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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For both women and men. How long can you stay without having real sex encounter before you get frustrated? I would appreciate honest objective answers without prejudice. We are all different thats normal. I am curious though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It varies, sometimes the same day, often the day after and very rarely two or three days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

I am exactly the same.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always horny so a couple of days before I need to sort myself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont get frustrated..I dont 'need' 'it' i can 'wank'

and to be honest I find it strange people who do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

what happens if you're on or you have a headache ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been months for me, and I'm not all that bothered to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been months for me, and I'm not all that bothered to be honest. "

Ditto.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I dont get frustrated..I dont 'need' 'it' i can 'wank'

and to be honest I find it strange people who do"

I wish I never have to wank. Sex for me is like oxygen I need it amongst the attention I give and I get thar comes with it. I dont see a woman as a hole where I can discharge my cum lol.

There is a difference between feeling the need for sex and being frustrated about it. I feel the need for sex 24 hours or less after a long session and the more regularly I have it the more I am dependant to it. I have separated 3 months ago. Its getting less frustrating now but after one week without sex I start feeling the urge and desperation if the word is appropriate and sends the right message.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's been a while....a long while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been months for me, and I'm not all that bothered to be honest.

Ditto. "

Wanna fuck?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

Er, 15th December 2013?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest i went without sex was 11 yrs and it didnt bother me at all. It doesnt really bother me to much now if im honest though like the others here, if im getting it regular...i want it to continue....If it stops for what ever reason.....i go off the boil quite quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm like a sex camel can go months.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I can and do go for months! Not through choice, just life choices....x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been months for me, and I'm not all that bothered to be honest.

Ditto.

Wanna fuck?"

If we don't we might get chased of the site with pitchforks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had sex for 6 months, I'm not at all bothered tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been months for me, and I'm not all that bothered to be honest.

Ditto.

Wanna fuck?

If we don't we might get chased of the site with pitchforks. "

Okay ... I'll bottom first ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

I am exactly the same.

Same here.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

Er, 15th December 2013?"

I didn't mean recently lol.

I meant in the past haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's been months for me, and I'm not all that bothered to be honest.

Ditto.

Wanna fuck?

If we don't we might get chased of the site with pitchforks.

Okay ... I'll bottom first .. "

Such a gent.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

what happens if you're on or you have a headache ?"

Then its my tough luck

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

You definitely do!

I can't believe you'd go without for long though!

;)

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By *ocketrocket80Man
over a year ago

Walsall

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

I've been told that a piece of _ruit a day keeps the Dr away

I plan to stay healthy for a long time so in the interests of medical science - will you oblige please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Sex is like the icing on the cake as regards my relationships with people not only on here, but in vanilla world as well.

As regards having a wank (thank you Paddy) I can sometimes have 3 or 4 in a day or go a week without feeling the need

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I often go without as I am single. Swinging is the only sex I get and one weekend a month child free (sometimes its one night) means if I wish to do something vanilla then its no sex thst month.

I think earlier last year I went from beginning of June til September time or something like that.

In the past the gaps have been much bigger.

When the roads get bad I become a recluse and don't teavel on my child free time so go without again. If I have a headache or time of the month or ex suddenly cant have the kids its no sex again.

A frustrated _ruit

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Poor _ruit!

I can feel your pain

I've gone almost a year in the past

But hopefully that'll change with the help of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I often go without as I am single. Swinging is the only sex I get and one weekend a month child free (sometimes its one night) means if I wish to do something vanilla then its no sex thst month.

I think earlier last year I went from beginning of June til September time or something like that.

In the past the gaps have been much bigger.

When the roads get bad I become a recluse and don't teavel on my child free time so go without again. If I have a headache or time of the month or ex suddenly cant have the kids its no sex again.

A frustrated _ruit

xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been for more than a month without sex since I lost my virginity. I'd say I need it.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"I have not had sex for many months.

I also will only get one night of sex per month sometimes

I need more sex

Er, 15th December 2013?

I didn't mean recently lol.

