FabSwingers.com forum: is sex everything?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

I adore giving pleasure and foreplay drives me wild.. love teasing, flirting, the chase and banter. Thats enough to satisfy my needs and wants, but im just curious if sex is the ultimate outcome or could you be happy if foreplay was all that was gonna happen??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

On here I am seeking penetrative sex - foreplay is just that for me. I get a lot from it but not enough. I'm not looking for a quick poke but I don't want to spend the night with people unless I know them really well.

It's much more difficult to find penetrative sex of sufficient length than I thought it would be.

We all respond to different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetrative sex is not important at all, no matter what happens as long as you all have a fun night, be that meeting and chatting or any kind of sexual contact, its all good.

Many times on going to clubs we just play with each other in public rooms, we've met couples and just played with our prospective partners, we've just sift swung or we have full swapped, sometimes just one of us plays.

The pull in swinging for me is not the sex , its the whole taboo, decadent nature of the scene that excites me is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hands and mouth, are a big thing for me, if sex happens it happens.

But so much can be done with those tools, hands and mouth.

Nette

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

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I do love teasing and being teased but to be honest nothing excites me more than those few seconds before he enters me.

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's much more difficult to find penetrative sex of sufficient length than I thought it would be.

We all respond to different things.

Interesting comment... If I had a pound for every time I have heard (other) women lament that a man would lick or "pump away" forever... I'd be rich...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like social meets, also love foreplay, fun and if it leads to sex, that's a bonus.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone. "

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

in terms of the time the actual act takss .. its only a small part of a meet ..but it literally is the climax ... teasing and flirting and all foreplay surely lead up to full sex .. even if not on a first meet .. the thrill of the chase is addictive .. but sex makes me feel fully alive and not just marking time

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

It's much more difficult to find penetrative sex of sufficient length than I thought it would be.

We all respond to different things.

Interesting comment... If I had a pound for every time I have heard (other) women lament that a man would lick or "pump away" forever... I'd be rich..."

You have to move things around a bit. Sticking to the same move for the whole time isn't desirable either. I may not be the most exciting sexual playmate but I know what I like.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex.."

So this is about what's in your head and not necessarily about what your body might really enjoy.

I'm happy to talk if you need to work through this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex.."

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest penetration is certainly not the be all and end all for me at all. Some of my best sexual experiences have just been intense foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I love foreplay a hell of a lot. I love pleasuring a woman, it turns me on more than almost anything else. There are times when I might want to have sex, but if the other person isn't in the mood/ doesn't fancy it, I'm happy to carry on with foreplay all night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

Dildo... Not silos...

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

Dildo... Not silos...

I had images of large grain holding vessels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

Dildo... Not silos...

I had images of large grain holding vessels.

Or large seed carrying vessels...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't orgasm. Never have on any of my meets. Recently gushed/squirted on a guy, been a while since that happened. Lush feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy great sex ,once the flirting ,kissing ,touching ,foreplay starts I know its going to less to amazing sex and lots of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I cum quickly snd lots of times when with someone

but takes longer on my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And I cum quickly snd lots of times when with someone

but takes longer on my own

You seem to be an exception. I know lots of ladies who find it easier to make themselves cum but struggle when other people get involved.

Just like to add that is not a personal reflection on my performance. Thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love soft swap it's just horny fun & everybody seems to have a good time & cum so full sex is defo not the be all & end all although certain sex acts/fantasies require full sex but apart from that we are really having fun with soft swap & where not even tempted to change

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I wouldnt have a meet with someone if it wasn't going to end in full sex. But jay and I can have foreplay without it always leading to full sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

Dildo... Not silos...

I had images of large grain holding vessels.

You see, I was thinking of missiles. I wonder what Freud would say.

But, in answer to OP's question, often foreplay trumps full sex for intensity and fulfilment and as you seem to be able to find satisfaction through foreplay I wouldn't worry too much about it. It's certainly safer sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy prolonged penetrative sex.

