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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If I post a meet listing and status that says "My friend and I are looking to meet 21 Jan at her place from 8:30pm"

Is that in any way ambiguous?

I only ask as some people have asked if I'm free the day after, or Thursday, or Friday, or any day/time but the one advertised.

I'm confused, beginning to wonder if there's a different space/time continuum operating for other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I blame Funky and his time space mathingymabob

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I thought about that, but his tomfoolery with the fabric of space/time seems for the most part benign and not meet based. Unless its for him to claim he's multi-orgasmic, in which case he's in and out of dimensions like Ace Rimmer.

No these people seem convinced that my availability on one day rolls into the next, or the next. Or I'm dyslexic and typed Tuesday when I meant Tuesady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I thought about that, but his tomfoolery with the fabric of space/time seems for the most part benign and not meet based. Unless its for him to claim he's multi-orgasmic, in which case he's in and out of dimensions like Ace Rimmer.

No these people seem convinced that my availability on one day rolls into the next, or the next. Or I'm dyslexic and typed Tuesday when I meant Tuesady. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you have a dictionary.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If that is the case then obviously all you need is some glitter and all will be calm and serene

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's not you.

Their blind hope is preventing them from seeing the words properly. Desperation and a hard-on are well known to cause issues with reading and comprehension.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Oh for goodness sake Jodie, surely you should know by now that if you post a meet then it automatically means you are free to drop your knickers and bend over for any and every guy that wants you from your meet date/time to the close of that calendar month.

Pfft, how long you been here?? Have you not yet learned that basic rule?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh for goodness sake Jodie, surely you should know by now that if you post a meet then it automatically means you are free to drop your knickers and bend over for any and every guy that wants you from your meet date/time to the close of that calendar month.

Pfft, how long you been here?? Have you not yet learned that basic rule? "

Is that really the rule? I must have slept through that part of the fabswingers induction weekend.

So logically if I want to get laid next Tuesday night, I should set up a meet listing for this Saturday? Or would that then make me a timewaster?

These metaphysical dilemmas eh?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I get that all the time. The heading on my profile indicates that I meet on Saturdays and in the text it says I can't meet daytimes or midweek.

I get about a dozen requests a week for anything but Saturdays. Often they start with 'I know you can only meet Saturdays but I'm ib Manchester on . ..'

So they can read. They just choose to ignore.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Oh for goodness sake Jodie, surely you should know by now that if you post a meet then it automatically means you are free to drop your knickers and bend over for any and every guy that wants you from your meet date/time to the close of that calendar month.

Pfft, how long you been here?? Have you not yet learned that basic rule? "

I was thinking the same thing: come on now Jodes!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't see the problem? Has the time and date changed? Has the friend dropped out or what? I can do a weekday daytime if that fits in with your plans......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry Jodie, I was too busy to make it yesterday... There's always next week...

See you next Tuesday...

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Or, you say you and your friend will be dogging in a certain place and you get someone messaging you asking if you'd meet them 50 miles away at theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can do the third Wednesday of the second equinox anytime between 12 and 1pm but bear in mind I can't meet while I'm having my lunch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I post a meet listing and status that says "My friend and I are looking to meet 21 Jan at her place from 8:30pm"

Is that in any way ambiguous?

I only ask as some people have asked if I'm free the day after, or Thursday, or Friday, or any day/time but the one advertised.

I'm confused, beginning to wonder if there's a different space/time continuum operating for other people. "

To be honest it sounds like a set up, if your friend was looking to meet at her place, your friend should be posting the request, not you.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


"

To be honest it sounds like a set up, if your friend was looking to meet at her place, your friend should be posting the request, not you."

Do you know the friend didnt have the same meet request/status on her profile? Or even if the friend is on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

To be honest it sounds like a set up, if your friend was looking to meet at her place, your friend should be posting the request, not you.

Do you know the friend didnt have the same meet request/status on her profile? Or even if the friend is on here?"

I only know what you wrote, and replied accordingly.

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"

See you next Tuesday... "

Rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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See you next Tuesday...

Rude"

Why...???

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

J0die, you didn't state which year. It's not always a Tuesday on 21st January.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"J0die, you didn't state which year. It's not always a Tuesday on 21st January."

Coz Jodie is likely to remember a meeting arranged for 2020....??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"J0die, you didn't state which year. It's not always a Tuesday on 21st January.

Coz Jodie is likely to remember a meeting arranged for 2020....?? "

No silly, the dimwits asking for other days might mean 21st next year.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"If I post a meet listing and status that says "My friend and I are looking to meet 21 Jan at her place from 8:30pm"

Is that in any way ambiguous?

I only ask as some people have asked if I'm free the day after, or Thursday, or Friday, or any day/time but the one advertised.

I'm confused, beginning to wonder if there's a different space/time continuum operating for other people. "

Yes. It looks like you want to meet 21 at Jans place half eight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a profile called 21Jan ?

If not - there's your confusion!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"J0die, you didn't state which year. It's not always a Tuesday on 21st January.

Coz Jodie is likely to remember a meeting arranged for 2020....??

No silly, the dimwits asking for other days might mean 21st next year.

"

Ooops... The next Tuesday 21st January is six years away... My bad...

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


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See you next Tuesday...

Rude

Why...??? "

Didn't you say that instead of 'cunt' when you were young ?

C U Next Tuesday ?

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"Or, you say you and your friend will be dogging in a certain place and you get someone messaging you asking if you'd meet them 50 miles away at theirs "

That's not ambiguous,

that's expectations of

ubiquitous-ity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

See you next Tuesday...

Rude

Why...???

Didn't you say that instead of 'cunt' when you were young ?

C U Next Tuesday ? "

Moi...?!?!? Didn't know what one was, till I got married....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol I have the same issue, I post meet dates weeks in advance and get men saying they are free every other day but the day I stipulated.

Or they wait until 9pm on the day I was requesting.

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