FabSwingers.com forum: Question about race preference...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Im having to put this on here as I get asked this question too many times after they see my pics... "what race are you" "are you foreign". I get messages compimenting my profile then i get asked this. if you like the look of my pics then should it really matter what you're background is wether you be White, black, Asian or mixedraced.... I personally would think they should look in to a persons character after they have seen pics and are interested. I respect people's preferences but complimenting what you see and then being put off because you're background is a little narrow minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might see it as narrow minded, to others it is personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand the thing about personal preference but complimenting you're profile, having a little chat then changing their attitudes because they find out you're mixedraced is a little narrow minded.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"I understand the thing about personal preference but complimenting you're profile, having a little chat then changing their attitudes because they find out you're mixedraced is a little narrow minded. "

And they've told you that?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I would ask because I'm curious, not because its a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't mind telling anyone what my background is. Yes it's been put as simple as that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't mind telling anyone what my background is. Yes it's been put as simple as that! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, that's happened to me a few times. But, at the end of the day you just deal with it. And it's not like your losing out or anything...

...they've seen my picture and so forth. And everythings going well and they show an interest. And then, when they ask about my race and i give them an answer. Then, it's 'oh sorry, we don't play with your kind' - mind you, this was a while back.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

I know people who just eat meat and two veg

People can live and sleep with whoever they want.

Seems just another lonely man thread

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so, you have no preferences at all, OP?

you have had a few meets, so its not like you are getting nowhere.

does it really matter that there are people that dont want to meet you?

there are people that dont want to meet us too, i know its a shock, but its true.

you know what we do, move on, get over it, have a wank.

words on a screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian."

I thought you were rather dark skinned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, that's happened to me a few times. But, at the end of the day you just deal with it. And it's not like your losing out or anything...

That's astoundingly rude and stupid. They can see from your picture that you're not Caucasian. So WTF?!

Doesn't matter that it happened 'a while back'. It can (and no doubt will) happen again. Perhaps not to you, but to someone else. I wish I wish people would get more sensible and less moronic, but that ain't gonna happen.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol @ "sexytoysareus" you totally missed the point. Sexual preferences are fine, no one should have a problem with it but showing plenty of interest on what they see then finding out about you're background and then changing you're attitude is a little narrow minded. If I found someone attractive I'd look at the character next not ask if they are full black or White.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

I thought you were rather dark skinned

And now you know why!

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"Lol @ "sexytoysareus" you totally missed the point. Sexual preferences are fine, no one should have a problem with it but showing plenty of interest on what they see then finding out about you're background and then changing you're attitude is a little narrow minded. If I found someone attractive I'd look at the character next not ask if they are full black or White. "
and, just allow people to do what THEY want to go with THEIR body.

People think swinging is a free for all.

And sometimes it's just your perception playing on your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, that's happened to me a few times. But, at the end of the day you just deal with it. And it's not like your losing out or anything...

That's astoundingly rude and stupid. They can see from your picture that you're not Caucasian. So WTF?!

..i know! It's not like that was rocket science was it to figure out that i'm of a different race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe people are just curious, i havnt met many foreign people, i have met two black men on here because they seemed nice and friendly, not too serious, so before i met them i asked them if they were born in this country and they said yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some girls/couples look for BBC but mines more medium and ginger! I move on to find someone who likes my pasty parsnip. Each to their own mate.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

Popeye, before I post my thoughts can you confirm whether or not you are of Asian heritage?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, that's happened to me a few times. But, at the end of the day you just deal with it. And it's not like your losing out or anything...

That's astoundingly rude and stupid. They can see from your picture that you're not Caucasian. So WTF?!

..i know! It's not like that was rocket science was it to figure out that i'm of a different race.

You're not a Ginger are you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popeye, before I post my thoughts can you confirm whether or not you are of Asian heritage?"

...im an asian sensation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah, that's happened to me a few times. But, at the end of the day you just deal with it. And it's not like your losing out or anything...

That's astoundingly rude and stupid. They can see from your picture that you're not Caucasian. So WTF?!

..i know! It's not like that was rocket science was it to figure out that i'm of a different race.

You're not a Ginger are you?

I wish i was as gorgeous as you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would ask because I'm curious, not because its a deal breaker. "

Me too. I'd ask because I'm a nosey bitch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Popeye, before I post my thoughts can you confirm whether or not you are of Asian heritage?"

