FabSwingers.com forum: shoes or trainers of a first meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

come on then people love to hear your _iews on this, I never know which to choose and still don't make my mind up till the last minute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their coming to my house, I really mind as they should be taking them off once in the door!

Socks however, clean and with out holes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If their coming to my house, I really mind as they should be taking them off once in the door!

Socks however, clean and with out holes!"

*don't mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never wear trainers to a meet

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on then people love to hear your _iews on this, I never know which to choose and still don't make my mind up till the last minute."
Depends where the meet is, not adverse to a decent pair of trainers, but not with trousers and a shirt!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

With you on the converse!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I might be a snob...but I cannot stand no name trainers such as ador .....sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never wear trainers to a meet "

Me neither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plimsolls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plimsolls"

Lace ups or with gusset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

I have a nice pair of brown brogues and also have blue low profile Converse.

Take yer pick

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I once turned up for a very last minute late night meet in a hotel, in tracksuit bottoms and hoddie.and the next day the couple hammered me, so a strange one, if was in a bar or pub I understand shoe and smart but a midnight hotel meet, just in the door and out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flip Flops ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

I have a nice pair of brown brogues and also have blue low profile Converse.

Take yer pick

Brogue on right. Converse on left

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

I have a nice pair of brown brogues and also have blue low profile Converse.

Take yer pick

Either lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I might be a snob...but I cannot stand no name trainers such as ador .....sorry

How about... Mercury!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brogue on right. Converse on left"

Best of both worlds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plimsolls

Lace ups or with gusset

With gusset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always cum barefooted

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I might be a snob...but I cannot stand no name trainers such as ador .....sorry

How about... Mercury! "

I have a wicked pair of nicks air

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plimsolls

Lace ups or with gusset

With gusset

I prefer gusset to. Slip on and off

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

you can tell a lot about a person by the shoes they wear , When you see the local beggar in the street dressed in rags look at there feet .9 times out of 10 tidy and expensive trainers/boots /shoes on them .( YES im sure someone will say they nicked then )

Clean shoes/trainers tend to mean they do take the time to shower and change there underwear on a regular basis .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be nice shoes all the way

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"you can tell a lot about a person by the shoes they wear , When you see the local beggar in the street dressed in rags look at there feet .9 times out of 10 tidy and expensive trainers/boots /shoes on them .( YES im sure someone will say they nicked then )

Clean shoes/trainers tend to mean they do take the time to shower and change there underwear on a regular basis ."

Or they have been donated them via clothes banks or donations received at homeless centres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't even notice what someone has on their feet. I have no idea what is a trendy label and I don't care. I like people. Not into keeping up with The Jones's.

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

A nice clean pair of shoes, Aldo or Kurt Geiger..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shoes everytime

impressions count for alot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Plimsolls

Lace ups or with gusset

With gusset

I prefer gusset to. Slip on and off "

I love to slip into a nice gusset

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who Cares it all ends up in a pile on the floor any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys wearing Asda suits with black chunky shoes with a buckle on them.

No no no!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a social meet with a couple on Monday.Left home in a rush in my gym gear, grabbed some clothes on the way out and only realised after I'd showered I hadn't brought different shoes, undies or socks and had managed to pick up a pair of combats and a hoody. Luckily they were very good about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plimsolls

Lace ups or with gusset

With gusset

I prefer gusset to. Slip on and off

I love to slip into a nice gusset"

Didn't think it would be long before I sexual comment

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By *randmrsminxyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Clean shoes/trainers tend to mean they do take the time to shower and change there underwear on a regular basis .

Or they have been donated them via clothes banks or donations received at homeless centres "

Yes this could be true but who donates new nike trainers or Catapiler boots. Yet they cant find a clean shirt or decent jeans on the rail .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I'm in and what I'm wearing tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the time of year and circumsatnces obviously. If it's a drink first then a smart appearance and shoes for sure.

