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"I love to see a nice cock. I don't like them as an avatar. But then I dislike close up of pussy shots as avatars either. I feel it lacks imagination. A ladies breasts and a mans chest or naked back are not genitals. Why would I show desert on the menu. I start with showing then the 4 courses before I get to dessert x" What's wrong with cocks like avatars? | |||
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"Because we like to see the hold package no just the tool....lol" your right a cock is a body part a face is a person . | |||
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"I love to see a nice cock. I don't like them as an avatar. But then I dislike close up of pussy shots as avatars either. I feel it lacks imagination. A ladies breasts and a mans chest or naked back are not genitals. Why would I show desert on the menu. I start with showing then the 4 courses before I get to dessert x What's wrong with cocks like avatars?" because it can make women think that the person is all about thinking with their cock and not enough with their head. for example: "wow he really likes his own cock too much" most women will skim over profiles that have cock pics as avatars | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover...." | |||
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"Its just not as appealing in 1D as in 3D or 4D " | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover...." there isno cover.... | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover...." people don't want to get to know the cock, they want to get to know the person....they are only interested in a cock if they have the intention of meeting the person attached to it....that's just my opinion but hey ho | |||
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"Some cocks are nicer looking than others. I'm afraid that a cock user pic in my inbox will get me , whereas a nice torso pic will get me We all have our preferences." | |||
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"Its just not as appealing in 1D as in 3D or 4D " Or judging a bloke by his cock..... | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover...." But we're in a past time where judgements are made purely because of the nature of what we do...and they start with the cover...your cock pics are pretty much all the same and frankly, that's a bit boring...your other pics show much more of your personality and would be a much better indicator to me of whether or not I'd want to meet you... | |||
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"Cock pics are a major turn off for me. Instant delete. Only thing worse is a floppy cock or a strange looking cock. God -I'm making myself feel ill! " So you don't like floppy cock Can you let me know what your man takes to keep it up all the time lol | |||
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"Cock pics are a major turn off for me. Instant delete. Only thing worse is a floppy cock or a strange looking cock. God -I'm making myself feel ill! " I'm totally with you on that one!! | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover...." Ok, you like your cock and like your avatar. You apparently seem to think the sight of it should set women drooling. Women tell you that most of them dislike too many cock pics and don't like cock avatars. Now, you have two choices. You can keep the photos and avs you love, complain about women not loving your cock like you do and try to persuade us we're wrong. Or you can accept what (most)) women say about what attracts them and what turns them off, accept that women are wired differently to you and "market" yourself here to appeal to your target market. The first option will likely result in fewer meets. Do you prefer showing your cock pics and having a cock avatar to getting meets and getting to use the cock? The second option will probably get you more interest. It always amuses me when guys have lots of cock photos because it's what they like, then wonder why most of their fabs and messages are from men, and women aren't interested! If you want to advertise something, advertise it in a way that will appeal to your target market. You are not part of your target market so, when it comes to trying to get meets, what you like, or what you think women should like, isn't relevant. You can campaign not to be judged on your cover, or you can improve your cover. I know which of those makes more sense to me. As I said though, it's your profile, stuff it as full of cocks as you like. | |||
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"Cock pics are a major turn off for me. Instant delete. Only thing worse is a floppy cock or a strange looking cock. God -I'm making myself feel ill! I'm totally with you on that one!!" ...Us as-well | |||
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"Cock pics are a major turn off for me. Instant delete. Only thing worse is a floppy cock or a strange looking cock. God -I'm making myself feel ill! I'm totally with you on that one!!...Us as-well " me too! | |||
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"Women say to many cock pics turn them off,I think my cock is nice and I like showing it. Same as most ladies here have lovely pussy and tits pics (turns me on tho) What do you guys think?" sometimes its the mental stimulation that does it for people.... for example having clothes on and trying to imagine what is underneath as opposed to just having everything on show.... I believe the brain is the biggest sexual organ.... plus... to be honest, a cock is just a cock... so unless yours does something special, like tell the time! we all know what they look like...... | |||
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"...to be honest, a cock is just a cock... so unless yours does something special, like tell the time! we all know what they look like......" ^ what he said | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. " | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. " Thank fuck is all I can say on this one!!! | |||
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"I really don't mind what pics others choose to display. I show the pics that I like. Others should do likewise. It wouldn't put me off chatting to someone with just cock pics, unless it looked so bad I wouldn't want to touch it with a stick! I wouldn't necessarily approach someone with a profile like that though. " | |||
