FabSwingers.com forum: Cheeky or 'don't ask, don't get'?

By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Is it a cheek for someone to message asking for a face photo without sending theirs? Or is it fair enough as the person being asked can always say no?

If I message someone first I send my face pic with it, (unless I genuinely forget).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a cheek for someone to message asking for a face photo without sending theirs? Or is it fair enough as the person being asked can always say no?

If I message someone first I send my face pic with it, (unless I genuinely forget)."

If I send a message I don't ask for one right away and I don't send one right away.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Is it a cheek for someone to message asking for a face photo without sending theirs? Or is it fair enough as the person being asked can always say no?

If I message someone first I send my face pic with it, (unless I genuinely forget).

If I send a message I don't ask for one right away and I don't send one right away."

Who do you expect to send first though?Would you ask for one without sending yours?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I say cheeky. Cheeky I tell you.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

If it gets to the stage when i'm curious, i'll just attach my face photo & ask if they have one to share in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person asked doesnt have to comply with anyone's wishes,saying that,we wont meet without one,but there are plenty that will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a cheek for someone to message asking for a face photo without sending theirs? Or is it fair enough as the person being asked can always say no?

If I message someone first I send my face pic with it, (unless I genuinely forget).

If I send a message I don't ask for one right away and I don't send one right away.

Who do you expect to send first though?Would you ask for one without sending yours?"

I very rarely send a first message, it only happens, say if I liked someone's tattoos or ask a question on something on their profile. I don't send a face picture.

If someone is messaging me, 6 times out of 10 I get a face picture, if I don't receive one I will chat for bit see how it's going and decide whether I want one or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it a cheek for someone to message asking for a face photo without sending theirs? Or is it fair enough as the person being asked can always say no?

If I message someone first I send my face pic with it, (unless I genuinely forget).

If I send a message I don't ask for one right away and I don't send one right away."

Me either

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck. "

You have public face photos though so they would already know what you look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck. "

this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I ask without sending mine, usually because I've forgot, I get blocked or ignored ... Ha!

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I say cheeky. Cheeky I tell you. "

So you reckon it's cheeky then? A bit of a cheek?

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck.

this"

Again, you have public face photos.

I'm talking about people asking for a face photo without showing or sending their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck.

You have public face photos though so they would already know what you look like.

ah forget that minor detail lol

there have been tmes though where ive been hidden and its still worked. if they reply with 'ladies first' .. then since im the one wanting their picture its only fair i share mine. if i dont get one back after theyve seen my mug,, i block em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck.

this

Again, you have public face photos.

I'm talking about people asking for a face photo without showing or sending their own."

Well all the more reason for me to ask... the fact they can and probably have seen me in all my glory.. means they must still be messaging for a reason so its fair to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I am sending first mail or am asked I just send. If they think I look like shrek it saves a load of faffing.

If someone.asks for a cock pic without at least revealing.themselves( face ) I offer them the option of being.open and honest and if they still dont they can go forth and multiply...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if i was curious as to what someone looked like id ask..

they can only say no

(which is the same as if i never asked)

so yeah id be cheeky and try my luck.

You have public face photos though so they would already know what you look like.

ah forget that minor detail lol

I call them a selfish prick, then block

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

People ask for cock pics?

I'm usually inundated with them without saying a word!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People ask for cock pics?

I'm usually inundated with them without saying a word!

Will not send said cock pics unless requested

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"People ask for cock pics?

I'm usually inundated with them without saying a word!

Will not send said cock pics unless requested"

I wish more were like this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People ask for cock pics?

I'm usually inundated with them without saying a word!

Will not send said cock pics unless requested

I wish more were like this!"

Well lets be honest its not the first thing people are attracted to. no matter how impressive we personally think it is.

But then hey i am more than happy putting my face on show... unlike a lot of guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm curious I'll ask them for one....if I like what I see they get one back. I don't think it's being cheeky and they can always refuse.....but I won't continue chatting with them if they do as I don't meet people who won't show me what they look like, so I don't see the point in continuing to chat further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People ask for cock pics?

I'm usually inundated with them without saying a word!

ive had to request one or two pics of this nature. not all men are confident about sizing or exposing themselves so openly.. but with the nature of the site being what it is i requested it as id not be convinced to meet unless id seen it reached a certain spec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually send a face pic with the first message. That usually sends them running for the hills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and I have to see what their cock looks like too.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock and face at the ready

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite cheeky yes. I usually after few messages back on fourth, if I feel some enthousiastic response, I suggest to exchange face pics. If they agree I dont mind if they say I send first. at least I know I have a good chance to have one in return.

People who delete my first message or block me for not attaching a pic in my first contact dont deserve a second thought about them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and I have to see what their cock looks like too.....

Happy to send on request lol

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Oh and I have to see what their cock looks like too.....

Absolutely, best to know what you're getting - I always like to see a nice rugae shot before I make my mind up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only show my ugly mush once messaged a bit to see if genuine i never send if the other party has none or if they say they will email or text them.

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By *hyllyphyllyMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Everything people need to see is already on my public profile pics. I used to get annoyed that people asked for pics then not get back to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a cheeky bloody shit me because as my pic is on show if I don't get a face pic with first message or they don't have a face pic on show on profile then I don't bother replying. Shallow as it may seem but I have learnt over the years that it's pointless getting into a conversation with someone if there is no physical attraction.

So in answer to question no for me it isn't cheeky.

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

A little cheekyness as never hurt me. If theyve got the shadow face. I'll ask if theyve got pix.... Ive got lots of resent face pix on my profile... People have on occasion requested a cock pic,if they send a friends request theyll see my cock pix..... As Ive got nothing to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's a bit cheeky for them to ask without sending theirs, assuming they messages first. My response if someone just asks do you have a face pic is to say Yes thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses!!!

I'm never in any rush to swap face pics - I like a bit of banter first. Only if there's a likelihood of a face to face meeting will I ever be bothered about seeing one.

But then I tend to banter a lot more than I meet - so any urgency re pics is low on my list of priorities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Horses for courses!!!

I'm never in any rush to swap face pics - I like a bit of banter first. Only if there's a likelihood of a face to face meeting will I ever be bothered about seeing one.

But then I tend to banter a lot more than I meet - so any urgency re pics is low on my list of priorities!

still cant believe i met you without ever seeing your face.. that was a first for me lol

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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago

Clacton on sea, Essex

"Is it a cheek for someone to message asking for a face photo without sending theirs? Or is it fair enough as the person being asked can always say no?

If I message someone first I send my face pic with it, (unless I genuinely forget)."

Sometimes it may be because they have forgot so no.

Yes If they say no they don't have any or won't send any, they are then timewasters & should be blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I'm initiating contact I will always attach a face pic, even though all mine are public as many people often delete messages that don't have pics attached. I would only ask for one (if they'd not already sent one) if we'd chatted and were considering a meet. Although as I'm currently monogamous its kind of a moot point.

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