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Big life changing mistakes.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you made any? Ones that ended up changing for the worse and were quite life changing? If so, what was it and how did you chance the situation for the better?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

One but not prepared to share I'm afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes one but hard to explain it without the risk of being judged.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I may have just decided to make a life changing mistake, I am selling my house so I can be free of ties, bricks and mortar are holding me back, and taking lots of money to maintain.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone who reads my posts on here will know what one of them is. Everyone who knows me well knows I have two. I won't list them as I may get a negative response from them. Quite big ones and I can't seem to reverse them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has life changing stories to tell. I for one have more than one to tell and this is not the place to do that. My dirty washing stays in the basket so to speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes choosing my ex over a career life changing but not regrettable had I not done it I wouldn't have the greatest kids ever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could be a while pull up a chair

Career wise i had a great well paid job got bit fed up with it got offered job by someone i knew and took it.

The job was nowt what i was led to believe and hated it and struggled career wise since.

Personal decisions are the worst at the time when going through divorce my logic wad somewhat off the radar and with hindsight wish had acted differently. As some others say some are more personal than others.

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

My biggest mistake was to move to be closer to my b/f. I left a village i had lived in for 15 years to move to a place where the only person i knew was my b/f. Three weeks after moving here he dumped me and is now living with someone else. I was devastated, lonely, angry and all the other emotions..... I am now in the process of buying a house back in the village i moved from and cannot wait to get away from this lonely and miserable lifestyle......Happier times ahead, i hope xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My biggest mistake was to move to be closer to my b/f. I left a village i had lived in for 15 years to move to a place where the only person i knew was my b/f. Three weeks after moving here he dumped me and is now living with someone else. I was devastated, lonely, angry and all the other emotions..... I am now in the process of buying a house back in the village i moved from and cannot wait to get away from this lonely and miserable lifestyle......Happier times ahead, i hope xxx"

What a git!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Anyone who reads my posts on here will know what one of them is. Everyone who knows me well knows I have two. I won't list them as I may get a negative response from them. Quite big ones and I can't seem to reverse them "

What's done is done. You took a risk and made a decision that didn't work for you. There's not much to be done now. Draw a line and start living your life. Make the best out of your situation. Dwelling in the last won't make you happy.

I don't think I've had any moments like that bit then to think that the decisions we make we make are for a greater reason that might not be all that apparent right now. I'm definitely a glass half full kind a gal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regrets, I have a few, but then again, too few to mention...

What's done is done, can't turn back the clock, onwards and upwards.

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Yes, but I learn from them, deal with the consequences and dont dwell on stuff I can no longer change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was 25 I had a highly paid IT job and I got to travel the world. But I decided that I didn't like being holed up in hotels and the job was dull, so I jacked it in and went travelling. When I got back I tempted and did crappy jobs. Now I can't get back into IT cos I've spent so long out and I've lost my earnings potential

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By *affy72Woman
over a year ago

Herefordshire


"My biggest mistake was to move to be closer to my b/f. I left a village i had lived in for 15 years to move to a place where the only person i knew was my b/f. Three weeks after moving here he dumped me and is now living with someone else. I was devastated, lonely, angry and all the other emotions..... I am now in the process of buying a house back in the village i moved from and cannot wait to get away from this lonely and miserable lifestyle......Happier times ahead, i hope xxx"

Fairly similar to what happened to me. It's difficult when you're the one who changes everything for the one you love and it doesn't work out. Good luck with your move back... I think I am stuck here for a few more years yet :o( x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I've made two life changing mistakes. Luckily they changed my life for the better (eventually).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've made a few! Particularly getting married way too young and taking him back over and over for the wrong reasons. But then I can never really regret that as I wouldn't have my gorgeous boy if I hadn't.

The one I do regret is turning down an amazing job that I was offered. It meant living in Australia for 12 months with the possibility of staying if they liked me and I wanted to. Turned it down as my mum guilt tripped me about not seeing her grandson grow up.

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By *ayandess1Couple
over a year ago

bridgwater

My mantra - regret nothing, learn from everything. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a couple that I will always regret

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy with my life so regrettingvpast choices seems a bit pointless. But I do wish I had left Birmingham and cut out my family earlier than I did in life.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have some but there is no knowing whether the path would have been easier or ultimately any different if I hadn't made those decisions. There are many ways we can make ourselves miserable and stasis is one of those.

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By *riskygazMan
over a year ago

birmingham

making mistakes is a part of life, that's how we get wiser as we get older, and I bet the number one mistake at the top of all are lists is bad relationships, I have had my share of nightmare girl friends, no longer wasting time on it it's the bachelor life for me, a lot less hassle that's for sure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joining fab iv never realised being a single man made you a bad person untill now!

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

I nearly made the biggest mistake ever but luckily I saw through this man and dumped him

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I once went red, I should have gone black?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having an abortion 3 years ago, yes it has changed me for the worse

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Having an abortion 3 years ago, yes it has changed me for the worse"

You are young....don't let that one event change you for the worse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We live and learn .. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mistakes are part of life... And I bet there's not one of us who hasn't made one or two!

I never regret anything, just learn and become a little wiser!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having an abortion 3 years ago, yes it has changed me for the worse

You are young....don't let that one event change you for the worse... "

Unfortunately it has I've been wanting a child ever since, but it wasn't my intention to have it done but at 12 week's, there was only the egg and sperm :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We live and learn .. x"
turn mistakes into lessons to learn from.

Life's tough. You get the exam first then the lesson after. But we all make mistakes, so don't think you're any worse off than others.

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