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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

Hmmmm no mods about eh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

To reply isn't mandantory, if I get a message just saying 'nice pics' I'd just delete it and I do try to reply to all messages that are actually meaningful, but really can't see the point of just sending an I like your pics message! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "

Because some people take any kind of response as a positive sign and continue to mail you. Ignoring an incoming wink or mail is pretty definitive and not open to misinterpretation.

We felt the same when we started on sites like this then you just become hardened I guess. Don't take it personally.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "

No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.

Sometimes you just cant win...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im that far up my own ass i can eat my dinner twice!! xx

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.

No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.

Sometimes you just cant win... "

I always win

Hello sexy one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't take it personally...chalk it up to experience and move on....not worth getting worked up about

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.

No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.

Sometimes you just cant win...

I always win

Hello sexy one "

Can I just say how much I like your pics?

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.

Because some people take any kind of response as a positive sign and continue to mail you. Ignoring an incoming wink or mail is pretty definitive and not open to misinterpretation.

We felt the same when we started on sites like this then you just become hardened I guess. Don't take it personally."

Have to agree, however, yesterday we got a wink and as they weren't compatible with us I deleted it. They winked again a few minutes later. I had to send a thanks but no thanks mesage which seemed to upset them so at times, you really can't win! Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "

Couples and females can receive a lot of messages per day, far more than most if not any single guy.

Some will simply pass by your kind comments as they would rather not get into a conversation, unless interested in you, others will feel obliged to thank you.

You aren't the only guy to randomly message those with nice pics to compliment them.

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


" don't take it personally...chalk it up to experience and move on....not worth getting worked up about "

It is, it means everybody is talking about you and nobody likes you.

Get all worked up about things...its healthy

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta.

No it isnt, but Ive had experiences where when you reply people take it as a sign you want to chat or are interested, and then when you arent and you say so, people then say 'why did you bother replying if youre not interested...'.

Sometimes you just cant win...

I always win

Hello sexy one

Can I just say how much I like your pics? "

Thanks

See I have manners obviously....hang on Im going to delete this post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" don't take it personally...chalk it up to experience and move on....not worth getting worked up about

It is, it means everybody is talking about you and nobody likes you.

Get all worked up about things...its healthy "

I KNEW my therapist wass wrong and that I was right to be Paranoid

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"Hello sexy one

Can I just say how much I like your pics?

Thanks

See I have manners obviously....hang on Im going to delete this post"

Ha! Ill still find you...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"complimented one or two on here for their pics/looks.Had some nice replies,but why do some just delete,not hard to type ta. "

This is pasted from the FAQ at the bottom of the page.

There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you can safely assume they aren't interested. If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?

You won't get a reply off everyone, don't take it as personal, just move onto the next one to mail.

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