FabSwingers.com forum: Feeling bad for saying no at parties

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do blokes feel bad when they say no to a woman at parties x

,, do we give girls a complex by doing so

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Why do blokes feel bad when they say no to a woman at parties x

,, do we give girls a complex by doing so "

I doubt it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same as anywhere mate, if it's not happening and I don't find myself attracted to them, I usually tell a white lie that I'm in a committed relationship. Still feel bad though. That probably ain't gonna fly at parties mind....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do blokes feel bad when they say no to a woman at parties x

,, do we give girls a complex by doing so "

Some do with rejection some can get pretty nasty over it it happens more with alcohol involved though sometimes I think it has no place in clubs.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

no one should feel bad for saying no thanks man or woman and if people can't take rejection they should consider whether this sort of activity is right for them in my opinion.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

"no one should feel bad for saying no thanks man or woman and if people can't take rejection they should consider whether this sort of activity is right for them in my opinion."

Exactly xx

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By *anny PepperoniMan
over a year ago

Matlock

I used to lay awake at night worrying about this too then I remembered I never get invited to any parties. Now my life is a worry free zone.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

its highly unlikely that you are ever going to be attracted to every single person at a party so it is going to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no one should feel bad for saying no thanks man or woman and if people can't take rejection they should consider whether this sort of activity is right for them in my opinion.

Exactly xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I used to lay awake at night worrying about this too then I remembered I never get invited to any parties. Now my life is a worry free zone. "

What a cunning way to....

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Gone to party before with the intention of only watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do blokes feel bad when they say no to a woman at parties x

,, do we give girls a complex by doing so "

Don't feel bad about saying no to a woman. No doubt she has said no to a guy before. Not everyone is going to appeal to you or vise versa. No means no regardless if it's said by a male or female. xx

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

"Why do blokes feel bad when they say no to a woman at parties x

,, do we give girls a complex by doing so "

Ii'm used to the rejection.... i just move on and say NEXT !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just mention a rash and green discharge from your penis, and tell them that the steroids are working..usually stops em begging..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do blokes feel bad when they say no to a woman at parties x

,, do we give girls a complex by doing so "

I think there would be signs to say if you did fancy someone and the woman would easily pick up on them ,so dont see the need to say yes or no ....

but it wouldnt bother me in the least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in a club once happily watching someone play, a women taps me on the shoulder and says come with me, i followed her but i didn't feel she wanted to play more like she wanted help with something, she walked me around a corner where her friend who was not my type is on a padded bench legs wide spread pussy staring straight at me. The lady who asked me to follow grabs my hand and starts moving it over her leg towards her pussy, i just said no and walked off but it was such an awkward no, i felt so bad for the lady on the bench but what the hell was her friend thinking?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no one should feel bad for saying no thanks man or woman and if people can't take rejection they should consider whether this sort of activity is right for them in my opinion."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was in a club once happily watching someone play, a women taps me on the shoulder and says come with me, i followed her but i didn't feel she wanted to play more like she wanted help with something, she walked me around a corner where her friend who was not my type is on a padded bench legs wide spread pussy staring straight at me. The lady who asked me to follow grabs my hand and starts moving it over her leg towards her pussy, i just said no and walked off but it was such an awkward no, i felt so bad for the lady on the bench but what the hell was her friend thinking?????"

That was rude to say the least , if someone did that to me and led me to some random guy lying there and i didnt want to, i would have done the same.(probably uttered more than no) bloody cheek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was the 2nd time i had been to the club and trying to make friends is hard enough for a newbie but i felt so bad, in my head i was thinking just say no, just say no but it was awkward because i am new and didn't want to make her feel bad, i felt pretty rotten myself after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything like that happened to anyone else

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Anything like that happened to anyone else"

Not the same as that but we did politely refuse to join in at a small party and as far as we could tell no one took offence.....maybe they were relieved

Just because we enjoy sex with lots of different partners does not mean that we will have sex with anyone and everyone (I mean all of us when I say we). Nobody should be coerced into sex by guilt, sympathy or force and no one should feel bad about saying no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anything like that happened to anyone else

Not the same as that but we did politely refuse to join in at a small party and as far as we could tell no one took offence.....maybe they were relieved

Just because we enjoy sex with lots of different partners does not mean that we will have sex with anyone and

everyone (I mean all of us when I say we). Nobody should be coerced into sex by guilt, sympathy or force and no one should feel bad about saying no."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to partners.on Friday and this saying no is playing on my mind already.

I can take a no but its saying no to others that will make me feek awkward

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