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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

oh why oh why do so many black guys have to call you racist when you say your not interested? as stated on our profile we are not meeting at all, and we have had messages from loads of guys and couples asking to meet and we usually just say please read our profile. but we have had a few now from black guys asking if funtime is interested in BBC and when we have said no we are not meeting, they turn round and call us racist, wtf?

if we had it expressly stated on our profile "no black or asian please" i could understand because preference could be construed as a form of racism, even though its a just preference. but no we are not meeting at all and are not turning them down because of the colour of their skin. we have never ever said that we are turning them down because they are black,neither of us see things that way and it dont matter if they are black, white or asian.

Isnt the fact that they think we are turning them down because of the colour of their skin racist in itself? and isnt the fact that they are advertising themselves as BBC just as racist?

Sorry for the rant, just had another guy calling us racist today for turning him down and its wound me up a little, and i dont mean no offence to anyone.

but whats your _iews on this guys?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice of playmate is entirely down to personal preference - including age, gender, sexuality and yes - colour of someones skin.

Re the responses you're getting? An arse is an arse whether black, white, green or purple!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Choice of playmate is entirely down to personal preference - including age, gender, sexuality and yes - colour of someones skin.

Re the responses you're getting? An arse is an arse whether black, white, green or purple! "
and i agree entirely, just being called a racist for nothing other than saying we are not meeting anyone is perhaps my biggest bugbear on this site, the arsehole usually earn themselves a block for being arseholes lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"oh why oh why do so many black guys have to call you racist when you say your not interested? as stated on our profile we are not meeting at all, and we have had messages from loads of guys and couples asking to meet and we usually just say please read our profile. but we have had a few now from black guys asking if funtime is interested in BBC and when we have said no we are not meeting, they turn round and call us racist, wtf?

if we had it expressly stated on our profile "no black or asian please" i could understand because preference could be construed as a form of racism, even though its a just preference. but no we are not meeting at all and are not turning them down because of the colour of their skin. we have never ever said that we are turning them down because they are black,neither of us see things that way and it dont matter if they are black, white or asian.

Isnt the fact that they think we are turning them down because of the colour of their skin racist in itself? and isnt the fact that they are advertising themselves as BBC just as racist?

Sorry for the rant, just had another guy calling us racist today for turning him down and its wound me up a little, and i dont mean no offence to anyone.

but whats your _iews on this guys? "

I don't think them advertising themselves as BBC racist at all just a feature to make them stand out just like me saying ginger bloke here. I do not agree with their statements at all and think its a mixture of arrogance and ego that you got these replies for knocking them back. There are countless profiles from girls wanting only black men or BBC. Its just what you like! The word racist is used too freely in today's society and clouds the real racism out there. Guys seriously need to put there egos aside.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien"

You turned down an alien!!! You fools!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just take rejection so badly that they will wrongly try and turn the situation around,to make themselves feel better.

Pulling the race card is an obvious trick and anyone who does is an absolute twat. Ignore block and move on you owe people like that nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien"

You've been pestered by Aliens also?

I blame Brian Cox for this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien

You turned down an alien!!! You fools!!! "

because his opening line in his message was that his cock streched 4 parsecs

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

It's just a stroppy response to being rejected. Pretty much like others who get called ugly, fat, desperate etc. for turning people down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people get pissy and stroppy over the slightest thing on here if its not going how the way they think it should for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's just a stroppy response to being rejected. Pretty much like others who get called ugly, fat, desperate etc. for turning people down. "
probably, we had one a few weeks ago whose attitude changed from saying that funtime was a "beautiful woman with a gorgeous arse" to say that she was a "fat ugly dried up woman that i would never touch" straight after we told him we wasnt interested in meeting for the fourth or fifth time and we were accused of turning him down because he was black also. so that said everything i think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had a bbc - it was a very painful skiing accident (rock & a hard place)

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

Widnes

Its the easiest thing they can say to try and insult you by making out you have insulted them. Its akin to the kid who takes his ball home because he wasnt picked for the team. Its very annoying and unfortunately, a nature of the beast that is Fab - not a lot we can do about it, despite it being frustrating.

Remember the old saying about sticks and stones...... you know what kind of people you are and how you act, so when someone tries to demean that, you simply ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the same reason why white guys accuse me of being racist for wanting to meet Black guys. There are idiots about regardless of their skin colour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

exactly. its easy to blame it on that and isnt such a dent to the ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Probably the same reason why white guys accuse me of being racist for wanting to meet Black guys. There are idiots about regardless of their skin colour. "

Bloody racist!!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

it makes me chuckle that anyone being turned down because of a preference blames a phobia.

insecurity and a shocking sense of entitlement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien

You turned down an alien!!! You fools!!!

because his opening line in his message was that his cock streched 4 parsecs"

That shouldn't matter if you have fingers like ET!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien

You turned down an alien!!! You fools!!!

because his opening line in his message was that his cock streched 4 parsecs

That shouldn't matter if you have fingers like ET!?"

yeah, i know, but if we get a message that the guy states its 8inches, then why would we be any different for someone with an interstellar cock, or bliplap as he called it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go From being the most beautiful creature on earth to the biggest slut onon fab within a couple of messages. Just ignore lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never been called racist in all the time I've been here, I have been asked if I'm not interested because of someone's colour that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien

You turned down an alien!!! You fools!!!

because his opening line in his message was that his cock streched 4 parsecs

That shouldn't matter if you have fingers like ET!?

yeah, i know, but if we get a message that the guy states its 8inches, then why would we be any different for someone with an interstellar cock, or bliplap as he called it"

Those Aliens are all talk but heard the do love anal.

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Some people get pissy and stroppy over the slightest thing on here if its not going how the way they think it should for them "

This says it all really

OP read your prof and you aren't actively meeting & dont state a preference for white/caucasian people. Perhaps if people read this and appreciated it they wouldn't get stroppy with a no.

Now which sleeve have i got my race card hidden in

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I had that once. I pointed out to him that I had veris from several black guys (A couple have left the site now) and I just didn't fancy him.

He didn't message me back, though I noticed that he had checked out my profile afterwards.

Shit like that I file under 'not my problem' and never give it a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never been called racist for turning anyone down, black, white, asian or alien

You turned down an alien!!! You fools!!!

because his opening line in his message was that his cock streched 4 parsecs

That shouldn't matter if you have fingers like ET!?

yeah, i know, but if we get a message that the guy states its 8inches, then why would we be any different for someone with an interstellar cock, or bliplap as he called it

Those Aliens are all talk but heard the do love anal."

you are more than welcome to try and take a cock that stretches the length and breadth of space.

we, on the other hand, will happily give it a miss.

we will send you the profile name by pm

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