FabSwingers.com forum: the dreaded "single male" status

By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

I really do despair to think that being a single male on a site such as this is practically on a par with saying serial killer,why do people who come on NSA SEX sites look down their noses at "single males" and apparently saying hi to someone whilst being a "single male" makes one a pervert? yet it s ok for them to look for couples to play with as they obviously arent perverts? anyway glad i got that off my chest and anyone that wants to contact a "single male" feel free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously these rant type things are boring.

It's no different than if you were out in bars etc so just get over it already.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At the end of the day there's a ton of guys and a lot less women and couples, so they can afford to be picky, ya just got to stick with it and enjoy yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously these rant type things are boring.

It's no different than if you were out in bars etc so just get over it already."

Also an equally valid opinion lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

WTF? Seriously, we ALL hate single men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like single males as Im sure lots of others do...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you feel better now?

You've been here over a year and have had two meets, I would say that's pretty good going for a single guy on here.

Single guys look for women/couples

Single women generally look for couples (sometimes single men)

Couples look for other couples/women (sometimes single men)

Then you have to think the amount of single men here must out number the women/couples by a huge amount.

So to be one of the single men other people want to look for, you have to really stand out, bide your time and not rant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't speak to most people if your a single male on this site get ignored like your a dirty tramp in the street and when you post your opionin the muppets all come out in force like they own this site

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Seriously these rant type things are boring.

It's no different than if you were out in bars etc so just get over it already."

I do despair of people like you lily if you have nothing constructive to say then why say anything at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great being a single bloke, I wouldn't have it any other way.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

out in bars a single person can at least have the opportunity to introduce themselves to others whereas on some profiles that is not an option now is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously these rant type things are boring.

It's no different than if you were out in bars etc so just get over it already.

I do despair of people like you lily if you have nothing constructive to say then why say anything at all?"

Because there is something called freedom of speech, because you've ranted on a public forum and people will have their own opinions about what you've written, or were you expecting everyone to agree, pat you on the back and bitch about everyone hating single men.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Someone needs to start a charity.

Single Male Aid

Please give just £2 per month to help this poor single male who is being ignored by the mean couples and women, for no reason. The money will be used to provide therapy for these poor down trodden individuals...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I freely admit to being a pervert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if it means that much to u,change the way u get meets....maybe my thinking is far too proactive...but I'd be attending clubs/socials

it might just be the exposure u need...if not, sit back and moan lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out in bars a single person can at least have the opportunity to introduce themselves to others whereas on some profiles that is not an option now is it?"

It's called personal preference, you may not like it but we all have a preference, a type of person we want to meet.

If people don't want to meet single males so what? It's their choice, move forward and find someone who does.

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By *elaxedsexyfunMan
over a year ago

Northants

Keep talking like that fella and the less successful you will be.

Just be yourself and chill out. Don't be pushy and you may have more luck.

Very best to ya mate.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Do you feel better now?

You've been here over a year and have had two meets, I would say that's pretty good going for a single guy on here.

Single guys look for women/couples

Single women generally look for couples (sometimes single men)

Couples look for other couples/women (sometimes single men)

Then you have to think the amount of single men here must out number the women/couples by a huge amount.

So to be one of the single men other people want to look for, you have to really stand out, bide your time and not rant."

i have had more than 2 meets but i still stick to my original statement that to be a "single male" on site is almst the equivalent to being a leper in some peoples eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's great being a single bloke, I wouldn't have it any other way. "

This!

*apart from my couples profile of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could you quantify that, has something been said?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously these rant type things are boring.

It's no different than if you were out in bars etc so just get over it already."

Never thought of it that way, but you're right (kind of). If you're a fun guy, with a fun vibe you'll find people more open to you I find (men and women) though. Fun varies between people though, from slapstick to super intelligent, and you're never going to appeal to everyone.

If you're weird, creepy, sulking, or whatever, they just nope their way out of there.

I don't send a great deal of what I would call 'proper' messages (I.e someone I'm 100% genuinely interested in), but when I do, you can bet your ass it takes half hour to word it, check spelling, chop bits out that I don't think are funny enough, amend bits etc. First impressions count, and you can only make one, so make it a good one.

Also, it takes time to send a decent message sure, but I wasted 3 years on my ex, so what's half hour in the grand scheme of things?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"out in bars a single person can at least have the opportunity to introduce themselves to others whereas on some profiles that is not an option now is it?"

You can either message them to introduce yourself, or if blocked you can assume they don't want you to introduce yourself.

That actually saves you the time of introducing yourself to people who don't want to get to know you.

So what are you moaning about?

