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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did, for a year...

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford

I did for 5 months I feel dating sites are not honest enough about the whole sex thing just put it on your profile that if you meet someone on here and got along then maybe something more could develop than just sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy to meet a regular FB let alone a full on relationship on here, not even going to bother trying that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did for 5 months I feel dating sites are not honest enough about the whole sex thing just put it on your profile that if you meet someone on here and got along then maybe something more could develop than just sex"

I agree. But I discovered purely by experience as I used to use vanilla dating sites but then I found myself in a tricky situation of knowing I have certain sexual needs but struggling how to tell them in case they run! 3 times I did eventueally tell someone I have frequented sex parties etc ....even though I was not doing so when dating them (separate time periods). In EVERY case..they scarpered or simply couldn't handle that I can be both a romantic lady in every vanilla sense but also have a highly sexual side to me. A lot of vanilla men still hold the _iew that a woman who has a higher than average number of sexual partners is not a lady and they look down their nose or get sexually intimidated. I have found that men I meet on this scene are more open, less judgemental and less presumptuous about who I am. We start with an honesty about the most intimate aspects of who we are so honesty about other aspects of our lives seemed easier.

....and honesty is the basis for a good relationship. So I don't believe this scene HAS to be just about sex or seeking only an FB. There is every chance that you can meet someone special on this scene as you can anywhere else. ..if that's what you want. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here, neither of us were looking for a relationship it Just ended up That way, we started meeting regularly and going to parties and clubs together and didn't do any more private meets, and after 3 years we are still together, very happy and getting married in April x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Met one person off here that was leading to more but never worked out....I would never rule meeting someone off here for more but it's the case of right time right place etc

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By *urvy_J3Woman
over a year ago

Bradford


"We met on here, neither of us were looking for a relationship it Just ended up That way, we started meeting regularly and going to parties and clubs together and didn't do any more private meets, and after 3 years we are still together, very happy and getting married in April x "

Congratulations I believe it can happen and im sure me and the ex would have had a fantastic relationship and would of lasted without the personal issues when we met it was only for sex but we hit it off straight away and it just ended up being a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, neither of us were looking for a relationship it Just ended up That way, we started meeting regularly and going to parties and clubs together and didn't do any more private meets, and after 3 years we are still together, very happy and getting married in April x "

Awwww thats lovely! Congratulations! I wish you many years of happiness together! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm really surprised how many others are really after the same as me. I only really noticed it after I changed my profile to reflect what I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met one person off here that was leading to more but never worked out....I would never rule meeting someone off here for more but it's the case of right time right place etc "

But isnt that life anyway? I just think that when some people dismiss some fabsters for seeking more and make sarcastic comments about them joining match.com etc. ..that they have a limited _iew of how any of us meet people. Some people are here just for fun, NSA and some for more regular fun with an FB but some would love more. I think from reading peoples stories on here, and other threads, there is possibly something / someone here for everyone. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, neither of us were looking for a relationship it Just ended up That way, we started meeting regularly and going to parties and clubs together and didn't do any more private meets, and after 3 years we are still together, very happy and getting married in April x

Awwww thats lovely! Congratulations! I wish you many years of happiness together! X"

Thank you Xx

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

We met on here as singles in October 2011. Despite being on opposite sides of the country set up a couples profile the following August . Still enjoying ourselves and things just keep getting better.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I did for 5 months I feel dating sites are not honest enough about the whole sex thing just put it on your profile that if you meet someone on here and got along then maybe something more could develop than just sex

I agree. But I discovered purely by experience as I used to use vanilla dating sites but then I found myself in a tricky situation of knowing I have certain sexual needs but struggling how to tell them in case they run! 3 times I did eventueally tell someone I have frequented sex parties etc ....even though I was not doing so when dating them (separate time periods). In EVERY case..they scarpered or simply couldn't handle that I can be both a romantic lady in every vanilla sense but also have a highly sexual side to me. A lot of vanilla men still hold the _iew that a woman who has a higher than average number of sexual partners is not a lady and they look down their nose or get sexually intimidated. I have found that men I meet on this scene are more open, less judgemental and less presumptuous about who I am. We start with an honesty about the most intimate aspects of who we are so honesty about other aspects of our lives seemed easier.