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"For reasons I wont go into, im glad some guys put cock pics up " They may be the same reasons of why I like to see a cock before a meet too | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. " True but most cocks aren't attractive. I don't think I have ever looked at a cock photo and though "I have to have some of that" I like to know what I'm getting if I plan a meet with someone but one or two is fine. I don't need 50 from minutely different angles and I'd prefer not to have any with the first message. (Note I'm not saying pussies are attractive either. Close-ups of pussies and fanny avatars are just as bad). | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. True but most cocks aren't attractive. I don't think I have ever looked at a cock photo and though "I have to have some of that" )." I have | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. True but most cocks aren't attractive. I don't think I have ever looked at a cock photo and though "I have to have some of that"" oooohhh I have!!!! | |||
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"Just yo make a point I wasn't complaining or anything. Its only cuz Ave seen women talking bout it on this site or complain on their status So I thought let's see what other ppl think.. " We know | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. " TRUE some are plain and some are plain ugly. | |||
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"A cock isn't just a cock, they don't all look the same, just like pussies are not all the same. True but most cocks aren't attractive. I don't think I have ever looked at a cock photo and though "I have to have some of that" ). I have " Vive la difference! | |||
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"lol @ mutant cock" They're out there. It's an image I am never going to be able to wipe from my mind | |||
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"Because I don't want my eyes poked out! Simple! " hahahahahahahaha!! | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover.... Ok, you like your cock and like your avatar. You apparently seem to think the sight of it should set women drooling. Women tell you that most of them dislike too many cock pics and don't like cock avatars. Now, you have two choices. You can keep the photos and avs you love, complain about women not loving your cock like you do and try to persuade us we're wrong. Or you can accept what (most)) women say about what attracts them and what turns them off, accept that women are wired differently to you and "market" yourself here to appeal to your target market. The first option will likely result in fewer meets. Do you prefer showing your cock pics and having a cock avatar to getting meets and getting to use the cock? The second option will probably get you more interest. It always amuses me when guys have lots of cock photos because it's what they like, then wonder why most of their fabs and messages are from men, and women aren't interested! If you want to advertise something, advertise it in a way that will appeal to your target market. You are not part of your target market so, when it comes to trying to get meets, what you like, or what you think women should like, isn't relevant. You can campaign not to be judged on your cover, or you can improve your cover. I know which of those makes more sense to me. As I said though, it's your profile, stuff it as full of cocks as you like. " Exactly this If I never see another cock pic on here that would suit me fine. They often make me feel quite ill. If a guy sends me messages with a cock pic as an avatar I ask him to either change his pic or stop messaging. Simples. | |||
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"But having cock pics don't mean your full of your self or your a prick. Remember this person still has a personality and showing off his cock that he likes should be a problem.it's basically judging a book by its cover.... Ok, you like your cock and like your avatar. You apparently seem to think the sight of it should set women drooling. Women tell you that most of them dislike too many cock pics and don't like cock avatars. Now, you have two choices. You can keep the photos and avs you love, complain about women not loving your cock like you do and try to persuade us we're wrong. Or you can accept what (most)) women say about what attracts them and what turns them off, accept that women are wired differently to you and "market" yourself here to appeal to your target market. The first option will likely result in fewer meets. Do you prefer showing your cock pics and having a cock avatar to getting meets and getting to use the cock? The second option will probably get you more interest. It always amuses me when guys have lots of cock photos because it's what they like, then wonder why most of their fabs and messages are from men, and women aren't interested! If you want to advertise something, advertise it in a way that will appeal to your target market. You are not part of your target market so, when it comes to trying to get meets, what you like, or what you think women should like, isn't relevant. You can campaign not to be judged on your cover, or you can improve your cover. I know which of those makes more sense to me. As I said though, it's your profile, stuff it as full of cocks as you like. " | |||
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"Personally, I cycle my cock pics regularly as my avatar, simply because they're the most popular kind of pic, and get me more profile views, where people are then free to read it and see that I take the art of swinging courtship a lot more seriously than 'ah I'll just use a pick of my big cock and the girls will come a'flocking'." Is profile views your measure of success? | |||
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"I've never asked for a cock pic, never asked how big it is, never stated a preference at all: never chose a playmate by the size of his cock. Therefore cock pics, avatar cock pics are deleted. Don't get me started on cock pics dripping cum! " Same here | |||