A build up including foreplay that fits both our moods and wants is a prerequisite, but I simply would not be satisfied without penetration.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

Dildo... Not silos...

I had images of large grain holding vessels.

You see, I was thinking of missiles. I wonder what Freud would say. "

He'd probably say you were looking for a man to go on top....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've forgot what sex is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't need penetration every time. I have a man I have been seeing for almost 4 years who up until about 6 months ago hadn't been inside me except for the first time we met. I always felt satisfied when he left. We still don't go all the way every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No it's not everything, but it is a lot.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I think as long as you tell the person before hand its just soft sex then there is no misunderstanding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've forgot what sex is

With cream and cherries on those breasts of yours, I'd be more than happy to show you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sometimes we both want and need different things at various points in our lives. There's nothing superior or worse than something else, if what we are getting is what we need. It doesn't matter what others love, merely what we prefer. Knowing what is right for us, and respecting ourselves is important and part of being wise, imo. If there is an issue that stops us getting something we could find fulfilling, then it is good to be honest with ourselves too. I love sex, I love tenderness with others, sexually and non sexually, I love physical affection and caresses, I adore the smell and taste of partners, I love feeling close and connected and I need and appreciate variety in my sexual pleasures. It usually involves penetration, it can be fucking manic, intense hedonistic lust and pushing physical exertion to the limits, losing right of the moment and keeping at it for however long. Im an animal and have sheer hunger for total fucking oblivious to the tedium of the world getting lost in my sexual pleasure at its extreme limits and beyond. And I want to touch others's souls, their hearts and minds and will also equally adore holding hands and moments or hours of peace and stillness with others that I am captivated by in some sense. I want it all, the seasons come and go, I am the wild cougar, the sweet little kitten and a pretty nymph who dances. Find in your heart what you need and really love all you enjoy and experience. It matters not what is around tomorrow, enjoy what youre loving and feeling today. Take life at your own pace and treat it as sacred.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes we both want and need different things at various points in our lives. There's nothing superior or worse than something else, if what we are getting is what we need. It doesn't matter what others love, merely what we prefer...

Take life at your own pace and treat it as sacred. "

Amen, sistuh.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

On here penetrative sex is the ultimate goal. I wouldn't meet a man if I knew that it definitely wouldn't happen.

I adore teasing and foreplay and enjoy a lot. A few minutes of fiddling and then a quick wham, bam, thank you ma'am isn't my think at all. However, I do want the foreplay to ultimately lead to penetration. I don't usually orgasm from penetration but I still love the feeling.

My ideal is usually a long extended sessions with lots of experimentation and variety - exploring and enjoying. I like guys who can repeat because not having to be limited to them coming one way and then it being game over is wonderful. And it gives me more scope to give pleasure, which I enjoy.

The most disappointing meets for me are when a guy can't stay hard in a condom, (or refuses to wear one), or when he comes during foreplay and then loses interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I love foreplay a hell of a lot. I love pleasuring a woman, it turns me on more than almost anything else. There are times when I might want to have sex, but if the other person isn't in the mood/ doesn't fancy it, I'm happy to carry on with foreplay all night."
this has to be a lie !! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay is soooo good. I'm not worried if we don't go any further than that. I love to lick a lady or suck a guy. Love it love it love it xxx

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aha it honestly isn't. Sex is the ultimate goal, obviously, that's just basic human nature, in a way. But if that isn't on the cards, it really doesn't bother me at all. More fun to be had with my tongue!"
shouldn't have said a lie sorry! really what I mean is I would be frustrated as fuck ! not angry frustrated but I would need to jack myself off before carrying on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shouldn't have said a lie sorry! really what I mean is I would be frustrated as fuck ! not angry frustrated but I would need to jack myself off before carrying on"

But why? Foreplay is a shared experience, not just for one person. And foreplay can come in many, many different forms. Maybe you need a wider imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many ways to please a woman.

And no, for me, sex is not high on my list of priorities.