If it's a male and a quickie then he must wear trainers,so it's quicker for him to get back to the wife

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Clean shoes/trainers tend to mean they do take the time to shower and change there underwear on a regular basis .

Or they have been donated them via clothes banks or donations received at homeless centres

Yes this could be true but who donates new nike trainers or Catapiler boots. Yet they cant find a clean shirt or decent jeans on the rail ."

I know lots of places that donate new trainers and shoes to the homeless.....I tend not to judge where people acquire processions from....I'm not saying people don't go around shoplifting I ain't that stupid...however some have got them by legal means...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

flipflops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoes for me

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

As long as the.outfit is clean and well maintained and suited to wherever the meet is that's fine. So smart trainers with decent jeans if we're meeting for coffee is fine.

Having said that I have met guys during their lunchbreak who have been very apologetic about what they're wearing because they do a manual job which dictates what they wear. But good hygiene is discernable even under work dirty clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"shoes everytime

impressions count for alot"

Thought you only wore slippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cons or DM's or brothel creepers. If people don't like them it's tough. Wouldn't wear walking or running shoes but I never wear them socially anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

both boots, every time, unless V fancies wearing heels.

never anything 'casual' as its never a casual thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about thigh boots?

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

Im not a shoes kinda guy

New shining trainers

Converse or retro addidas

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By *al2001Man
over a year ago

kildare

"Im not a shoes kinda guy

New shining trainers

Converse or retro addidas"

Even if I wear a suit to a meet.got to b cons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good quality well maintained shoes are one of my vices. I rarely wear trainers socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on then people love to hear your _iews on this, I never know which to choose and still don't make my mind up till the last minute."

has to be shoes, cleaned and polished

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

always wear the light brown dealer boots

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

As long as they are clean and presentable I don't care. If they're dirty trainers and sweatpants then I'm not too impressed.

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By *intteaMan
over a year ago

Bristol

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

I have a nice pair of brown brogues and also have blue low profile Converse.

Take yer pick

Freaky - me too!

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By *am123Man
over a year ago

essex chelmsford

wellingtons ??

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By *r tickle 22Man
over a year ago

Sheffeld

Heels lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I always meet in shoes if its an evening out, or maybe a nice pair of boots in the winter, the only time I wear trainers is when I am walking or cycling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trainers.it might be her old man answering the door.run.

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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago

near kings lynn

Trainers??? Really. I like men to look good.

I will be honest and say a guy turning up for a meet in trainers when I am in my heels and dressed to impress wouldn't please me at all.

Personal preference of course x

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Jesus sandals and socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't give a toss really, I won't be shagging the footwear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jesus sandals and socks

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don't forget the ginger wig

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

i like to play it cool with one of those smart slippers that both feet go in...its a bit of a trial walking but very comfortable once seated. x x X

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"i like to play it cool with one of those smart slippers that both feet go in...its a bit of a trial walking but very comfortable once seated. x x X"
funky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If their coming to my house, I really mind as they should be taking them off once in the door!

Socks however, clean and with out holes!"

Are they keeping the socks on then

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

Heels

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By *nsert user name hereMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Either crocs or a nice pair of sandals obviously with nice clean white sports socks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoes for first meet.

After that, it depends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only time trainers are acceptable in the over 20's is if your excersising. Unless we had arranged to go on a run with a meet we would expect them to turn up suitably attired

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"wellingtons ??

I once rocked up to a meet in a dress and my purple wellies but in my defence it was pouring with rain and heels or flats didnt cut it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

how about leather converse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as the socks are clean it doesn't really matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Isn't it odd that women look at a mans shoes when most men don't spend more than 5 minutes picking them and only have at most two pairs. Women spend ages shoe shopping and buy loads but most men usually don't bother looking below the knees.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Usually Shoes,, Unless shes married and theres a chance of the old man getting home early then its a pair of running spikes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Usually Shoes,, Unless shes married and theres a chance of the old man getting home early then its a pair of running spikes

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if he's waiting under the bed, you've had it , milk tray man out the window

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as the socks are clean it doesn't really matter

always wear new socks on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whatever you feel most comfortable in Hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whatever you feel most comfortable in Hun x"

i prefer no socks and just boxer shorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Plimsolls"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CROCS!!!!!!!!!! nothin sexier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love men in a decent pair of shoes...but I also like men that wear converse

I have a nice pair of brown brogues and also have blue low profile Converse.

