FabSwingers.com forum: Off-putting

By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Ok so the person you arranged to meet has turned up and you are all getting on great guns. What one thing could they do or say which you would find off-putting - so much so that the meet would be at an end?

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Hello mum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

burb or fart, or do a big manly sniff

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By *ucky1Man
over a year ago

a straightjacket

Open their mouth and have a load of rotten teeth

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Hello mum? "

LOL yes, can see how that would be off-putting but then you wouldn't all be 'getting on' and then suddenly realise it was your mum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sweaty smell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk in text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Open their mouth and have a load of rotten teeth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I asked a guy to leave because he didn't stick to the rules!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BO, nose picking, burping, farting, garlic breath

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

You notice a growing bulge in their knickers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Finding a floater in the dunny.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Some years ago I met one guy who I was chatting to really well until he told me he had voted BNP in the last election. I then told him that my ex husband had been a Muslim asylum seeker (true). That ended that meet. I think he was put off me just as much as I was by him.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Asking too many personal questions it just puts me on guard...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You notice a growing bulge in their knickers"

Lol!..and she hadnt waxed her tosh haaaaa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done socials in the past that feel more like job interviews, people need to chill relax and enjoy, not get uptight and working things out.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I asked a guy to leave because he didn't stick to the rules!! "

What rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

Omg!! What a bellend!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

Unbelievable! What a dork

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

He was probably trying to come across as a 'man' and it was actually his cleaning lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they start to talk about work related stuff,which I find so boring. I'm there to have fun not for a bloody job interview. I'm good with my hands that should be sufficient enough information for anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

Oh my god!! That's shocking!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Some one assuming it was nailed on

Not nailed on, as it......I mean as in a done deal

OK, what I mean is the arrogance to think just because we met we were going to have sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

He was probably trying to come across as a 'man' and it was actually his cleaning lady."

what was more irritating was that he'd gone on about liking a certain look so I'd gone all tarted up in stocking and suspenders and he turned up in jogging bottoms and a scruffy t shirt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been said before, but bad teeth and / or poor personal hygiene , though the two tend to go hand in glove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

He was probably trying to come across as a 'man' and it was actually his cleaning lady.

what was more irritating was that he'd gone on about liking a certain look so I'd gone all tarted up in stocking and suspenders and he turned up in jogging bottoms and a scruffy t shirt.

Yeah , well I've apologised for that Hol

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

He was probably trying to come across as a 'man' and it was actually his cleaning lady.

what was more irritating was that he'd gone on about liking a certain look so I'd gone all tarted up in stocking and suspenders and he turned up in jogging bottoms and a scruffy t shirt.

Some people are all give, give, give!!

Personally I never allow anyone to dictate to me how I should dress for a meet. I dress how I like. They don't like? Then not for me.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

So you AREN'T a girl?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had one guy that I was chatting nicely with ask if we could "hurry up and get down to it" cos he had another girl coming later.

See ya!!!!

He was probably trying to come across as a 'man' and it was actually his cleaning lady.

what was more irritating was that he'd gone on about liking a certain look so I'd gone all tarted up in stocking and suspenders and he turned up in jogging bottoms and a scruffy t shirt.

Yeah , well I've apologised for that Hol

lol now I know you'd never be that rude honey!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sorts of things can put me off, I can be quite fickle at times, the last thing that put me off was a guy I met for a social meet (not from here) and he kept scratching his balls, now he had either just shaved, or had sweaty balls, I have to say it put me right off!

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've had a couple of guys start talking about their ex's and burst into tears.

Both still asked if I wanted to play with them.

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I've had a couple of guys start talking about their ex's and burst into tears.

Both still asked if I wanted to play with them.

I had one who went on about his ex - on another site - who asked me for my advice re getting back with her. I think he was quite surprised when I didn't want to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol mixed with bad aftershave smell

That amongst many things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok so the person you arranged to meet has turned up and you are all getting on great guns. What one thing could they do or say which you would find off-putting - so much so that the meet would be at an end? "

I had a meet that didn't even begin. The woman I was meeting turned up wearing a baggy dirty tracksuit and was sitting on a bin smoking!

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Alcohol mixed with bad aftershave smell

That amongst many things

That reminds me of another meet a few years ago. He stunk of booze and proceeded to tell me that he'd just lost his driving licence due to drink driving. He was genuinely surprised that I said no to taking him home - we had arranged to meet in a pub. It didn't help that he was not 6ft as he claimed and I towered over him in heels. Plus his face pic had been a fake - he looked horrendous and hadn't even bothered shaving.

I was polite and made my excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a guy (no longer on the site) for a social. He was very handsome and had good chat but kept saying 'yeah' after every few words yeah? It got really annoying yeah? Found he became less attractive yeah? The more he talked yeah?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this guy sneezed and then he had curtains hanging from his nose,urgh!.

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Anything involving hatred or intolerance. Also, anything that is intended to marginalize or divide either one of us.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I had a guy turn up for a first meet stinking of and kept wiping his nose on the back of his hand. Then got his cock out and sex hadnt even been mentioned at this point just assumed it was happening! Needless to say i made sime excuses got him the hell out of my car and left!!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Alcohol mixed with bad aftershave smell

That amongst many things

What, you mean like Brut?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Met a woman from another similar site and looked like she had'nt bothered to comb her hair, then after chatting a while noticed she had dirty fingernails, ewww.

Was just glad decided to meet her in a pub for a drink first, could'nt get out of there quick enough!

Really no excuse for bad personal hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some years ago I met one guy who I was chatting to really well until he told me he had voted BNP in the last election. I then told him that my ex husband had been a Muslim asylum seeker (true). That ended that meet. I think he was put off me just as much as I was by him."

Now that really is disgusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I asked a guy to leave because he didn't stick to the rules!!

What rules?"

Shall PM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking too many personal questions it just puts me on guard..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now that really is disgusting. "

Harbouring an asylum seeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a couple of guys start talking about their ex's and burst into tears.

Both still asked if I wanted to play with them.

That's not sexy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I met a sniffer once. Not in a hayfever kind of way... just at the end of every sentence would sniff and looked really pleased with himself. Very irritating so didn't go further than a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A really titchy cock......

Yeah, I'm that shallow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You notice a growing bulge in their knickers

Lol!..and she hadnt waxed her tosh haaaaa"
why bring me into it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turned up for a social and he had a bandage on his hand. I asked what happened. His response was. I hit the ex. I got up and left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Turned up for a social and he had a bandage on his hand. I asked what happened. His response was. I hit the ex. I got up and left. "

Ps his still on fab but don't use the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They had a stack of watchtower magazines, no tv, and kept asking if i was religous. I have a feeling that there was more of a conversion rather than an insertion on the cards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just need to take my teeth out a minute...

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By *heScotandthegirlCouple
over a year ago

London & Edinburgh

from a different site met a guy who quite quickly started bitching about his 'ex', she wanted money from him because they'd had a kid. He was annoyed because this had happened before with a different girl, he then told me he basically only did one night stands and didn't do protection so these girls should really leave him alone. In his opinion that meant there was no comeback as he was "upfront". Wow. I didn't even finish my wine before making not so subtle excuses.

Ruby

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By *B9 Queen OP Woman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Now that really is disgusting.

Harbouring an asylum seeker"

I know shocking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"BO, nose picking, burping, farting, garlic breath

note to self put these on the not to list along picking your arse and playing your balls whilst talking to legs

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