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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just before christmas I had a night on the town with some ladies from my gym, during that night someone from work saw and recognised me. It was mentioned to me the week after by a guy at work who is openly gay and knows about me. Apparently the person in question did not know how to approach me about it, and thought he might.

Now as my profile says, I'm out. I often go out dressed, so being recognised was always going to happen and I accept that as an occupational hazard. However, it turns out today that someone has been splashing this fab profile and pics around work, which isn't on. Since learning this I've asked a few people who they heard about it from, and everyone is being a bit vague. So on Monday I'm going to get the name of this coward. Im prepared to bet this guy, and it has to be a guy, hasn't divulged how he knows about the site. I imagine he "just googled me" of course. This is probably the same person who last summer changed my guy name on our callout board to Jody, hoping I'd run crying to my mummy. Instead I just corrected the spelling.

So my question is, do I twat him, or should I print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

I'm edging towards the chinning. I'd prefer people to know that although I wear dresses I don't take any shit.

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By *hocksandmissusCouple
over a year ago

Chester-ish

the fact that you are proud of who you are should be enough to put him in his place but then at the same time does really sound like he dose need a good slap xxxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

There are some vindictive little shits out there isn't there. As long as whatever you do doesn't cost you your job or cause a short stay with the rozzers I am sure it will be right for you.

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814


" print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do both...he sounds like a right dickhead, so show him your veri's then twat him one....xxxxx

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"Just before christmas I had a night on the town with some ladies from my gym, during that night someone from work saw and recognised me. It was mentioned to me the week after by a guy at work who is openly gay and knows about me. Apparently the person in question did not know how to approach me about it, and thought he might.

Now as my profile says, I'm out. I often go out dressed, so being recognised was always going to happen and I accept that as an occupational hazard. However, it turns out today that someone has been splashing this fab profile and pics around work, which isn't on. Since learning this I've asked a few people who they heard about it from, and everyone is being a bit vague. So on Monday I'm going to get the name of this coward. Im prepared to bet this guy, and it has to be a guy, hasn't divulged how he knows about the site. I imagine he "just googled me" of course. This is probably the same person who last summer changed my guy name on our callout board to Jody, hoping I'd run crying to my mummy. Instead I just corrected the spelling.

So my question is, do I twat him, or should I print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

I'm edging towards the chinning. I'd prefer people to know that although I wear dresses I don't take any shit. "

a lady should never resort to violence ... take him apart with your words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just before christmas I had a night on the town with some ladies from my gym, during that night someone from work saw and recognised me. It was mentioned to me the week after by a guy at work who is openly gay and knows about me. Apparently the person in question did not know how to approach me about it, and thought he might.

Now as my profile says, I'm out. I often go out dressed, so being recognised was always going to happen and I accept that as an occupational hazard. However, it turns out today that someone has been splashing this fab profile and pics around work, which isn't on. Since learning this I've asked a few people who they heard about it from, and everyone is being a bit vague. So on Monday I'm going to get the name of this coward. Im prepared to bet this guy, and it has to be a guy, hasn't divulged how he knows about the site. I imagine he "just googled me" of course. This is probably the same person who last summer changed my guy name on our callout board to Jody, hoping I'd run crying to my mummy. Instead I just corrected the spelling.

So my question is, do I twat him, or should I print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

I'm edging towards the chinning. I'd prefer people to know that although I wear dresses I don't take any shit. "

This is a form of bullying you could take of higher if you are not sensitive to the publicity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure of your profession but if you are willing to hit a colleague...

...why not just go to work dressed as Jodie?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Carry on as normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or publicly ask him if he's that interested in what you are, that maybe he should have just asked you for a meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not sure of your profession but if you are willing to hit a colleague...

...why not just go to work dressed as Jodie?"

Wouldn't get my tits into my overalls and you can't get safety stilettos.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Did this not happen before, I think I remember someone pinned a pic up when there were consultants there to someone else.

Terrible when this happens to people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did this not happen before, I think I remember someone pinned a pic up when there were consultants there to someone else.

Terrible when this happens to people "

nope, wasnt me.

As I said above someone, probably the same guy, changed names on our callout board.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or publicly ask him if he's that interested in what you are, that maybe he should have just asked you for a meet!"

publicly humiliate him ,,, hes only jealous and probably dont get his fun at home anymore

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It's a shitty thing to do without a doubt. I don't think chinning him is the way forward though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't get my tits into my overalls and you can't get safety stilettos. "

Thanks, I was in need of a new business idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on as normal.