Take yer pick

Only two pairs of shoes , I have guessing as I am not getting up to count about 10 pairs which is not a load for a guy Paula has even more than me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As long as the socks are clean it doesn't really matter

always wear new socks on a meet

Always new socks new undies, decent shoes and a new shirt , just got into wearing shirts from shite shirt company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never wear trainers to a meet "
ive wore my pink converse daps and my denim mini skirt to a meet

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By *riendly foeWoman
over a year ago

In a crisp poke on the A814

NEVER trainers.....on any meet!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never wear trainers to a meet ive wore my pink converse daps and my denim mini skirt to a meet

Me too I love my converses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really can't imagine u in pair of heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't mind turning up bare foot ...just to see the reaction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women not liking trainers on a meet but depends, if I'm going to meet up for some bedroom fun I'm going trainers but if its out for a meal then I might wear shoes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never wear trainers to a meet ive wore my pink converse daps and my denim mini skirt to a meet

Me too I love my converses "
i think for some guys they like us looking cute lol even in my flip flops but got to wear pink nail polish xx

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By *rinterestingMan
over a year ago

London

Always shoes. Dressing smart casual is my normal date attire and thats exactly the way I'd dress for a meet aswell.

A good first impression is essential for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to wear my heels, I wouldn't be upset if someone wore trainers as it can be seen as casual on the male side of things.clean and tidy is what works more for me

Her

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I would wear whatever I am comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never wear trainers to a meet ive wore my pink converse daps and my denim mini skirt to a meet

Me too I love my converses i think for some guys they like us looking cute lol even in my flip flops but got to wear pink nail polish xx"

just painted my nails pink this morning haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I (S) wore all black converse with black jeans, a shirt and suit jacket to a meet a few weeks ago and I think I looked pretty dapper!

We like to make an effort with our appearance and like others who do the same. We're cool with Converse, flip flops or whatever as they can be smart / casual with the right outfit but a trakkie or hoodie isn't really our idea of a hot meeting outfit.

...and white socks? Just wrong!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women not liking trainers on a meet but depends, if I'm going to meet up for some bedroom fun I'm going trainers but if its out for a meal then I might wear shoes. "

Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I once turned up for a very last minute late night meet in a hotel, in tracksuit bottoms and hoddie.and the next day the couple hammered me, so a strange one, if was in a bar or pub I understand shoe and smart but a midnight hotel meet, just in the door and out.

I can't stand tracksuit bottoms full stop. They should just be for in the gym or slobbing around the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on. "

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate to see trainers on people full stop, they are sports wear and should stay just that in my opinion, if a guy meets me in trainers it just looks like he has not made an effort and picked up the first pair of shoes to hand, I have actually turned men down in the past for wearing scruffy trainers, if I make an effort to look nice for them I expect the same in return, sorry if that makes me sound a snob, im really not, I just hate trainers

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

converse are not trainers though, if a guy met me in a pair of converse or vans that would be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to check your age. Tracksuit and a hoodie are youth club attire. Did you play table tennis and buy your meet some sweets from the tuck shop ?

