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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Heres the situation....

A man writes a personal, sentimental/ love poem for someone else 3 years ago....then slightly edited it and re-sent to me.

My view......not nice.

Am I being overly sensitive?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

No. Insist on something original!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think its one of the few occasions in life when he might have been better to just lie! Or simply not tell me that?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps it expresses how he feels and if he tried he couldn't write a better way to say it?

Maybe it's less about the origin, more about its meaning?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Perhaps it expresses how he feels and if he tried he couldn't write a better way to say it?

Maybe it's less about the origin, more about its meaning?"

Hmmm....not sure. He might as well give me an engagement ring bought for someone else too!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Poetry?

We have to write poetry now?

That said, if you are going to do that, it should at least be original.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Poetry?

We have to write poetry now?

That said, if you are going to do that, it should at least be original. "

Lol....no....dont panic! You are not required to write poetry....but if you do something for someone with that person in mind...it shouldn't be recycled years later! It was that person only!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Oh good - I thought to get meets I was going to have to get my 'Wordsworth' hat on, when dirty limericks are about my level.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh good - I thought to get meets I was going to have to get my 'Wordsworth' hat on, when dirty limericks are about my level..... "

Lol!!! But you could give it a try! You never know you might get lucky! Just make it original! !!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

There was a young woman from Greenhithe,

who......

Damnit, I'm stuck.

Fancy a fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There was a young woman from Greenhithe,

who......

Damnit, I'm stuck.

Fancy a fuck?"

Hmm...cant say its exactly getting my juices flowing!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Bugger, its all I have.

Poetry was never my strong point.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Oh for the days when all you needed was a sky remote and a phone that took photos....

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By *iggamanMan
over a year ago

London


"Heres the situation....

A man writes a personal, sentimental/ love poem for someone else 3 years ago....then slightly edited it and re-sent to me.

My view......not nice.

Am I being overly sensitive?"

no your not being overly senstive he either kept a copy for 3years or remembers it almost word for word years later

that would bother me more (just my take on things)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not quite that personal. I'd prefer a hint of the original but much more personalized.

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By *immy AndrexCouple
over a year ago

OLDHAM

No, wouldn't be Happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any man writing me a poem would bother me. A recycled one I would take as an insult

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just think that something so personal and precious should be kept for those two people.

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any man writing me a poem would bother me. A recycled one I would take as an insult "

I am a total romantic so if someone goes to the effort of writing me a poem or little love note etc....I love that..IF it has been written ONLY for me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not quite that personal. I'd prefer a hint of the original but much more personalized. "

So it wouldnt bother you that she originally wrote it for another man, he has gone so she gives it to you instead? Doesnt bother you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a romantic at heart just something about men writing love poems makes me uncomfortable. I don't know why, it's just me. I do think your man should have written one solely for you. Isn't that the purpose of poetry,writing what is in your heart?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!"

Sex toys?

Hahahahhahah.

I love this thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not quite that personal. I'd prefer a hint of the original but much more personalized.

So it wouldnt bother you that she originally wrote it for another man, he has gone so she gives it to you instead? Doesnt bother you?"

Aww it would bother me! You can have the one I wrote earlier today on Valentine Poems thread. It's original and never given to anyone else. x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm a romantic at heart just something about men writing love poems makes me uncomfortable. I don't know why, it's just me. I do think your man should have written one solely for you. Isn't that the purpose of poetry,writing what is in your heart? "

Oh he isnt MY man....he is just an admirer. I think thats the best description I can come up with! Maybe trying his luck? ??...but thats not the point so I agree...if someone is going to bother to write someone a letter or poem, at least write it for the person it is intended for and ONLY them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!

Sex toys?

Hahahahhahah.

I love this thread. "

Lol...oh yes...maybe slightly off topic but I have had a man dig out a bunch of sex toys he used to use on his ex...with the foolish belief that I wouldn't object to a little dildo recycling! TAXI!!!!!

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!

Sex toys?

Hahahahhahah.

I love this thread.

Lol...oh yes...maybe slightly off topic but I have had a man dig out a bunch of sex toys he used to use on his ex...with the foolish belief that I wouldn't object to a little dildo recycling! TAXI!!!!! "

Had he at least washed them in dettol or something?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!

Sex toys?

Hahahahhahah.

I love this thread.

Lol...oh yes...maybe slightly off topic but I have had a man dig out a bunch of sex toys he used to use on his ex...with the foolish belief that I wouldn't object to a little dildo recycling! TAXI!!!!!

Had he at least washed them in dettol or something?

"

Who knows? I wasnt about to do the sniff test!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!

Sex toys?

Hahahahhahah.

I love this thread.

Lol...oh yes...maybe slightly off topic but I have had a man dig out a bunch of sex toys he used to use on his ex...with the foolish belief that I wouldn't object to a little dildo recycling! TAXI!!!!! "

my ex lent our friends my dildo and seriously thought I would want it back. *mouth vomit* he also wrote me a poem when he realised he was going to become my ex. That's probably why I don't like soppy poetry. Tear up the poem and find someone who treats you like the unique woman you are

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

When I was but a young student - I slept with my flatmates ex (he had been with her two days and they had been split up for a week) and he wrote an angry poem and pinned it to his door.

I was sure to hide the knives....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there once was a fab user called glitter kitten,

she met a man who had become very smitten,

He wrote her a poem entirely with passion and flair,

She loved his detail on her lovely hair

Her panties moistened as she read,

then she realized she wasnt even a redhead!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Poems, engagement rings (yes..I have heard of people recyling engagement rings from the ex too!), SEX TOYS (!) and anything of such a private nature, completely loses all meaning when you recycle it! I just wouldn't dream of it! But maybe I am just old fashioned!

Sex toys?

Hahahahhahah.

I love this thread.

Lol...oh yes...maybe slightly off topic but I have had a man dig out a bunch of sex toys he used to use on his ex...with the foolish belief that I wouldn't object to a little dildo recycling! TAXI!!!!!

my ex lent our friends my dildo and seriously thought I would want it back. *mouth vomit* he also wrote me a poem when he realised he was going to become my ex. That's probably why I don't like soppy poetry. Tear up the poem and find someone who treats you like the unique woman you are "

Awww you are sweet but I am not in a relationship with this man. He just likes me a lot and sent me the poem saying it was for me but he later admitted it wasnt exactly original! I told him I dont think that's very nice but he doesnt seem to understand why. So I thought maybe I am being too sensitive? Too harsh? That was the reason for my post. I am not a broken hearted woman! Dont worry! Just interested in others views on different situations we find ourselves in life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there once was a fab user called glitter kitten,

she met a man who had become very smitten,

He wrote her a poem entirely with passion and flair,

She loved his detail on her lovely hair

Her panties moistened as she read,

then she realized she wasnt even a redhead!"

Nutter! Lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're not insensitive or harsh. He's a dick

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