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"Personally, I cycle my cock pics regularly as my avatar, simply because they're the most popular kind of pic, and get me more profile views, where people are then free to read it and see that I take the art of swinging courtship a lot more seriously than 'ah I'll just use a pick of my big cock and the girls will come a'flocking'. Is profile views your measure of success?" Nope, but without them it'd be rather difficult to get meets. | |||
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"I've never asked for a cock pic, never asked how big it is, never stated a preference at all: never chose a playmate by the size of his cock. Therefore cock pics, avatar cock pics are deleted. Don't get me started on cock pics dripping cum! " *shudder* | |||
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"because men seem to think all we want is cock, we want to see who is attached to it and get to know them. Some men think with their cocks instead of their heads" well said | |||
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"You can lead a horse to water....." ...and you've a better chance of it drinking than if you don't. | |||
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"You can lead a horse to water....." But you can't make the darned thing do the washing up. | |||
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"lol @ mutant cock They're out there. It's an image I am never going to be able to wipe from my mind " Yeah I know, why do you think I now ask for a cock pic before a meet | |||
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"because men seem to think all we want is cock, we want to see who is attached to it and get to know them. Some men think with their cocks instead of their heads well said" thanks haha | |||
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"Personally, I cycle my cock pics regularly as my avatar, simply because they're the most popular kind of pic, and get me more profile views, where people are then free to read it and see that I take the art of swinging courtship a lot more seriously than 'ah I'll just use a pick of my big cock and the girls will come a'flocking'." Yeah but you've got a awesome cock that makes the mouth water | |||
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"Maybe they just put cock pics as there ugly and they don't want to show there face, they hope the women will suddenly think like a man and instantly message at the slightest glimpse of private parts " There are face pics but women just think they've got to many cock pics aswell | |||
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"Personally, I cycle my cock pics regularly as my avatar, simply because they're the most popular kind of pic, and get me more profile views, where people are then free to read it and see that I take the art of swinging courtship a lot more seriously than 'ah I'll just use a pick of my big cock and the girls will come a'flocking'. Yeah but you've got a awesome cock that makes the mouth water " Thankyou | |||
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"Try putting one of your face pics then, your not ugly so that may get people more interested. And maybe put a few of the cock pics into friends only album?? " Think I wI'll leave it just the way it is cuz I don't see the couple's taking most of their wife's or gf pics off and putting it equal . There more pics of their wife's or gf. Take yours for example | |||
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"Try putting one of your face pics then, your not ugly so that may get people more interested. And maybe put a few of the cock pics into friends only album?? Think I wI'll leave it just the way it is cuz I don't see the couple's taking most of their wife's or gf pics off and putting it equal . There more pics of their wife's or gf. Take yours for example " You are comparing photos of your cock to photos of the female halves of couples? I see your meet success improving in leaps and bounds. | |||
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"well, OP, if you are convinced you know more about what women want to see than they do, and the answer to that is 'plenty of cock' then crack on with your bad self and see where it gets you." But the women are wrong dammit. They shouldn't be judging the book by its cock. Or something. | |||
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"and we don't have any problems gettin messages from people wanting to meet us so we have nothing to worry about to feel we have to post threads about people not getting in touch " But same here am just saying I see women complain about it on here. I do get meets and it was only a thought not a problem | |||
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"well, OP, if you are convinced you know more about what women want to see than they do, and the answer to that is 'plenty of cock' then crack on with your bad self and see where it gets you." My bad self? How rude ! Who Are you to judge me? | |||
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"and we don't have any problems gettin messages from people wanting to meet us so we have nothing to worry about to feel we have to post threads about people not getting in touch But same here am just saying I see women complain about it on here. I do get meets and it was only a thought not a problem " It's because people like to have something to complain about. If it's not cock pics it's something else. I wouldn't waste my time trying to work out what or why others think what they do. The only one you have to please is yourself and if you're getting results then there is no problem. Let the others complain as much as they like. | |||
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"well, OP, if you are convinced you know more about what women want to see than they do, and the answer to that is 'plenty of cock' then crack on with your bad self and see where it gets you. My bad self? How rude ! Who Are you to judge me? " everybody judges everybody....you're on a swingers site, what did you expect?! | |||
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"Come on ladies know need to bite no thanks " | |||
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