FabSwingers.com forum: couples profile

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Things I never understand with some couples profiles

1, when it's written by the male or female seemingly from one pout of view , as if the partner isn't really into it

2, when you only see pictures of one half of the couple

This is just an observation and probably come up before on the forum, but I'm not gonna search for it.

So I'm really just wondering what others thoughts on this was

And yes I know our profile isn't perfect but haven't claimed it was before anyone tries to bash it lol

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

nothing wrong with your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

havent read your profile, too early lol, but the only pics of your fella is his dick........is that what you mean by pics of both partners?

yes, i wrote our profile.

if i wanted it spelt wrongly and incorrect grammar i would have got V to write it, but im a little more creative, she is much better at other things, thats what partnerships are about.

the keyboard aint designed to have 4 hands using it.

did i just write it and post it? no, she was here with me, and we bounced ideas around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"havent read your profile, too early lol, but the only pics of your fella is his dick........is that what you mean by pics of both partners?

yes, i wrote our profile.

if i wanted it spelt wrongly and incorrect grammar i would have got V to write it, but im a little more creative, she is much better at other things, thats what partnerships are about.

the keyboard aint designed to have 4 hands using it.

did i just write it and post it? no, she was here with me, and we bounced ideas around."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"havent read your profile, too early lol, but the only pics of your fella is his dick........is that what you mean by pics of both partners?

yes, i wrote our profile.

if i wanted it spelt wrongly and incorrect grammar i would have got V to write it, but im a little more creative, she is much better at other things, thats what partnerships are about.

the keyboard aint designed to have 4 hands using it.

did i just write it and post it? no, she was here with me, and we bounced ideas around."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"havent read your profile, too early lol, but the only pics of your fella is his dick........is that what you mean by pics of both partners?

yes, i wrote our profile.

if i wanted it spelt wrongly and incorrect grammar i would have got V to write it, but im a little more creative, she is much better at other things, thats what partnerships are about.

the keyboard aint designed to have 4 hands using it.

did i just write it and post it? no, she was here with me, and we bounced ideas around."

What I mean by pics of both partners is both partners at least making some kind of appearance in a picture...be it pussy/cock/body/face pic (we have face pics in private folder) but at least you see that there is two people and not just only having the ladies/gents pics only as u see body pics (one part or another) of both of us

And how you say you wrote yours I'd say is the best way...

I may not have worded my initial post correctly, of which I apologise and blame my phone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile

Their choice

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Their profile

Their choice "

Oh I agree...I was just wondering on the thoughts of it/ reasons behind it wasn't meaning it as an attack on anybody....again prob bad wording on my behalf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their profile

Their choice

Oh I agree...I was just wondering on the thoughts of it/ reasons behind it wasn't meaning it as an attack on anybody....again prob bad wording on my behalf

You worded it fine.

Yes it is their choice to have it how they want. But if a profile just has pics of one person I avoid it. If they want to meet and both play, I want to see them both. My choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their profile

Their choice

Oh I agree...I was just wondering on the thoughts of it/ reasons behind it wasn't meaning it as an attack on anybody....again prob bad wording on my behalf

You worded it fine.

Yes it is their choice to have it how they want. But if a profile just has pics of one person I avoid it. If they want to meet and both play, I want to see them both. My choice.

Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is under any obligation to contact anybody,if a profile entices you to contact then then go for it,if it doesn't,then leave well alone and move onto the next one.plenty of interest here for everyone.far too much criticism of others profiles on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody is under any obligation to contact anybody,if a profile entices you to contact then then go for it,if it doesn't,then leave well alone and move onto the next one.plenty of interest here for everyone.far too much criticism of others profiles on this site."

I don't think it's criticism, just a discussion. I am sure people think my profile is shit. They are allowed their opinions, same as anyone else is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's criticism, just a discussion. I am sure people think my profile is shit. They are allowed their opinions, same as anyone else is.

i dunno.

at least you wont get messages asking what you are looking for lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr writes our profile as Nik looks only at pics of men or couples when she wants a meet.she trusts me to find suitable people.

as for no pics of male,we avoid those profiles ad alot of men get a free ride from a hot Mrs.she wont take one fir the team

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their profile

Their choice

Oh I agree...I was just wondering on the thoughts of it/ reasons behind it wasn't meaning it as an attack on anybody....again prob bad wording on my behalf

You worded it fine.

Yes it is their choice to have it how they want. But if a profile just has pics of one person I avoid it. If they want to meet and both play, I want to see them both. My choice.

Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I have a couples profile with my fb. We don't live together so when creating our profile we used selfies as that was quicker and easier than waiting for a time when we could take pics if each other x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's criticism, just a discussion. I am sure people think my profile is shit. They are allowed their opinions, same as anyone else is.

