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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread will go down well

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol "
this site is open to all persuasions of sexuality surely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I think a lot of bi amd gay men are on both....they must get fun on both I am guessing

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"This thread will go down well "

You didn't read that out loud before posting did you... or did you?

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

Maybe there are lots of gay and ts/tv *swingers*... (don't forget who this site is for, it doesn't say straight swingers only)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i also agree with norhyorkys.....thats why there is a part where you can put down your sexual persuasion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's all sorts of genders, occupations, marital status, sexualities, cultures and types of people. I guess they find what they want ?

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By *ewlywedloversCouple
over a year ago

Lancs/ greater manchester

And block messages from the people you don't want to meet? That would be the easier option in my eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a sex site. Variety is good for most people. And some like to include a tv/cd in their swinging experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear, is this just for straight swingers with no kinks

That's most of us gone then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol "

Swinging to many is an inclusive not exclusive life style.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As bi male like to meet females as well as male. Won't get the chance if I only use gay sites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets "

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

http://www.fabswingers.com/my/filters

This could be a good time to mention filters

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?"

No..... I like single males..... when they don't think I'm their girlfriend anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe cos they have as much right to be on here as you. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?"

What so now single males can't swing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol "

and I assume - as I have found that most of the fabs you get are from the same direction.

Despite my profile stating str8 I also get guys asking to suck my cock. If I decline (politely) they then "promise not to tell". How on earth does that work??

But yes very definately they should still be on this site too - its for ALL swingers

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh


"Oh dear, is this just for straight swingers with no kinks

That's most of us gone then "

uh oh...

Agree, surely the more inclusive sites are the better? You're not forced to reply/meet ...

Ruby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Male below the age of 58 1/2 should be excluded i reckon

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

What so now single males can't swing ?"

That's a whole different thread But I would have thought that the flippant nature of the comment may have given a clue that it was more aimed at the OP who wants to dictate who should and shouldn't be on the site than a serious comment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a free world (and a free site!) Apply message filters and its not an issue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

What so now single males can't swing ?

That's a whole different thread But I would have thought that the flippant nature of the comment may have given a clue that it was more aimed at the OP who wants to dictate who should and shouldn't be on the site than a serious comment."

In that case please accept my appolagies

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

OP: you forgot to mention bi men. I bet you get so many desperate to shag you.

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

Personally I am fed up with ugly people messaging me, perhaps we should mark their profiles in some way?

(please see the tongue in my cheek!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Variety is the Spice' and all that.

Filters are a wonderful feature on the site, if used correctly they make this kind of thread redundant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I am fed up with ugly people messaging me, perhaps we should mark their profiles in some way?

(please see the tongue in my cheek!)"

Bloody cheek, you can go off people ya'know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they added a filter for bisexuals the the forum threads would be halved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol "

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This again....

Use your filters and delete and block anyone you're not interested in who messages you and stop moaning!!!

I don't meet men over 40, I have no filters active as I chat to many outside my preferences. If I get 100 messages in a day, you can bet about half will be from single men over 40! If I reply, I simply say no thanks (usually followed by a witty remark about reading people's profiles) or delete and/or block and move on!

As for gay/bi men and TVs/TSs, the more the merrier I think! If as a bi woman, I'm welcome here, why on earth shouldn't they be?!

and.....breathe.........

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

to look at the lovely cocks on display

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets "

I'll get me coat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

"

Define Swinging ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 12/01/14 11:37:58]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

"

What do you define as a swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

What do you define as a swinger?"
cpls who fuck other cpls unless some one else can define it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

What so now single males can't swing ?"

Get rid of all the married males wld b a better option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas "

I bet on that basis you have a very high success rate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

"

I just don't get this....why concern yourselves with what others are doing? Ignore them and concentrate on enjoying what YOU do!

There's thousands of people on here I wouldn't be interested in meeting for fun (including gay guys), doesn't mean they shouldn't be on the site!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

What do you define as a swinger? cpls who fuck other cpls unless some one else can define it"

So what are couples like us called who meet a single guy or guys ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

What so now single males can't swing ?