Don't. JUST DON'T

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that the reason they give? Sometimes people chat and any little thing might change their mind. Some people might ask just out of interest and to make conversation.

Still seems rude to ask though. Think if it was me I wouldn't reply to them. Would you want to meet someone that thought that way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be thankful. If somebody is pathetic enough to show interest in you until the moment they can pigeon-hole you by ethnicity, they're hardly going to be the kind of company you'd like anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see where OP is coming from. Think the point he's making is if you have an attraction to someone or they catch your eye, why would you then worry yourself with things like ethnic origin etc.

Easier said that done I know, particularly where religion is involved for example.

If only the world was a simple place

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is that the reason they give? Sometimes people chat and any little thing might change their mind. Some people might ask just out of interest and to make conversation.

Still seems rude to ask though. Think if it was me I wouldn't reply to them. Would you want to meet someone that thought that way?"

Well I don't mind telling anyone about my ethnicity. I don't lie about it... Could you imagine if someone asked me and I lied and said I just have a tan then after sex told her I'm actually half Turkish. It could traumatise someone for life. I think it's best to be honest

I'm not attacking anyone here for having sexual preferences. All I'm saying is if you look at someone's pics and think I fancy him or her and then change you're attitude because he has something in his blood which you may think isn't pure, is narrow minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly"

Yours isn't...

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

I was shocked and upset after turning down a guy after seeing his face pic (not floating my boat) to then be questioned by him if I was racist etc. I was gobsmacked. If he had read my verfis and knew anything about me he would have never had asked.

I did delete report and block but was quite amazed. I turned him down as didn't find him attractive at all and his messages up to then were beginning to annoy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again ......funny though as you'd expect these kinda same old race debate/questions from teenagers not grown adults who should have a pretty good concept of the world by now ....lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

Yours isn't..."

His may not be in question by other users though.

OP must have a mixed look and thus the curiosity creeps in and the question is asked.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

"Popeye, before I post my thoughts can you confirm whether or not you are of Asian heritage?

...im an asian sensation lol

Ok, here's a simple fact... Many women who will go with a black man will not go with an Asian. Some will only go with black men of Afro Caribbean heritage and not African.

The reason some of you are declined is from your pictures you may be mixed race black/white but once it's established you are of Asian heritage they are no longer interested.

People will post along the lines of "It shouldn't matter about the colour of a persons skin" or "I go for the personality" and to that I say just because we use a site that's primary purpose is for us to have sex with strangers (still a stranger after a coffee and a chat) it doesn't mean that peoples prejudices will be left at Fab's virtual door.

Just accept that your skin tone and heritage are not desirable to some, more on.

Oh, these prejudices don't normally apply to males when it comes to getting their leg over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

Yours isn't...

His may not be in question by other users though.

OP must have a mixed look and thus the curiosity creeps in and the question is asked."

So do I in the dark. Should anybody ever ask they'll be told to fuck off.

What should people stipulate - Black or White? Or should they be more specific?

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

"I know people who just eat meat and two veg

People can live and sleep with whoever they want.

Seems just another lonely man thread"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn all your photos black and white?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

Yours isn't...

His may not be in question by other users though.

OP must have a mixed look and thus the curiosity creeps in and the question is asked.

So do I in the dark. Should anybody ever ask they'll be told to fuck off.

What should people stipulate - Black or White? Or should they be more specific?"

Sorry I'm not sure what exactly you're asking?

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"I would ask because I'm curious, not because its a deal breaker.

Me too. I'd ask because I'm a nosey bitch.

Me three cause i'm colour biased

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian."

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

Yours isn't...

His may not be in question by other users though.

OP must have a mixed look and thus the curiosity creeps in and the question is asked.

So do I in the dark. Should anybody ever ask they'll be told to fuck off.

What should people stipulate - Black or White? Or should they be more specific?

Sorry I'm not sure what exactly you're asking?"

I'm not really asking anything. I was trying to make the point that some prejudices are more refined than simply black or white. So perhaps we should all put details of our ancestry, just to be certain that people can be comfortable they won't be accidentally fucking the wrong sorts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

Yours isn't..."

my race isnt questioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just stick ur race down in ur pro

atleast then its out in the open and whoever can contact you accordingly

Yours isn't...

my race isnt questioned "

Why not? What are you? If you're Polish you look quite fit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im Caucasian and its never been questioned onhere until now lol

but if it were being questioned often i`d just stick a line in my pro to clear everything up

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am upfront about what I am, and if peeps don't like it, it is their problem, not mine.

