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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Ok so just wondering how many of you gorgeous women on here send the first message? Or do you all get so many you don't need to ? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so just wondering how many of you gorgeous women on here send the first message? Or do you all get so many you don't need to ? Xxx"

I'm not gorgeous but I'll answer anyway. I have only ever sent a couple of messages first as never really look for meets etc and do get a few messages and have people I talk to.

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Well you've got a lovely body babe not surprised you get plenty of messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not gorgeous either, and I never send out first messages. Not confident enough to do that. I'll probably get criticised by the usuall Forum mob but it's my profile, my confidence issues and I can use this site how I want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you've got a lovely body babe not surprised you get plenty of messages x"

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not gorgeous either, and I never send out first messages. Not confident enough to do that. I'll probably get criticised by the usuall Forum mob but it's my profile, my confidence issues and I can use this site how I want."

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool

No critique here babe all you can do is be your own person xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!! "
wow

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London

Am not gorgeous. New here , i do have a look. Sent a few messages but i think people are turned off as i am new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not gorgeous but If I see a profile that catches my eye I will send a cheeky wink or a brief message

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"Am not gorgeous. New here , i do have a look. Sent a few messages but i think people are turned off as i am new. "
can't see why to be honest xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!! "

Awww you broke him with your tongue

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"Not gorgeous but If I see a profile that catches my eye I will send a cheeky wink or a brief message "
wow all you women looking sexy as fuck and not one of you think your gorgeous pitty your all so far away x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not gorgeous but If I see a profile that catches my eye I will send a cheeky wink or a brief message wow all you women looking sexy as fuck and not one of you think your gorgeous pitty your all so far away x"

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

I have no issue sending the first message .If a guy catches my interest ill mail them and say so . Always nice to compliment a profile or pictures .

One of my long standing friends came from a thread on forum. I commented on his picture and private messaged him and it went from there !!!!

I find it refreshing to take the incentive and mail a guy .sometimes I get a reply ,sometimes not .But a lot of fun looking at the delish profiles looking for a guy who matches what im looking for . In fact quite a turn on at times .... well till I get cock pic over load lol x

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I have made first contact a few times, but only in response to a amusing status or comment on the forums. I don't look for meets from here as I only play in clubs.

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"I have no issue sending the first message .If a guy catches my interest ill mail them and say so . Always nice to compliment a profile or pictures .

One of my long standing friends came from a thread on forum. I commented on his picture and private messaged him and it went from there !!!!

I find it refreshing to take the incentive and mail a guy .sometimes I get a reply ,sometimes not .But a lot of fun looking at the delish profiles looking for a guy who matches what im looking for . In fact quite a turn on at times .... well till I get cock pic over load lol x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!

Awww you broke him with your tongue "

Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!

Awww you broke him with your tongue

Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship. "

Well I guess at least he was being honest and didn't want to string you along or let you down at the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!

Awww you broke him with your tongue

Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship.

Well I guess at least he was being honest and didn't want to string you along or let you down at the last minute."

Fair point and I am glad he did so. Still disappointing though.

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By *onkers 76 OP   Man
over a year ago

pontypool


"I do and recently got a guy saying that because of my message he realized he does not want to swing anymore!!!

Awww you broke him with your tongue

Not really, I suggested naughty NSA, he said, yes, that would be great I have been following you in the forum as well. Then came back to say actually swinging is not for me, I want a relationship.

Well I guess at least he was being honest and didn't want to string you along or let you down at the last minute.

Fair point and I am glad he did so. Still disappointing though. "
cant believe he didn't just go for it first xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've send the first message a couple of times .. If you don't ask you don't get

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I'm not gorgeous or a single women but I am going to answer anyway...

Yes we have and do make first contact with couples and singles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few times but tend to avoid it now after a few strops. Apparently me making the first contact means I'm definitely going to meet them, even if after chatting I decide they're not for me.

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London


"Am not gorgeous. New here , i do have a look. Sent a few messages but i think people are turned off as i am new. can't see why to be honest xx"

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By *eedelightsWoman
over a year ago

London


"Am not gorgeous. New here , i do have a look. Sent a few messages but i think people are turned off as i am new. can't see why to be honest xx"
thank you! I will send a few more messages! Wish me luck

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I quite often message first. Not so much lately because I'm not really in the mood for meets right now, but when I'm looking, I look actively.

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