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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So I have an inter_iew tomorrow for a support worker role.

I always stumble on questions that I can otherwise answer perfectly fine if someone else asked me them

I'm absolutely cacking myself! I have dyspraxia and it's always difficult for me in social situations, especially with inter_iews, and I think that's what holds me back from landing a job. I've had help to try and getting my inter_iews skills up to scratch but always fail

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"So I have an inter_iew tomorrow for a support worker role.

I always stumble on questions that I can otherwise answer perfectly fine if someone else asked me them

I'm absolutely cacking myself! I have dyspraxia and it's always difficult for me in social situations, especially with inter_iews, and I think that's what holds me back from landing a job. I've had help to try and getting my inter_iews skills up to scratch but always fail "

Have you told them abut the dyspraxia? It might help the inter_iewer have more of an understanding and if they're a good inter_iewer they'll help you. Good luck tomorrow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're qualified and you come across as competant and know your stuff, what you see as shortcomings shouldn't be an issue.

If you feel it becoming an issue in the inter_iew then inform them of it rather than hide it and get flustered.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So I have an inter_iew tomorrow for a support worker role.

I always stumble on questions that I can otherwise answer perfectly fine if someone else asked me them

I'm absolutely cacking myself! I have dyspraxia and it's always difficult for me in social situations, especially with inter_iews, and I think that's what holds me back from landing a job. I've had help to try and getting my inter_iews skills up to scratch but always fail

Have you told them abut the dyspraxia? It might help the inter_iewer have more of an understanding and if they're a good inter_iewer they'll help you. Good luck tomorrow! "

The manager who was there when I filled out the form and told him about the dyspraxia has now left but I will mention it again tomorrow! Thank you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you're qualified and you come across as competant and know your stuff, what you see as shortcomings shouldn't be an issue.

If you feel it becoming an issue in the inter_iew then inform them of it rather than hide it and get flustered."

I don't need qualifications as training is provided, it's always been an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you're qualified and you come across as competant and know your stuff, what you see as shortcomings shouldn't be an issue.

If you feel it becoming an issue in the inter_iew then inform them of it rather than hide it and get flustered.

I don't need qualifications as training is provided, it's always been an issue"

Best of luck anyway. Let us know how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One thing I learnt from my last inter_iew is don't over think the answer. Sometimes less is more. Good luck x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One thing I learnt from my last inter_iew is don't over think the answer. Sometimes less is more. Good luck x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have an inter_iew tomorrow for a support worker role.

I always stumble on questions that I can otherwise answer perfectly fine if someone else asked me them

I'm absolutely cacking myself! I have dyspraxia and it's always difficult for me in social situations, especially with inter_iews, and I think that's what holds me back from landing a job. I've had help to try and getting my inter_iews skills up to scratch but always fail

Have you told them abut the dyspraxia? It might help the inter_iewer have more of an understanding and if they're a good inter_iewer they'll help you. Good luck tomorrow!

The manager who was there when I filled out the form and told him about the dyspraxia has now left but I will mention it again tomorrow! Thank you! "

I am afraid I only have a basic understanding of dyspraxia. I would suggest not being afraid of silence and take your time to think of your answers. Depends what type of inter_iew they are running? Formal and basic with questions about work history, goals etc. or situation based "When have you?" "What was the outcome". Just when answering think if you were the employer what would you want to hear. I'm on my second and final inter_iew so very good look miss.

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By *utty_JiggleCouple
over a year ago

Black Country

Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who has employed and inter_iewed hundreds over the years my suggestion to anyone who feels nervous going to an inter_iew is this;

Bear in mind the person holding the inter_iew has a problem they need to resolve. The vacancy represents that problem. The inter_iewer is hoping for you to be the solution to their need.

So the onus is on the inter_iewer. The applicant should go with the mindset "I know I can do the job advertised. Let's see if this employer is worthy of me".

I'm not suggesting arrogance in any way. Merely a mindset of "they need me, can they entice me" on the part of the applicant.

Hope this helps someone.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Also, as someone who regularly inter_iews and employs others, don't overthink the questions.....sometimes, they may sound like a trick one due to being quite simple, but trust me they aren't, sometimes we just want to know that the person understands what position they have applied for!

PM me if you want some tips! Best of luck x

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

I was always told if you ever get nervous before an inter_iew, try to picture the people asking the questions are naked!!!

Didn't help me last time I had an inter_iew, as the fella was about 30 stone and looked like Fred Elliot from corry

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I have an inter_iew tomorrow for a support worker role.

I always stumble on questions that I can otherwise answer perfectly fine if someone else asked me them

I'm absolutely cacking myself! I have dyspraxia and it's always difficult for me in social situations, especially with inter_iews, and I think that's what holds me back from landing a job. I've had help to try and getting my inter_iews skills up to scratch but always fail "

I once inter_iewed a woman who was so shy brought notes with her to read from. She explained at the start that she is fine in situations but that nerves get the better of her, especially for a job she really wants.

We gave her the job because she answered everything well and the shyness wasn't actually an issue.

Go in prepared and they will know.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I was always told if you ever get nervous before an inter_iew, try to picture the people asking the questions are naked!!!

Didn't help me last time I had an inter_iew, as the fella was about 30 stone and looked like Fred Elliot from corry "

*shudder*

I've recently done a lot of inter_iews and was always worried I would bump into someone from here.

To the OP, show enthusiasm, think about your answers, don't be afraid to ask the inter_iewers to clarify if you don't understand a question, and watch your body language. Smile, sit up straight, and don't wave your arms around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take a bottle of water in with you and sip before answering a question, give yourself a little time to get your thoughts straight. if they ask why you are doing it, just say you are nervous and have a dry mouth

you may also repeat the question back to them before answering

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

According to the inter_iewers I did brilliantly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to the inter_iewers I did brilliantly x"

Well done you!!!

And how did you feel during the inter_iew?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to the inter_iewers I did brilliantly x"

Great! Hope you get the job.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"According to the inter_iewers I did brilliantly x

Well done you!!!

And how did you feel during the inter_iew? "

Thank you! I felt a bit nervous but they were really nice so felt calm!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"According to the inter_iewers I did brilliantly x"

Well done you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"According to the inter_iewers I did brilliantly x

Well done you x"

Thank you! Now to wait to see if I've got it! x

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Fingers and toes crossed and all that. Well done you

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

well done and good luck for a fab outcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I got the job! :D

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yay go you !

When do you start ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yay go you !

When do you start ?"

not too sure yet! I need to fill out some forms and documents so probably in about 2 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this the one in peterborough?

congrats either way

give yourself a big thumbs up

no

not that way

oull your knickers back up

geez,

some people

;-)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this the one in peterborough?

congrats either way

give yourself a big thumbs up

no

not that way

oull your knickers back up

geez,

some people

;-)"

Lmao!

No this one is actually in my area thank God lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations.

I got a new job last week so it's a double celebration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"this the one in peterborough?

congrats either way

give yourself a big thumbs up

no

not that way

oull your knickers back up

geez,

some people

;-)

Lmao!

No this one is actually in my area thank God lol"

i seem to remember the original thread and you saying there was nothing local as your area is shit, so glad i was proved right lol.

really, god news you dont have to move either.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this the one in peterborough?

congrats either way

give yourself a big thumbs up

no

not that way

oull your knickers back up

geez,

some people

;-)

Lmao!

No this one is actually in my area thank God lol

i seem to remember the original thread and you saying there was nothing local as your area is shit, so glad i was proved right lol.

really, god news you dont have to move either."

Definitely yes! I'm glad someone has finally given me the chance to put myself to better use instead of being a hermit lol

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