....and honesty is the basis for a good relationship. So I don't believe this scene HAS to be just about sex or seeking only an FB. There is every chance that you can meet someone special on this scene as you can anywhere else. ..if that's what you want. X"

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow


"I'm really surprised how many others are really after the same as me. I only really noticed it after I changed my profile to reflect what I want. "

I think you'll find that there are a fair number of people on here who are very different in real life, to the personna they portray on here.

I think that's partly why there are many who start off here as singles, and end up as couples. And bear in mind that some of those, having become a couple, then leave the site and the lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on a different site. Evolved towards this over time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me and Ruby met on here and although its still early days we are both very happy. I should add that neither of us were looking for anything, it just kinda happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Ruby met on here and although its still early days we are both very happy. I should add that neither of us were looking for anything, it just kinda happened."

How did you decide though? to go from shagging to something more?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We met on here, neither of us were looking for a relationship it Just ended up That way, we started meeting regularly and going to parties and clubs together and didn't do any more private meets, and after 3 years we are still together, very happy and getting married in April x "

That was refreshing to read and congratulations to you both.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very intersting topic , we didnt meet through swinging . We started off having ocasional 3somes then over time (few years) it progressed to clubs then joined fabs few months ago .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Ruby met on here and although its still early days we are both very happy. I should add that neither of us were looking for anything, it just kinda happened.

How did you decide though? to go from shagging to something more?"

We realised we both had feelings for each other and in one very romantic moment in McDonalds we decided we were dating. As he said, it just kind of happened but we are both very happy about it! I'm in the happiest relationship of my life with a man who means the world to me!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I do believe that love can be found and there are many examples of it, it is lovely to see.

and the partnerships that do forge, in my observation are the ones that do so under the forum radar.

all the best to the ones looking for love & the ones who found it.

but just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met the boyfriend on here, we were friends with benefits for a few months and I started to develop feelings for him. I told him this and he then asked me out, then we slowly started getting closer and more romantic with each other.

We both are in love and now live together.

It can happen. But other times it can turn into absolute disaster. Everybody is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup. We met through here 3 years ago. We have lived together for 2 of those and have just bought our first home together!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love can happen anywhere ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Ruby met on here and although its still early days we are both very happy. I should add that neither of us were looking for anything, it just kinda happened.

How did you decide though? to go from shagging to something more?

We realised we both had feelings for each other and in one very romantic moment in McDonalds we decided we were dating. As he said, it just kind of happened but we are both very happy about it! I'm in the happiest relationship of my life with a man who means the world to me! "

You really know how to make an emotional cripple blush...

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me and Ruby met on here and although its still early days we are both very happy. I should add that neither of us were looking for anything, it just kinda happened.

How did you decide though? to go from shagging to something more?

We realised we both had feelings for each other and in one very romantic moment in McDonalds we decided we were dating. As he said, it just kind of happened but we are both very happy about it! I'm in the happiest relationship of my life with a man who means the world to me! "

LOVE this!!! So pleased to see how happy you've been over the past couple of months

I wish you both many, many years of happiness together!

I think you make a FAB couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its nice to see so many couples who can make it work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes Jet and I met through the forums over 15 months ago and we have been officially together for 3 months now and loving every minute...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met on a similar site 6 years ago, been married 3 years now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here 8 years ago both of us were not looking for a relationship,so glad we found each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've accepted I'm destined to be on my own, complete emotional retard when it comes to vanilla dating (FAB taught me that) and the first guy in the real world to admit he likes me and has done for a while is out of bounds because I'm a twat and was too shy to flirt months ago

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

any singles just looking for a NSA shag....

not with me, but just asking percentage left

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Met letsbe 18 months ago and pretty much since then been together, not meeting others although officially together 15 months now.

