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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally can't comprehend it .....

Humiliation and all that - not my thing

We all like different things though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking."

I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ????

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I have my head in my hands during every moment and sadly I need look no further than the forums on a good night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone to their own but personally I cringe if I trip on a cracked curb and someone sees me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely LOVE it.

L-O-V-E it!!!!

XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask David Moyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.

I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ???? "

Each to their own. Just because someone else doesn't like it, it doesn't make it wrong. I'm sure that you get aroused or get sexual pleasure from things that others wouldn't, and this is exactly the same thing

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

friend of ours had to goto work with a large metal butplug in her arse and no pants under her dress she was ok till she sat down on the metal seat at the bus stop with a resounding clang

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

Thanks BBW I thought I was going to get eaten alive then!

I like to think I'm broadminded and have a fair bit of experience of being humiliated in public but I've never heard of a butt plug clanging on a seat. Classic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not my cup of tea but if we were all the same life would be very boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get married and you will never look back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks BBW I thought I was going to get eaten alive then!

I like to think I'm broadminded and have a fair bit of experience of being humiliated in public but I've never heard of a butt plug clanging on a seat. Classic."

No probs! I understand that some people don't 'get it', but as legs said, it'd be boring if we were all into the same things (or something like that )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks BBW I thought I was going to get eaten alive then!

I like to think I'm broadminded and have a fair bit of experience of being humiliated in public but I've never heard of a butt plug clanging on a seat. Classic.

No probs! I understand that some people don't 'get it', but as legs said, it'd be boring if we were all into the same things (or something like that ) "

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

I'm surprised more people aren't into this.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"get married and you will never look back "

This really mad me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.

I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ????

Each to their own. Just because someone else doesn't like it, it doesn't make it wrong. I'm sure that you get aroused or get sexual pleasure from things that others wouldn't, and this is exactly the same thing "

As you say.."each to their own" and its my choice to Not like Humiliation in any form and dont find in the least sexual......Degrading ..yes...but not sexual.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.

I totally hate Humiliation of any kind....How the hell is THAT sexy or enjoyable ???? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad.."

Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..

Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong"

Sorry, degrading, not demeaning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..

Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong

Sorry, degrading, not demeaning "

If thats what floats their boat ,so be it. Dont mean i gotta like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wreckon theirs loads of people who find it a turn on, just too scared to actually try it as I imagine if it's something you're trying for the first time it can either go very well or very bad..

Some people may see it as demeaning, but everyone likes what they like. If that's how someone gets hard, then so be it. It's neither right or wrong

Sorry, degrading, not demeaning

If thats what floats their boat ,so be it. Dont mean i gotta like it. "

No one said you did

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking."

Its the fact that you say you "had" to do it that baffles me. Surely it should be a mutually agreed thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.

Its the fact that you say you "had" to do it that baffles me. Surely it should be a mutually agreed thing. "

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By *ort123Man
over a year ago

Tredegar

Lmfao

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.

It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it, not on myself have given a few subs tasks tho :D

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

What sort of things have people done?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm surprised more people aren't into this."

I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.

It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously."

No problem with it myself as long as those involved are discreet and don't involve others, there are much worse things. As always safe, sane and consensual.....might add legal in there too.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm surprised more people aren't into this.

I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is"

you make it sound as if people who don't share this preference aren't strong. I don't think that's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm surprised more people aren't into this.

I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is

you make it sound as if people who don't share this preference aren't strong. I don't think that's true."

No I wasn't, I was guessing nothing more

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking.

Its the fact that you say you "had" to do it that baffles me. Surely it should be a mutually agreed thing. "

I imagine it is mutually agreed,.he wouldn't be posting here so cheerfully if it wasn't but its hardly public humiliation if they asked him nicely if he minded and it didn't matter if he didn't do it, I guess that feeling he had to do it was part of the turn on. I don't understand why people are questioning what is clearly a big turn on for this man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have been when i said yes at the altar

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

My subs are all alpha males: men at the top of their game. All like varying forms of humiliation: mostly behind closed doors but some public displays have been wearing a pearl chocker under an open necked shirt whilst taking me to dinner, shopping for a basque and hold ups in the bridal section of John Lewis for them to wear, wearing a parachute during dinner and zapping them as they eat.

It really is each to their own.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm surprised more people aren't into this.

I would guess however that those involved would have to be strong people to cope with it and not everyone is"

Indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else into this? I'm not necessarily talking about crude beatings or similar but more subtle displays of control. I once had to check into a hotel with my partner and her black lover and ask for a room for them. The receptionist could barely stop smirking."

Its not our bag but know people who like it. Each to their own though so enjoy if it does it for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.

It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously."

Lets just say that there is a "not so nice side" to "humiliation" ...That some...people experience.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"My subs are all alpha males: men at the top of their game. All like varying forms of humiliation: mostly behind closed doors but some public displays have been wearing a pearl chocker under an open necked shirt whilst taking me to dinner, shopping for a basque and hold ups in the bridal section of John Lewis for them to wear, wearing a parachute during dinner and zapping them as they eat.

