FabSwingers.com forum: Family pics and work training

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have just received the paperwork for a restraint training course I have to do for work. I have done the course about 3 times already with other companies and never before been asked to take in a picture of a family member for a photo share activity. I do not want to do this as I don't see what a picture of my family member has to do with restraint training.

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ?

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By *D40Couple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"I have just received the paperwork for a restraint training course I have to do for work. I have done the course about 3 times already with other companies and never before been asked to take in a picture of a family member for a photo share activity. I do not want to do this as I don't see what a picture of my family member has to do with restraint training.

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ? "

How very odd. I don't like the sound of that at all

Julie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No way,that is a puzzling,and concerning request,wouldn't do it myself,would be asking further up the food chain 'wtf' that about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd take in a photo of the Muppets.

Cali

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

How very odd. I don't like the sound of that at all

Julie x"

Why ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd take in a photo of the Muppets.

Cali"

I am tempted to take a pic of my mums dog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the dog is a member of Our family

Probably!y trying to have some kind of team building quiz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ? "

No I wouldn't.

I take great pleasure in resisting icebreaker type activities and even greater pleasure in refusing to take part in all forms of role play.

I'd be happy to be restrained however..

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Take mine Aunty Deb

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

What a strange request....

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have never done that as an ice-breaker activity for people. I sometimes make people choose a picture as they walk in but I wouldn't ask them to expose their family.

The ice-breaker might be to make you think about how you would restrain that particular family member and how you would want others to restrain him/her if restraint became necessary. That would put you all in the realm of "these are real people with families, treat them with respect and dignity" before the course goes into full flow.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Take a pic of me. After that anything you do or say, no matter how odd, will just be met by nods and smiles and understanding.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

They probably want a family member pic, so you are not tempted to sit on their face to restrain them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tying up your family is just plain wrong!!!

That should be kept solely for meets.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Tying up your family is just plain wrong!!!

That should be kept solely for meets.

Bad man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tying up your family is just plain wrong!!!

That should be kept solely for meets.

Bad man!"

Moi??

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Tying up your family is just plain wrong!!!

That should be kept solely for meets.

Bad man!

Moi??

Don't you pull that butter wouldn't melt look. You're not too big for me to have you over my knees.

Ok, maybe you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They probably want a family member pic, so you are not tempted to sit on their face to restrain them.

Oi cheeky fooker

I'm liking the idea of taking yours or Tina's in though

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I have the feeling that Lickety is on the right track with you having to consider the dignity and safety of the person you're restraining insofar as the trainer might be asking you 'what if it were your child/partner' type of question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it. State you are merely maintaining a work / life balance.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"They probably want a family member pic, so you are not tempted to sit on their face to restrain them.

Oi cheeky fooker

I'm liking the idea of taking yours or Tina's in though

Could we get a composite of Tina and Ryan in a wedding day picture, age it and you can say it's your parents on their wedding day?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ? "

I can't see why they would require you to take a family picture in? Strange....

I would take a picture of one of my pets but not of my family

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"They probably want a family member pic, so you are not tempted to sit on their face to restrain them.

Oi cheeky fooker

I'm liking the idea of taking yours or Tina's in though

Could we get a composite of Tina and Ryan in a wedding day picture, age it and you can say it's your parents on their wedding day?

Omg what a fantastic idea , Ryan Tina

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have the feeling that Lickety is on the right track with you having to consider the dignity and safety of the person you're restraining insofar as the trainer might be asking you 'what if it were your child/partner' type of question. "

I do get what you both mean but still won't be doing it

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath

"Take a pic of me. After that anything you do or say, no matter how odd, will just be met by nods and smiles and understanding.

Great idea

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I do get what you both mean but still won't be doing it

As a compromise, could you take an old/unrecognisable picture of yourself along?? People might assume it was a younger sister and so avoid you having to go through an open challenge?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do get what you both mean but still won't be doing it

As a compromise, could you take an old/unrecognisable picture of yourself along?? People might assume it was a younger sister and so avoid you having to go through an open challenge?"