You have the option of introducing yourself to anyone interested in hearing from you. They then have the option of replying if they find your introduction to their liking.

If you're not having any success, perhaps a review of your methods would be better than moaning and trying to blame everyone else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really do despair to think that being a single male on a site such as this is practically on a par with saying serial killer,why do people who come on NSA SEX sites look down their noses at "single males" and apparently saying hi to someone whilst being a "single male" makes one a pervert? yet it s ok for them to look for couples to play with as they obviously arent perverts? anyway glad i got that off my chest and anyone that wants to contact a "single male" feel free

Ooo....I just

it when they tar themselves with the same brush....now where'd I put those feathers?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

its not about people not wanting to meet single males as obviously there are loads who do i am talking about the way single males are treated by certain members on these sites who look down their noses and act in a holier than thou way,i have no problem with rejection as it comes with the territory but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you feel better now?

You've been here over a year and have had two meets, I would say that's pretty good going for a single guy on here.

Single guys look for women/couples

Single women generally look for couples (sometimes single men)

Couples look for other couples/women (sometimes single men)

Then you have to think the amount of single men here must out number the women/couples by a huge amount.

So to be one of the single men other people want to look for, you have to really stand out, bide your time and not rant.

i have had more than 2 meets but i still stick to my original statement that to be a "single male" on site is almst the equivalent to being a leper in some peoples eyes"

I don't believe that to be true at all, there are literally 1000s of men on here and you need to stand out, maybe look at your approach.

A single female/couple can post a pic and within a day have well over 100 messages, mainly from single men!! Think you just need to work on how you communicate as ranting won't do you any favours at all.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

Ooo....I just

it when they tar themselves with the same brush....now where'd I put those feathers?

plenty of feathers here

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"its not about people not wanting to meet single males as obviously there are loads who do i am talking about the way single males are treated by certain members on these sites who look down their noses and act in a holier than thou way,i have no problem with rejection as it comes with the territory but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples."

You aren't doing yourself any favours here, but it's up to you.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Do you feel better now?

You've been here over a year and have had two meets, I would say that's pretty good going for a single guy on here.

Single guys look for women/couples

Single women generally look for couples (sometimes single men)

Couples look for other couples/women (sometimes single men)

Then you have to think the amount of single men here must out number the women/couples by a huge amount.

So to be one of the single men other people want to look for, you have to really stand out, bide your time and not rant.

i have had more than 2 meets but i still stick to my original statement that to be a "single male" on site is almst the equivalent to being a leper in some peoples eyes

I don't believe that to be true at all, there are literally 1000s of men on here and you need to stand out, maybe look at your approach.

i have said in that post "some" peoples eyes it is obviously not all people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK...but u know why?

there are more single males on the site than any other group...its just mathematics

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

You aren't doing yourself any favours here, but it's up to you."

I'm not looking to do myself any favours on this particular post I am just wondering why "some" people treat single males in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm confused, admittedly not been in the forums long and I know lots don't use them but I've never seen people 'looking down' on single males.

If anything most posters are encouraging of single males and give them great advice.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

OK...but u know why?

there are more single males on the site than any other group...its just mathematics"

again the maths doesnt matter when it comes to the treatment,it is as easy to say thanks but no thanks as it is to be hstile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You aren't doing yourself any favours here, but it's up to you.

I'm not looking to do myself any favours on this particular post I am just wondering why "some" people treat single males in that way."

Ask those people then instead of ranting about it here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples."

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"I'm confused, admittedly not been in the forums long and I know lots don't use them but I've never seen people 'looking down' on single males.

If anything most posters are encouraging of single males and give them great advice."

i dont use the forums a lot and his is my first (probably last) posting but i was just wondering in print about my original post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK...but u know why?

there are more single males on the site than any other group...its just mathematics

again the maths doesnt matter when it comes to the treatment,it is as easy to say thanks but no thanks as it is to be hstile"

You must see how you are coming across though as toys out of pram.

So because people don't reply to you, this means you think they look down on you?

I don't reply to all my messages to say no thanks and do you know why, because the majority of males would come back with abuse! It's not worth it.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

You aren't doing yourself any favours here, but it's up to you.

I'm not looking to do myself any favours on this particular post I am just wondering why "some" people treat single males in that way.

Ask those people then instead of ranting about it here.

i think you are confusing ranting with questioning

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

i guess i shouldnt have started this topic as it has obviously been asked before,to those who answered thank you very much for your replies whether they be constructive or critical.

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over a year ago

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer."