I agree; didn't take the OP's query as criticism at all. I would think many couples would be interested in how the pics they choose to display could impact on the interest they receive. Personally if I only see pics of one half of the couple I'm generally no longer interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's criticism, just a discussion. I am sure people think my profile is shit. They are allowed their opinions, same as anyone else is.

it wasnt a criticism directed at the op,its my opinion based on my time reading and contributing to the forums,,which surely i am entitled to as much as the next person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most couples profiles have mainly fem pics, but your chatting to the guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tried to balance ours out with pics, we have pics of us alone and together, I Stew wrote the original profile then Donna had a look and changed a few bits, its not the best profile on here but it isn't the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By your profile you shall be judged....

I know, but how else can we judge people on here...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i saw the ops post as slightly hypocritical as, although there are pics of her fellas dick, thats pretty much it.

women lambast single guys for doing the same, yet she has more of herself showing than him, so will any other couples message them purely on the fact you can see his cock, anymore than not seeing pics at all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree about only having female pics on a profile, particularly on the private photo gallery.

With regards to the profile text then when speaking to couples in clubs, it appears to be common for one person (normally the male) to be the website admin! Ours was written together but it is normally me who deals with the messages and forums.

Mr Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Their profile

Their choice

Oh I agree...I was just wondering on the thoughts of it/ reasons behind it wasn't meaning it as an attack on anybody....again prob bad wording on my behalf

You worded it fine.

Yes it is their choice to have it how they want. But if a profile just has pics of one person I avoid it. If they want to meet and both play, I want to see them both. My choice.

Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I have a couples profile with my fb. We don't live together so when creating our profile we used selfies as that was quicker and easier than waiting for a time when we could take pics if each other x"

My time with Nette is short so when we are together i have more important things on my mind than posing for Pics, Bloody phone would be shaking too much anyway

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Things I never understand with some couples profiles

1, when it's written by the male or female seemingly from one pout of view , as if the partner isn't really into it

2, when you only see pictures of one half of the couple

This is just an observation and probably come up before on the forum, but I'm not gonna search for it.

So I'm really just wondering what others thoughts on this was

And yes I know our profile isn't perfect but haven't claimed it was before anyone tries to bash it lol

If there was more to see of the male half on your profile than his cock I'd see your point. As it is: people in glass houses...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I can see that, but when its a married couple?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I have a couples profile with my fb. We don't live together so when creating our profile we used selfies as that was quicker and easier than waiting for a time when we could take pics if each other x

I can see that, but when its a married couple?"

Hmmm...you've got me there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the selfiies, mine are getting a lack of imagination, but hence there is only so much I can take of myself.

I have had plenty of ideas how to liven the gallery up, but it can't be done by yourself.

Nette

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sellfies on a couples profile has to be suspect. Did they not agree to a couples profile, did they not look at other profiles, did they not decide they need a few pictures and take some of each other?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All sellfies on a couples profile has to be suspect. Did they not agree to a couples profile, did they not look at other profiles, did they not decide they need a few pictures and take some of each other?

if they decide to take some selfies then who cares?

if the profile is verified then there can be no comeback can there?

they are obviously a rel couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote ours with input from oh coz I'm better at drivel tbh

As for pics, I just removed some of me as tbh people only want to see da boobies (going by fab metrics)

Kept for private sending if needed

We, too, don't live together but are very much a couple, so the odd selfie creeps in when the mood takes...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well i saw the ops post as slightly hypocritical as, although there are pics of her fellas dick, thats pretty much it.

Yes it's mainly the mans cock that we have on show, a lot of that down to body confidence, but we have over half our pics showing the fem of our couple....this on our public pics...we do have other pics showing our faces which we choose to keep out of public sight and for friends only or people we choose to send them too and we do have other pics on our other profile

But u seem to miss our point...

The point were trying to make is that you see some couples profiles with public pics (none private) but you only see pics of one half of the couple, generally the female posing on her own, but if they are a couple, why isn't there a pic of the male half of the couple in one form or another...surely if your trying to get meets as a couple then surely you would want to show there are two of you not just the fem.

And yes everyone can do as they wish on their own profile and yes I know pics can be sent via mail...but if your looking for a couple and you come across a profile that suits what your looking for...surely only seeing one person in the pics is gonna put a few people off taking it further....

And my original post was an observation to start a conversation on people's thoughts/views, nothing more, and definatly not meaning to sound like I am attacking anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they decide to take some selfies then who cares?

if the profile is verified then there can be no comeback can there?

they are obviously a rel couple"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i saw the ops post as slightly hypocritical as, although there are pics of her fellas dick, thats pretty much it.

But u seem to miss our point...

And my original post was an observation to start a conversation on people's thoughts/views, nothing more, and definatly not meaning to sound like I am attacking anyone "

What happens if couples want to meet only single men, no need to have any pictures of the male half.

And I think you are missing the point OP, what people do with their profile is up to them, if you don't like it then move on to the next profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see that, but when its a married couple?

Hmmm...you've got me there

Yep and especially when they are not verified??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken ones of myself, doesn't mean anything!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they decide to take some selfies then who cares?

if the profile is verified then there can be no comeback can there?

they are obviously a rel couple"

Not necessarily, I've seen some where it has been a fb couple and one half of the couple "changes" regularly so the veri's are not a true representation.

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By *irtyAndCh33kyCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

" