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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Don't you just hate it when people cancel with only an hour or less. Pisses me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It ain't pleasant, but there might be a genuine reason behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a whole hour?

that's plenty of time to find someone else

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

but still better than sitting and waiting for a no show imho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey ya lucky you got told iv had that a few times and been stood up its shit when you drive a 60 mile round trip too i wouldnt mind it was for a pub lunch

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know an hour is a longish time for some. But when you havnt had a meet for a long time you sort carnt wait but then again the same lass did let me down a couple of months ago. Think it's a common thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just like the thought of meeting its hard to work people out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know an hour is a longish time for some. But when you havnt had a meet for a long time you sort carnt wait but then again the same lass did let me down a couple of months ago. Think it's a common thing "

so you got let down by the same girl for the second time in a row?

Was the excuse similar to the last?

If someone let me down before i'd be half expecting it again if I decided to give them a second chance (providing the first excuse wasn't lame!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know an hour is a longish time for some. But when you havnt had a meet for a long time you sort carnt wait but then again the same lass did let me down a couple of months ago. Think it's a common thing

so you got let down by the same girl for the second time in a row?

Was the excuse similar to the last?

If someone let me down before i'd be half expecting it again if I decided to give them a second chance (providing the first excuse wasn't lame!)"

Oh, and did you speak on the phone/cam at all before hand?

May possibly be that Derek65 from Dudley at it again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so, you arranged to meet a person you have been let down at the last minute before, and you are suprised when they let you down again?

some posts really dont need comments on

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Don't you just hate it when people cancel with only an hour or less. Pisses me right off "

Well at least they let you know and yes it is short notice especially if you had to travel.

I'm afraid we all get it now and then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No it was a different excuse last time and it wasn't last min. I just thought I'd get it off my chest that's all. If you think it's a pointless post. Why did you comment ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No it was a different excuse last time and it wasn't last min. I just thought I'd get it off my chest that's all. If you think it's a pointless post. Why did you comment ? "

because its an open forum and im allowed, much the same as you are allowed to moan about the same person a second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone let me down then i wouldnt bother with them again .... plenty more fish in the sea

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"so, you arranged to meet a person you have been let down at the last minute before, and you are suprised when they let you down again?

some posts really dont need comments on "

We had to cancel a meet once an hour before....the re-arranged meet was cancelled by the other person....we tried for third time lucky and got there in the end.

Just because someone cancels doesn't mean they won't meet up eventually

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used to give people one more chance, but only if the excuse was really good (didn't have to be true!) but now I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've given the benefit of the doubt when my gut told me it was warranted, and most of the time

gut was proven right. Not just on here, but in general.

OP will no doubt decide whether enough is enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't moan the 1st time. I just thought I'd share with people who can have a positive conversation that's all not for people to come along and wanting to argue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so, you arranged to meet a person you have been let down at the last minute before, and you are suprised when they let you down again?

some posts really dont need comments on

We had to cancel a meet once an hour before....the re-arranged meet was cancelled by the other person....we tried for third time lucky and got there in the end.

Just because someone cancels doesn't mean they won't meet up eventually "

dont get me wrong, we have cancelled in the past, but then its usually been with a few days notice, not last minute.

dont think we would give asecond chance without a bloody good reason

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Its not good,is the excuse plausable?

I suppose advance warnings better than being stood up

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo


"so, you arranged to meet a person you have been let down at the last minute before, and you are suprised when they let you down again?

some posts really dont need comments on

We had to cancel a meet once an hour before....the re-arranged meet was cancelled by the other person....we tried for third time lucky and got there in the end.

Just because someone cancels doesn't mean they won't meet up eventually

dont get me wrong, we have cancelled in the past, but then its usually been with a few days notice, not last minute.

dont think we would give asecond chance without a bloody good reason"

Last minute things turn up, sometimes notice isn't something you can do. A bit like you can't predict wether you are going to be ill to be able to make a Docs appointment two weeks earlier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always happens.

Must just be a thing that happens on these sites

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