FabSwingers.com forum: Swingers site for sex Or just like other sites.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sites like fab and I know lots just see it for easy sex .But making friends and getting to know people and not just sex . And yes this is a sex site. Some think if you need to get to know people before you sleep with them, You should be on a dating site I don't. And i think some come here never had sex but see themselves as swingers as on sites like this. I can be more open about how I feel about things here. And that's why I like it . Its not just a sex site Fab .

So what is this site for you.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After 6 years in here I think my profile now is the most honest I've ever been.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"After 6 years in here I think my profile now is the most honest I've ever been. "
Just find it strange some think its bad being on a site like this ... when its a site for a lot of different things not just sex.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's not "just a sex site" for me. A lot of men assume that if I am online here, I am horny and looking for sex. That's rarely the case.

I don't want "just sex". There has to be some sort of connection. Not a relationship type of connection, or any "strings" but play partners have to appeal to me mentally and I have to feel comfortable with themon some level.

It'd be great if I could shag anyone I find physically attractive because I'd get faaaar more sex than I currently do. But that doesn't work for me.

I've also, to my surprise, met some people I consider friends here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you really get down to the bottom line it is a site full of people looking to enhance their own lives in some way.

While sex is the common denominator, which gives us all a starting point it does not have to be all of it.

some people want a level of connection that i would term as a date, others just want sex and lots of it, some just like to look or be looked at. Some want a social life, others want to just shag.

diversity is the name of the game and there is only one right way of doing things, and thats the way the the profile holder wants. its up to the profile readers to decide if they fit into that.

For some, attraction is found in looks or body type, others its age but for most i think it is more about attitude.

for us compatible attitude makes for far better times than someone ticking a lot of 'boxes'

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's not "just a sex site" for me. A lot of men assume that if I am online here, I am horny and looking for sex. That's rarely the case.

It'd be great if I could shag anyone I find physically attractive because I'd get faaaar more sex than I currently do. But that doesn't work for me.

I've also, to my surprise, met some people I consider friends here."
I am like you cant just open my legs have to be something or don't work .. I like the mind and body thing . cold sex do nothing for me .. never have never will. xx This site what you make it and what works for you really not just sex.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It's a case of you get out what you put in I think. First & foremost for me it's about making friends, if anything else comes of it then it's a bonus.

There are quite a few narrow minded blinkered people on here but,they will be the who lose out in the long run.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work long unsocial hours on line and use this and another site to help me stay awake, read peoples opinions on many subjects, learn, get the latest news ( not having a tv or radio)

make friends, flirt and if someone special catches my eye meet for sex, although that isn't often.

Living alone, working from home can be quite lonely at times so I see people here as my cyber family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not "just a sex site" for me. A lot of men assume that if I am online here, I am horny and looking for sex. That's rarely the case.

It'd be great if I could shag anyone I find physically attractive because I'd get faaaar more sex than I currently do. But that doesn't work for me.

I've also, to my surprise, met some people I consider friends here."

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have just joined and we believe in getting to know someone before we agree to meet. we have small children and work commitments so we couldnt meet without proper planning.

I find a few people don't want to know if you want friendship or a chat first but have also spoke to some lovely people who are fine with talking.

For us its about meeting people who are like minded and if we become friends or more then thats great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you prefer the site to stick to swinging and sex topics only? I would hate it and would put me off . I like the mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was here purely for sex, it is going quite fundamentally wrong.

I'm sure, some would wish I wasn't on this site, but I get a lot of fun and dare I say it occasionally I manage a saucy moment or two.

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By *airymusclesMan
over a year ago

scotland

To be able to have sex with someone you need to have respect though,you cant respect someone you dont know (generally)

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