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Is brainy the new sexy?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is it? For me it's a huge turn on when somebody is not only gorgeous looking but super brainy as well. Take Brian Cox - mmmmmmmm! Don't mind if I do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If brainy is the new sexy, what is the new brainy???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexybrain will be glad lol

But for me ive always been attracted to knowledgable men.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Then you are sapiosexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer being brainy & sexy

I have friends that well... They're just brainy....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spock was my first and enduring love, I've always like brainy. I could listen to Prof Cox all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am beginning to find that being the double of George Clooney and having an IQ of 666 is a burden, perfection comes at a price

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest sex organ is the brain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The biggest sex organ is the brain "

I'd say the most important...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a decent conversation much more pleasurable to a post coital cigarette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an intelligent intellectual mmmmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i like inteligent men who dont talk stupid, my favourate types of men on the telly are gardeners and wildlife presenters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If thats what the fab ladies are looking for in a guy i expect to see more moaning posts about lack of meets soon then

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Its nice to be able to have a good conversation with my meets, but some don't last long enough to.

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land

I'm so very glad I tick both boxes !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find a decent conversation much more pleasurable to a post coital cigarette "

Much better , although I don't smoke anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm doing the Times crossword

Are you wet yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer intelligent women as long as they aren't boorishly arrogant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they go hand in hand, i really find it hard to fancy someone unless I have had a good chat with them first. A witty spark does it for me every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not bothered about conversation, just dont like men who send messages like, will you fuck me now, or hows you.

just as an example.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope it is, heh. I love using my brain, I find it hard to switch it off.

By the way, what's with all these kids wearing clothes with 'geek' or 'nerd' on them? Jealous people used to call me a geek as an insult, though it was always a poor one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So is it? For me it's a huge turn on when somebody is not only gorgeous looking but super brainy as well. Take Brian Cox - mmmmmmmm! Don't mind if I do! "

It depends if they use their brains for good or evil purposes, would rather have a nice kind thick woman, than a clever manipulative one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like guys who can hold a conversation, who speak properly and with some degree of intelligence..

Im not some uber smart cookie and if a guy was waffling on about astro physics id probably want to bail... so its finding the balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i know a woman who is such a smart arse thinks she knows it all but she says the most stupidist things i cant believe my ears sometimes, shes a hairdresser and she comes from yorkshire.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brains and humour work for me.. Look.. Well Erm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am beginning to find that being the double of George Clooney and having an IQ of 666 is a burden, perfection comes at a price "

I totally understand what you say. I would be perfect if I was not so humble.

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

I fuckin hope not

Or im rightly screwed

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Brainy has always been sexy, there's nothing new about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im not that book smart but do like a woman that is

im more street smart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm definitely a sapiosexual (attracted to those who are intelligent)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fuckin hope not

Or im rightly screwed

"

I'm sure that's not true... It's all relative though...

I've generally had very positive comments regarding my profile, but have also received one or two messages telling me I was up my own arse by writing a novel.

I am, but me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm definitely a sapiosexual (attracted to those who are intelligent) "

What are you doing with me then?! xx

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare


"im not that book smart but do like a woman that is

im more street smart"

Westside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As they say in Devon: it's all relative

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im not that book smart but do like a woman that is

im more street smart

Westside "

aiiiht

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fuckin hope not

Or im rightly screwed

"

Bugger it me too

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Intellect and a mischievous sense of humour – now that does it for me every time……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it is, heh. I love using my brain, I find it hard to switch it off.

By the way, what's with all these kids wearing clothes with 'geek' or 'nerd' on them? Jealous people used to call me a geek as an insult, though it was always a poor one."

i've wondered that too, still yet to see a boff one though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If brainy is the new sexy, what is the new brainy??? "

It's sexy. They just swapped places for the purposes of this thread. Normal service will be resumed shortly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hope it is, heh. I love using my brain, I find it hard to switch it off.

By the way, what's with all these kids wearing clothes with 'geek' or 'nerd' on them? Jealous people used to call me a geek as an insult, though it was always a poor one."

think the geek and nerd thing are just fashion statements..

braces, bow ties, checked shirts, glasses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think they go hand in hand, i really find it hard to fancy someone unless I have had a good chat with them first. A witty spark does it for me every time. "

This is so true and the opposite also applies; someone who initially seems very attractive becomes less so if they aren't intelligent or humorous (at least for me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexybrain will be glad lol

But for me ive always been attracted to knowledgable men. "

Lol

Its generally understood that many of the things we find sexually attractive, hark back to our animal days where certain qualities bettered chances of survival, hence individuals who possessed these qualities were deemed to be the most eligible mates, it makes sense that intelligence would be deemed such a quality.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"The biggest sex organ is the brain "
yes indeed! Get the brain connection right... Rest just flowwwwssssss! Lol

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm definitely a sapiosexual (attracted to those who are intelligent)

What are you doing with me then?! xx"

Hey you, no self deprication allowed. Even if you were a little thick, I'd still luff ya!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's all relative. The most intelligent people I know aren't sexy at all - outside of their fields they're pretty dull and lacking in social skills, or so full of their own importance they wouldn't notice normal mortals anyway.

Then there are people who chat clever, are incredibly social, but if you scrape the surface they're lacking in depth and not so clever as you first think.

For a relationship it matters. For a shag, not quite so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it's all relative. The most intelligent people I know aren't sexy at all - outside of their fields they're pretty dull and lacking in social skills, or so full of their own importance they wouldn't notice normal mortals anyway.