I'm going to take a pic of a stranger off the net and pass them off as my sister that I don't have

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Take in one of Tina as your sister with big assets and ask ' how the bloody hell would I do a full body wrap on her?'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to do this training for the millionth time again in a couple of weeks as I have changed my job ........... I am just gonna flatten em ....... they stop resisting after a while

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have to do this training for the millionth time again in a couple of weeks as I have changed my job ........... I am just gonna flatten em ....... they stop resisting after a while

My cock needs restraining....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Take a pic of me. After that anything you do or say, no matter how odd, will just be met by nods and smiles and understanding.

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, we all have pics on our phones, screensaver's and usually can't wait to bore people with our holiday snaps. As soon as we are asked to provide a photo for some reason we get all defensive...

What are you worried about, that there may be a sexual deviant in the room.....?

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By *atelotmanMan
over a year ago

Chatham

I can not understand the need of a photo of a member of your family.I have trained in both PCC an C an R. In all the years of refresher courses have never been ask to produce anything but myself in person.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

I'd take a picture of a famous celeb I fancied. Then when I get "bored" in the course I'd get to perv at him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

buy a photo frame that has one of those standard pieces of printed photos in it, then give them that and say its your family

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Honestly, we all have pics on our phones, screensaver's and usually can't wait to bore people with our holiday snaps. As soon as we are asked to provide a photo for some reason we get all defensive...

What are you worried about, that there may be a sexual deviant in the room.....?

Yep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ? "

Have done loads of restraint training, C&R, MPI, Team Teach etc and have never come across this.

What was the justification behind the photo share session?

Find this very odd

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ?

Have done loads of restraint training, C&R, MPI, Team Teach etc and have never come across this.

What was the justification behind the photo share session?

Find this very odd"

The paperwork just says for a photo share activity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to do this training for the millionth time again in a couple of weeks as I have changed my job ........... I am just gonna flatten em ....... they stop resisting after a while

My cock needs restraining....

u owe me a screen now

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

"buy a photo frame that has one of those standard pieces of printed photos in it, then give them that and say its your family"

Didn't Phoebe in Friends think her Dad was one of these????

Greta idea, they may never know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I have to do this training for the millionth time again in a couple of weeks as I have changed my job ........... I am just gonna flatten em ....... they stop resisting after a while

My cock needs restraining....

u owe me a screen now

Ice-screen?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can not understand the need of a photo of a member of your family.I have trained in both PCC an C an R. In all the years of refresher courses have never been ask to produce anything but myself in person."

Perhaps the person running the course realises that people have to attend regularly (as is obvious from other peoples posts) and so is trying something different. Stop being difficult and take in a bloody photo.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fook right off I'm a stubborn bitch and am not sharing my family pics with a bunch of strangers that I will never meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to do this training for the millionth time again in a couple of weeks as I have changed my job ........... I am just gonna flatten em ....... they stop resisting after a while

My cock needs restraining....

u owe me a screen now

Ice-screen? "

yeah a coffee one lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"They probably want a family member pic, so you are not tempted to sit on their face to restrain them.

Oi cheeky fooker

I'm liking the idea of taking yours or Tina's in though

Could we get a composite of Tina and Ryan in a wedding day picture, age it and you can say it's your parents on their wedding day?

Omg what a fantastic idea , Ryan Tina

Well obviously, you would have to age it considerably. We are both very youthful in our looks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fook right off I'm a stubborn bitch and am not sharing my family pics with a bunch of strangers that I will never meet again

Are you worried that other people in the room won't believe that the attractive people in the pics are related to you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fook right off I'm a stubborn bitch and am not sharing my family pics with a bunch of strangers that I will never meet again

Are you worried that other people in the room won't believe that the attractive people in the pics are related to you

, isn't it about time you became UNLOS again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you do it or not and what reasons for either doing it or not do you have ? "

do you need a volunteer to restraint i know its a dirty job however i will take one for the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was told as part of my dementia training i needed to bring in photo's of family and objects which meant sommething to me. was also told to prepare to open up about my emotions as it was group therapy

i refused to do it, if i wanted counseling id go for it privately, who i choose to open up to about my past is MY choice.. i never chose directly to work with the colleagues,, we were all selected to do a job.

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