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By *helsea 22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

barnsley

Seems alot on here or is it just me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody loads, I guess you get that a lot on free sites. Its way to easy to be someone you're not online, I guess people do it to boost their ego, live a life they'd never have at others expense, sad really. Having said that, I did it to a guy who really mucked me about, no showed at a hotel I booked and paid for. It was my first meet nearly 4 years ago so maybe I was a little naive but I was shocked at how easy it was. Got him to book a hotel as my alter ego and ooops, forgot to turn up lol, I'm bad but it was fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Revenge is a dish best served cold;)

Well done for getting your own back and I have had a couple of no shows but lucky for me it was just for an initial coffee and chat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always meet socially first now because of that and a few other dodgy experiences so as you say, no great problem if they no show.

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By *helsea 22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

barnsley


"Revenge is a dish best served cold;)

Well done for getting your own back and I have had a couple of no shows but lucky for me it was just for an initial coffee and chat. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Revenge is a dish best served cold;)

Well done for getting your own back and I have had a couple of no shows but lucky for me it was just for an initial coffee and chat. . "

I guess people get scared which is understandable but when you go to the expense of booking a room that is plain right disgusting manners.

And I was entertained whilst waiting as always take my laptop so I can work whilst I wait and I got a lot achieved on the no shows.

If i say I will be somewhere I will be there unless there is an emergency that I could not get out of but I would always tell them as manner cost nothing after all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as I say, my first ever meet, didn't ever occur to me that someone would do that, not show knowing I'd laid out money but there are some nasty disrespectful people around. We even spoke on the phone and he seemed totally genuine. I even txt that morning saying if he'd changed his mind it was fine, just let me know so I can get a refund but he was adamant he was up for it!! Still, he know how it feels now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well as I say, my first ever meet, didn't ever occur to me that someone would do that, not show knowing I'd laid out money but there are some nasty disrespectful people around. We even spoke on the phone and he seemed totally genuine. I even txt that morning saying if he'd changed his mind it was fine, just let me know so I can get a refund but he was adamant he was up for it!! Still, he know how it feels now."

Hell has not fury like a woman scorned...If I was wearing a hat right now I would tip it at you in appreciation of your cunning plan and I know never to cross the Flamehaired lady but would like to buy her a coffee sometime as friends of course xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well one should never piss off a slightly insane redhead lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well one should never piss off a slightly insane redhead lol"

Well your right and I don't intend on being that silly or disrespectful

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By *helsea 22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

barnsley

Get a room lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Get a room lol x"

if only

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By *helsea 22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

barnsley


"Get a room lol x

if only "
lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol, sorry _helsea 22! Going back to the original thread, having done it myself I can see why people with low self esteem issues do it, a fit 25 year old blonde gets way more messages than a slightly overweight average looking 40 year old like me, its a shallow world internet dating but its life I guess. I watched that program last night and can't believe some people are chatting for years without twigging on, that's nasty paying with people's feelings like that for so long but I guess it goes too far to stop. Personally, I'm me, no one else and you either want to meet me or you don't, won't lose sleep over it lol

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By *helsea 22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

barnsley


"lol, sorry _helsea 22! Going back to the original thread, having done it myself I can see why people with low self esteem issues do it, a fit 25 year old blonde gets way more messages than a slightly overweight average looking 40 year old like me, its a shallow world internet dating but its life I guess. I watched that program last night and can't believe some people are chatting for years without twigging on, that's nasty paying with people's feelings like that for so long but I guess it goes too far to stop. Personally, I'm me, no one else and you either want to meet me or you don't, won't lose sleep over it lol"
u carry lol..but i do agree with you on what you just said x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true I have seen a few times and am always amazed that its gone on for years without them think hang on why have i not met them yet!

Flame from what I remember you looked very nice in your pic's (one at the gym right?) and your right to be yourself and if the don't like it stuff em xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's me, thanks The brutal truth however is that given the choice, 99.9% of guys will choose the young fit woman and he did (to his demise lol)! If I haven't met someone within 2 weeks on here I just forget it and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's me, thanks The brutal truth however is that given the choice, 99.9% of guys will choose the young fit woman and he did (to his demise lol)! If I haven't met someone within 2 weeks on here I just forget it and move on."

hmm so I have 14 days and counting but I always say youth can not replace experience in my eyes. I remember taking out a stunning young lady when I was younger but as lovely as she looked she had nothing between her ears which made for a poor date in my eyes but that's just me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a sex site and judging by some messages I get I'm guessing a lot of guys don't really care about intellect lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whats it about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol arouse the mind and the rest will follow. Its not good if your physically gifted and then have no idea how to use it..

Plus when you have a meet its not all thrusting and panting you will often have a short break in between so you need to be able to talk to the person and laugh or have I got it wrong

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By *helsea 22 OP   Woman
over a year ago

barnsley

Its about people setting fake profile up. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol arouse the mind and the rest will follow. Its not good if your physically gifted and then have no idea how to use it..

Plus when you have a meet its not all thrusting and panting you will often have a short break in between so you need to be able to talk to the person and laugh or have I got it wrong "

I couldn't agree more unfortunately some "cavemen" on here wouldn't and don't give a toss about that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"lol arouse the mind and the rest will follow. Its not good if your physically gifted and then have no idea how to use it..

Plus when you have a meet its not all thrusting and panting you will often have a short break in between so you need to be able to talk to the person and laugh or have I got it wrong

I couldn't agree more unfortunately some "cavemen" on here wouldn't and don't give a toss about that lol"

I am shocked you think this

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