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By *or Fox Sake OP   Couple
over a year ago

Thornaby

Would you take one?

Would you give one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and No

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope and nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would give one . I am a sucker for a sob story

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If Tom Hardy and Ryan Reynolds wanted to give me a sympathy 3some......... fucking hell yes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no.

Taking and giving for the sake of a shag.

My vibrator only gets a sympathy shag

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they were good actors, and could roll around screaming "your the best I've ever had", in between moments where they pause with empathy asking " I hope you feel ok about not getting your fab messages not replied to by all those people".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely not!

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

depends on how hot they were

Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even my left hand wont give me a Sympathy Shag...Bastard

Gary

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"I would give one . I am a sucker for a sob story "

same here why spite my self a shag is a shag .

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

West Yorkshire


"I would give one . I am a sucker for a sob story

same here why spite my self a shag is a shag . "

Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll use my best puppy eye look

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod

over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yeah, ask them to put on my Liam Nesson face mask, find the orifice and happy days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No and no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take one?

Would you give one?"

I wouldn't take one, but have given a few . When I was dating I would say your a really nice girl but it won't go anywhere . I will let you have a shag and we can call it a day. It's surprising how many girls take that up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how would you know, i might if they were something special.

i have felt sorry for people in the past but not so much these day, i have learnt my lesson.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No & no !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?"
someone that feels they can't get one lol

Nette

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By *RYBBWCouple
over a year ago

Leeds.

Must be so difficult for all you perfect people.....

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

No

No

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Would you take one?

Would you give one?"

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex? someone that feels they can't get one lol

Nette"

How do we badge that up as sympathy sex though? Isn't it just sex?

Surely people wouldn't have sex unless they wanted to, even if it's sex for the sake of sex.

What makes it sympathy sex? I must be missing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex? someone that feels they can't get one lol

Nette

How do we badge that up as sympathy sex though? Isn't it just sex?

Surely people wouldn't have sex unless they wanted to, even if it's sex for the sake of sex. Sex is wanting to yes? Not really to give in pity, or take for the sake of it

What makes it sympathy sex? I must be missing something.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?"

If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Must be so difficult for all you perfect people....."

We are not all perfect we all have our flaws but I certainly would not sleep with someone because I was not attracted to them and only was doing it because I did not have the heart to say no...it's about self worth and I I like to keep mine intact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Must be so difficult for all you perfect people.....

We are not all perfect we all have our flaws but I certainly would not sleep with someone because I was not attracted to them and only was doing it because I did not have the heart to say no...it's about self worth and I I like to keep mine intact "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would how horny you are be a factor??

I don't know if I've ever been pity fucked (I don't even want to know haha)

Thinking about I may of given one without realising, because I blinded by my penis' wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?

If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway."

But if you didn't want to on some level then surely you wouldn't, would you?

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

It depends how nice a person they are (personality not looks), to simply say no ain't always that easy.

We have met some beautiful people in our time & after 5 mins in their company we don't even want to share the same house let alone the same bed with them.

Trophy's are what some people want & collect but we would rather meet genuine friendly people with great personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you take one? No

Would you give one? No"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?

If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway.

But if you didn't want to on some level then surely you wouldn't, would you?"

yes some people have done maybe not you though.

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

no and no lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I first joined Fab I met up with a couple that had travelled quite a distance to meet me, I was a bit unsure when we first met whether or not I found them attractive then we went for something to eat and I realised if I played with them it would be because I felt obliged to. So when he clapped his hands together and said " right back to the hotel to play" I said no. His face fell, I thought she was going to burst into tears but I am not here for everyone's amusement and had they of used up to date photos I wouldn't of met them in the first instance!

So a very long winded no!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I first joined Fab I met up with a couple that had travelled quite a distance to meet me, I was a bit unsure when we first met whether or not I found them attractive then we went for something to eat and I realised if I played with them it would be because I felt obliged to. So when he clapped his hands together and said " right back to the hotel to play" I said no. His face fell, I thought she was going to burst into tears but I am not here for everyone's amusement and had they of used up to date photos I wouldn't of met them in the first instance!

So a very long winded no!!!"

Hahaa wish I was there for that! But you done good though gotta be real.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gave two, never again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont think its something many people like to admit, maybe.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands


"I don't fully understand what sympathy sex is. How does it get as far as sex?

If someone keeps messaging you who you dont realy like but you feels sorry for them so you say yes. or they turn up and you dont like them but you dont like to say so, they could feel the same about you too. lot of the time people i have felt sorry for werent nice people anyway."

If someone keeps messaging me, I block them

If I meet someone and the connection/attraction isn't there then I will simply say so, in a calm polite manner. Neither of these scenarios lead to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It depends how nice a person they are (personality not looks), to simply say no ain't always that easy.

We have met some beautiful people in our time & after 5 mins in their company we don't even want to share the same house let alone the same bed with them.

Trophy's are what some people want & collect but we would rather meet genuine friendly people with great personalities. "

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I have in the past given one or two sympathy shags and they didn't turn out bad...as to whether I've been a sympathy shag, I've no idea (nor do I particularly care). I won't say that I'd never give another, but I am pretty good now at saying no tactfully (I combine it with retching noises, works a treat)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and yes gave the wife one last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and yes gave the wife one last night "

you cheeky boy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not only do i get sympathy sex

i get sympathy cuddles

sympathy cups of tea

and sympathy dinner cooked for me.

i love this woman of mine lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes yes from me, shags a shag, oh and my great great great great granny died on Christmas Day and I could really do with some sympathy right now........any offers lol

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

Most definitely not !!!

Previously I would go on socials where I guess they were a bit of a give them the benefit of the doubt meets ... and without exception they have always been a no ... has learnt me to trust my gut instincts ... I'm not desperate for a man's company ... and it makes the very good ones even more enjoyable !!!

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