Very happy and looking forward what 2014 hopes to bring x

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?"

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if swinging is a part of your life you're never going to give up, this is the perfect place to find a partner. As long as you're honest and up front about what you're looking for.

Hard to have a vanilla relationship when you met on here, seems to be difficult to get past for some x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've accepted I'm destined to be on my own, complete emotional retard when it comes to vanilla dating (FAB taught me that) and the first guy in the real world to admit he likes me and has done for a while is out of bounds because I'm a twat and was too shy to flirt months ago

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Yeah you twat! Lol! Only joking... No chance of revisiting that????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We met on here, neither of us were looking for a relationship it Just ended up That way, we started meeting regularly and going to parties and clubs together and didn't do any more private meets, and after 3 years we are still together, very happy and getting married in April x "

Congrats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any singles just looking for a NSA shag....

not with me, but just asking percentage left"

Probably not many!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its lovely to read that so many people have found someone wonderful. ..whether you were looking for it or not. If you are happy together. ..then that is all that matters and I wish you all the very best and many more years of happiness to come.....and even if it isnt years but a shorter time period, then at least you can look back with happy memories of a lovely time in your life when you were truly loved. For not everyone is so fortunate to be able to say that xxxxxxxxxxx

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"Me and Ruby met on here and although its still early days we are both very happy. I should add that neither of us were looking for anything, it just kinda happened.

How did you decide though? to go from shagging to something more?

We realised we both had feelings for each other and in one very romantic moment in McDonalds we decided we were dating. As he said, it just kind of happened but we are both very happy about it! I'm in the happiest relationship of my life with a man who means the world to me! "

So there is hope then? I'm beginning to wonder as I too am looking for more than an occasional shag. It would be great to meet someone and have more than what most seem to think FAB is all about! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But for those not interested in a longer term relationship. ...I hope everyone finds whatever it is they seek.

As long as we do that with honesty and integrity and acknowledge that all of us are only human. We all have our personal challenges, fears, insecurities and we ALL fuck up sometimes! Relationships , no matter whether nsa, FB or a full blown love affair bring their ups and downs. Life has a funny way of turning up surprises when we are looking the other way..

Will.I.Am. last night (did I spell that right???? Lol)....said 'Whoever invented pancakes, didnt intend to make a pancake but set out to make a cake! But now we ALL love pancakes! '

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met someone on here just a shame it diddnt work out id rather meet someone on here than a dating site long as your honest and open it can work along with rules

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x"

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries"

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol "

No nothing wrong with that if both partys agree to what each other is doing thats fine i was married 12 years together 15 years i never cheated i wouldnt like it done to me so i wouldnt do it to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol "

No nothing wrong with that if both partys agree to what each other is doing thats fine i was married 12 years together 15 years i never cheated i wouldnt like it done to me so i wouldnt do it to anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've accepted I'm destined to be on my own, complete emotional retard when it comes to vanilla dating (FAB taught me that) and the first guy in the real world to admit he likes me and has done for a while is out of bounds because I'm a twat and was too shy to flirt months ago

Yeah you twat! Lol! Only joking... No chance of revisiting that????"

No, he's taken He was shy too though lol

I'm just gob smacked really.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

You only have to notice the amount of couples profiles popping up to know just how well it works..........

Or doesnt it most cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not on here we never, just over two years ago on another site, roast dinner city lol

I was hard work for him lol, 8 weeks of chatting, my first online meet Gary

And here we are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol "

Myself and Ruby discuss everything, we have no secrets with regards to our relationship. We are currently monogamous but have discussed future plans with regards to swinging. I think its easier for two swingers to have an honest and frank relationship because there are fewer taboos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on here we never, just over two years ago on another site, roast dinner city lol

I was hard work for him lol, 8 weeks of chatting, my first online meet Gary

And here we are "

Pahh Admit it you was fuckin gagging for me the first time i said Ello

Gary (Suicide is painless )