I have only been rejected by one man due to my race, and he was not from FAB.

A couple of weeks later, he made a pass at me again in the adult chatroom I frequent at the time, and I reminded him about his previous rejection, before blocking him for good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?"

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From now on I will go by North European

Don't ask what part because that's personal and racist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party"

I'd have cancelled it telling them that they were a bunch of racist twats.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

Maybe some people have had experiences with mixed race/Asian/black/polish or whatever race they dont want to have sexual contact with?

Personally I like playing with black guys but not Asian guys, that is my choice and it isnt being rasict/rude/predudice or whatever people have being calling it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't get this. Can they not see from your pics that you're not white. If they like your pics and if they like your personality too and then they ask your race, and then get put off, this is very bad. It's racism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Question about race preference..."

The Tour de France, and it starts in the UK this year!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No preference here, I enjoy all ladies, I'm not worried about their race, colour or creed.

Fact is, it's up to you who you have sex with and who you find attractive and who you don't. No one has the right to tell you otherwise.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I personally don't think there's anything wrong with being asked what race you are if it's not obvious, I mean if you meet someone in a bar and get talking you'd ask out of interest and to make conversation no? Unless that's just me and I'm interested in knowing more about other cultures (and nosey too!). I get asked what my race is all the time, don't mind saying at all and usually get a very positive response as there aren't many Asian women on the site and quite often I get told that they've always been curious about Asian women. However with that all being said if someone was getting on with me, was interested, had regular communication and then stopped purely on the answer I give them about what race I am then my god they'd get a piece of my mind! That's just rude and plain ignorant, narrow minded racism...I agree on each to their own preference wise as everyone's tastes are different but if you have pictures, get along with them and they're like minded then race shouldn't be an issue...I think preconceived thoughts/ideas make people think twice with certain races which is a damn shame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"However with that all being said if someone was getting on with me, was interested, had regular communication and then stopped purely on the answer I give them about what race I am then my god they'd get a piece of my mind! That's just rude and plain ignorant, narrow minded racism..."

I think that's what the original question was about - that people fancied him until the point they enquired 'what' he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can go both ways...I was sent a pic tonight and replied that he was not my type and wished him well....he replied insinuating I had rejected him becsuse he was black ....I didnt I simply didnt find his face attractive irrespective of its colour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would ask because I'm curious, not because its a deal breaker. "

Exactly. There are some "races" where I can't decided what race they are, yet I would say they're attractive. So apart from people with white skin. I find others attractive, but I don't know what race they are and maybe this person is he same.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Here we go again ......funny though as you'd expect these kinda same old race debate/questions from teenagers not grown adults who should have a pretty good concept of the world by now ....lol"

Take your reason and logic off the boards. Haven't you realised they have no place here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do the people that are curious about people's ethnicity ever ask white people where they're from? Ever check to see if they're Aussie/Canadian/French?

There are so many profiles that state no Blacks/no Asians that it's understandable why somebody might assume if somebody asks that they're not doing so out of an interest in their cultural heritage.

On the other hand they might be asking because they really want to fuck a Black Eskimo - that would be a 'preference'.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I don't have a penis and I have been uninvited to parties when people have found out I am not white.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I don't have a penis and I have been uninvited to parties when people have found out I am not white.

What parties? The BNP?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

I'd have cancelled it telling them that they were a bunch of racist twats. "

I love the fact the party hosts don't revoke the invitation to the people expressing the "preference" to not have black/Asian people there and it's us ethnic minorities that get the message saying "sorry you can't come". I have then been accused of being overly sensitive when I reject their further invitations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am what I am I cant change it take it or leave it

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

So...hang on....

They told you you couldn't come because you were Asian and then had the cheek to invite you somewhere again?

Lordy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I don't have a penis and I have been uninvited to parties when people have found out I am not white. "

Speechless.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

So...hang on....

They told you you couldn't come because you were Asian and then had the cheek to invite you somewhere again?

Lordy.

