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Finding out I've got a son

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr "

Post it on a public forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get a DNA test first to confirm that he is your flesh and blood, think if you want him to be a part of your life and him yours, as it's a big step to take if not something your prepared to do, x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr

Post it on a public forum "

Standard

Ring Jeremy Kyle

Of course if it was me I'd wonder what I was doing when he was born for me to remember giving birth

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Has he contacted you or have you been told?

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

To be fair it blown me away I already have 3 kids not sure how they will react

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

i found my son..say hello son and he will say hello dad. x x X

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Just bein intouch with his mom :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dna right away x good luck for the future i hope now you can buid up a good relationship with one another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair it blown me away I already have 3 kids not sure how they will react "

Sure if you want to be off his life they will adapt and be happy to have a older brother( guessing he's the eldest )

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Just bein intouch with his mom :/"

She must have had a reason to keep it from you. Start there before you tell your other children. Are they adults? If not be careful how you introduce the idea of a new and older sibling.

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Think that's the best way to go DNA I would never turn my back on any child if he wants to be a part of my life I would welcome him with open arms I'm just worried about the effect it will have on my other children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr "

I don't think I'd start by doing pirate impressions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Finding out I have a son I never knew and he's 25 what would you do arrrrrrrr

I don't think I'd start by doing pirate impressions?"

Your such a naughty man lol

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

We split up badly a lot to do with faimilys my kids are all adults now he would be the eldest

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I'm crap at being a pirate in more of a plank lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best thing to do is dna first. No point in hurting or confusing other kids if hes not yours x

If he is you need to sit them down and be 100 per cent honest. Lost of questions to be ansered here before introduction. They may embrace him right away or may take time. Dont argue ... Just take your time. Im sure in time, things will be ok.

Good luck. And in fiture as jeramy kyle says,..." Put something on the end of it'

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thank you I'm so blown away by it all at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank you I'm so blown away by it all at the moment "

You're bound to be must be a very big shock, but like other posters and myself have said get a DNA test done first, big hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You owe him :

25 Christmas presents ,25 Birthday presents , 25 Easter eggs .....better find a 3rd job mate ....lol

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Thank you and I will I'm trying to sort out a meeting with his mom first but thanks x

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By *unky monkey 351 OP   Man
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Well I would give anything to my kids always have he wouldn't be any different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any need for a DNA test if he's 25?

I'd get to know him a bit first, unless he's asking for money...

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