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol

Myself and Ruby discuss everything, we have no secrets with regards to our relationship. We are currently monogamous but have discussed future plans with regards to swinging. I think its easier for two swingers to have an honest and frank relationship because there are fewer taboos."

same with letsbe and i, we talk all the time and make sure that each other are ok on the rare occasions that we do play with others.

if one of us decided we didnt want to do this anymore we would stop. just because we met on here doesnt mean swinging is the main focus of our relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not on here we never, just over two years ago on another site, roast dinner city lol

I was hard work for him lol, 8 weeks of chatting, my first online meet Gary

And here we are

Pahh Admit it you was fuckin gagging for me the first time i said Ello

Gary (Suicide is painless )"
yeah yeah fantasy time again

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol

Myself and Ruby discuss everything, we have no secrets with regards to our relationship. We are currently monogamous but have discussed future plans with regards to swinging. I think its easier for two swingers to have an honest and frank relationship because there are fewer taboos."

Our relationship is a complex one, we both bring elements of "baggage" to the relationship, the distance being the only one I am prepared to talk about in public, when we first got together we discussed at length the fact that we both felt that we wanted to be exclusive for the foreseeable future. If that changes it will be a decision that we BOTH make.

As for needing a "tad more than vanilla" I don't think either of us ever thought we would end up in an exclusive relationship; but sometimes these things just happen and I wouldn't change it for the world right now.

Communication really is the key, we've both tried new kinks that the other person brought to the relationship and so far, we're having a blast!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good. "

It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are "

Absolutely agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are

Absolutely agree "

Me 3

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Life is what you make it....if you meet someone and it seems right then grab it. It does not matter where you meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Life is what you make it....if you meet someone and it seems right then grab it. It does not matter where you meet... "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Life is what you make it....if you meet someone and it seems right then grab it. It does not matter where you meet... "

met not meet

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

A relationship was the furthest thing from my mind when I joined fab....fun with permission from my husband was the reason I was here.

Now i'm totally nuts about my new man and about to embark on a new life together

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By *yphoon1Man
over a year ago

We met on another similar site and hit it off right from the of particularly as we had lots of online chats before we met. Been together nearly two years and even more connected and passionate than ever before. I agree that sites like this are more honest than dating sites. You meet for sex and if you click then result. If not then youve had some fun while finding out.

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak

Not this site but one like it, we chatted we meet had a wonderful time. Thought this one is different. But left it there. We carried on talking meet some more had a chat and here we are nearly 3 years later still happy still together all in love and a baby on the way. Charlie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good.

It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are "

I can see that cold heart melting

Shall we all buy a hat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met on here and still going strong.

Silk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy on here and we were tgetha for 5 months and thort we were in lv. Now we hate each other. I met a. My now bf on faccy and intriduced him to this site now we cudnt b happier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've accepted I'm destined to be on my own, complete emotional retard when it comes to vanilla dating (FAB taught me that) and the first guy in the real world to admit he likes me and has done for a while is out of bounds because I'm a twat and was too shy to flirt months ago

Yeah you twat! Lol! Only joking... No chance of revisiting that????

No, he's taken He was shy too though lol

I'm just gob smacked really."

Life has a funny old way of working out. You might meet again one day! Who knows? Or you might meet someone even more fabulous! Try not to let it upset you too much. You never know what is around the corner x

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over a year ago


"Life is what you make it....if you meet someone and it seems right then grab it. It does not matter where you meet... "

Absolutely! True love is a gift....dont reject it because someone tells you that you cant meet people on a swinging site. You can meet someone ANYWHERE! X

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over a year ago


"Not this site but one like it, we chatted we meet had a wonderful time. Thought this one is different. But left it there. We carried on talking meet some more had a chat and here we are nearly 3 years later still happy still together all in love and a baby on the way. Charlie"

Thats lovely! Congratulations and many more years of happiness x

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over a year ago


"I'd love to be in a relationship but need a tad more than 'vanilla' can offer me hence why i am on here. Its so good to hear that there are others looking for the same! x

Id rather have a relationship so you get the quality time together and a bit of freedom just you both have to be honest for it to work and trust and need to set rules and boundries

Honesty and trust are paramount for it to work...boundaries are necessary! If your partner is happy to let you play with others as long as they are there then there should be no need to play away is there? Or is that me being too simple lol

Myself and Ruby discuss everything, we have no secrets with regards to our relationship. We are currently monogamous but have discussed future plans with regards to swinging. I think its easier for two swingers to have an honest and frank relationship because there are fewer taboos.

