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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys.

We are new to the site so wanted peoples opinions.

We like to get to know someone before meeting and we are finding that a few people send a few messages then ask to meet and when we say we want to chat and see if we get along first we don't hear anything again.

we know its a swingers site but we thought other people would want to chat to someone before meeting too.

Just wondered how long do you all chat with someone before you would feel comfortable with a meet?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Sometimes months, sometimes weeks, sometimes days, sometimes hours and very occasionally minutes.

It all depends. So many variables.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

its down to each individual of course but we like to exchange a couple of messages then meet socially making it clear that we don't play on a first meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not long.

Sometimes spur of the moment. Sometimes a drink first. We never do 'socials'. We don't have much free time and we're not looking for friends or partners - just people we get on with and fancy shagging. That doesn't take long to work out

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive chatted to some 2 years before a meet. Dont feel pressured,if theyre worth it theyll wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always stick with what makes you feel more comfortable and you should have an enjoyable stay here. Its about your enjoyment after all and f your feeling pressured into meeting to quickly likely hood is the meet will be poor as you will both be uneasy and not able to relax.

Good luck x

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Only meet when YOU feel ready those you don,t hear from again are,nt worth worrying about, take your time and meet the right people for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've found that some people on here are just here for a cheap thrill rather than actually meeting and it's difficult to know what other people are really looking for.

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

You have to go at YOUR pace and you'll know when you're ready to take that next step and meet...... Always best to make sure it's right, than rush in and make a bad decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive chatted to some 2 years before a meet. Dont feel pressured,if theyre worth it theyll wait "

Me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive chatted to some 2 years before a meet. Dont feel pressured,if theyre worth it theyll wait "

Me too x

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

All good things cum for those that wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only meet when YOU feel ready those you don,t hear from again are,nt worth worrying about, take your time and meet the right people for you"

^^^^ this. Go at your own pace, no one elses!

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

with us e like to go at our own pace chat a little meet up for a social and then if we are all up for it meet up again for play time. if they don't like it then sure they wouldn't have been for us anyway.

Always remember its what suits you and don't let anyone try and change that xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *ob and VixenCouple
over a year ago

Doncaster

As most people have said

do whatever YOU feel comfortable with

play by your own rules and enjoy

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

We like to wink,then shag.

To much talk,leads to,

to much thinking,leading to unrealistic expectation,

leading to disappointing meets,due to to much talking.

Wink and shag,it's the swinging future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou for all your comments. Its nice to know other members feel the same.

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