Then there are people who chat clever, are incredibly social, but if you scrape the surface they're lacking in depth and not so clever as you first think.

For a relationship it matters. For a shag, not quite so much."

Its interesting that people typically only have so much mental energy to invest, some minds are good at channelling it all into a small field and become very specialised, but lack skills outside their area of knowledge, whereas others spread theirs thinly and can be very flexible and social as a result, but lack depth.

Ideally, I think most want someone with a balance of the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Jay is one of the most intelligent people I know, that was the main attraction, so god knows what he's doing with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm screwed then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm doing the Times crossword

Are you wet yet ? "

I will be after I've finished the Sudoku

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm brainy, I know lots about everything but nothing in depth

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I'm brainy, I know lots about everything but nothing in depth "

"I know more and more about less and less and pretty soon I shall know everything about nothing!"

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Intellect and a mischievous sense of humour – now that does it for me every time…… "

Exactly - there is a higher incidence of asbergers and other social/communication difficulties among the most intelligent, hence the 'geek' label. Highly intelligent people can be very dull too.

I agree what you need is that playful quick wit - that combined with intelligence can be thrilling, and I would say Brian Cox seems playful - the thinking woman's crumpet!

But some people who are not intellectual at all can have that quick wit too, and I enjoy their company far more than a geek.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Intellect and a mischievous sense of humour – now that does it for me every time……

Exactly - there is a higher incidence of asbergers and other social/communication difficulties among the most intelligent, hence the 'geek' label. Highly intelligent people can be very dull too.

I agree what you need is that playful quick wit - that combined with intelligence can be thrilling, and I would say Brian Cox seems playful - the thinking woman's crumpet!

But some people who are not intellectual at all can have that quick wit too, and I enjoy their company far more than a geek.

"

I easily get turned on by my OH just socially interacting with others, say in a pub. I think when you have that intellectual, dry quick wit it gives an air of confidence, especially if not used in a demeaning, smug way.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville


"Then you are sapiosexual. "

It's the way forward . We all need to use out brains more . Knowledge is power .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like inteligent men who dont talk stupid, my favourate types of men on the telly are gardeners and wildlife presenters."

You mean the ones who don't need to look at the camera and read the autocue??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i like inteligent men who dont talk stupid, my favourate types of men on the telly are gardeners and wildlife presenters.

You mean the ones who don't need to look at the camera and read the autocue??"

Dont know about that i just like them.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

I easily get turned on by my OH just socially interacting with others, say in a pub. I think when you have that intellectual, dry quick wit it gives an air of confidence, especially if not used in a demeaning, smug way."

Yes, I used to talk to a barrister and we had some wonderful verbal 'duels', that can be quite a turn on too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm definitely a sapiosexual (attracted to those who are intelligent) "

Thanks for including the definition for us thickos.

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By *uitar_antiheroMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Sorry, I was away solving the cosmological constant problem. Took me a few hours, but I got there.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"

I easily get turned on by my OH just socially interacting with others, say in a pub. I think when you have that intellectual, dry quick wit it gives an air of confidence, especially if not used in a demeaning, smug way.

Yes, I used to talk to a barrister and we had some wonderful verbal 'duels', that can be quite a turn on too."

The thrust and parry of orally orientated, sexual stimulation, mmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last thing you need or want is a brainy man, ideally you want a ruthless man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm going back to uni then

..all i need now is to find myself a sugar mummy who is willing to pay for my fees.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock


"I find a decent conversation much more pleasurable to a post coital cigarette

Much better , although I don't smoke anyways "

Depends how fast you do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going back to uni then

..all i need now is to find myself a sugar mummy who is willing to pay for my fees.

"

How much do you need ? big boi ?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"

I easily get turned on by my OH just socially interacting with others, say in a pub. I think when you have that intellectual, dry quick wit it gives an air of confidence, especially if not used in a demeaning, smug way.

Yes, I used to talk to a barrister and we had some wonderful verbal 'duels', that can be quite a turn on too.

The thrust and parry of orally orientated, sexual stimulation, mmmmmmmmm "

Especially if it turns into a bit of a heated debate - then you can have 'argument sex' haha! That never happened with him though, he chose the lady who sent him naked pictures on his phone...c'est la vie!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going back to uni then

..all i need now is to find myself a sugar mummy who is willing to pay for my fees.

How much do you need ? big boi ? "

Lots of socks please.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"

I easily get turned on by my OH just socially interacting with others, say in a pub. I think when you have that intellectual, dry quick wit it gives an air of confidence, especially if not used in a demeaning, smug way.

Yes, I used to talk to a barrister and we had some wonderful verbal 'duels', that can be quite a turn on too.

The thrust and parry of orally orientated, sexual stimulation, mmmmmmmmm

Especially if it turns into a bit of a heated debate - then you can have 'argument sex' haha! That never happened with him though, he chose the lady who sent him naked pictures on his phone...c'est la vie!"

Passionate oral dexterity..... suspect he made a wrong decision

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm going back to uni then

..all i need now is to find myself a sugar mummy who is willing to pay for my fees.

How much do you need ? big boi ?

Lots of socks please.

"

I have 12 chickens in the freezer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Then you are sapiosexual. "

Agree - that's me - though some on here (based on messages I receive) think it's some form of gender reassignment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The last thing you need or want is a brainy man, ideally you want a ruthless man."

I avoid all married men, not just those whose wives are called Ruth.

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