It really is each to their own. "

Ok I have to ask, wearing a parachute? Is that a normal parachute or something sexual that I have no clue about?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Or a 3rd option and you are doing an evie and using predictive text?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"My subs are all alpha males: men at the top of their game. All like varying forms of humiliation: mostly behind closed doors but some public displays have been wearing a pearl chocker under an open necked shirt whilst taking me to dinner, shopping for a basque and hold ups in the bridal section of John Lewis for them to wear, wearing a parachute during dinner and zapping them as they eat.

It really is each to their own.

Ok I have to ask, wearing a parachute? Is that a normal parachute or something sexual that I have no clue about?"

I just googled it ruggers. Appears to be a parachute shape thing that goes on the chaps balls with weights hanging off it!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

ooo I google and could find bugger all....off to google again, ta hottie

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

lol I just searched on LH and found one.

Way to go missy !! The poor men haha

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

Goodness, I'd never heard of a parachute either. Thanks you Miss tress for a great and imaginative contribution.

I don't have any self-esteem issues and don't think you do particularly need to be strong minded to cope with this. Just an understanding that it's just a fleeting moment of embarrassment that most people forget about quickly. I once had to go to a condom counter and ask for some extra large ones for my partner's black boyfriend. But yes, i did it a long way from home.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Goodness, I'd never heard of a parachute either. Thanks you Miss tress for a great and imaginative contribution.

I don't have any self-esteem issues and don't think you do particularly need to be strong minded to cope with this. Just an understanding that it's just a fleeting moment of embarrassment that most people forget about quickly. I once had to go to a condom counter and ask for some extra large ones for my partner's black boyfriend. But yes, i did it a long way from home.

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the one and only thing that bothers me about this is involving other people and potentially causing an innocent shop assistant or hotel receptionist embarrassment.

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

Good point and it's always agreed that if anybody does start to look embarrassed we immediately stop but I have to say this has never actually happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I imagine there's a lot of us on here that look at things that others do and think WTF but we are all so very different and like/get off on such a wide variety of things. As long as it's consensual.It doesn't make us bad people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been shit upon by a publicly owned bank; does this count?

If so, apart from the top 5%, we all have!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I imagine there's a lot of us on here that look at things that others do and think WTF but we are all so very different and like/get off on such a wide variety of things. As long as it's consensual.It doesn't make us bad people "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing is,most people don't care what you do so if you engage in some public humiliation away from your home you can get off on the thrill and then 10 minutes later it means nothing.

It seems to be that a lot of people take the issue, and possibly themselves, too seriously.

Lets just say that there is a "not so nice side" to "humiliation" ...That some...people experience. "

Absolutely

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things. "

similar ish to us, wanted to explore some cuckold role play in the sub role to see what the buzz was for others..

met a guy at his hotel and whilst we had said no humiliation but some erotic verbal teasing etc was fine, he had clearly forgotten his brief maybe he was distracted ..

so i reminded him what we had agreed and he started to be all alpha and exhibit this by being abusive, sharp reprimand from yt and end of meet..

each to their own as said..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things.

similar ish to us, wanted to explore some cuckold role play in the sub role to see what the buzz was for others..

met a guy at his hotel and whilst we had said no humiliation but some erotic verbal teasing etc was fine, he had clearly forgotten his brief maybe he was distracted ..

so i reminded him what we had agreed and he started to be all alpha and exhibit this by being abusive, sharp reprimand from yt and end of meet..

each to their own as said.."

This highlights something very interesting could potentially be a separate thread on its own; that of bulls knowing and understand the role they inhabit. Remembering there are THREE people in such scenarios seems, from what I've read over the years, to be beyond some.

Hope it didn't stop you from subsequent encounters x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"It was a case for us of beware of what you wish for. I had yearned for it for years; when it happened for real, all three of us hated it! We've never done it since, but you never know til you try these things.

similar ish to us, wanted to explore some cuckold role play in the sub role to see what the buzz was for others..

met a guy at his hotel and whilst we had said no humiliation but some erotic verbal teasing etc was fine, he had clearly forgotten his brief maybe he was distracted ..

so i reminded him what we had agreed and he started to be all alpha and exhibit this by being abusive, sharp reprimand from yt and end of meet..

each to their own as said..

This highlights something very interesting could potentially be a separate thread on its own; that of bulls knowing and understand the role they inhabit. Remembering there are THREE people in such scenarios seems, from what I've read over the years, to be beyond some.

Hope it didn't stop you from subsequent encounters x"

Agreed and its something we have discussed with others on here also..

seems to be a 'no brainer' for the guy wanting to explore this role..

yet how many have given it little or no thought and missed out to their detriment..

Nope, not really..

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By *agamuffin1970 OP   Man
over a year ago

North Leeds

Yes, the Bull scenario can easily go wrong if it isn't discussed in advance and/or the Bull doesn't consider all parties.

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