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

Single male and lovely guy to. Active in the forums, gets involved and is never woe is me. So for example what a random message from him may have been deleted, getting to know his personality etc through the forums endears him to myself and others.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

OK...but u know why?

there are more single males on the site than any other group...its just mathematics

again the maths doesnt matter when it comes to the treatment,it is as easy to say thanks but no thanks as it is to be hstile"

Women/couples are hostile to you for no reason at all?

I doubt that. Perhaps look at what provoked that reaction.

Did you message them without reading your profile, just to "try your luck"?

Did you message them knowing you weren't what they are looking for? Did you send them cock photos in a first message?

I don't believe anyone got hostile with you for no reason at all.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

"i guess i shouldnt have started this topic as it has obviously been asked before,to those who answered thank you very much for your replies whether they be constructive or critical."

This would be a very quiet place if nobody asked questions which had already been asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying "

Because people state a preference by saying no single males?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

OK...but u know why?

there are more single males on the site than any other group...its just mathematics

again the maths doesnt matter when it comes to the treatment,it is as easy to say thanks but no thanks as it is to be hstile

Women/couples are hostile to you for no reason at all?

I doubt that. Perhaps look at what provoked that reaction.

Did you message them without reading your profile, just to "try your luck"?

Did you message them knowing you weren't what they are looking for? Did you send them cock photos in a first message?

I don't believe anyone got hostile with you for no reason at all."

i have not sent cock pix to people in fact i only send pix on request i have browsed many profiles and i only contact those i would deem appropriate,i have myself never been abused on here myself but i know guys who were.i wish people were more liberal on sites such as this but i think that may be in an ideal world which we shall never have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"out in bars a single person can at least have the opportunity to introduce themselves to others whereas on some profiles that is not an option now is it?"

The bar scene is a completely different dynamic. Initial physical attraction is higher on the agenda for many in a bar. Some women struggle to pull on a night out. The same women would have a better choice or more interest on Fab.

That said, whether it's the bar scene or Fab, a glass half empty mentality will probably have a detrimental effect on success levels.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

OK...but u know why?

there are more single males on the site than any other group...its just mathematics

again the maths doesnt matter when it comes to the treatment,it is as easy to say thanks but no thanks as it is to be hstile

Women/couples are hostile to you for no reason at all?

I doubt that. Perhaps look at what provoked that reaction.

Did you message them without reading your profile, just to "try your luck"?

Did you message them knowing you weren't what they are looking for? Did you send them cock photos in a first message?

I don't believe anyone got hostile with you for no reason at all.

Ah, so you're moaning on behalf of other men who women/couples have been hostile towards?

This isn't actually something that's happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach."

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying

Because people state a preference by saying no single males?"

not that no some people do the whole have you not read my profile NO SINGLE MALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and on a swingers site i was wondering why?

in fact one lady recently said on her profile females only then her status said "looking for cock" i messaged her in a nice way and said you are looking for females only good luck with the cock and we indeed had a laugh about it

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

she didnt mean you ha ha ha she meant the guy above you

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"out in bars a single person can at least have the opportunity to introduce themselves to others whereas on some profiles that is not an option now is it?

That said, whether it's the bar scene or Fab, a glass half empty mentality will probably have a detrimental effect on success levels. "

i agree wholeheartedly hence me not agreeing with the bar scenario in comparison to here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

she didnt mean you ha ha ha she meant the guy above you"

No I meant The Libertine

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

she didnt mean you ha ha ha she meant the guy above you"

She meant the person she quoted, i.e. The Libertine.

Have you been drinking? Or perhaps bumped your head?

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

she didnt mean you ha ha ha she meant the guy above you

No I meant The Libertine "

i think we all know you meant the libertine i was pulling his leg

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By *otplaythingWoman
over a year ago

South West

"I freely admit to being a pervert. "

....best get in touch then, lol

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

she didnt mean you ha ha ha she meant the guy above you

She meant the person she quoted, i.e. The Libertine.

Have you been drinking? Or perhaps bumped your head?

i guess sarcasm is also frowned upon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying

Because people state a preference by saying no single males?

not that no some people do the whole have you not read my profile NO SINGLE MALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and on a swingers site i was wondering why?

I think I would say the same thing to you though.

If a profile says no single males and you message them then I'm sorry but you do deserve the response of 'have you not read our profile' blah blah.

You wonder why and on a swingers site.

Well despite everyone being here for fun we won't all drop our knickers for every man that messages. We all have preferences, it's normal and it's not something you'll change, not ever, so why get so worked up about it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"but i still stick to my guns in saying single males are no worse or better than others whether they be single females or couples.

Of course we aren't and I'm sure the majority would agree, it just may feel that way to you because it's simply a case of supply and demand so many (most) will be left on the shelf.