"

don't give him the satisfaction to show him you're bothered, especially in work. If you met him face to face out of work....well

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"

Wouldn't get my tits into my overalls and you can't get safety stilettos.

"

Best statement ive heard in a long time

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now!

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley


"Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now! "

good call

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whatever you do, getting done for assault isn't going to do you any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Carry on as normal.

"

This is what I did when my profile became a regular re_iew on the technicians breaks...think they were more surprised by the lack of reaction and just got bored of it. Childish bastards never actually said a word about it to me...I was told by another colleague who was on here at the time with her hubby. I was very tempted to go straight into the workshop and knee the ringleader in the delicates, but think just holding my head high and not even batting an eyelid at it had a much better effect as had I gone for him they would have assumed I was embarrassed and I really wasn't...which surprised me as I thought I'd be devastated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm it's a tough one because you don't want to go getting the boot over it, I'd bide my time and try getting him back another way. Let him know you know though, let his arsehole quiver X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Errrrrrrrrrm, so, what ye gunna do when/if you find out that it's a woman???

*wistles for Shep to fetch slippers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now! "

This is true. I guess im just angry at the moment which is why I didn't do anything today. Calmer and more clinically sociopathic head will prevail on Monday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Violence is never the answer, deflate his ego, by being calm, and controlled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly hugs jodie. Xx

Use your razor sharp tongue to rip the fucker to shreds. Xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

This "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Violence is never the answer, deflate his ego, by being calm, and controlled."

This.

Let him know you know it was him.

Let him know that you can and possibly will beat the shit out of him.

Then he'll always be looking over his shoulder. Fear of pain is worse than pain itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now! "

+1

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for your messages here and PMs. I shall consider my position over some Sloe Gin and copious amounts of wine this weekend. I find I always do my best work when I'm lightly toasted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now!

+1 "

I'll bring the pom poms xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, - be very interested to hear the outcome & will tune in on Monday night!!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now!

This is true. I guess im just angry at the moment which is why I didn't do anything today. Calmer and more clinically sociopathic head will prevail on Monday. "

Cool. So do you need a temp PA to assist in whatever your fiendish plot turns out to be? I look great in a pencil skirt, have the requisite glasses and I'm great at distraction techniques if you need time to set up booby traps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

If you were dressed like that we'd never get any evil scheming done! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for the Twatting, but then you would be in the wrong.

You could take the moral high ground and go down the grievance procedure for vitcimisatoon & bullying, wether people see you as Jodie when out or not that is your private life and it shold stay that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you find out who the arsehole was? x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Hitting a colleague or customer is one of the few ways to get instant dismissal from every workplace I've ever worked in.

You have such a charming mastery of the English language Jodie, use it to decimate and emasculate the sad dick splash.

And if there's any chance of a front row seat I'm packing my cheerleader outfit and fuelling the car now! "

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Crucify them verbally and in everyway possible short of getting sacked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't go in today. After landing on my arse 3 times within 100 yards of the house I gave up trying to cycle to work. Too much ice, not enough car, and 5 miles to the station!

Am calmer today anyway, back to being a brassy tart rather than a white hot ball of rage!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling


"Just before christmas I had a night on the town with some ladies from my gym, during that night someone from work saw and recognised me. It was mentioned to me the week after by a guy at work who is openly gay and knows about me. Apparently the person in question did not know how to approach me about it, and thought he might.

Now as my profile says, I'm out. I often go out dressed, so being recognised was always going to happen and I accept that as an occupational hazard. However, it turns out today that someone has been splashing this fab profile and pics around work, which isn't on. Since learning this I've asked a few people who they heard about it from, and everyone is being a bit vague. So on Monday I'm going to get the name of this coward. Im prepared to bet this guy, and it has to be a guy, hasn't divulged how he knows about the site. I imagine he "just googled me" of course. This is probably the same person who last summer changed my guy name on our callout board to Jody, hoping I'd run crying to my mummy. Instead I just corrected the spelling.

So my question is, do I twat him, or should I print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

I'm edging towards the chinning. I'd prefer people to know that although I wear dresses I don't take any shit. "

or go down discrimination route and really fuck him over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't go in today. After landing on my arse 3 times within 100 yards of the house I gave up trying to cycle to work. Too much ice, not enough car, and 5 miles to the station!

Am calmer today anyway, back to being a brassy tart rather than a white hot ball of rage!"

Glad you feel better. You'll slay him a whole lot better as a cool, calm, collected, hot Biatch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

This "
oh yes this ! Then a crafty kick in the family allowance!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vengeance is a dish best surved cold, very cold.

