FabSwingers.com forum: Married and swinging.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondered, with the married couples, that is.

How long were you married before you got into this?

Also, how long have you been married

We started about 13 years ago, on and off and we've been married 32 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We started be for we married 11 years ago been married 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we started about 9 years ago,been married 5 years

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By *lydecoupleCouple
over a year ago

greenock

We have been together 26 years only started this one year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been married 24 years. Swinging a year x

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By *uckoo clockCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Married 33 years swinging for last 6

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started about 20 yrs ago been married 28

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By *lydecoupleCouple
over a year ago

greenock

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Am loving these posts with people being married for so many years xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

seems to be a pattern here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Known each other for 16 years been together for 7, not married.... Yet! Swinging for about 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meet each other on here,got married in august.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been married 20 years and have been swinging on and off for about 5 years.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"meet each other on here,got married in august."

Belated congratulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"seems to be a pattern here... "

What pattern do you see forming?

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Married for 8 years, swinging for 10.

Does that fall into the pattern?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not married but think we'd been together 2 weeks when we first played with other people as one of our earliest dates was at a fet club

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By *anatee175Couple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Been swinging about 2 years been married 22 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"seems to be a pattern here... "

What's the pattern ?

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

Started when I was 50, that was 6yrs ago. Finished 2yrs ago.

Have been married 30yrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swinging 18 months, married for 16 months.

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By *avesueCouple
over a year ago

hull

Married 34 years started 4 years ago

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

We started about 5 years ago, and we've been married 33 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married 20 years swinging 6 years till last night * shrugs * shit happens.

eX cRyPt keEpeR -|-

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Married 30 years and I have been enjoying extra cock for the last 7 of those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like a lot are married a long time before venturing into swinging..

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

"seems to be a pattern here...

What's the pattern ? "

when the kids have left home? lol

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"seems to be a pattern here...

What's the pattern ?

when the kids have left home? lol"

We started playing two years before we got married 15 years ago

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

"seems to be a pattern here...

What's the pattern ?

when the kids have left home? lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together nearly 20 years. Married just over half of those. Swinging for 2.

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By *moothies.Couple
over a year ago

Woodthorpe

Together 11 years

Married 5 years

swinging 1 year

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Dam that's where we went wrong, 3 kids waited 13 years n had 2 more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its great you married ones do this, after being in a stale relationship a few years back I think its better than cheating, which does happen if a relationship is not strong

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started swinging from a couple of months being together both wanted too..I was honest from the first date that I wanted to try it..

Married for 2years been together 4 years...

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By *ouplemidzCouple
over a year ago

Middle of the Midlands

together 22 years

married 13 years

swinging 14 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know you both want to swing though?

I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "

I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Married 20 years swinging 6 years till last night * shrugs * shit happens.

eX cRyPt keEpeR -|-"

I hope you are ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I was honest....was with my ex for 14 years who was a compleat bore & controlling abusive idiot!!..

So when I was ready to date again I was sure as hell was going to be open & honest....I more or less said I want to swing and so did dee too we was just fortunate that we both wanted too thats all...

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

"How do you know you both want to swing though?

I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "

I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!"

For me it was more a case of being honest, I wanted more cock and much bigger cock.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

married 30 years

started about 12 yrs ago ish..

on the conversation aspect ours was discussing fantasies that we both shared and some that only one of us did but the other was happy to explore..

we would stop tomorrow if one of us said thats enough not enjoying it at all anymore, and whilst we have taken breaks etc there is a strong social element and friendships built which are valued..

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

Been together 28 years

Married 24 years, 25 in June

Swinging 2 1/2 year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We played singularly before we got together than after marriage we concentrated on each other for 5 years then decided to play again now and then with others when we were in the mood. It comes and goes its not a must for us just a welcome diversion now and again.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

Together for 2 years

Swinging for about 14 months

Married 5 weeks ago.

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By *eforfuncplCouple
over a year ago

Morecambe

Together 27 yrs married 24 yrs swinging about 16 yrs but not at it every weekend lol xxx

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

Together 23 years

Married 17 years

Slowly got into having some extra fun about 20 years ago this was on and off until we joined this site 2years ago .

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By *at2Couple
over a year ago

north Down

"How do you know you both want to swing though?

I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "

I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!"

Our playing started from talking about our fantasies and things we hadn't tried so we never said to each other lets try swinging it sort of just slowly came about

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"How do you know you both want to swing though?

I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "

I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!"

Couples that are honest, open and open minded with each other normally stay together. We are 20 years in to our relationship, we were both really poen when we met so talking about turn ons and fantasies was easy. We got into this via Mrs want to explore her bisexuality and me wanting to perv

We've come along way over the years but only because we've talked,trusted and respected each other all the way and we've never compromised that!

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By *ilthygorgeous1Couple
over a year ago

Oxford

"How do you know you both want to swing though?

I could imagine the conversation to be quite awkward . . . " 'scuse me love, been thinking, shall we start shagging other people . . . . . "

I think a few couples may have gone their separate ways once that conversation was started!

Open not poen sorry!

We've come along way over the years but only because we've talked,trusted and respected each other all the way and we've never compromised that!"

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By *rank_SimoneCouple
over a year ago

Bideford

We started ten years ago, and we have been married 33 years this year.

So we started after 23 years of marriage.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

married 26 years

about 7years

both enjoy extra....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been together 11 years

married 5

swinging 14 months ... and just finding our feet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married ten years

Swinging fourteen

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By *nJ_NW_cplCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Married 22 years

swinging about 12 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married 12 years

Swinging 9/10 months now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we must be the oldest swingers in town, married 39 years and swinging on and off for 30, buut we dont let swinging rule our lives, and Sarah is quite choosey, but have met some great couples, and some we have remained friends with for over 25 yrs,

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Married 13 years, swinging for 3 of those on and off

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

We have been together since our school days but are not married and can't see that ever changing.

Been meeting people on and off for around 10 years now.

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By *pock123Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Married for 30 years and started on here about a year ago!

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