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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

All these 'would you fuck/Name someone in the thread' thinngys.. are you serious with replies or just half serious and taking it as fun with a pinch of salt?

Ive had a few PMs wanting to follow up because ive said 'i would'

Feel a bit shitty for saying 'im not actually meeting, only joined in for banter and a laugh as your good looking'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't feel bad, I don't think it's a binding contract!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't feel bad, I don't think it's a binding contract! "

thank god for that.. and yes i would

*sniggers*

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd not say it if I meant it, but I don't take anything too seriously.

And since you mentioned it, neither suck, fuck nor avoid, sit and talk make up, gaze into your eyes and let you feel my boobies, whilst I wonder if I can smell brut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't feel bad, I don't think it's a binding contract! "

Ditto..bless yas xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was all poised with my pm to ask you to reconsider

It's all fun and games at the end of the day and folk should enter into these threads knowing that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've only had one pm

Guess im not taken seriously lol

I did get told I come across badly though ...I must learn to do that flirting malarkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who I said yes too was I was being serious.

A couple are in the making

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How can people take them seriously, you can only go on the avatar pic, unless you know them of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To those we have said yes to, we were serious!

But haven't received any PMs from those threads

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I don't do them often but when I did I got a couple of PMs and thought 'hang on, was this serious?' You do feel bad turning them down but as said above, its not binding (I hope).

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"Who I said yes too was I was being serious.

A couple are in the making "

Perhaps I ought to take these threads more seriously and also invest in a teleportation device, better make up and a team of unicycle riding meerkats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't feel bad, I don't think it's a binding contract!

thank god for that.. and yes i would

*sniggers*"

OH yes it is binding, section 39b sub section 18c, paragraph 10, says so

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

If I've said I would... then, assuming they weren't totally different to pics / banter if I met them, I would

I wouldn't say I would just to stroke someones ego

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these 'would you fuck/Name someone in the thread' thinngys.. are you serious with replies or just half serious and taking it as fun with a pinch of salt?

Ive had a few PMs wanting to follow up because ive said 'i would'

Feel a bit shitty for saying 'im not

actually meeting, only joined in for banter and a laugh as your good looking' "

What you mean you weren't being serious ??? Thought I was in to a sure thing?!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I've said I would... then, assuming they weren't totally different to pics / banter if I met them, I would

I wouldn't say I would just to stroke someones ego

"

Same here

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Obviously it's only fun and more bluster than serious. I didn't receive any offers lol.

Saying that, I wouldn't name anyone if I had no intention of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thats why i only say yeah if i gen mean it

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I assumed everyone knows they are bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assumed everyone knows they are bullshit. "

lol they're a good ice breaker and I did get a meet out of one of them

I'll only say yes if someone had a sexy avatar and I've noticed them on the Forums before.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I didn't receive any offers lol.

"

Don't believe you.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I've met someone from a kiss, fuck, pass, eat a gerbil thread before.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"I didn't receive any offers lol.

Don't believe you."

Tis true. Maybe I should start a thread

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By *Kgirl80Woman
over a year ago

South Coast

I'm aware that the threads are a bit of a giggle, however I have only named those I would genuinely meet... Most being people I've chatted to/flirted with previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't post what I do not mean in the threads that I do participate.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I assumed everyone knows they are bullshit.

lol they're a good ice breaker and I did get a meet out of one of them

I'll only say yes if someone had a sexy avatar and I've noticed them on the Forums before. "
They serve a purpose, but yesterdays shenanigans were unbelievable

Agree with them being an ice breaker, they used to be great for newer posters, but now I am not so sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just fun for me most are too far away lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All these 'would you fuck/Name someone in the thread' thinngys.. are you serious with replies or just half serious and taking it as fun with a pinch of salt?

Ive had a few PMs wanting to follow up because ive said 'i would'

Feel a bit shitty for saying 'im not actually meeting, only joined in for banter and a laugh as your good looking' "
Have you put that on ur profile that your here just for banter and not meeting?.

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

Take feck all on here seriously. Plus, unless you all emigrate to Scottylandyshire then I've nae chance!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assumed everyone knows they are bullshit.

lol they're a good ice breaker and I did get a meet out of one of them

I'll only say yes if someone had a sexy avatar and I've noticed them on the Forums before. They serve a purpose, but yesterdays shenanigans were unbelievable

Agree with them being an ice breaker, they used to be great for newer posters, but now I am not so sure "

Neither am I now. Last nights were a disgrace and I nearly didn't come back to the Forums! But they got me started in here

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"All these 'would you fuck/Name someone in the thread' thinngys.. are you serious with replies or just half serious and taking it as fun with a pinch of salt?

Ive had a few PMs wanting to follow up because ive said 'i would'

Feel a bit shitty for saying 'im not actually meeting, only joined in for banter and a laugh as your good looking' Have you put that on ur profile that your here just for banter and not meeting?."

Yeah, like people read profiles!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's just fun for me most are too far away lol "

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you put that on ur profile that your here just for banter and not meeting?."

ive put not to message me.. if you catch my eye i'll message you

but i will now go add the line 'not meeting' to my profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(Sighs)

...i didn't get any offers

But, then again. I don't really take anything seriously. I might be what people call happy go lucky - i'm here for a laugh.

It's just a pity i look like a miserable bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

ive put not to message me.. if you catch my eye i'll message you

but i will now go add the line 'not meeting' to my profile "
Ah yes and thats good to have your options open

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I can't even remember if I got any serious offers or not, now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assumed everyone knows they are bullshit. "

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By *ogistical NightmaresCouple
over a year ago

Manchester Area

Funnily enough we met after first chatting after a yes comment was made on one of these threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't do them now, the messages ive had off TinaTitz expecting me to touch her tits and other such debauchery, well I was shocked to say the least

I only joined this site to see if anyone lived close as me Landrover wouldn't start and I needed a JumpStart, the things me and Donna have had to do to are shocking

Anyway has anyone got any jump leads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so all those that said they would get jiggy with us DIDNT mean it??? (.. Ahhh it's a bit of fun, isn't it? Although I very much doubt me saying yes to someone, that I perhaps didnt have a little bit of an incling to get jiggy with.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"I won't do them now, the messages ive had off TinaTitz expecting me to touch her tits and other such debauchery, well I was shocked to say the least

"

Promises, promises,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm generally honest,but although I've had and still do have PM chats with a few fellas they are always to Far Away to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I took it seriously I'd have been heart broken right now lol. All those I have selected are way too far anyway. Apart from one who pm'd me and is in a fair distance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it should be taken seriously.

Most people use a bit of sensitivity when answering those threads. For example the send a face pic thread, there aren't many ignorant buggers that would reply on the public thread and say that 'such and such' were ugly. That's just rudeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm aware that the threads are a bit of a giggle, however I have only named those I would genuinely meet... Most being people I've chatted to/flirted with previously "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...the distance and age is the main barrier. Many tickle my fancy but even if i was to show interest..i know it's way out of my reach.

(Sighs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a bit too sensitive for the fuck or pass threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit too sensitive for the fuck or pass threads "

Pass!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston


"If I took it seriously I'd have been heart broken right now lol. All those I have selected are way too far anyway. Apart from one who pm'd me and is in a fair distance "

check your pants... they might be on fire!!

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By *emon tart Double creamCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

You can't really blame someone for messaging if you insinuated that you liked the look of them....but fool on them if they think it's a god given right for sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a bit too sensitive for the fuck or pass threads

Pass! "

passes wind back...smell it bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

please dont tell me i didn't need to eat that fuking Gerbil ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I took it seriously I'd have been heart broken right now lol. All those I have selected are way too far anyway. Apart from one who pm'd me and is in a fair distance

check your pants... they might be on fire!! "

They have been on fire since u told me you naughty secret lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"please dont tell me i didn't need to eat that fuking Gerbil ??"

you ate it? I thought it was for sticking up ya........no never mind

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Pinch of Salt ..............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To think i washed my Socks especially...

sheeeeesh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good way of having a bit of a flirt & getting your profile noticed ~ if something genuine happens then it's a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't take them seriously but the ones I said yes to I would follow up if it was mutual

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I take life with a pinch of salt.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"please dont tell me i didn't need to eat that fuking Gerbil ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I take life with a pinch of salt....."

Is this another foodie thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had zero expectations, though it was most flattering to feel wanted.

The names I mentioned were ones I find attractive and interesting...and would like to get to know more... It may not have always been mutual, thought.

Nevertheless, there is at least one meet in the pipeline as a result, perhaps even two...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The show your face thread helped with the meets too, and may in fact been the catalyst..

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I would be willing to consider meeting the people I said I'd be interested in, but would need to exchange a few messages first.

I nearly always fancy people who aren't interested in me though, so it's pretty much irrelevant. I just regarded it as a bit of fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best contacts I made were through the 'normal' threads (if I can call them that. I tend to PM a person because something they wrote appeals and subsequently their profile appeals as well.

Doesn't always (read: rarely) get results, but hey - you have to start somewhere.

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