I meant in the past haha"

Ahhhh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think about it several times a day. Want it nearly every day. Get it most days. If not, make my own arrangements!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I dont get frustrated..I dont 'need' 'it' i can 'wank'

and to be honest I find it strange people who do"

Before September I hadn't had sex for 18 months. If I needed to I'd have a wank. I don't "need" to have sex, but I quite like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thankfully I have my rabbit, otherwise it works out as once a month (and I'm at my peak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more I have, the more I want. So if was to go without it for six months (god forbid that ever happens) then I could probably go without it for 12

Its about a month and I'm not feeling too sad about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

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By *eather_satinCouple
over a year ago

West Sussex

"I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration"

I've still got the scars from a partner like that

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"Poor _ruit!

I can feel your pain

I've gone almost a year in the past

But hopefully that'll change with the help of fab

Unfortunately fab doesn't inceease my chances of sex. Having an ex husband who doesn't want to see his kids more than one weekend a month is the reason.

A friend is going to sit for the kids occasionally so fingers crossed for more saucy fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

I'm the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

I've still got the scars from a partner like that

Fancy some more haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been 7 days and im chomping at the bit .. Its a case of more I get more I want so roll on the weekend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

I've still got the scars from a partner like that

Fancy some more haha

Haha would love some, would have to wait till spring nearly got hypothermia on my last long ride an that was south let alone into Scotland lol

Also you'd have to put up with my sarcasm :o

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration"

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

Its great fun till your sat there while she pulls out the fake nail that broke off in your back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very long at all. Two or three days and I start to feel a little stressed. Sex is my big de-stresser.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

Its great fun till your sat there while she pulls out the fake nail that broke off in your back lol"

I am a cat lover but in few months I'll end up with google map on my back

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I find the more I have sex the more I want. But the less I have the less I'm bothered

This! I've gone five years without sex: didn't bother me in the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not very long at all. Two or three days and I start to feel a little stressed. Sex is my big de-stresser."

This is probably the reason why I have never gone more than a month!

Definitely relieves stress.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

Its great fun till your sat there while she pulls out the fake nail that broke off in your back lol"

I would tear you up kinky boy!!! Lol it's the hat it makes me so wet

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"I'm like a sex camel can go months. "

A camel going months without a hump?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a couple of weeks for me.

..i can go months without, but frustration doesn't even come close. However, the three day weekends soon make up for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

Its great fun till your sat there while she pulls out the fake nail that broke off in your back lol

I would tear you up kinky boy!!! Lol it's the hat it makes me so wet"

Send her the hat and stay safe at home. A wolf cannot stand a chance with a hangry tigress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

Its great fun till your sat there while she pulls out the fake nail that broke off in your back lol

I would tear you up kinky boy!!! Lol it's the hat it makes me so wet

Send her the hat and stay safe at home. A wolf cannot stand a chance with a hangry tigress

Sod that I'm superglueing it to my.head and buying a train ticket to Aberdeen !

Although currently the hat is busy on guard duty protecting a lovely girl from the monsters under the bed

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I cannot go without sex for more than 2 days....when this does happen I feel sorry for the person that helps me release as i tear their skin off with frustration

They should add this into the description list on profiles. One partner like that and am a happy man. Not sure about the scars though

Its great fun till your sat there while she pulls out the fake nail that broke off in your back lol

I would tear you up kinky boy!!! Lol it's the hat it makes me so wet

Send her the hat and stay safe at home. A wolf cannot stand a chance with a hangry tigress

Sod that I'm superglueing it to my.head and buying a train ticket to Aberdeen !

Although currently the hat is busy on guard duty protecting a lovely girl from the monsters under the bed"

I have a compromise for you tow. U go half way and she goes half. Meet at mine... If she gets here first dont worry. I'll keep her entertained till u arrive safely. Also I'll be there in case someone needs to call 911 for u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as in with another person or alone (wanking?)

with another person, we go a couple of weeks, or a month, depending on circumstances.

alone, V can be doing it every day, depends if the mood is with her.

i can go a few days without, longest being the fortnight we ahve been apart cuz i just dont get that horny when im not with her

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've gone without sex for more than two years before. More than once too.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Make that more than 3 years.

I'd rather go without than shag people I'm not really into. And I'm so damned picky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

According to my ex, after a week without sex I become a troll bitch from hell and try to hump anything with a pulse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"According to my ex, after a week without sex I become a troll bitch from hell and try to hump anything with a pulse.

*hands over business card*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went 18 months after splitting from my ex, after a while you stop craving it

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've gone more than 2 years without anything before!

And since being on here? Maybe 3 or 4 months, just wasn't attracted to anyone so would rather go without than just settle

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