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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date..

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone

Mine was about 4 months ago...

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By *he devil wears pradaWoman
over a year ago

gosport ish


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date.. "
Last Thursday, it was a rubbish first date and won't be pursuing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several years, probably way before I came on here, no big deal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7 months ago, about a dozen dates.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly when I was 18

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oooh now your asking.... Must be about 6 years ago ish..

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By *rsIdiotWoman
over a year ago

Bedworth

Couple of weeks ago....dinner with my boyfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 20 years ago.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of months ago

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date.. "

Do you mean in the 'real world' ... no fab connections ???

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me. "

That's the thing with meeting online...you get on really well over the internet then when you meet there is no spark...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Last weekend, next one tomorrow. We met on here seven weeks ago, speak every day, spend the weekend together going to the cinema, gigs etc.

Prior to that about two years and it was a disaster!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date..

Do you mean in the 'real world' ... no fab connections ??? "

yes real world

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Last weekend, next one tomorrow. We met on here seven weeks ago, speak every day, spend the weekend together going to the cinema, gigs etc.

Prior to that about two years and it was a disaster!"

I love your budding romance its lovely to see on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me.

That's the thing with meeting online...you get on really well over the internet then when you meet there is no spark..."

I agree with this. It has happened to me a few times on here, hence the social meet first! Never actually set up a proper "date" date online though!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I have had dates on a dating site....I met a guy and it lasted about 4 months. My friend met her now husband on the internet

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Couple of years ago...but decided to try internet dating this week...not holding much hope out though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About a month ago and it was horrible. He got really possessive and it was the first time i had met him

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me.

That's the thing with meeting online...you get on really well over the internet then when you meet there is no spark..."

We met within a week of speaking as for both of us it was so intense we didn't want to find out there wasn't a physical attraction.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Last weekend, next one tomorrow. We met on here seven weeks ago, speak every day, spend the weekend together going to the cinema, gigs etc.

Prior to that about two years and it was a disaster!

I love your budding romance its lovely to see on here "

We're still in shock as we were both looking for nsa fun.

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By *issmekate xxxWoman
over a year ago

Non Vanilla Land


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date..

Do you mean in the 'real world' ... no fab connections ???

yes real world "

Real world ... about 3 years ago, lasted for 6 months !!!

Although quite a few of my meets on here kindof fall under that category .... the edges get a bit blurred sometimes ...

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Errrr.... So long ago I can't actually remember!! I've been split with my ex for about 18 months. Was with him 4 years before that. Met him while I was with someone else 3 years. So at least 7/8 years id say.

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Last weekend, next one tomorrow. We met on here seven weeks ago, speak every day, spend the weekend together going to the cinema, gigs etc.

Prior to that about two years and it was a disaster!"

Well I hope it works out for you both

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By *ucsparkMan
over a year ago

dudley


"Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me.

That's the thing with meeting online...you get on really well over the internet then when you meet there is no spark..."

I my defence you never asked if I wanted to attend

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Last proper date? Eek about 22 years ago with my ex husband.

Not been on a proper date since we split and if I'm honest it scares the crap out of me!! I can meet random guys and get naked for NSA but the thought of a proper date sends me running

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't know what constitutes a proper date, but I had a lovely lunch yesterday with a lady off here

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"I have had dates on a dating site....I met a guy and it lasted about 4 months. My friend met her now husband on the internet "

My friend met her husband online: soon as he got his stay he ditched her.

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I have had dates on a dating site....I met a guy and it lasted about 4 months. My friend met her now husband on the internet

My friend met her husband online: soon as he got his stay he ditched her."

oh I've seen a few of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

about 6 years ago when i started dating my ex, i would like to start dating again but the prospect is daunting

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By *an8workMan
over a year ago

Matlok

Why?

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"about 6 years ago when i started dating my ex, i would like to start dating again but the prospect is daunting "

it can be...however its exciting at the same time

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Why?"

because im nosey...feel free not to answer.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Sadly I cant remember. 40 plus years I guess.

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Can't remember . No time for proper dates . Not ready for anything serious as I'm having way too much fun on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me.

That's the thing with meeting online...you get on really well over the internet then when you meet there is no spark..."

No, the Internet wasn't able to truly convey what an arsehole they were.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't remember my last vanilla date. Have had dinner dates off here a few times tho.

I got asked out before Christmas The thought petrified me, so I just babbled something and freaked out slightly! He still texts occassionally tho

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Just over a month ago after talking online for weeks. The date ruined it for me.

That's the thing with meeting online...you get on really well over the internet then when you meet there is no spark...

No, the Internet wasn't able to truly convey what an arsehole they were. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About September time. Didn't go so well but she later joined Fab (unrelated) and said hi. Still no interest but cool Story nonetheless!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was about 25 years ago

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands

Our last date was 2 yrs ago. Just on a normal dating site and pow!...love at first sight...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far to long ago

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Our last date was 2 yrs ago. Just on a normal dating site and pow!...love at first sight...

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Aww that's lovely.....I love a good love story

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Our last date was 2 yrs ago. Just on a normal dating site and pow!...love at first sight...

Aww that's lovely.....I love a good love story "

It took us by surprise as we wasn't looking very hard. What surprised us more was when we found out we were both as filthy as each other. Lol! We both were secretly worried that the other was going to be too tame. Haha!