Yep. It's happened three times since I have been on here. The first time I was in a couple and he could still attend without me, if he wanted, as he is white.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

Wow! Fortunately I have never experienced that at all, as I said, when people realise that I'm Indian the interest increases.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

So...hang on....

They told you you couldn't come because you were Asian and then had the cheek to invite you somewhere again?

Lordy.

Yep. It's happened three times since I have been on here. The first time I was in a couple and he could still attend without me, if he wanted, as he is white.

Weren't you alerted to the fact it was dodgy when the ticket read: White supremacists ball?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Wow! Fortunately I have never experienced that at all, as I said, when people realise that I'm Indian the interest increases."

You are incredibly hotter than I am though.

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

If it was purely a colour issue that would surely not be part of the selection criteria, even if it were true.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester

So...hang on....

They told you you couldn't come because you were Asian and then had the cheek to invite you somewhere again?

Lordy.

Yep. It's happened three times since I have been on here. The first time I was in a couple and he could still attend without me, if he wanted, as he is white.

It amazes me folk are amazed at this

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

So...hang on....

They told you you couldn't come because you were Asian and then had the cheek to invite you somewhere again?

Lordy.

Yep. It's happened three times since I have been on here. The first time I was in a couple and he could still attend without me, if he wanted, as he is white.

Weren't you alerted to the fact it was dodgy when the ticket read: White supremacists ball?"

It would make it easier. I rarely go to swinging parties now for this reason. Clubs and meeting friends but not parties where I don't know every other person/couple attending as I don't like finding out someone I liked is a dickhead who would prefer the new cunt to being honourable and sticking to the invitation already issued and accepted.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"If it was purely a colour issue that would surely not be part of the selection criteria, even if it were true."

I was joking about the hotter than me bit. You are but when the colour bar comes down it is about how your party hosts react. I am glad you have never experienced it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as we're all being totally honest here. Let me get this off my chest (can be my little therapy session for 2013).

...it's because of this issue i never really visited a swinging club (of course i haven't been to one so i'm just making a pre-judgement). From all the messages i used to get and so forth, i couldn't help thinking that it will be these exact same people who will be attending the clubs as well (i may be wrong). So, the response in the clubs would be the same as on here..

Now i'm getting a bit more confident about the club scene. Of course i have got the odd looks when i attended one. But, to be honest - it's not like i'm going to change for anyone now is it. I am what i am.

...and Lickety. For the record. Your HOT!!

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I used to have issues getting invited to parties due to the colour of my skin and I'm a skinny white boy.

They were a different kind of parties mind you and they were thrown by the family of my ex girlfriend but still bugged me when I was uninvited.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Seeing as we're all being totally honest here. Let me get this off my chest (can be my little therapy session for 2013).

...and Lickety. For the record. Your HOT!!

Pops, it's 2014.

One of the reasons I like clubs is that it's obvious what I am and if people want to engage with me and me with them it's straightforward.

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over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I used to have issues getting invited to parties due to the colour of my skin and I'm a skinny white boy.

They were a different kind of parties mind you and they were thrown by the family of my ex girlfriend but still bugged me when I was uninvited. "

It's the uninviting that is rude and annoying.

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over a year ago

"I used to have issues getting invited to parties due to the colour of my skin and I'm a skinny white boy.

They were a different kind of parties mind you and they were thrown by the family of my ex girlfriend but still bugged me when I was uninvited.

It's the uninviting that is rude and annoying.

More puzzling really. I've no idea how anyone now can still have hang ups over skin colour, and I mean that in a social sense rather than how this site is used.

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over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party"

this has flummoxed me...........and amazed me.in fact its disgusted me.

my reason?-nothing about who plays with who..the fact people wouldnt be in the same vicinity as 'different' people.I meet bisexuals/tvs etc at parties..I dont expect to play with them, or kindly refuse...just as some might me.

my retort would have been to the couples etc not wanting the asian couple to come would have been to tell them to fuck off...u can have parties anytime, with people at least more opened mined,and a lot more fucking grown up.

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over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

this has flummoxed me...........and amazed me.in fact its disgusted me.

Exactly. When I read Lickety's post, my jaw literally dropped. I must have led a very sheltered life. Such ignorance and rudeness are alien to me.

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over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

this has flummoxed me...........and amazed me.in fact its disgusted me.