Our relationship is a complex one, we both bring elements of "baggage" to the relationship, the distance being the only one I am prepared to talk about in public, when we first got together we discussed at length the fact that we both felt that we wanted to be exclusive for the foreseeable future. If that changes it will be a decision that we BOTH make.

As for needing a "tad more than vanilla" I don't think either of us ever thought we would end up in an exclusive relationship; but sometimes these things just happen and I wouldn't change it for the world right now.

Communication really is the key, we've both tried new kinks that the other person brought to the relationship and so far, we're having a blast! "

I sincerely wish you both the best for a happy fun and love filled future together. X

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over a year ago


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good. "
Wow that's lovely . xx

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over a year ago


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good.

It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are

I can see that cold heart melting

Shall we all buy a hat?"

Shhhhh-don't tell anyone but he's a huge softie and a romantic really. I wouldn't want to ruin his reputation!

crystal

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I did for 5 months I feel dating sites are not honest enough about the whole sex thing just put it on your profile that if you meet someone on here and got along then maybe something more could develop than just sex

I agree. But I discovered purely by experience as I used to use vanilla dating sites but then I found myself in a tricky situation of knowing I have certain sexual needs but struggling how to tell them in case they run! 3 times I did eventueally tell someone I have frequented sex parties etc ....even though I was not doing so when dating them (separate time periods). In EVERY case..they scarpered or simply couldn't handle that I can be both a romantic lady in every vanilla sense but also have a highly sexual side to me. A lot of vanilla men still hold the _iew that a woman who has a higher than average number of sexual partners is not a lady and they look down their nose or get sexually intimidated. I have found that men I meet on this scene are more open, less judgemental and less presumptuous about who I am. We start with an honesty about the most intimate aspects of who we are so honesty about other aspects of our lives seemed easier.

....and honesty is the basis for a good relationship. So I don't believe this scene HAS to be just about sex or seeking only an FB. There is every chance that you can meet someone special on this scene as you can anywhere else. ..if that's what you want. X"

I so agree. I had a similar experience.

OP, I do wonder if men and women get different treatment when they say they are looking for a relationship on here.

I met one person that I love, but not in love, but we are at opposite ends of the country and so it had to end before either of us got hurt by falling in love too.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good.

It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are

I can see that cold heart melting

Shall we all buy a hat?

Shhhhh-don't tell anyone but he's a huge softie and a romantic really. I wouldn't want to ruin his reputation!

crystal"

I'll do it then

He is a teddy bear with big soppy, happy eyes every time he looks at Crystal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good.

It makes me smile that even just from your forum posts it's clear how smitten you are

I can see that cold heart melting

Shall we all buy a hat?

Shhhhh-don't tell anyone but he's a huge softie and a romantic really. I wouldn't want to ruin his reputation!

crystal

I'll do it then

He is a teddy bear with big soppy, happy eyes every time he looks at Crystal.

"

All lies!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Like me, another single guy has said he wants to meet a partner on here.

Many are saying try a dating site...

Out of curiosity, how many couples started off solo and developed into partners?

Met on here 17 November, first date 24 November, not been apart since. Very strange as neither of us were looking for a relationship and we shouldn't work as polar opposites but so far so good. "

You falling in love makes my cockles all warm.

I also enjoy the restraint of your posts. I know you are a private person but the less you say shouts "he's just said/done x" as much as the more vocal about their relationships but without insecurity. It makes me smile.

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