FabSwingers.com forum: Do you mind your spouse rummaging in your wallet /purse if they needed money.

By *aravancouple OP Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

Not a problem for me, As long as he tells me later, that he has taken it, so I know where my finances stand.

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

Hull

"Not a problem for me, As long as he tells me later, that he has taken it, so I know where my finances stand."

I think i would expect to be asked....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have seperate accounts but loose change and the odd 20 quid here and there is fair dos.Were a partnership so whats hers is hers and whats mine is hers also

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hubby drives me insane with this he never goes in my bag or purse ... I'll say just get it but totally refuses even if I'm stood next to him. it's our money neither his or mine ours but he still after 15 yrs won't help himself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is this Money thing you speak of ?

Peter the Ponce

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would prefer it if she put money in,no chance of getting any out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My hubby drives me insane with this he never goes in my bag or purse ... I'll say just get it but totally refuses even if I'm stood next to him. it's our money neither his or mine ours but he still after 15 yrs won't help himself

i am one that wowuld drive you mad then lol.

wont even rummage through Vs bag to get anything for her, i will just bring her the bag.

i dont know why

would never do it to my mother either, always just bring her handbag to her for her to get whatever.

i just feel dirty rummaging through them (knickers on the other hand are fair game lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's what he does brings me my bag ...is this a man thing???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't worry about it at all. If she needs money she just takes it off the bedside table or out if the safe. If there's non to take and there is something expensive she needs I just give her a card.

If I'm popping to the shop for essential wine supplies I may grab some out of her purse but we always tell each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was brought up... It was a bad manners to go into a ladies bag. I never went in my mothers. My eldest son won't go in mine either. Danny's seems to have qualms in rummaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

us men are taught as kids never to go into mummys bag,that then progresses into adult life with our partners/wives.

handbags/purses are taboo,and from childhood experience can lead to a smacked hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Don't blame him, women handbags are dangerous places...

Though I have no problem with J taking cash from my wallet if she needs it, and would happily take it if her purse was out on the side or something, we both replace what we took when convenient and don't take the last, But I won't go into her handbag be like reading her text messages or some other violation

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By *ettering-couple76Couple
over a year ago

Kettering

Money................ I have none lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's definitely a man thing because my man also does it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Dad always said you should never ask anyone how much they earn or rummage into a ladies handbag

I expect to be asked,and I expect the bag brought to me so I check for change,its like someone rummaging in my knickers without asking.....you just don't do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

womens bags are not that scary are they...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"womens bags are not that scary are they...lol

YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have seperate money.

I also do the bag thing. I won't rummage in her back, just pass it to her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep all my money in my wife's purse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would mind. he would have to ask and I would ask him too if I could go in his wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"womens bags are not that scary are they...lol

YES

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't go through Luke's wallet, and he doesn't go through my purse or handbag, wouldn't have a problem with it, it's just something we have never done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rummaging through a lady's bag is a dangerous occupation! Rummaging through my knickers is an activity I would positively encourage him to become proficient in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont go through each other money unless we ask. I normally give it to him if I have it and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't want him going through my bag, he might find my condoms

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd go mad. No-one puts their hands in my things.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I dont have a problem with Jayne going in my wallet, she always asks anyway so I know how much cash I got left.

I cant go in her bag though, guess it's just the way I was bought up, Jayne asks me to go in her purse... I just bring her the bag.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

i am one that wowuld drive you mad then lol.

wont even rummage through Vs bag to get anything for her, i will just bring her the bag.

i dont know why

would never do it to my mother either, always just bring her handbag to her for her to get whatever.

i just feel dirty rummaging through them (knickers on the other hand are fair game lol)"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

When I've been in a relationship it's always a taboo. I never rummaged through their pockets and I expected the same courtesy in return.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

He wouldn't go in without asking i dont take a bag out with me anymore . Only carry a fone . That is a different matter. Thats private ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as he asks before or tells me after I don't mind.

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

iwouldnt dream of going down his wallet

he used to go down my purse until one day I went in a shop went to pay and I had nothing in my purse was so embarrising but to be sure now I hide any cash I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with the wife helping her self to my wallet just let me know. But I would never ever go in a woman's handbag it's not the done thing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always give the bag to the woman now because somehow I seem to be able to locate everything BUT the one thing I'm searching for or it's actually not in the bag all!!

I don't have a wallet I hate carrying money especially change

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

He would just pass my bag to me and I'd never go through his stuff. If I needed cash I'd just ask

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Definitely a man thing. I don't go into the wife's bag. Joint account But if she want money out if my wallet she asked and I give and ditto if I need any. Only problem is there is no money. God damn recession dragging it's heals

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its how you were brought up - id never go in anybody elses things - im a carer now and it took me ages to be comfy to hunt through kitchen cupboards etc for stuff i need - brought up never to and never will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am one that wowuld drive you mad then lol.

wont even rummage through Vs bag to get anything for her, i will just bring her the bag.

i dont know why

would never do it to my mother either, always just bring her handbag to her for her to get whatever.

i just feel dirty rummaging through them (knickers on the other hand are fair game lol)"

You rummage through your mother's knickers?

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By *aravancouple OP Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

i am one that wowuld drive you mad then lol.

wont even rummage through Vs bag to get anything for her, i will just bring her the bag.

i dont know why

would never do it to my mother either, always just bring her handbag to her for her to get whatever.

i just feel dirty rummaging through them (knickers on the other hand are fair game lol)

You rummage through your mother's knickers?

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

I don't mind - but My Hubby would never go into my handbag and just passes it to me if he needs money... and he knows his wallet is in there as well..

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By *icolerobbieCouple
over a year ago

walsall

not at all. whats ours is ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont have another half.. but if i did he'd not find my purse through all the crap i have in my bag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im allowed to go through his

Can't say the same about mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto.

I can never go through anyone's bag. Male or female. It just feels rude and an invasion of their privacy. Who knows what i may find in their bag by accident.

...i usually hide a few things in my bag you see lol

But, i can never do that. Even if i have permission and been given the all clear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband is the same. He says it's because he can't find anything in there. I on the other hand I will lift any bit of money he leaves lying around. I drive him mad. But in my mind, I am just tidying up.

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By *aravancouple OP Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a problem for me, As long as he tells me later, that he has taken it, so I know where my finances stand."

I just gave her own credit card much easier .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lethally well trained army of moths guarding mine.

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

doesnt bother us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"doesnt bother us"

Lend me a fiver then?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Many a time I've gone to the village pub with no money.

Wife the note, kids the change - It's become a standing joke.

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By *aravancouple OP Man
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

"Many a time I've gone to the village pub with no money.

Wife the note, kids the change - It's become a standing joke.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Not an issue at all between us - we ask/ tell each other but not an issue.

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