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Have I got it all wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just thinking about the 'Interests' tick boxes:

If a woman ticks say fisting, then she's telling the world she likes it or wants to try it.

If a guy ticks fisting (Like I did) I'm telling the world I like to fist women who like it, or does it tell the world I have some weird fetish to have someone fist my arse??

There are a few options in interests that make me wonder if I should leave them unticked

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

So if you want it it is a weird fetish, but you want to fist women...is that a weird fetish too then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly I would say don't yuck someone else's yum. There are men out there who enjoy being fisted just as there are women.

When I was meeting I paid very little attention of the interests ticks; but I would say that ticking fisting would mean you have interest in fisting in some way or another. Just as someone who ticks watersports would have whether it be giving, receiving or both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you want it it is a weird fetish, but you want to fist women...is that a weird fetish too then?"

You said that so much more concisely than me Ruggers! But this is what I was getting at!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Advice would be if your unsure about anything leave them unticked, Its easy to change at a later date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an interest thst you discuss with potential meets. Im interested in Rygbi but I dont play it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its probably best to leave it unticked but type out in the profile text what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So if you want it it is a weird fetish, but you want to fist women...is that a weird fetish too then?"

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

None of my favourites are listed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of my favourites are listed. "

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The interests thing makes me laugh... I get messages saying things like I see you love anal?. Well I can do this that blah blah etc to your arse etc etc.

Just because I have it listed an an interest doesn't mean I would do it at every meet with every guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it shows interests.

its not a menu for whats on offer

make sure you match what they are looking fr is much more important than if they take it up the wrong un

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"The interests thing makes me laugh... I get messages saying things like I see you love anal?. Well I can do this that blah blah etc to your arse etc etc.

Just because I have it listed an an interest doesn't mean I would do it at every meet with every guy.

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I get those too. Then I explain I mean I love giving it with my strap-on.

Always better to ask than blindly assume.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"None of my favourites are listed.

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet "

I may start a campaign for it. It could be popular.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"None of my favourites are listed.

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet

I may start a campaign for it. It could be popular. "

You'd better ask for chocolate chip cookies at the same time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rather than tick practically all of them, I just leave them blank

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"None of my favourites are listed.

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet

I may start a campaign for it. It could be popular.

You'd better ask for chocolate chip cookies at the same time "

Wonder if marmalade can be classed as a sexual interest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I've asked guy's do they do everything on their ticked list, its nearly always a no, they say it's just a interest, most of the time I avoid some people because of what they have ticked. I think you should tick just what you have done and if there is something you want to try, you could talk about it with a prospective meet. Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have got it all wrong..bursts out in song BLINDED BY THE LIGHT

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"None of my favourites are listed.

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet

I may start a campaign for it. It could be popular.

You'd better ask for chocolate chip cookies at the same time

Wonder if marmalade can be classed as a sexual interest?"

It depends on what you do with it, I'd think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"None of my favourites are listed.

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet

I may start a campaign for it. It could be popular.

You'd better ask for chocolate chip cookies at the same time

Wonder if marmalade can be classed as a sexual interest?"

If you put it on my toast please

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"None of my favourites are listed.

that's because there isn't an angel delight box yet

I may start a campaign for it. It could be popular.

You'd better ask for chocolate chip cookies at the same time

Wonder if marmalade can be classed as a sexual interest?

If you put it on my toast please "

Haha what a waste of good marmalade. Toast indeed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"it shows interests.

its not a menu for whats on offer

make sure you match what they are looking fr is much more important than if they take it up the wrong un"

This!

It's an indication of things you enjoy/are interested in - whether that interest is based on previous experience or a desire to try for the first time.

It's not a shopping list, or a set of activities you'll participate in with everyone you meet.

The best way to find out just how interested someone is? Try talking! Radical - I know!

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