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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

why do people say we have no face pics on here due to our jobs, but can email or mms them? dont get the jist in that lol

someone will always recognise someone,wether this be half dressed or the background or tattoos etc

wether its in private and you attach it in a message, or mms it,that person will recognise you if they know you lol

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By *i_sm234Man
over a year ago

Bargoed

Dont get people like this myself at the end of the day when they meet thry going to see each other.

Plus its easy to set face pics to private.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I'm one of a 1000 people in the country that do my job, I've got face pics on the site, in private granted, but if you're my friend you can see them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a sex site you need pic there is no need for facebook kik skype etc you can put in friends or just hide if you cant put a couple of pics on whats the point of been on the site and it means your hiding things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because if I email my photo from an anonymous address it can't be attributed back to this site.

If I message it on here it can.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Some people might be secret agents. We can't risk compromising their cover. They do vital work for this nation.

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm one of a 1000 people in the country that do my job, I've got face pics on the site, in private granted, but if you're my friend you can see them."

Like wise. If a friend u can see. But due to sensitive job would rather not put it all out there! X

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

It's simple for me: if you're not comfortable with having face pics in private on here as I do then we're not likely to get on. In which case I wish them well and move on.

I keep all contact on here after having a stalker to whom I had given certain contact info so I will not exchange numbers (not even a play phone) or email, Skype, bbm or kik info. That is my choice and my way of using the site just as others choose not to have pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't put face pics on my profile as it would scare people away, but very willing to message people with a face pic. Just the way I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have mine on display that's my personal preference. I do send when asked tho if we click whilst messaging

I blocked one guy tho as he was way to defensive about showing his pic ...

For me it's about attraction & I don't wanna waste time messaging if it isn't there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a job where i see people from all over the country im not fussed about people seeing my pic iv no secrets and nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to my contract of employment and my employers social media guidelines. Whatever I post online whether pictures or statements is fine as long as it is legal and in no way affiliated to, or mentions them. Hence why my face pics are public. Obviously if the contract changes then my profile will change accordingly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live in a very small community where everyone knows everyone's business and although i haven't put exactly where i live on here, so far i have found at least 5 profiles that are on my own doorstep. So it's not really only concealing yourself for your job it's from the people you chat in your local etc.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract. "

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

We can understand someone hiding their facial pic so its not on display when clicking on their profile, forum posts & profiles etc can come up on a Google search so if their job/family/social standing means trouble its not worth it.

We shoot many profile pics for people on here blurring faces on some pics for their piece of mind, we do like to see facial pics of people before we meet anyone but this can be done by PM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a sex site you need pic there is no need for facebook kik skype etc you can put in friends or just hide if you cant put a couple of pics on whats the point of been on the site and it means your hiding things"

It's a swinging site, not a sex site...

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By *otebonydeluxeWoman
over a year ago

earls barton

We was getting messages from this black guy in Leicester.when we ask for face picture.oh can't send because of my job.well how the hell do you expect us to meet you.we don't do blind date.yet he wanted ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't have mine on display that's my personal preference. I do send when asked tho if we click whilst messaging

I blocked one guy tho as he was way to defensive about showing his pic ...

I agree something to hide

i was chatting to a women off here we text chatted on phone replys through the day was instant after 5 and sundays it was hours if at all so i just mentioned it i was told she was married and playing away and she was going to tell me good job there is a block button

For me it's about attraction & I don't wanna waste time messaging if it isn't there.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my face pic for my friends and I can attach it to a message if I wish. I won't share e mail address anymore since gaining a stalker and I'll only give my mobile out when a meet had been arranged.

If someone won't show their face pic on here then I'll stop conversation. We all have a job / family / nosey neighbours. You have to show an element of trust or what's the point of being here. It's not blind date after all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job."

my thoughts exactly. We all have lives outside of work,the whole nation uses facebook pretty much and everythin gets posted on there and people slag people off,if your mates with people from work then theylls ee evrythin so then thatll get back to your work place surely?

if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

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By *quirrelMan
over a year ago

East Manchester

If you are so reliant on being anonymous by not posting photos on this site, then don't you think that its for a good reason your employer would take a dim view of it, and you should take your profile off altogether?

Alternatively if someone you know or work with spots your pic and then approaches you then its a matter of asking one simple question, what were they doing on the site in the first place, they cannot access anything on here without first posting their own profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh reason i started this is cos we have had a few saying we have no pics but i can email them you,but they have plenty of x rated pics on here.

sorry not interested springs to mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a sex site you need pic there is no need for facebook kik skype etc you can put in friends or just hide if you cant put a couple of pics on whats the point of been on the site and it means your hiding things

It's a swinging site, not a sex site..."

Yes sorry swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

"

Indeed.

Therefore if people choose not to put their photos on their profile that is their choice - is it not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you are so reliant on being anonymous by not posting photos on this site, then don't you think that its for a good reason your employer would take a dim view of it, and you should take your profile off altogether?

Alternatively if someone you know or work with spots your pic and then approaches you then its a matter of asking one simple question, what were they doing on the site in the first place, they cannot access anything on here without first posting their own profile."

there are also settings which stops your profile from being viewed by unregistered people and search engines

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

Indeed.

Therefore if people choose not to put their photos on their profile that is their choice - is it not?"

so why be on here if they think theyre gonna be spotted? and dont want people to see. i dont get that either.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job."

Social services, police, judge, teacher, MP, working with kids/elderly people & lots more.

Swinging is thought of as seedy by the status quo & employers simply don't like it.

I get recognized in super markets, pubs & of course this site because of my adult sites & John even though he wasn't in them at the time was sacked from social services so yes be wary.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

but yet members from the police and fire services are on here lol

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

my thoughts exactly. We all have lives outside of work,the whole nation uses facebook pretty much and everythin gets posted on there and people slag people off,if your mates with people from work then theylls ee evrythin so then thatll get back to your work place surely?

if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

"

My job is also anti face book!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

Indeed.

Therefore if people choose not to put their photos on their profile that is their choice - is it not?

so why be on here if they think theyre gonna be spotted? and dont want people to see. i dont get that either. "

I'll refer you back to your own words once again:


"what you doi with your life is upto you surely?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people say we have no face pics on here due to our jobs, but can email or mms them? dont get the jist in that lol

someone will always recognise someone,wether this be half dressed or the background or tattoos etc

wether its in private and you attach it in a message, or mms it,that person will recognise you if they know you lol

"

Quite simply, if you email a pic from an anonymous email account you can distance yourself from it should it be used against you.

Some people have it in their contracts that behaviour, such as swinging, would hold them in breach of their employment contract. I understand that people from the armed forces can be sacked and lose their pensions if found being on sites like this.

Other people see it as a personal security thing.

I have my pics on my friends list and I am very selective who I accept as friends.

I would never meet anyone without a face pic, but I would be happy for that to be sent through here, email or MMS.

Personally, I cant see why people get there arses in a sling about it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly.

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By *howman_ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job."

teacher. and i know this to be true.

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By *howman_ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"If you are so reliant on being anonymous by not posting photos on this site, then don't you think that its for a good reason your employer would take a dim view of it, and you should take your profile off altogether?

Alternatively if someone you know or work with spots your pic and then approaches you then its a matter of asking one simple question, what were they doing on the site in the first place, they cannot access anything on here without first posting their own profile.

there are also settings which stops your profile from being viewed by unregistered people and search engines"

and how simple would it be for an employer to register if told there employee was on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Personally, I cant see why people get there arses in a sling about it!!!

"

i wasnt,was just asking.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Social services, police, judge, teacher, MP, working with kids/elderly people & lots more."

Remember Neil Hamilton MP, he lost his job for taking brown bags of money to ask questions in parliament not for swinging. In fact they were quite militantly open about attending swinging parties while he was an MP.

And I think you will find that if there are grounds for dismissal in any of the other jobs it would be 'being a member of this site' not posting a photo on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a male perspective, if a man wants to chat to a women on here he must show his face to see if she is attracted to him. If the mans job is so important that he can't show a pic on here, then maybe he should concentrate more on his career and get of a swing site.

Viewed from my eyes, for a women they have the upper hand, and often and all cases for me. Get to see a face pic first unless they are already showing one on the profile. It bothers me that I make the effort show my face in the first message and the fem reads it but has no manners to write a no thanks.

Face pic or not I wouldn't want to meet her then anyway. So it's a rough ride these face pics. End of the day men need to show if ya wanna get anywhere.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

teacher. and i know this to be true."

So you are saying it OK for a teacher to swing and be a member of swinging site provided they do not have any photos in the public domain?

That does not sound quite right to me, and I'm sure my ex (a secondary maths teacher) would say so too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Social services, police, judge, teacher, MP, working with kids/elderly people & lots more.

Remember Neil Hamilton MP, he lost his job for taking brown bags of money to ask questions in parliament not for swinging. In fact they were quite militantly open about attending swinging parties while he was an MP.

And I think you will find that if there are grounds for dismissal in any of the other jobs it would be 'being a member of this site' not posting a photo on this site."

That copper in Scotland who was found on FAB a few months back did not fair to well either. He ended up in the local papers...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

its ridicolous,what he does with his life is upto him lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you are saying it OK for a teacher to swing and be a member of swinging site provided they do not have any photos in the public domain?

That does not sound quite right to me, and I'm sure my ex (a secondary maths teacher) would say so too."

Which part is wrong?

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

my thoughts exactly. We all have lives outside of work,the whole nation uses facebook pretty much and everythin gets posted on there and people slag people off,if your mates with people from work then theylls ee evrythin so then thatll get back to your work place surely?

if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

"

wow....if only life was really like that! Anyone employed in local or national government who has contact with vunerable people will quite rightly be extremely cautious about putting identifying photographs of themselves on Fab. Teachers, classroom assistants, social workers, etc. will all be covered by the clause in their contract regarding bringing their job into disrepute. People have lost their jobs purely because someone "outed" the fact that they were a part of the swinging community. I would never condemn anyone for protecting their identity or for choosing whatever level of discretion they choose to. Just let others use the site how they see fit....providing they stay wityhin the rules of the site, surely everyone is entitled to do that. p

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"its ridicolous,what he does with his life is upto him lol"

No being in certain jobs means you could be open to blackmail & your judgement swayed so being a copper & having face pics on here is not wise.

Imagine a doctor caught on camera in awkward sexual pics...would any of his patients feel safe to see him anymore if he was featured in the local paper?

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

my thoughts exactly. We all have lives outside of work,the whole nation uses facebook pretty much and everythin gets posted on there and people slag people off,if your mates with people from work then theylls ee evrythin so then thatll get back to your work place surely?

if you want to join an adult site then surely thats upto you,as i say you do have a life outside of work. what you doi with your life is upto you surely?

wow....if only life was really like that! Anyone employed in local or national government who has contact with vunerable people will quite rightly be extremely cautious about putting identifying photographs of themselves on Fab. Teachers, classroom assistants, social workers, etc. will all be covered by the clause in their contract regarding bringing their job into disrepute. People have lost their jobs purely because someone "outed" the fact that they were a part of the swinging community. I would never condemn anyone for protecting their identity or for choosing whatever level of discretion they choose to. Just let others use the site how they see fit....providing they stay wityhin the rules of the site, surely everyone is entitled to do that. p"

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By *howman_ukMan
over a year ago

birmingham


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

teacher. and i know this to be true.

So you are saying it OK for a teacher to swing and be a member of swinging site provided they do not have any photos in the public domain?

That does not sound quite right to me, and I'm sure my ex (a secondary maths teacher) would say so too."

No being a member is dismissable..... im saying without anpic its hard to say vwjonis who... with a mug shot of yourself its less deniable.....

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By *ilbabyclaire18Woman
over a year ago

East Grinstead

All of my pics show my face!! I dont care yes i am 21 but my immediate family know i am bi now so whats the point in hiding your true self! No one has the right to judge you for what you do!! I do understand where some people come from my their face not showing in pics etc cause they are worried someone they know might be on this site and they may have children to think about aswel!!! There is alot more to it than most of you guys think. Its up to the individual what the share with others especially as soo many people can see you on here, unless they are blocked!!!! X

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By *ilbabyclaire18Woman
over a year ago

East Grinstead

Oh and even if they do have a face pic how do you know that 1. Its even them even if they say it is! 2. Know if you actually like them before you meet them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not concerned about my job. I Don't have face pics here because I don't want anyone who recognizes me to know that I'm curious about bisexuality. I have full nude photos of me with my face on 2 nudist sites and would like to do that here.

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

I'm a primary teacher and I still manage to put pics up. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"why do people say we have no face pics on here due to our jobs, but can email or mms them? dont get the jist in that lol

someone will always recognise someone,wether this be half dressed or the background or tattoos etc

wether its in private and you attach it in a message, or mms it,that person will recognise you if they know you lol

Quite simply, if you email a pic from an anonymous email account you can distance yourself from it should it be used against you.

Some people have it in their contracts that behaviour, such as swinging, would hold them in breach of their employment contract. I understand that people from the armed forces can be sacked and lose their pensions if found being on sites like this.

Other people see it as a personal security thing.

I have my pics on my friends list and I am very selective who I accept as friends.

I would never meet anyone without a face pic, but I would be happy for that to be sent through here, email or MMS.

Personally, I cant see why people get there arses in a sling about it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its ridicolous,what he does with his life is upto him lol

No being in certain jobs means you could be open to blackmail & your judgement swayed so being a copper & having face pics on here is not wise.

Imagine a doctor caught on camera in awkward sexual pics...would any of his patients feel safe to see him anymore if he was featured in the local paper?

"

The above poster is making absolute sense, as well as some others.

Public sector workers may be in breach of their contracts, particularly those in vetted roles. I like the doctor and police officer examples. Imagine if a the local GP or Superintendent has pics that could identify them? Is a shag worth destroying your career over!

I see the OP as a rant and hopefully the question has been answered on why people do not message face pics.

As for others who are proudly saying that they have face pics on their profile and do not understand why other's don not - respect other people's choices!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I live in a very small community where everyone knows everyone's business and although i haven't put exactly where i live on here, so far i have found at least 5 profiles that are on my own doorstep. So it's not really only concealing yourself for your job it's from the people you chat in your local etc.

"

I live in a small community, the more people know about me the better, more choices

I am also known world wide because of my job, so nothing to hide, I am me, people either like it or don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never accept this as a reason. Anyone sending pic by email or mns can have it copied same as on fab if are like that.

Only folk i know and trust have my number or email.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its ridicolous,what he does with his life is upto him lol

No being in certain jobs means you could be open to blackmail & your judgement swayed so being a copper & having face pics on here is not wise.

Imagine a doctor caught on camera in awkward sexual pics...would any of his patients feel safe to see him anymore if he was featured in the local paper?

The above poster is making absolute sense, as well as some others.

Public sector workers may be in breach of their contracts, particularly those in vetted roles. I like the doctor and police officer examples. Imagine if a the local GP or Superintendent has pics that could identify them? Is a shag worth destroying your career over!

I see the OP as a rant and hopefully the question has been answered on why people do not message face pics.

As for others who are proudly saying that they have face pics on their profile and do not understand why other's don not - respect other people's choices! "

The way to destroy your career or get blackmailed is to hide your interests, if you are open, people can make informed decisions,

If you think its wrong on moral or ethical grounds, or if your cheating, then maybe your on the wrong site,

Having pics in pvt is no way to stop being exposed.

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By *lentyoffun40Couple
over a year ago

Lancashire

Indent show my face pic in profile for one reason .. And that involves my job .

It's that simple . I'm not ashamed of what we do or who we are but there are certain things I can do in my private life that could see me facing disciplinary or even dismissal

I'm not 100 % sure about fab but don't really wanna ask my manager either so they will stay private

I ain't losing my job for anyone

We send pics privately without hesitation

Providing you are verified and we've messaged each other before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"its ridicolous,what he does with his life is upto him lol

No being in certain jobs means you could be open to blackmail & your judgement swayed so being a copper & having face pics on here is not wise.

Imagine a doctor caught on camera in awkward sexual pics...would any of his patients feel safe to see him anymore if he was featured in the local paper?

The above poster is making absolute sense, as well as some others.

Public sector workers may be in breach of their contracts, particularly those in vetted roles. I like the doctor and police officer examples. Imagine if a the local GP or Superintendent has pics that could identify them? Is a shag worth destroying your career over!

I see the OP as a rant and hopefully the question has been answered on why people do not message face pics.

As for others who are proudly saying that they have face pics on their profile and do not understand why other's don not - respect other people's choices!

The way to destroy your career or get blackmailed is to hide your interests, if you are open, people can make informed decisions,

If you think its wrong on moral or ethical grounds, or if your cheating, then maybe your on the wrong site,

Having pics in pvt is no way to stop being exposed."

I think you are seeing this with a narrow view.

It is people's choice whether they want the world to know whether they are swingers. It is not always about being exposed and your career being affected. It is quite simply about discretion.

We have a wonderful life away from swinging and we choose not to tell anybody such as friends, family and neighbours. How does that equate to us being on the wrong site?

For the record, I was last year in a public services role that was vetted. Meeting people for sex would more than likely be frowned upon but it's our personal choice whether we join Fab or not. As long as we are savvy on who we share photos with and remain discrete then there are no problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its a sex site you need pic there is no need for facebook kik skype etc you can put in friends or just hide if you cant put a couple of pics on whats the point of been on the site and it means your hiding things"

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job."

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty "

Were you using fab at work or at home because if at home fight it all the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We find that those who's profession prevents them having face pics either in friends only or private so they can attach to messages on here, probably work in such a way that we would be incompatible.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty

Were you using fab at work or at home because if at home fight it all the way."

Only ever at home....it's a very long story but due to my contract (and the nature of my job) they will sack me! and there is nothing I can do about it.

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty "

But you still have a profile on a sex site, surely common sense would tell you to lie low,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We find that those who's profession prevents them having face pics either in friends only or private so they can attach to messages on here, probably work in such a way that we would be incompatible. "

It works the opposite way too. We tend not to meet people with their faces on show in public as it suggests a lack of discretion.

Either way it seems it works as an effective filter.

Regardless, there's nothing anybody can do about it other than whinge and moan.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty

But you still have a profile on a sex site, surely common sense would tell you to lie low, "

140 pictures and a long list of people you have met, not a clever move if you have been told it will affect your job and career,

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty

But you still have a profile on a sex site, surely common sense would tell you to lie low, "

Bit like bolting the gate after the horse has bolted....there is no point me 'hiding' who we are now as the damage is done!

My employer has a DVD copy of all our pictures so there's no point in deleting them now.

Mrs Dirty

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Oh and just to add....the info of our swinging and dogging activities wasn't I obtained from this site!

I was just discussing that having pics online can affect your job.

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty

But you still have a profile on a sex site, surely common sense would tell you to lie low,

Bit like bolting the gate after the horse has bolted....there is no point me 'hiding' who we are now as the damage is done!

My employer has a DVD copy of all our pictures so there's no point in deleting them now.

Mrs Dirty

"

from a legal and employers view, it would be seen that you have learnt, rather than continuing.

I wouldn't suggest deleting anything, but by laying low your profile can be hidden ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and just to add....the info of our swinging and dogging activities wasn't I obtained from this site!

I was just discussing that having pics online can affect your job.

Mrs Dirty

"

everything on the internet can be linked, photo searches, names, in some cases location, especially when you live and work in a small community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you have a job which say is of a sensitive nature then posting revealing pictures on a public website maybe a breach of an employment contract. For instance if you work in a security capacity and post revealing photos then the world at large theatrically could use them in a illegal way. Private messages on the other hand whilst could be used in the same way may not be in breach of contract.

Really, I cant think of any...

Could you name just 1 job where posting a face (or nude) picture here would cause you to lose your job? And just to be clear jobs where being a member of this (or any other sex site) would be cause for immediate removal of security clearance and dismissal do not count as being a member of this site is why you would loose your job.

Yes I can....I'm currently suspended from work for having pictures online! as according to the organisation I work for I have 'brought there reputation into disrepute'. I'm awaiting a formal disciplinary hearing and have been told by my union that I will certainly loose my job and infact my whole career! So yes it foes happen

Mrs Dirty "

I have a little bit of knowledge about staff discipline and employment law. Firstly, your profile has no face pics yet you are facing disciplinary proceedings for bringing your job into disrepute.

Please seek advice if you haven't already done so from a human rights lawyers, who ideally specialises in employment law too. You have a right to live your life how you want, and employers can only restrict you so much. Bringing your job into disrepute seems weak unless there is more to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my reasons for not having my face pictures on public display.

Although, i have quite a few which i do send to friends and potential meets.

How would i expect someone to be attracted to me if i don't show my face? Also, how on earth would i know who i'm meeting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh and just to add....the info of our swinging and dogging activities wasn't I obtained from this site!

I was just discussing that having pics online can affect your job.

Mrs Dirty

"

Get advice for right to a private life.

I have spent many years in a public services role, where I was involved in the disciplinary process towards colleagues and advice management.

I now run my own company with a small workforce and I can ensure that many employers get it wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my reasons for not having my face pictures on public display.

Although, i have quite a few which i do send to friends and potential meets.

How would i expect someone to be attracted to me if i don't show my face? Also, how on earth would i know who i'm meeting?

"

LOL

your first pic is a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have face pics in private and only show to whom i see as potential meets end of day this is not blind date but can be a lorra lorra fun

if the other does not have face private or public i will not show mine.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

At the time I was suspended from work we did have public face pics on this profile and other profiles on other sites.

I have accepted that I will loose my job and am actually ok about it....no idea what I'm going to do for a job now but I will sort something!

The only good thing for us is that we told family everything and they have been so supportive

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people might be secret agents. We can't risk compromising their cover. They do vital work for this nation. "

Is that code for a male undercover as a female or couple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the time I was suspended from work we did have public face pics on this profile and other profiles on other sites.

I have accepted that I will loose my job and am actually ok about it....no idea what I'm going to do for a job now but I will sort something!

The only good thing for us is that we told family everything and they have been so supportive

Mrs Dirty"

A tattoo can be more recognisable than a face !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the time I was suspended from work we did have public face pics on this profile and other profiles on other sites.

I have accepted that I will loose my job and am actually ok about it....no idea what I'm going to do for a job now but I will sort something!

The only good thing for us is that we told family everything and they have been so supportive

Mrs Dirty"

Can I ask, how did your employer get the dvd of your pictures?

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


" Can I ask, how did your employer get the dvd of your pictures? "

I don't know and they won't say....my union rep says it could have been sent anonymously or there legal team could have gone online and copied the pics themselves.

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Can I ask, how did your employer get the dvd of your pictures?

I don't know and they won't say....my union rep says it could have been sent anonymously or there legal team could have gone online and copied the pics themselves.

Mrs Dirty "

most common way is to fall out with someone or say no,

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By *ech2Couple
over a year ago

taunton

we don't display face pics due to us both working in the community. and knowing a few people who use this site that we would rather not know that we are members. we have face pics for friends to see if the wish it doesn't stop us enjoying the site or wanting to be on here its just our personal choice who gets to see who we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At the time I was suspended from work we did have public face pics on this profile and other profiles on other sites.

I have accepted that I will loose my job and am actually ok about it....no idea what I'm going to do for a job now but I will sort something!

The only good thing for us is that we told family everything and they have been so supportive

Mrs Dirty"

Goid to hear family is supportive but why accept losing job end of day you have not broken any law and am certain under human right law you have right fir your private life not to be invaded. Fight it.

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex


"At the time I was suspended from work we did have public face pics on this profile and other profiles on other sites.

I have accepted that I will loose my job and am actually ok about it....no idea what I'm going to do for a job now but I will sort something!

The only good thing for us is that we told family everything and they have been so supportive

Mrs Dirty"

We lost our jobs because of naughty pics pics/films etc & to top it the newspapers then splashed it everywhere, we lost what we trained hard for but was lucky enough to use that same media to recreate ourselves in something else.

Yes we like to see a face of who we meet but them sending it by PM is no hardship if we like their profile, safeguard what you have worked hard for guys...

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Some people might be secret agents. We can't risk compromising their cover. They do vital work for this nation.

Is that code for a male undercover as a female or couple lol "

NooOoOoOooooOOo! Nobody would do that!

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By *heggyMan
over a year ago

closer than you think

My contract of employment states about bringing the company into disrepute would mean an instant dismissal hence why my pics are private. I do have my face pics for friends to see but nothing more than that

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I have met a judge, a solicitor and an undertaker!

They had no face pics

Being on Fab doesnt have to be a public display for many their private life is best kept private!

Sad to hear of the job police thought they only owned you for 37.5 hrs and everybody was free till dawn to do what they want to do? Lol. Apparently not!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have met a judge, a solicitor and an undertaker!

They had no face pics

Being on Fab doesnt have to be a public display for many their private life is best kept private!

Sad to hear of the job police thought they only owned you for 37.5 hrs and everybody was free till dawn to do what they want to do? Lol. Apparently not!

"

I think with the police you also have to consider that swingers are also criminals. A criminal may end up viewing the profile of somebody who has arrested them and might want revenge or could just troll them. yes it can happen to doctors and other public figures but the hatred towards police from a criminal can be quite strong.

It would be the height of stupidity if a police officer had their faces on their public photos for this very reason. Even more stupid if they put they were a police officer on their profile as it opens you up to extorion and blackmail.

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"I have met a judge, a solicitor and an undertaker!

They had no face pics

Being on Fab doesnt have to be a public display for many their private life is best kept private!

Sad to hear of the job police thought they only owned you for 37.5 hrs and everybody was free till dawn to do what they want to do? Lol. Apparently not!

I think with the police you also have to consider that swingers are also criminals. A criminal may end up viewing the profile of somebody who has arrested them and might want revenge or could just troll them. yes it can happen to doctors and other public figures but the hatred towards police from a criminal can be quite strong.

It would be the height of stupidity if a police officer had their faces on their public photos for this very reason. Even more stupid if they put they were a police officer on their profile as it opens you up to extorion and blackmail."

The Job Police only police the employed but consider them their exclusive property

I have met Police officers on fab too

Also lots of nurses nhs workers who usually show a face pic. I love nurses always make me feel better oeer im feeling faint! Nurse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's nothing to do with the job someone does. Maybe they just value privacy and discretion.

Shame so many people seem to think the whole world wants to know every minor detail of their lives and think everyone else should be the same!!!

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By *entaur 9Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"Maybe it's nothing to do with the job someone does. Maybe they just value privacy and discretion.

Shame so many people seem to think the whole world wants to know every minor detail of their lives and think everyone else should be the same!!!"

I agree.

I dont ask and dont like to tell.

If you meet it often comes out once you've met a few times.

After all isn't this escapism from that normal vanilla life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I'm concerned about my work finding this and me being disciplined. Like others have demonstrated - it happens!

Personally I don't have face pics on here - my choice. It's already been said but if I email you my face pic or Skype you it's less likely my face can be tracked back to this site than if I send one directly from here.

Yes I've got naked pictures, but I'm also very discreet. Horses for courses, different people are comfortable with different things and we should all accept that!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Some people might be secret agents. We can't risk compromising their cover. They do vital work for this nation. "

It never ceases to amaze me how you are able to see right to the core of matters in an instant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both work in "education". So we keep our face pics private until the right time.

Between us, we probably see about a thousand adults every day, any one of them could rumble us. Its not that we are ashamed of this, its just that if word got out around our work place, we would lose our jobs, thus our homes, and our lives.

Keeping your face pics private until asked makes the most sense. It doesn't mean we never send them. It just means we keep them private.

Anybody that can't understand that would be somebody we wouldn't want to meet anyway, to be fair. Theres more to life. C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have private face pics.

neither of us have jobs that would be compromised, but on the other hand, neither of us wants to shout from the rooftops that we are on this site, so are as discrete as we need to be.

we will never meet without exchanging face pics privately, no need to have them out there for all to see, not really a fan of those profiles that do have them out there, for some reason.

would rather not exchange email addresses cuz they are linked to basefook, so why would we comprimise our own secrecy so you dont have to compromise yours? (not targetted at anyone in particular)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey guys, hope you're both well!

Yeah we set up our own emails, Skype, kik accounts etc, JUST for this. We don't want people to know our entire life story and get us on FaceBook. Maybe if it was people we knew and got on with well we would share phone numbers etc (We have done!) but your average Joe doesn't really need that info.

Not only are we both in education, but G is a games designer. Can you imagine the negative publicity it would garner?

Anyway, still haven't seen you both yet! Its Xtasia greedy gals night tomorrow, we can't wait. The last time we went there, I had two women on me and two guys... MORE!!! C xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys, hope you're both well!

Yeah we set up our own emails, Skype, kik accounts etc, JUST for this. We don't want people to know our entire life story and get us on FaceBook. Maybe if it was people we knew and got on with well we would share phone numbers etc (We have done!) but your average Joe doesn't really need that info.

Not only are we both in education, but G is a games designer. Can you imagine the negative publicity it would garner?

Anyway, still haven't seen you both yet! Its Xtasia greedy gals night tomorrow, we can't wait. The last time we went there, I had two women on me and two guys... MORE!!! C xx"

you really are greedy lol.

we will be there for the forum social next weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe it's nothing to do with the job someone does. Maybe they just value privacy and discretion.

Shame so many people seem to think the whole world wants to know every minor detail of their lives and think everyone else should be the same!!!"

We would go along with that although we do like to see a face picture we can understand people not wanting to send one knowing it could be clipped with fabswingers.com embossed along the bottom. We see no problem with people choosing not to send one even if they know it will lessen their chances.

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