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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Where do you draw the line? Does pain do it for you or not?

Personally, if it gives me an ouchy, I don't like it.

No hardcore stuff or explicit details please. I don't want my thread being sent to the censored graveyard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmmmm

Its a fine line between the too....a little is ok but take it to far and it results in the guys balls being put in a doggy bag for taking home

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Pain can do it for me...pleasure/pain can be extremely delicious, and erotic.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No likie at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't do pain. I'm a wimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my hair pulled, biting but not too hard, and I'm a bit partial to having my arse smacked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into pain .....gentle hair pulling ,light slaps on bum etc yes anything too hard you,d better run

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I love my hair pulled, biting but not too hard, and I'm a bit partial to having my arse smacked "
Hair pulling and arse slapping are not pain in my book...I prefer something slightly more intense and deeper. But I am bound by the rules of Ryans thread not to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pain is a good effect... Followed by pleasure.

It depends who I am with and my mood as to how much pain I can handle.

Sometimes I need someone to take control and push the barriers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm well I don't mind a bit of hair pulling, arse slapping, biting, pressure on nipples , harder sex .... Oh and the odd spanner on my nipple

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Not keen on it. Giving or receiving.

I once had someone diss my pale leopard print top and it hurt like hell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does it for me and I draw the line very high

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love my hair pulled, biting but not too hard, and I'm a bit partial to having my arse smacked Hair pulling and arse slapping are not pain in my book...I prefer something slightly more intense and deeper. But I am bound by the rules of Ryans thread not to say."

Ooooh pm me femme, always interested in others peoples experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If im with a guy i know well and visa versa then we take it to a higher level than normal. He knows how much i can tolerate and we try and push boundries a little each time. As femme says.....it can be highly erotic and pleasurable. But wouldnt do something like that on "just a meet" type of thing. Its a trust thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drawing the line, that is a set boundarie thing between each other.

No details given lol, but pain and pleasure go hand in hand here.

Trust and understanding is a must.

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not keen on it. Giving or receiving.

I once had someone diss my pale leopard print top and it hurt like hell. "

Pmsl @ tina

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it! Can't get enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be spanked... the hornier I get the higher my threshold becomes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh no, pleasure all the way for me - rufty tufty pleasure maybe, but no pain!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

its fun, can be very erotic with the right person..

trust and communication are paramount..

someone giving their total trust in you is a privelege and to be treasured..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to be spanked... the hornier I get the higher my threshold becomes "

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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Maybe I secretly like it. I remember bashing my knee on the job once. It made my little bum go ten to the dozen, with lots of ooh aahing

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By *opping_candyWoman
over a year ago

Huddersfield, centralish

I like a bit of pain but nothing too crazy. I've done needle play and some of them were big buggers and did hurt. It is a rush though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No details. But love it so much, trying to find my limits and make me say 'red',, not got there yet

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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I like a bit of pain but nothing too crazy. I've done needle play and some of them were big buggers and did hurt. It is a rush though. "

Ouch think I would prefer Wonder Web

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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver "

I have heard that givers hang their keys from the left hand side of their belt hoops. Receivers from the right. Well in the Blue Oyster bar anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver

I have heard that givers hang their keys from the left hand side of their belt hoops. Receivers from the right. Well in the Blue Oyster bar anyway. "

Never been to the blue oyster bar

Want to meet me there for a social drink

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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver

I have heard that givers hang their keys from the left hand side of their belt hoops. Receivers from the right. Well in the Blue Oyster bar anyway.

Never been to the blue oyster bar

Want to meet me there for a social drink "

Only if it doesn't hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver

I have heard that givers hang their keys from the left hand side of their belt hoops. Receivers from the right. Well in the Blue Oyster bar anyway.

Never been to the blue oyster bar

Want to meet me there for a social drink

Only if it doesn't hurt "

Just don't wear those thigh high boots!

They must have been a killer on your ankles!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver

I have heard that givers hang their keys from the left hand side of their belt hoops. Receivers from the right. Well in the Blue Oyster bar anyway.

Never been to the blue oyster bar

Want to meet me there for a social drink

Only if it doesn't hurt "

I would be very gentle with you Ryan

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By *an and wifeyCouple
over a year ago

n lincs

Were both wimps. Don't mid a little slap and tickle between the 2 of us but definitely nothing serious

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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"There's a fine line between pain/pleasure... I don't mind being on the receiving end of a bit of pain and will tell whoever is giving it if they are going to far, but I prefer to be the giver than the receiver

I have heard that givers hang their keys from the left hand side of their belt hoops. Receivers from the right. Well in the Blue Oyster bar anyway.

Never been to the blue oyster bar

Want to meet me there for a social drink

Only if it doesn't hurt

Just don't wear those thigh high boots!

They must have been a killer on your ankles! "

You're not wrong there

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Where do you draw the line? Does pain do it for you or not? "

It depends, very much, on the skill, experience and knowledge of the Top as there is a fairly fine line between pain and flaying skin off.

I love wheals and bruises that last for a few days but there is a really deep emotional and pleasurable link as well; Sandman has so many 'toys' but he will usually just select two or three and I will get wet just thinking about what might happen; he knows my limits but never tells me what he has planned. **ck, I'm getting turned on just by writing this down, he can turn me on with a look or simply a suggestion; he is, simply, the filthiest man that I have ever had the pleasure of sharing a bed with.

Tank Girl

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By *Ryan- OP   Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"Where do you draw the line? Does pain do it for you or not?

It depends, very much, on the skill, experience and knowledge of the Top as there is a fairly fine line between pain and flaying skin off.

I love wheals and bruises that last for a few days but there is a really deep emotional and pleasurable link as well; Sandman has so many 'toys' but he will usually just select two or three and I will get wet just thinking about what might happen; he knows my limits but never tells me what he has planned. **ck, I'm getting turned on just by writing this down, he can turn me on with a look or simply a suggestion; he is, simply, the filthiest man that I have ever had the pleasure of sharing a bed with.

Tank Girl

"

Glad the thread has been helpful go finish yourself off haha

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