Exactly. When I read Lickety's post, my jaw literally dropped. I must have led a very sheltered life. Such ignorance and rudeness are alien to me."

price of popularity.......I know how my backbones fitted

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

this has flummoxed me...........and amazed me.in fact its disgusted me.

Exactly. When I read Lickety's post, my jaw literally dropped. I must have led a very sheltered life. Such ignorance and rudeness are alien to me."

But you didn't need my post. The one that is being quoted says that they uninvited an Asian couple because others didn't want them there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Indeed, I didn't. I referenced wrongly. My jaw started dropping many posts earlier.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I was also gobsmacked that anyone should uninvite someone they wanted to be there in order to pander to the bigoted preferences of others.

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By *ighland_RoseCouple
over a year ago

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"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party"

I'm really quite shocked that you didn't tell the bigots to fuck off and just have the Asian couple around.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

Am I rasict?

I have white friends, I have Asian friends and all colours inbetween. I recently gave a pollish lady a lift home home from a training course so she didnt have to get 3 buses. I work with people of all races and religion and none of its an issue. I dont have a problem with foriegn health proffesionals.

I like to swing with black guys, I dont like to swing with black guys who dont speak very good english, I dont like to swing with black girls. I like polish women but not men! I dont like to swing with Asian or Turkish men.

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

I totally get the frustration about the post above when an Asian couple were let down due to none of the other people wanting to swing with them, does that make them racists??? after all they are excluding someone due to skin colour.

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over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

I'm really quite shocked that you didn't tell the bigots to fuck off and just have the Asian couple around.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

To the OP...

I had a quick look...

Where did you get that tan? Was it expensive or did your company pay for it?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

So...hang on....

They told you you couldn't come because you were Asian and then had the cheek to invite you somewhere again?

Lordy.

Yep. It's happened three times since I have been on here. The first time I was in a couple and he could still attend without me, if he wanted, as he is white.

It amazes me folk are amazed at this"

Of course they are because racism doesn't exist, it's all in the mind of us sensitive "blacks" with chips on our shoulders.

That said, prejudices are not straight forward. I'm Afro-Caribbean but will not play with anyone from Africa. In fact I turned down a white man who had a business base and homes in Nigeria and Ghana. When he told me his housekeeper was a prostitute he and his business partner shared my skin crawled!

Conversely, there are certain accents that put me off as I have negative thoughts about the people: German and Afrikaans being two. My boyfriend is Dutch, his English is superior to mine and it's his sixth language the other five being Dutch (of course) Afrikaans, German, Flemish and French!

Us humans are complex creatures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I rasict?

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

My first question would be what you have against Polish men and black women?

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over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian."

i know i am xx

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over a year ago

"So far it has always worked in my favour. People seem to be more interested when they find out that I'm Indian.

Can't help but wonder if that interest would still be there if you had a penis

I have a couple of convincing toys.

Do you think colour preference is only applied to guys then? If so, why would that be?

have to agree with you.

we were organising a party a while ago and had to let an asian couple we wanted there down because no one else would play with them.

think its disgraceful as we would have loved to have had them come, but then it wouldnt have been a party

I'm really quite shocked that you didn't tell the bigots to fuck off and just have the Asian couple around.

What's a little ethnic profiling amongst swingers? Obviously it's not enough to stop a party.

Multiculturalism is a dirty word in many parts of the UK.

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By *aisy100Woman
over a year ago

wakefield

"Am I rasict?

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

My first question would be what you have against Polish men and black women? "

Nothing why would you ask that? Because I dont want to swing with them?

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over a year ago

"Am I rasict?

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

My first question would be what you have against Polish men and black women?

Nothing why would you ask that? Because I dont want to swing with them?"

Just find it odd. There's people that I don't find attractive, but not entire races or ethnic groups.

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

"Am I rasict?

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

My first question would be what you have against Polish men and black women?

Nothing why would you ask that? Because I dont want to swing with them?

