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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Grizzly and I have have lived in our flat for just over a year and for the majority of that year we have been kept awake and verbally abused by our upstairs neighbour. She had mid week parties that go in till all ours, we ask her to turn it down and get abuse. We had her sister kicking off at me a few weeks ago because she thinks I kissed her ex, 10 years ago. And the last 3 nights there have been these arguments that have gone on for hours, screaming, shouting and banging. I don't know what to do about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Grizzly and I have have lived in our flat for just over a year and for the majority of that year we have been kept awake and verbally abused by our upstairs neighbour. She had mid week parties that go in till all ours, we ask her to turn it down and get abuse. We had her sister kicking off at me a few weeks ago because she thinks I kissed her ex, 10 years ago. And the last 3 nights there have been these arguments that have gone on for hours, screaming, shouting and banging. I don't know what to do about it "

Parties that go on till all hours *

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Grizzly and I have have lived in our flat for just over a year and for the majority of that year we have been kept awake and verbally abused by our upstairs neighbour. She had mid week parties that go in till all ours, we ask her to turn it down and get abuse. We had her sister kicking off at me a few weeks ago because she thinks I kissed her ex, 10 years ago. And the last 3 nights there have been these arguments that have gone on for hours, screaming, shouting and banging. I don't know what to do about it "

Call and speak to your council...they will have someone who deals with noise nuisance and difficult neighbours and a process to go through...if they're threatening you, involve the police

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"move"

It's council, we can't afford private at the minute and it would take them months to move us anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a long process whatever you do. Environmental Health will tell you to keep a diary of everything. This is to collate some evidence. They might send a letter in the first instance but generally there is no follow up unless all the other neighbours have been complaining too. If you know they are either Council or H.A. Tenants you could try complaining to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They will ask you to record times and dates and what not as evidence...usually if its another council tennant they can serve eviction notices if the are breaking their own tenancy with anti social behaviour...get in touch with your estate officer who will be able to advise and refer you to noise abatement section within your council x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They will ask you to record times and dates and what not as evidence...usually if its another council tennant they can serve eviction notices if the are breaking their own tenancy with anti social behaviour...get in touch with your estate officer who will be able to advise and refer you to noise abatement section within your council x"

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"move

It's council, we can't afford private at the minute and it would take them months to move us anyways"

speak to council they have their own asb team who will investigate and take action. its highly unlikely that you would get a move. The asb team can take action in terms of them. as asb is breach of tenancy agreement.

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

councils have streamlined process for dealing with shonky council tennants which i'm assuming they are .... get yourself down the housing department and tell them whats happening .... no need to bother with environmental health

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

In first instance they will give you an diary to complete so log dates and times etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dont fuck around with councils and all the rest of the bollox , you will get no where slowly , next incident , just have your man bang on their door , when they open it spark em out , it solves the problem in no time at all . had this problem when i lived in Royston in Glasgow , it took no more than a broken nose on their part and things became nice and peaceful . problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had problems with my neighbour so I punched him . He now lives in new Zealand. .

RESULT !!!!

May I add I have never hit anyone before in my life and will never again

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By *ecor atorMan
over a year ago

York

Log off here and get on Google and tool up with everything you can in terms of getting in touch with all the relevant agencies.

Message timed @ 08.21 7/1/2014

DO IT NOW! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless you, really feel for you, there is nothing worse and can drive anyone to despair, the advice given is what we have said, your only option is to try and get rehomed, or follow official channels of complaint, which are a long process, but really your only option. You could try reasoning with them, explaining the situation, but realise that this isn't an option with some people. Hope you get sorted.

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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago

Neath


"I had problems with my neighbour so I punched him . He now lives in new Zealand. .

RESULT !!!!

May I add I have never hit anyone before in my life and will never again"

He took moving out to the extreme lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Can i just suggest not to use violence to resolve the issues...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the direct aproach is always the best , and you will feel so much better in yourself when you have sorted things in a nicely robust fashion

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"the direct aproach is always the best , and you will feel so much better in yourself when you have sorted things in a nicely robust fashion "

Especially when the police come knocking on your door with an assault charge!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it is a scumbag area like the one i used to live in , they are regular customers of the police , chances are they wont go to the cops , abd if they do , they will allways take the side of an upstanding citizen over a junkie with a broken nose , thats my experiance of it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do u have other neighbours?? Are they having the same issue?? If there are a lot of complaints from different people would that speed things up??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had problems with my neighbour so I punched him . He now lives in new Zealand. .

RESULT !!!!

May I add I have never hit anyone before in my life and will never again

He took moving out to the extreme lol "

I know and he has rented his house out to a lovely couple too BONUS....

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