Don't let it get to you, up your game or find another with rules you prefer.

You could learn a lot from the above poster.

As a single guy it wouldn't hurt to try that approach.

she didnt mean you ha ha ha she meant the guy above you

She meant the person she quoted, i.e. The Libertine.

Have you been drinking? Or perhaps bumped your head?

i guess sarcasm is also frowned upon

Another poster and I didn't pick up on your sarcasm so it wasn't clear.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying

Because people state a preference by saying no single males?

not that no some people do the whole have you not read my profile NO SINGLE MALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and on a swingers site i was wondering why?

I think I would say the same thing to you though.

If a profile says no single males and you message them then I'm sorry but you do deserve the response of 'have you not read our profile' blah blah.

You wonder why and on a swingers site.

i was merely pointing out to the person in question that she might have more luck looking for cock if she did not have females only on her wanted list and the lady in questin did nt get narky or nasty in fact her reply was lol oh god you may be right,she is quite local to me and we have a bit of banter on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I blame the Tories.

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

"Personally I blame the Tories."

not the new world order?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying

Because people state a preference by saying no single males?

not that no some people do the whole have you not read my profile NO SINGLE MALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and on a swingers site i was wondering why?

Why they say 'No Single Males'? I'd guess because they aren't looking for single males.

If you message them anyway, you're wasting their time as well as your own.

Why should everyone be willing to meet anyone else just because it's a swinging site? Some people only want to meet couples, or only women, or only men.

That's not necessarily because they "look down" on any groups. They're just not what it being sought.

Contrary to popular belief, we are not all here for the same thing.

Now seriously, stop fussing about the people who aren't interested in you and go and find the people who are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree much more with this post than your opening post. There are some members on here that don't want or don't appear to like single guys.

Ignore them and focus on the rest. I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of single women and couples on here would consider meeting single guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the looking down part to me is while browsing profiles not people not replying

Because people state a preference by saying no single males?

not that no some people do the whole have you not read my profile NO SINGLE MALES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and on a swingers site i was wondering why?

I think I would say the same thing to you though.

If a profile says no single males and you message them then I'm sorry but you do deserve the response of 'have you not read our profile' blah blah.

You wonder why and on a swingers site.

That's fine, my response was to you saying the NO SINGLE MEN.

Just move on and find people that do want single men.

I could say how people look down on me because I'm brunette/white/single female etc however I don't because I respect other people's preferences and I just look for people who do want to meet me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *hemissinglinkMan
over a year ago

Greatt Barr

It's like waiting for a Bus sometimes. I can wait ages for any quality contact and then get offered two meets at the same time.

Everything worth having, is worth waiting for

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By *xyzptlk088 OP Man
over a year ago

Galway

anyway to you who replied both positive and negative thank you for the replies but i think it is time to sleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

heh. I've been here over a year now I think and not had a meet off here.

That's probably me though, I don't message many women seriously and I'm no Brad Pitt, I'll have banter with people and whatnot but I absolutely refuse to compromise on what I like. I can't really. I mean, you've got to enjoy yourself, and I'm sure it will happen sooner or later.

Of course, some I message will think I'm a dork and a right ugly sod, but that's life, you cannot please everyone. Nor will everyone please me.

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By *umachickWoman
over a year ago

Kettering

Im a single female n love single guys only and have met some great genuine single guys but there are alot of single guys on here who are timewasters n they make it hard for the genuine guys who do want to meet as if we get let down with no shows makes us all very careful wether male or female or couples just need to keep chatting chat rooms are good place to get to know people their are some rude people on here who wont talk but dont take it to heart need to chat n get ya self out in the chat rooms chatting and have fun

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Sadly there are aggressive, rude people in all walks of life, and on the internet, no-one can hear you scream! There's no peer pressure, no-one to correct them.....

Luckily lots of us single ladies love single men, there's some gorgeous guys on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not single... there me and I and we are a partnership lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seriously these rant type things are boring.

It's no different than if you were out in bars etc so just get over it already."

Yeah, and anyone else with an opinion, get over it. Where do you think you are, an internet forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking to do myself any favours on this particular post I am just wondering why "some" people treat single males in that way."

I am curious as to what constitutes "some people" would that be those who don't wish to meet single males, or those who specifically don't wish to meet you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re the dreaded "single male" status ... I'm a single male and find Fab to be an incredibly good site for nsa sex with both attractive single girls and couples. My advice to all single males is to just relax and keep trying with profiles that attract you. Meeting swinging partners on here is really exactly the same as meeting girls and couples elsewhere. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Paula likes single men , ..

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I'm only here to meet single men. Maybe I'm in the minority?

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