Step back take your time, find out who its was, then slowly very slowly use physiological warfare on them, maybe the odd wink and kiss to start with, so no one else apart from them can see. play the smart waiting game far more fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is love to know if you actually went through with it.

My money would be on not

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"Is love to know if you actually went through with it.

My money would be on not"

If you bother to read you'll see she didn't go to work today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you chin him, you'll end up getting nicked, but then lets face it, its an interesting statement he'd have to give outlining how he found out !

Confront him openly asking what his fab profile name is, but I think clouting him will end in more grief long term.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

What the person is doing to Jodie is horrid, unfair & worth taking action against.

Anyone lifting their hands loses.

Seek it through the formal route.

But if hands are lifted, the person may hit back is what is being said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wouldn't get my tits into my overalls and you can't get safety stilettos.

Thanks, I was in need of a new business idea!"

I would also like some nice steel toe caps please I hate having to look like a member of Bananarama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow just read the rest of the thread

Well I for one odd not think for one minute that Jodi actually intended on acting violently. I think the injection of humour to her opening and subsequent posts offset the intimation of this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update: it appears the ranks have closed, every person I asked has said a variation of "well I heard it from X". So I go and ask X and he says "I heard it from Y" etc.

So guess the guilty party has, as I suspected, no penis and won't be bothering me anytime soon.

The general impression I've got from them is shock. I guess its all well and good being outed as a TV, they most probably assumed I'd look like Mrs Brown, but when the reality presented itself that line of abuse didn't really work.

And the verifications which show me to be a highly decorated sex general probably helped.

So am letting it lie for now. Thanks for the words of calm while I was seeing red mist last week. Much appreciated.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Update: it appears the ranks have closed, every person I asked has said a variation of "well I heard it from X". So I go and ask X and he says "I heard it from Y" etc.

So guess the guilty party has, as I suspected, no penis and won't be bothering me anytime soon.

The general impression I've got from them is shock. I guess its all well and good being outed as a TV, they most probably assumed I'd look like Mrs Brown, but when the reality presented itself that line of abuse didn't really work.

And the verifications which show me to be a highly decorated sex general probably helped.

So am letting it lie for now. Thanks for the words of calm while I was seeing red mist last week. Much appreciated. "

Will you be describing yourself as a well decorated sex general from now on?

It might be worth keeping a note of what has happened in case you ever need to make it more formal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a thought with folk being vague and someone gives you name and its not them you will have more to bother about than you have.

Just move on more you make of it more it drags on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Update: it appears the ranks have closed, every person I asked has said a variation of "well I heard it from X". So I go and ask X and he says "I heard it from Y" etc.

So guess the guilty party has, as I suspected, no penis and won't be bothering me anytime soon.

The general impression I've got from them is shock. I guess its all well and good being outed as a TV, they most probably assumed I'd look like Mrs Brown, but when the reality presented itself that line of abuse didn't really work.

And the verifications which show me to be a highly decorated sex general probably helped.

So am letting it lie for now. Thanks for the words of calm while I was seeing red mist last week. Much appreciated. "

xXx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the positive side, if you're 'out' they have nothing else they can try and throw at you.

Good idea to make notes/ keep info in case you need to make a formal complaint. xx

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston


"Just before christmas I had a night on the town with some ladies from my gym, during that night someone from work saw and recognised me. It was mentioned to me the week after by a guy at work who is openly gay and knows about me. Apparently the person in question did not know how to approach me about it, and thought he might.

Now as my profile says, I'm out. I often go out dressed, so being recognised was always going to happen and I accept that as an occupational hazard. However, it turns out today that someone has been splashing this fab profile and pics around work, which isn't on. Since learning this I've asked a few people who they heard about it from, and everyone is being a bit vague. So on Monday I'm going to get the name of this coward. Im prepared to bet this guy, and it has to be a guy, hasn't divulged how he knows about the site. I imagine he "just googled me" of course. This is probably the same person who last summer changed my guy name on our callout board to Jody, hoping I'd run crying to my mummy. Instead I just corrected the spelling.

So my question is, do I twat him, or should I print off a screen grab of my many verifications and say "this is what I'm doing while you're wanking off into a sock"?

I'm edging towards the chinning. I'd prefer people to know that although I wear dresses I don't take any shit. "

Dont get mad get even!

Dont hit him it just puts you in the wrong, may cost you your job and even your freedom.

Will PM you a suggestion as to a way you can make his life a misery!

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Hit him

I'd do it one on one when noone else is around. Watch him cringe in work when asked about it

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