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By *an and wifey OP   Couple
over a year ago

n lincs

Noticing a lot of local status updates of mainly single guys complaining of no genuine people on here pmsl

Well we seem to meet plenty ish for a shy couple lol

And I notice people mainly couples we look at are all meeting judging by their veris. So is it just the single guys sulking I find these status's a turn off

Any one else see this a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people sneering at other people's misfortune is much more distasteful and childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think people sneering at other people's misfortune is much more distasteful and childish. "

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Moaning status updates are not exclusive to single men. Seen loads of couples and single women moaning about other people on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oddly enough I have seen a single male's status moaning about there being no genuine women on here yet this is the same man I had 3 meets arranged with who couldn't seem to manage to attend any of them

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham


"Moaning status updates are not exclusive to single men. Seen loads of couples and single women moaning about other people on the site."

I wouldn't like to comment in terms of statistics but it is inevitable with statuses there will be moaning ones as will there be happy ones, funny ones and serious ones. I don't think it is endemic to your region OP and it certainly isn't exclusive to single guys either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I see a lot of moaning on my update page I just ignore but there were a couple of men who were constantly putting people down and being very rude and name calling so I just blocked them. Saved me having to read them plus I was very tempted to send a rude answer to one when he called local women ugly pigs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oddly enough I have seen a single male's status moaning about there being no genuine women on here yet this is the same man I had 3 meets arranged with who couldn't seem to manage to attend any of them "

Clearly the man's a fool!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I see a lot of moaning on my update page I just ignore but there were a couple of men who were constantly putting people down and being very rude and name calling so I just blocked them. Saved me having to read them plus I was very tempted to send a rude answer to one when he called local women ugly pigs "

It's obvious his attitude will be working great at getting him meets.

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By *an and wifey OP   Couple
over a year ago

n lincs

Not sure about the sneering bit just commenting but I see some people can be uptight on here. Try to smile. Inhale. Exhale and smile again. You might feel a little better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure about the sneering bit just commenting but I see some people can be uptight on here. Try to smile. Inhale. Exhale and smile again. You might feel a little better "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit I've blocked a few people for the way they complain they can't get a meet on here. Alot of the time its just insulting every person within 50 mile!

We struggle to get meets with other couples. We know the reasons why but that's life! I grew out of having tantrums when I couldn't get what I wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly since 2010 the sites got worse in my opinion however after braving the club scene I say it's far safer and what you see is what you get no time wasters friendly banter and even fun new year new style x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The sheer volumes will mean there's usually more moans from single guys.

But I'm seeing daily plenty of similar complaints from couples - usually about being stood up by single guys (odd, since they're all moaning they can't get meets!), as well as plenty of whining updates from single women (although having browsed the profiles I often suspect they're sat at home scratching their balls!)

Many guys don't help themselves in the way they act and communicate, and when letting the horn rule the head are prone to getting sucked in by fake profiles. Many couples are actually as guilty - and those chasing the single females on site will always find things trickier due to numbers (and again, often get duped by fakes).

The simple facts of life on an internet 'contact site' are that it takes careful planning and common sense to ensure all goes to plan. If more people used a common sense filter and were more realistic in their expectations of what the site can do for them, then there'd be a hell of a lot less moans in status updates and the forums!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I have a policy of replying to every message and it can lead to getting the whingey, whiney "why is everyone so rude on here" after I've said no thanks.

It seems that since I'm the only reply they've had today (or possibly this week) then I get all the grumbles. They obviously don't realise how unattractive it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sadly since 2010 the sites got worse in my opinion however after braving the club scene I say it's far safer and what you see is what you get no time wasters friendly banter and even fun new year new style x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lov this site its facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The sheer volumes will mean there's usually more moans from single guys.

But I'm seeing daily plenty of similar complaints from couples - usually about being stood up by single guys (odd, since they're all moaning they can't get meets!), as well as plenty of whining updates from single women (although having browsed the profiles I often suspect they're sat at home scratching their balls!)

Many guys don't help themselves in the way they act and communicate, and when letting the horn rule the head are prone to getting sucked in by fake profiles. Many couples are actually as guilty - and those chasing the single females on site will always find things trickier due to numbers (and again, often get duped by fakes).

The simple facts of life on an internet 'contact site' are that it takes careful planning and common sense to ensure all goes to plan. If more people used a common sense filter and were more realistic in their expectations of what the site can do for them, then there'd be a hell of a lot less moans in status updates and the forums! "

Well said!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any couples in.lmao!!

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