Just find it odd. There's people that I don't find attractive, but not entire races or ethnic groups. "

I don't eat fish but I like cod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me many times. U get chatting for ages and feel a lot of enthousiasm coming from the others side but when the info about (where u from originally) gets addressed in the chat. They either disappear as soon as they know or react in a shocking way. and time is wasted and feelings hurt. Thats why I have decided to simply put it in my profile. At times it can be an attraction to some that u r from a different culture but better being upfront about it from the start ruther then facing tge shock later lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Visually I gravitate towards a particular type of Caucasian. Mind you I have a love for diversity and would be thrilled to converse about different cultures and religions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Visually I gravitate towards a particular type of Caucasian. Mind you I have a love for diversity and would be thrilled to converse about different cultures and religions."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think that's what the original question was about - that people fancied him until the point they enquired 'what' he was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My two penneth for what its worth...

Firstly I had a brief relationship with a Pakistani guy which ended as his family had him marry a Pakistani girl even though he'd never met her and didn't like her when they did marry...but his lack of balls and fright at going against parents astounded me...especially since he was a drinker, smoker and fucker of white women at heart

Secondly my experience of Asian and Eastern European men in clubs is horrendous...rude, derogatory comments, touching when not asked, disrespectful attitude, and letchy stalker behaviour.

For these reasons I would not have sex with either of these groups. I am intelligent enough to appreciate that not all men of these origins are the same, but personal experience goes a long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why?

I find plenty good looking(male and female), regardless of their race(and yes I prefer white and am straight), but doesn't mean because someone is good looking and can hold conversation, means I want to have sex with them.

If someone says no it's a preference, really don't get why getting wound up about it.

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over a year ago

I have no Asian men on my profile (not into black men either). I've been called many things, racist included, for my preference. I have nothing against them, just not attracted to them. I've never had a problem with my race (I'm Asian) but with my appearance, as I have a shaved head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone says no it's a preference, really don't get why getting wound up about it."

Nobody is are they? That's an entirely different issue than the question asked, which related to people finding somebody attractive until the point they learned of their ethnicity.

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over a year ago

People will always use "preferences" to try and hide their bigotted and prejudiced views. The crass language used or the extreme nature of those preferences (such as the person recently who wouldn't meet anyone that had met black or asian men), to me go way beyond preferences.

But conversely suggesting that anyone who expresses a preference is racist is as stupid and ridiculous as suggesting anyone that isn't bisexual is homophobic. Preferences are often just that with no sinister motive behind them.

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over a year ago

"People will always use "preferences" to try and hide their bigotted and prejudiced views. The crass language used or the extreme nature of those preferences (such as the person recently who wouldn't meet anyone that had met black or asian men), to me go way beyond preferences.

Very much in agreement with the above.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

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reminds me of the fateful night many moons ago when there was a conversation about race (the really old time regulars will back me up) and someone stated that not only did they not play with black people.... but they also didn't play with anyone else that had played with black people!.....

I would have thought people would have had stronger convictions than to bow down and let others dictate to them who they should and shouldn't invite to parties.......

not everyone is going to like everyone to play with... and I thought people would have been mature enough to understand that..

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"reminds me of the fateful night many moons ago when there was a conversation about race (the really old time regulars will back me up) and someone stated that not only did they not play with black people.... but they also didn't play with anyone else that had played with black people!.....

I would have thought people would have had stronger convictions than to bow down and let others dictate to them who they should and shouldn't invite to parties.......

not everyone is going to like everyone to play with... and I thought people would have been mature enough to understand that..

It is a bit like saying you will never play with anyone who has ever gone bareback - how the fuck will you know?

I do find the assumption that everyone will pile in at a party strange too. I have been to parties where the only person to interest me is the person who invited me. I must have been a bad guest for not opening my legs to everyone else.

I don't have a problem with preference and I don't think everyone is being racist but I do understand the OP and am surprised at the behaviour of some.

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over a year ago

I don't think racism plays a part in this. Unless of course you receive deregotary comments with their message back. Then, you can say 'hold on mate, that's a bit racist innit'.

Preference is preference at the end of the day. And if someone isn't comfortable with meeting people of a certain age/race/body type/hairstyle and so forth. Then, you just respect that really.

...it's not the end of the world.

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over a year ago

"I don't think racism plays a part in this. Unless of course you receive deregotary comments with their message back. Then, you can say 'hold on mate, that's a bit racist innit'.

Preference is preference at the end of the day. And if someone isn't comfortable with meeting people of a certain age/race/body type/hairstyle and so forth. Then, you just respect that really.

...it's not the end of the world.

I think you're spot on. On a site like this the number of people who won't play with a particular group, who are genuinely racist, is likely to be minuscule.