Penetrative sex is definitely not be all and end all.

And I know how to help myself to reach climax if the gent I am with can't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

On here penetrative sex is the ultimate goal. I wouldn't meet a man if I knew that it definitely wouldn't happen.

The most disappointing meets for me are when a guy can't stay hard in a condom, (or refuses to wear one), or when he comes during foreplay and then loses interest."

This

I love foreplay I hate short meets and being pressured with time. I like to play and explore and be explored fir as long as takes before the ultimate orgasm. However, if the game stops before I orgasm at least once, that would get me frustrated and wish I never started in the fjrst place.

I met a couple few weeks ago, I was trasing her kissing her giving her loads of oral ect and dont get ne wrong I was really enjoying it ... she cane few times then I went to get a glass of water when I came back to the bedroom they were getting ready to go and said they left the kids alone ect. I was left frustrated and desperately trying to arrange another meet. I wished I've never met in the first place and I will never meet them again althoygh they have left me a nice verificatiin.

In regards to the OP's question. I think the fact that you dont come through full penetration has something to do with your head coz the thrill of sex is in the head before it translates through your body and I think you got a nice offer their to talk it through. You might be looking for specific feelings towards someone before you get there. Probably x

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Hands and mouth, are a big thing for me, if sex happens it happens.

But so much can be done with those tools, hands and mouth.

Nette"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Has to be The Full Monty for me!!

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By *rinterestingMan
over a year ago

London

"And I cum quickly snd lots of times when with someone

but takes longer on my own

You seem to be an exception. I know lots of ladies who find it easier to make themselves cum but struggle when other people get involved.

Just like to add that is not a personal reflection on my performance. Thank you very much.

Yeah Ive had the same experience and its down to the fact the sex can be uncomfortable for women if they arent properly relaxed and so its hard for them to seek much enjoyment at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I luv plenty of foreplay as a build up but I think I'd feel slightly cheated somehow if there was no penetrative sex. It has happened in the past though and the foreplay was so prolonged and fantastic, I was totally drained and could hardly move

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I luv plenty of foreplay as a build up but I think I'd feel slightly cheated somehow if there was no penetrative sex. It has happened in the past though and the foreplay was so prolonged and fantastic, I was totally drained and could hardly move

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wobbly legs then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

wobbly legs then

Hmmm my legs have been known to shake after a good session

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

I'm a crap shag, but love pleasuring a lady, watching and hearing her reactions and responses!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometime foreplay is better than sex its self so nope sex def isnt everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can give each other more pleasure during oral and foreplay. Don't get me wrong, I love the full effect, but sometimes it's over quicker than it's begun and wow, the build up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow thanks for the honest responses..

I do have full sex with people just sometimes on the meet i dont feel right so dont

Also.. guys before they meet me are aware that nothing is guarenteed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow thanks for the honest responses..

I do have full sex with people just sometimes on the meet i dont feel right so dont

Also.. guys before they meet me are aware that nothing is guarenteed."

As long as everyone is satisfied thats all that matters at the end of the day regardless of full sex or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you can give each other more pleasure during oral and foreplay. Don't get me wrong, I love the full effect, but sometimes it's over quicker than it's begun and wow, the build up

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I like putting my tinkle inside people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My family is everything to me ....... other things now and again and I like quality over quantity .So if I meet its a person worth meeting and not just for the sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My family is everything to me ....... other things now and again and I like quality over quantity .So if I meet its a person worth meeting and not just for the sex."
I don't get what you're saying? is it you're family need to approve the guy before you have penetrative sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had many a great time where only foreplay was involved.

So no, penetrative sex isn't everything if you enjoy other pleasures.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Foreplay without sex is like a hungry soul smelling delicious food but not eating it.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I much prefer to suck a chap off than to be fucked. I enjoy it a lot more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont mind sometimes just giving oral sex and foreplay but i wouldnt want to go without sex for too long.

have been married for over thirty years and dont feel like i have been getting nearly enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My family is everything to me ....... other things now and again and I like quality over quantity .So if I meet its a person worth meeting and not just for the sex. I don't get what you're saying? is it you're family need to approve the guy before you have penetrative sex?"
I am saying sex is nothing to me ..... when or if my family needs me around they come first not sex .. I am happy to go without and I will just not meet who ever to have sex . Its not everything as have a life . For some its sex sex sex and sex there next sex fix . To me it becomes boring if i feel nothing for the person don't even like just for sex just like going to the loo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my family always cum first too, but i only have one son so its a bit different for me i suppose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The kind of foreplay we indulge in can leave me with an incredible high but still want/need full sex at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like putting my tinkle inside people."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cough cough ive just spat my coffee out

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"My family is everything to me ....... other things now and again and I like quality over quantity .So if I meet its a person worth meeting and not just for the sex. I don't get what you're saying? is it you're family need to approve the guy before you have penetrative sex?I am saying sex is nothing to me ..... when or if my family needs me around they come first not sex .. I am happy to go without and I will just not meet who ever to have sex . Its not everything as have a life . For some its sex sex sex and sex there next sex fix . To me it becomes boring if i feel nothing for the person don't even like just for sex just like going to the loo."

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

To be honest our most favoured occasions are when we 'talk' about what we want to do with each other (and others obviously) and touch and caress and kiss. We quite regularly will self-play beside each other as we exchange interesting ideas, turning ourselves on without the actual need for the 'end-game' sex.

Don't get us wrong, we thoroughly enjoy the end product but the journey is also well worth going on!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy both soft and full swap... But being honest, full swap is the golden ticket.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

and i thought the news of the world was full of shit but this beats it

Thanks for this no need to buy a trashy paper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

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You just do what your happy doing if that feels right to you . As theres nothing worse then having full sex with a person who your really not into.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can sometimes go weeks without having penetrative sex with each other, but we have some sort of sex three or four times a week. Ju enjoys her toys and loves oral performed on her and if she has orgasmed through this then we won't have full sex. She also gives an outstanding blowie so I prefer just this a lot of the time.

When swinging most of our best meets have been soft swap, this is probably because of the above. We very much enjoy full swapping but we won't full swap on every meet, this is always discussed before hand though so everyone knows what to expect before meeting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are many guys who will say "penetration" isnt everything and they may believe that.

But they are geared to do just that. So they may forego having the "full monty" to please the lady,but im damned sure they go home cursing under their breath.

On the hand, if i dont wanna do something, im gonna be honest and tell them and hope they will be the same .

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Penetrative sex isnt everything - yes, it can be great, whether its sensual or animalistic - but its not the be all and end all. Stimulation, apprehension and seduction can be just as rewarding. Satisfaction isnt just a physical feeling its a mental one too - it just depends on the person you are with and the meet you have had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like putting my tinkle inside people."

You can tell a lot about a mans cock by what he calls it. Tinkle brings up images of something small and bell shaped

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

You just do what your happy doing if that feels right to you . As theres nothing worse then having full sex with a person who your really not into."

Any sexual interaction with someone you're not into is worse. Bad sex isn't worth it.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I like putting my tinkle inside people.

You can tell a lot about a mans cock by what he calls it. Tinkle brings up images of something small and bell shaped

But it makes a nice sound. Although I prefer men to ring my bell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, penetrative sex is not the be all and end all although i'd be lying if I said it wasn't important to me. With my hubby we don't always have to have penetrative sex to be satisfied, however on a meet I would be disappointed if there wasn't penetration, as for me, and for hubby when I return, that is one of the main reasons for meeting.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

"I like putting my tinkle inside people.

You can tell a lot about a mans cock by what he calls it. Tinkle brings up images of something small and bell shaped

This is why all my tinkle pictures (cock shots) are next to toy dinosaurs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its good if that where it ultimately leads to.... but it doesn't have to be seen as a failure. Remember the first rule of swinging.... no means no at any point in the proceedings. Anyway I adore giving oral - check my veris lol...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

and i thought the news of the world was full of shit but this beats it

Thanks for this no need to buy a trashy paper

erm right e o jacqs.. your opinion

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By *angerpointCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

For us it has to be full penetrative sex. As much as we love giving and receiving oral and sensuous foreplay it just isnt enough. I(mrs) love to feel the man thrust his penis inside me and I especially like to be on top. Cant think of a better feeling.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

and i thought the news of the world was full of shit but this beats it

Thanks for this no need to buy a trashy paper

Sorry jacqs but that's out of line.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and i thought the news of the world was full of shit but this beats it

Thanks for this no need to buy a trashy paper

Sorry jacqs but that's out of line. "

im just wondering where she gets her opinions from and what they are based on? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral is great, and I love foreplay, but for me sex without penetration is unsatisfying. Its like having a roast dinner without roast potatoes

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Oral is great, and I love foreplay, but for me sex without penetration is unsatisfying. Its like having a roast dinner without roast potatoes"

The most disappointing moment is when you reach that feeling that nothing else will do, you keep going while reaching for a condom and then try climbing on to the incredible shrinking cock.

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over a year ago

"Oral is great, and I love foreplay, but for me sex without penetration is unsatisfying. Its like having a roast dinner without roast potatoes

The most disappointing moment is when you reach that feeling that nothing else will do, you keep going while reaching for a condom and then try climbing on to the incredible shrinking cock.

Me and the OH have had a few single guys around where this has happened. Its the reason we only play together at clubs now, at least we can just move on and not waste a whole night on guys with stage fright! lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Oral is great, and I love foreplay, but for me sex without penetration is unsatisfying. Its like having a roast dinner without roast potatoes

The most disappointing moment is when you reach that feeling that nothing else will do, you keep going while reaching for a condom and then try climbing on to the incredible shrinking cock.

Or condom fright.

This and safety considerations are the main reasons I wish I was closer to more clubs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oral is great, and I love foreplay, but for me sex without penetration is unsatisfying. Its like having a roast dinner without roast potatoes

The most disappointing moment is when you reach that feeling that nothing else will do, you keep going while reaching for a condom and then try climbing on to the incredible shrinking cock.

Or condom fright.

This and safety considerations are the main reasons I wish I was closer to more clubs."

I once went to a couple who had invited a 3rd guy. He put on a condom that the couple gave him and immediately he went flacid. Apparently he was allergic to latex. Why the hell he never brought his own ones along I will never know!

Still, it cam in handy, I threw him my camera and told him to take shots! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all the kiss, touching, licking, sucking and exploring each others bodies, i'd quite happily meet someone just for soft swing and have on a few occasions, penetrative sex does not do that much for me if i'm going to be honest and can quite happily go without, I will if its what the other person wants but if a guys a long stayer I get bored really easy and want to get back to the oral, if I do do penetrative sex it has to be in sort spell with lots of other things mixed in, not just get on and gang away till they cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love all the kiss, touching, licking, sucking and exploring each others bodies, i'd quite happily meet someone just for soft swing and have on a few occasions, penetrative sex does not do that much for me if i'm going to be honest and can quite happily go without, I will if its what the other person wants but if a guys a long stayer I get bored really easy and want to get back to the oral, if I do do penetrative sex it has to be in sort spell with lots of other things mixed in, not just get on and gang away till they cum "

I like it that way too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

and i thought the news of the world was full of shit but this beats it

Thanks for this no need to buy a trashy paper

Sorry jacqs but that's out of line. "

why it means i dont need to by a gossip or trashy paper thats all i meant

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and why would my post make you think i was full of shit?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Ive not had sex with that many people and find it hard for some reason to go all the way..

and i thought the news of the world was full of shit but this beats it

Thanks for this no need to buy a trashy paper

Sorry jacqs but that's out of line.

why it means i dont need to by a gossip or trashy paper thats all i meant

How is this thread gossip or trashy? Is it any worse than the thread you put up the other night when you had teletubbie and minxie Round?

This has actually sparked some good discussion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and why would my post make you think i was full of shit? "

read it again chick!

its not aimed at anyone in particular just i dont need a paper when the forums like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How is this thread gossip or trashy? Is it any worse than the thread you put up the other night when you had teletubbie and minxie Round?

This has actually sparked some good discussion. "

mine was just taking the piss end of

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

How is this thread gossip or trashy? Is it any worse than the thread you put up the other night when you had teletubbie and minxie Round?

This has actually sparked some good discussion.

mine was just taking the piss end of "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"and why would my post make you think i was full of shit?

read it again chick!

its not aimed at anyone in particular just i dont need a paper when the forums like this

i honestly feel my thread served a purpose, had a variety of responses.

if you dont like a thread why not just move onto the next one that does interest you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops accidentally hit sent reply privately. [slaps my wrists sorry jaq] I think my button needs moving LOL. Message follows...

I've only had one meeting in person so far since joining a little over a week ago and it was oral and touching only. To be honest I thought it was going to be a cup of coffee.

Penetration is one of a lot of pleasurable activities, so it shouldn't be seen as the be all and end all of life. It can be very nice though. :D

As with anything else it's a case of your own wants and limits and finding someone who wants the same things or at least respects what you may not want to do - anyone who doesn't isn't worth your time obviously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"and why would my post make you think i was full of shit?

read it again chick!

its not aimed at anyone in particular just i dont need a paper when the forums like this

i honestly feel my thread served a purpose, had a variety of responses.

if you dont like a thread why not just move onto the next one that does interest you"

I thought this was a good thread and plenty of others do too judging by the response!!

I'm not going to mention any but we've much much worse, one on Saturday night!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all of our meets have ended up with penitrative sex and they were still enjoyable, we don't have full blown sex every time privately either,

To us it's not the be all and end all...

We enjoy the teasing and the foreplay just as much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really in support of the OP on this topic. In spite of some people thinking they know what every man wants, their own experiences doesn't make their generalisations correct.

As someone who adores giving pleasure through foreplay, I'd find it more enjoyable to be told that full sex is not expected. I like things to be spontaneous and organic. Things should take a natural flow. If we both wanted penetrative sex, great! If not, still great!

Yes, of course I like to cum during our play-time together, but in no way do I feel it's my right to expect it to be inside my partner. Getting my rocks off feels good, whether it's in the holiest of holy, or just off the wrist.

I can only speak for how I feel, because I'm the only person who's needs and desires I know well enough to have a valid opinion about. I would never presume to know what others want better than they know themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration isn't everything and I've had 2 very amazing, memorable meets when it was just forplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really in support of the OP on this topic. In spite of some people thinking they know what every man wants, their own experiences doesn't make their generalisations correct.

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm really in support of the OP on this topic. In spite of some people thinking they know what every man wants, their own experiences doesn't make their generalisations correct.

Good point

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are soft swap only & LOVE IT

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love penetration in fact even when playing with myself I find it hard to cum through clitoral stimulation alone.

See i can cum really quickly by myself with or without toys.. but never once cum with a guy. Came close to it once (then cried like a fool)

I enjoy having toys used on me and fingers.. just 'freeze' when a guy wants sex..

I knew a woman like that, a while back...

A blindfold and a dildo did the trick...

She was so high on the silos, she didn't realise she had me inside her.

Had to be careful not to go all the way in. Any body contact and she'd have given the game away....

Dildo... Not silos...

I had images of large grain holding vessels.

You see, I was thinking of missiles. I wonder what Freud would say.

He'd probably say you were looking for a man to go on top....

Nope, with men I'm always top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you arent getting any, then yes it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think when sex happens between 2 people with a connection and chemistry its fantastic even in the swinging world it can make sex not seem like regular sex

BUT is sex everything in life no

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