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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I allowed a Thursday rant?

My lodger's pissed up, angry boyfriend made an appearance at 11.30 last night hammering on the door and generally being a twat after they had had an argument. Cue me being awake the majority of the night waiting to see if he came back.

So I'm really bloody tired (currently being fuelled by a huge coffee!) and its supposed to be Prosecco Thursday at my house but I'm going to have to have a rather awkward conversation with my lodger about said pissed up, angry boyfriend over Prosecco. (grrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather you then me R Ive had those situations in the past.I bet your stomach is all knotted up as well and you have been on tenders hooks all day.Am I right.??

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Look up pics of Medieval sieges - you may find the bits involving boiling oil being poured over unwelcome people at the door rather inspiring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rather you then me R Ive had those situations in the past.I bet your stomach is all knotted up as well and you have been on tenders hooks all day.Am I right.??"

Yep you're absolutely right. I hate confrontation and I know it wasn't her fault but she is responsible for her guests. Very very stressed.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Stop stressing just say that this can't go on and to keep their shit away from the house...you can't stress and worry about everyone ruby

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

Brigadoon

"Rather you then me R Ive had those situations in the past.I bet your stomach is all knotted up as well and you have been on tenders hooks all day.Am I right.??

Yep you're absolutely right. I hate confrontation and I know it wasn't her fault but she is responsible for her guests. Very very stressed. "

If its not her fault what's the point having a conversation about it. Most people experience a wanker of a partner at some point in their lives, be understanding and let it go for both your sakes. That is unless it happens repeatedly in which case you might need a new lodger.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Look up pics of Medieval sieges - you may find the bits involving boiling oil being poured over unwelcome people at the door rather inspiring

haha Thanks Tina!! I will consider that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

She's probably embarrassed and not looking forward to the conversation either. But you have to tell her it can't happen again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope by this time tomorrow R you have calmed down and the stomach has relaxed.The problem is I find they will be all lovey-dovey again and you are left with upset and no sleep.Lovers who'd have them.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I hope by this time tomorrow R you have calmed down and the stomach has relaxed.The problem is I find they will be all lovey-dovey again and you are left with upset and no sleep.Lovers who'd have them."

I used to work with a pain in the neck like that. On some days she'd spend half her time on the phone hissing bloodcurdling threats down the line, then next day would appear with a shed load of love bites

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" But you have to tell her it can't happen again. "

I have lovely neighbours, I really don't want to cause problems with them because of him. Its not going to be a pleasant evening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it carries on you must tell the police or get a restraining order put on him.But there again its up to her to do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's for her to do. I will be really really hacked off if she stays with him. But I won't be saying anything in terms of that, its not my place to.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

" But you have to tell her it can't happen again.

I have lovely neighbours, I really don't want to cause problems with them because of him. Its not going to be a pleasant evening.

It will be a pleasant evening.....you just have to say that you understand this time but if it happens again you won't be happy....im sure she has given him a bollocking over it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats the thing, especially with younger ladies.

its the whole 'i can fix him' mentality

'he is lovely when not drinking'

well ok, thats fine, so stop him drinking

and seeings as that probably aint gonna happen, then she needs to sort her shit out and not bring it to your doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"thats the thing, especially with younger ladies.

its the whole 'i can fix him' mentality

'he is lovely when not drinking'

well ok, thats fine, so stop him drinking

and seeings as that probably aint gonna happen, then she needs to sort her shit out and not bring it to your doorstep."

Hopefully she sees sense and files him under b for bin.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

" But you have to tell her it can't happen again.

I have lovely neighbours, I really don't want to cause problems with them because of him. Its not going to be a pleasant evening.

It will be a pleasant evening.....you just have to say that you understand this time but if it happens again you won't be happy....im sure she has given him a bollocking over it..."

I still think crenulations and murder holes are a lot less trouble

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" But you have to tell her it can't happen again.

I have lovely neighbours, I really don't want to cause problems with them because of him. Its not going to be a pleasant evening.

It will be a pleasant evening.....you just have to say that you understand this time but if it happens again you won't be happy....im sure she has given him a bollocking over it...

I still think crenulations and murder holes are a lot less trouble

What about castration?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sadly things have got worse throughout the day. More threats have been made, so we have had the police round and a report has been made.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

If you need any advice pm me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sadly things have got worse throughout the day. More threats have been made, so we have had the police round and a report has been made. "

The police are good. They'll sort it.

Hugs to you both. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe hes found out hes girlfriend is on fab

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Maybe hes found out hes girlfriend is on fab

She ain't on fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe hes found out hes girlfriend is on fab

She isn't on fab...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe hes found out hes girlfriend is on fab

If you are referring to me being in a relationship, he is on here and knows I am too!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Sadly things have got worse throughout the day. More threats have been made, so we have had the police round and a report has been made. "

Then maybe this isn't the place to discuss it now.

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