The problem comes with the almost inherent need to defend ones self in such situations. This is what often leads to inconsistencies, poor excuses and opens people up for my criticism and abuse.

I know a lady who is overly vocal about the fact that she doesn't fancy black guys. Her reasoning is that she doesn't think they treat women well. We will forget the fact that she has had many bad relationships with white men, terrible relationships with the fathers of her children. While we are at it, we might as well also skip over the wet patches she leaves everytime she posts a picture of Will Smith topless on Facebook though.......

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

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"I have no Asian men on my profile (not into black men either). I've been called many things, racist included, for my preference. I have nothing against them, just not attracted to them. I've never had a problem with my race (I'm Asian) but with my appearance, as I have a shaved head. "

Are you channeling Persis Khambatta from the original Star Trek movie? One of many women who rock the shaven headed look?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

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I would have thought people would have had stronger convictions than to bow down and let others dictate to them who they should and shouldn't invite to parties.......

not everyone is going to like everyone to play with... and I thought people would have been mature enough to understand that..

Who could forget that night?!!

it wasn't the fact they didn't meet black people it was the fact they went through the verifications of people who contacted them to see if they'd met black people and went through their verifications. When they had time to meet lord knows!

Crazy night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think racism plays a part in this. Unless of course you receive deregotary comments with their message back. Then, you can say 'hold on mate, that's a bit racist innit'.

Preference is preference at the end of the day. And if someone isn't comfortable with meeting people of a certain age/race/body type/hairstyle and so forth. Then, you just respect that really.

...it's not the end of the world.

at the end of the day in my eyes we are all human beings and there is good and bad in all walks of life.

if people choose not to play with a group of people based upon the skin colour whether it be it black, white, cuban or asian (will smith) then that is their choice.

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over a year ago

I would have thought people would have had stronger convictions than to bow down and let others dictate to them who they should and shouldn't invite to parties.......

not everyone is going to like everyone to play with... and I thought people would have been mature enough to understand that..

Who could forget that night?!!

Crazy night!"

sounds like it was a breeze

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over a year ago

you look at the person not their colour. me i dont care if they are black pink green or red with white polka dot strips if i am atracted to them who cares

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over a year ago

"I don't think racism plays a part in this. Unless of course you receive deregotary comments with their message back. Then, you can say 'hold on mate, that's a bit racist innit'.

Preference is preference at the end of the day. And if someone isn't comfortable with meeting people of a certain age/race/body type/hairstyle and so forth. Then, you just respect that really.

...it's not the end of the world.

I'm still not convinced. Of course it's personal choice, but still doesn't explain why you make that choice.

If a shopkeeper feels that a certain ethnic group are more likely to shoplift or cause trouble in his shop, is it acceptable for him to choose not to serve anyone from that race?

If you have experience of members of a certain ethnic group behaving in a particular way and then expect all other members of that group to behave in the same way, surely that is racism?

I'm not saying people can't choose who they sleep with, that would be daft and would also be way off what the original post was trying to convey.

Peace

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over a year ago

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racism

I think the word 'racism' is being bandied around a bit too freely. The inherent feeling of superiority will be absent in lots of cases here. What I think is happening, is that what is often meant is 'xenophobia'.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xenophobia

Good oldfashioned fear of the foreigner, their strange language, culture, smells, food

I have never been the victim of racism, but certainly of various forms of xenophobia. When people insult my ears with their preconceived ideas about foreigners and I remind them that I am one of those 'bloody foreigners', they always hasten to add, "Oh, but you are different, you are one of us!". Bollox.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know people who just eat meat and two veg

People can live and sleep with whoever they want.

Seems just another lonely man thread

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By *hemissinglinkMan
over a year ago

Greatt Barr

I say people can shag who they want. I personally do not make decisions based on skin time, country of birth or origin. But I accept it's as discriminative as a preference for blondes only, or only ladies who are under a size 14 etc etc.

Even those who claim to not agree with having a colour/ethnic preference, themselves have their own preferences. Be it weight, height, age etc.

The specifics of your origin may not seem like a big deal to you but may be to someone else. And that is a preference they're allowed to have and a choice they are afforded. Just as you can chose not to meet married women or dom ladies.