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By *isscheekychops OP   Woman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Our last date was 2 yrs ago. Just on a normal dating site and pow!...love at first sight...

Aww that's lovely.....I love a good love story

It took us by surprise as we wasn't looking very hard. What surprised us more was when we found out we were both as filthy as each other. Lol! We both were secretly worried that the other was going to be too tame. Haha! "

That is my biggest worry with vanilla dating finding someone that has the same sex drive as me....I adore the social side of swinging and not sure id want to give it up....so in essence i just need to find a filthy bugger who is fertile and wants kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our last date was 2 yrs ago. Just on a normal dating site and pow!...love at first sight...

Aww that's lovely.....I love a good love story

It took us by surprise as we wasn't looking very hard. What surprised us more was when we found out we were both as filthy as each other. Lol! We both were secretly worried that the other was going to be too tame. Haha!

That is my biggest worry with vanilla dating finding someone that has the same sex drive as me....I adore the social side of swinging and not sure id want to give it up....so in essence i just need to find a filthy bugger who is fertile and wants kids "

I am sure you will find him xxx as for sex I think if into each other be a two way thing . Fingers crossed you find this lovely man. x As you come across really lovely lady here.

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By *leasures4Couple
over a year ago

East midlands


"Our last date was 2 yrs ago. Just on a normal dating site and pow!...love at first sight...

Aww that's lovely.....I love a good love story

It took us by surprise as we wasn't looking very hard. What surprised us more was when we found out we were both as filthy as each other. Lol! We both were secretly worried that the other was going to be too tame. Haha!

That is my biggest worry with vanilla dating finding someone that has the same sex drive as me....I adore the social side of swinging and not sure id want to give it up....so in essence i just need to find a filthy bugger who is fertile and wants kids "

There will be that ideal someone out there and you will be their ideal woman. I'd say you have more of a chance plus you're most men's dream. Most men love their partners to be filthy.

As the other person has said...you come across as a really lovely lady.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

About 13 years ago. Met my, now ex, wife.

I'm now happy being a cynical single bloke and have zero plans to start dating again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Back in May

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date..

Do you mean in the 'real world' ... no fab connections ???

yes real world "

Never.. lol

Cali. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

approximately 3 1/2 years ago when we had our first date.

we have date nights when we go out for dinner, but that was the last proper one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date.. "

bout 20 years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 yrs ago .I married her

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

20 years ago. Have now given up looking

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

A date?? Whats one of them lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I still go on dates with jay all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly three years ago with my ex, but rushed into the relationship way too quick... Plus have a weird phobia of eating in front of people I don't know

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

august (blind date) omg

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id like a date.

A proper one.

Id like a lot of things.

Sigh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on an actual date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

November....wine, DVD and smooching on the sofa, lovely evening

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years! "

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We try and do date nights at least twice a month, last one was last week... A lovely meal out followed by a DVD and cuddle on the sofa

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc"

Your in a fooking couple! That doesn't quite count lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's a date lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc

Your in a fooking couple! That doesn't quite count lol "

We're not a couple though

He's friggin useless at that kind of stuff anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

October the 10 th a thursday 6. 15 pm and 39 secs . Don't really remember much about it though

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley

About 3 years ago.....i do miss not having dates but hey ho such is life

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By *aul.J.JMan
over a year ago

Sedgley


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date..

bout 20 years ago "

blimey not good . ...has no one tried to sweep you off your feet? ?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc

Your in a fooking couple! That doesn't quite count lol

We're not a couple though

He's friggin useless at that kind of stuff anyway "

Who are you trying to convince? We all know you are a couple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc

Your in a fooking couple! That doesn't quite count lol

We're not a couple though

He's friggin useless at that kind of stuff anyway

Who are you trying to convince? We all know you are a couple! "

Even I know there a couple and I don't know them

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc

Your in a fooking couple! That doesn't quite count lol

We're not a couple though

He's friggin useless at that kind of stuff anyway

Who are you trying to convince? We all know you are a couple! Even I know there a couple and I don't know them "

See! I rest my case!

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By *noops123Man
over a year ago

near yeovil

About 20 minutes ago .....

Coffee .......

And a cake !!!!!

Shortbread was lush ....

Meet ........

Not so !

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I don't think I've ever had a 'date' We've been together since school and were friends before getting together

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By *erfectlyPervertedCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Your last proper date?? Mine was about 2 months ago.....it never went further then the first date.. "

About 18 months ago; met Sandman Slim via another website and we've been partying ever since.

Tank Girl

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By *ussieMaxMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Three months ago.

There was uncertainty and excitement before this first date, but we got on fabulously (ended back at hers for an awsome night of sex!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months ago .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been on one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I've ever had a 'proper' date...previous bf's were friends first and we just kind of got together somehow and have been single for so long that if it weren't for fab I think it would have healed up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When i was 13

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"God a proper date? With no fab involvement? Jesus, must be over 5 years!

With 'fab involvement' - probably December or whenever when we went out to the cinema etc

Your in a fooking couple! That doesn't quite count lol

We're not a couple though

He's friggin useless at that kind of stuff anyway

Who are you trying to convince? We all know you are a couple! Even I know there a couple and I don't know them "

Maybe he prefers her gaff rather than hotels at least he gets someone cooking for him, doing his washing etc

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