do then ? "

As in short coming penis wise......it happens ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are plenty of dishonest people on here for sure, male and female alike!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly is the best policy in my opinion, i would have said i was disapointed and told em straight ....NO CHANCE!!!!

True.

But then the fella may lie to save his own failure.....

What do you do then ?

As in short coming penis wise......it happens ya know "

OMG! I have been there LOL But we were able to make up for his short commings in other ways.

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By *ornyandnymphoCouple
over a year ago

poole

We arranged to meet a couple last weekend in a hotel they were staying in. As it was quite a nice hotel we decided to book in there ourselves.

We met them on friday night in the bar. Didn't know it was them until they came over. Omg the pics they sent must have been at least 10 years old!

And no we didn't play with them, just made our excuses and ran back to our room!!

But we had a fantastic weekend on our own, only leaving our room to eat.

Every cloud has a silver lining!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a lads holiday a good many years ago and I was coming back to my room after a successful night's hunti... er... after a bit of fun and say my mate in the corridor with his clothes in his hands just about to close his door. I asked him what he was doing, to which he answered that he'd pulled a minger and couldn't face sleeping in the same bed all night with her. Oh, says I, is that why you are sneaking out of your own room?

Oh fuck, says he, I thought we were in her room.

He then had to sneak back into his own room and get back in bed with her!

100% true, I swear it.

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