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over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

converse are not trainers though, if a guy met me in a pair of converse or vans that would be fine"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got to be nice shoes . And I love shoes with jeans .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trainers don't bother me as long as they are clean and tidy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

Trainers and a shirt are just so wrong on so many levels. Are you trying to say look at me, smart on top but sporty below.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like trainers at all. Only for playing sports or training in or for men under 23. I think by then you should be wearing big boy shoes

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"come on then people love to hear your _iews on this, I never know which to choose and still don't make my mind up till the last minute."

depends on where your goin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

to me it makes no difference where I meet or what time I would still make an effort to look nice for any potential play mates, and if a guy turned up to meet in in his lounging about cloths because I was just an in the door and out meet he'd be out before he got in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

Trainers and a shirt are just so wrong on so many levels. Are you trying to say look at me, smart on top but sporty below. "

I guess we have different ideas on fashion. I could wear my cowboy boots if you would prefer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm cowboy boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only David Tennant can pull off the suit and Converse look but he has to run from a lot of daleks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love Deck shoes and love Timberland boots with shorts on men , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mmm cowboy boots

with chaps and no trousers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you do the full sporting look, tracksuit, shorts and football top.

If someone turned up for a meet in trainers I would ask them to jog on.

Really? Trainers are my default mode. Trainers, jeans, shirt. I'm not talking 'sporty' trainers either, just converse or some similar type sneakers.

Trainers and a shirt are just so wrong on so many levels. Are you trying to say look at me, smart on top but sporty below.

I guess we have different ideas on fashion. I could wear my cowboy boots if you would prefer?"

got any new rocks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"got any new rocks?

I just had to Google them. Are they your thing?

Not for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"got any new rocks?

I just had to Google them. Are they your thing?

Not for me!

I love them, have quite a collection, have some lovely thigh high one's

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over a year ago

"Only David Tennant can pull off the suit and Converse look but he has to run from a lot of daleks "

I wouldn't consider wearing them with a suit, weren't we just talking jeans & shirt (smart/casual)?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't like trainers at all. Only for playing sports or training in or for men under 23. I think by then you should be wearing big boy shoes "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really into shoes, the most I'll go to is Clarks desert boots if I'm not at work.

Other than that it's converse, or vans mostly.

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By *teviliciousMan
over a year ago

london/ Wisbech

Personally I wouldn't dream of wearing trainers to a meet! It'd have to be clean shoes all the way!

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

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"I don't like trainers at all. Only for playing sports or training in or for men under 23. I think by then you should be wearing big boy shoes "
Well said!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it depends on the type of social, the venue, what the gents general style is. Think as long as its all appropriate and he is clean and presentable im not generally fussed.

I do like a man in decent shoes though and yes i do check them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i wouldnt think of wearing trainers for a meet,but then not so bad for a guy as then he can run away faster if he didnt like the meet....lol

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I am more interested in the actual person themselves than the shoes they are wearing.

Trainers, boots, shoes......not really fussed as long as the person looks clean, tidy/presentable.

Think it can also depend on the type of meet and where it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am more interested in the actual person themselves than the shoes they are wearing.

Trainers, boots, shoes......not really fussed as long as the person looks clean, tidy/presentable.

Think it can also depend on the type of meet and where it is.

Flip flops , crocks ?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Mr always wears shoes and is on point, we like others to make same effort as we do! ( lots of our meets in clubs/ private parties so we like to dress up )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a first meet i generally go for the classic look of black shoes, jeans, white shirt and a black pinstripe jacket

Donna wears..... well I can't keep track as there's 10 clothes changes before we get out the house, but she always looks lovely

Never trainers tho

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I am more interested in the actual person themselves than the shoes they are wearing.

Trainers, boots, shoes......not really fussed as long as the person looks clean, tidy/presentable.

Think it can also depend on the type of meet and where it is.

Flip flops , crocks ?"

I have worn my nice silver sparkly flip flops / slip ons to a coffee meet.

Wouldn't catch me dead in crocs on a meet or otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Only David Tennant can pull off the suit and Converse look but he has to run from a lot of daleks

I wouldn't consider wearing them with a suit, weren't we just talking jeans & shirt (smart/casual)?"

I think someone said something about a suit and converse. You could probably pull off that look too but not with a shirt and tie

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