By recognising the freedom of choice you have, it becomes easier to empathise with someone who's decision may not be to your liking but ultimately is a manifestation of that same freedom of choice.

The alternative is oppression. I know what I prefer.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Racism

I think the word 'racism' is being bandied around a bit too freely. The inherent feeling of superiority will be absent in lots of cases here. What I think is happeni!ng, is that what is often meant is 'xenophobia'.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xenophobia

Good oldfashioned fear of the foreigner, their strange language, culture, smells, food

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over a year ago

Why oh why do we hear the race card being used so often by mixed or folk of asian origin.

This may be uncomfortable reading for some folk but rightly or wrongly there is still the perception of asian chaps looking down on women.

Granted a very small minority are like this but the perception is there.

As for the comment that if a particular group whether white black pink or any colour are deemed responsible for say shoplifting then why should say shopkeepers not be wary of that particular group.

Surely we all make assumptions about folk daily.

For me every junkie i see are white and i assume rightly or wrongly they are scum but in reality just minority are so i keep distance from them.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Why oh why do we hear the race card being used so often by mixed or folk of asian origin.

This may be uncomfortable reading for some folk but rightly or wrongly there is still the perception of asian chaps looking down on women.

Granted a very small minority are like this but the perception is there.

As for the comment that if a particular group whether white black pink or any colour are deemed responsible for say shoplifting then why should say shopkeepers not be wary of that particular group.

Surely we all make assumptions about folk daily.

For me every junkie i see are white and i assume rightly or wrongly they are scum but in reality just minority are so i keep distance from them.

You say rightly or wrongly but if it's wrong it's wrong simple as. You say it's about perception and I agree with you but if the perception is that because some Asian men treat women a certain way they all do then just because that's the way it is doesn't make it acceptable.

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over a year ago

"Why oh why do we hear the race card being used so often by mixed or folk of asian origin.

This may be uncomfortable reading for some folk but rightly or wrongly there is still the perception of asian chaps looking down on women.

Granted a very small minority are like this but the perception is there.

As for the comment that if a particular group whether white black pink or any colour are deemed responsible for say shoplifting then why should say shopkeepers not be wary of that particular group.

Surely we all make assumptions about folk daily.

For me every junkie i see are white and i assume rightly or wrongly they are scum but in reality just minority are so i keep distance from them.

To me its unacceptable that any folk treat women as crao ir second class thats just one perception i have and has mentioned junkies i assume are all scum to me its acceptable to think like that because to a degree its true.

Whats right to me wiil be different to someone else. I am open to pursuasion on all things but until i am convinced my perceptions are correct and based on experience however uncomfortable it is for folk.

In ideal world everyone would have no preconceptions but a lot of folk do.

Another example being i think all mps are corrupt and out to screw us all over whereas in reality its not all of but a substantial amount does that make me wrong to assume this. I do not believe it does.

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

"Why oh why do we hear the race card being used so often by mixed or folk of asian origin.

This may be uncomfortable reading for some folk but rightly or wrongly there is still the perception of asian chaps looking down on women.

Granted a very small minority are like this but the perception is there.

As for the comment that if a particular group whether white black pink or any colour are deemed responsible for say shoplifting then why should say shopkeepers not be wary of that particular group.

Surely we all make assumptions about folk daily.

For me every junkie i see are white and i assume rightly or wrongly they are scum but in reality just minority are so i keep distance from them.

In ideal world everyone would have no preconceptions but a lot of folk do.

It's wrong to believe that because some are they all are. Understandable to have doubts but that doesn't make it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I rasict?

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

My first question would be what you have against Polish men and black women?

Nothing why would you ask that? Because I dont want to swing with them?

Just find it odd. There's people that I don't find attractive, but not entire races or ethnic groups.

I don't eat fish but I like cod"

If you eat cod, you eat fish.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

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"Am I rasict?

Or am I just racist against people im not attracted to?

My first question would be what you have against Polish men and black women?

Nothing why would you ask that? Because I dont want to swing with them?

Just find it odd. There's people that I don't find attractive, but not entire races or ethnic groups.

I don't eat fish but I like cod

If you eat cod, you eat fish. "

Doh!!!

THAT'S what was baffling me about that statement: cod IS a fish!

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Lol. I would love to try every race that exist on earth. Different tastes. My next on the list is Indian and black woman. Any offers feel free to PM

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