Get rid of all the married males wld b a better option "
what about the married women?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

What do you define as a swinger? cpls who fuck other cpls unless some one else can define it

So what are couples like us called who meet a single guy or guys ?"
not sure what name they give us, like u we r the same lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

What do you define as a swinger? cpls who fuck other cpls unless some one else can define it

So what are couples like us called who meet a single guy or guys ?"

Lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?"

Why the hatred for single guys? Your the only couple that is allways on there case. Just remember your fella used to be a single guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Widening participation OP. Shame on you. We all have our preferences here and because of the diverse nature of this site I've had the opportunity of talking to people I wouldn't necessarily meet, but have been interesting and friendly. It's a great big melting pot and I like it just as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

Why the hatred for single guys? Your the only couple that is allways on there case. Just remember your fella used to be a single guy "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/01/14 11:37:58]"

I'm guessing you read the rest of the thread after posting that

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas "

How can you have sex with a straight guy? If any guy does a sex act on another guy he aint straight. Sorry to tell you but your never have sex with a straight guy. Maybe a bi guy. Guess thats fucked your fantasy up about turning a straight man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with op it's a swingers site I wouldn't join a gay site,I think 40% of people on here are not even swingers

What do you define as a swinger? cpls who fuck other cpls unless some one else can define it

So what are couples like us called who meet a single guy or guys ? not sure what name they give us, like u we r the same lol"

Oh hmm well sometimes we meet couples so we are part time swingers. But we need a name for meeting singles. I'm off to do some ironing, I'll give it some thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas

How can you have sex with a straight guy? If any guy does a sex act on another guy he aint straight. Sorry to tell you but your never have sex with a straight guy. Maybe a bi guy. Guess thats fucked your fantasy up about turning a straight man "

But fantasies don't have to be true....that's why they're fantasies....it's all in the mind!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 12/01/14 11:37:58]

I'm guessing you read the rest of the thread after posting that

crystal"

nah its back up. Glad you really takw notice lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas

How can you have sex with a straight guy? If any guy does a sex act on another guy he aint straight. Sorry to tell you but your never have sex with a straight guy. Maybe a bi guy. Guess thats fucked your fantasy up about turning a straight man

But fantasies don't have to be true....that's why they're fantasies....it's all in the mind!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas

How can you have sex with a straight guy? If any guy does a sex act on another guy he aint straight. Sorry to tell you but your never have sex with a straight guy. Maybe a bi guy. Guess thats fucked your fantasy up about turning a straight man

But fantasies don't have to be true....that's why they're fantasies....it's all in the mind! "

Some people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could anybody offer any insight as to why there are so many gay, tv/ts on this site when there is a separate site for that community? I get lots of requests from gay, tv/ts probable more so than genuine ladies/couples! I'm wondering if I register on a gay website would I become inundated with requests from single ladies and couples....lol

I have chosen to be on this site, because I fancy sex with married and straight men,

It is a major fantasy of many gay men to find a strong straight man, who can and has fathered children, The problem is when a gay man finds a strong, virile straight man, and has sex with him, the fantasy is shattered, because the straight man, is then flawed and becomes just another gay guy.

this site is idea for the search, so many men, so few available women, for a horny straight guy, with full balls any hole is a goal, so here we are fellas

How can you have sex with a straight guy? If any guy does a sex act on another guy he aint straight. Sorry to tell you but your never have sex with a straight guy. Maybe a bi guy. Guess thats fucked your fantasy up about turning a straight man "

Well untill a sex act is preformed then he is a straight man so it is possible to turn a straight man

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

This isn't and exclusive man meets woman site, its a man/woman meets anyone they fooking well want to meet

We all like different things and we are all here because it allows us to step outside the box when it comes to sexual freedom

Vive le Difference!!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

Why the hatred for single guys? Your the only couple that is allways on there case. Just remember your fella used to be a single guy "

I know it is hard sometimes to tell whats tongue in cheek or not, but in this case I think the comment was

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Right that's it all you gays tv/ts get over there apparently your not supposed to be here you got your own ya greedy nuggets

Can't we keep them and get rid of the single males instead?

What so now single males can't swing ?

Get rid of all the married males wld b a better option "

What's wrong with married males?

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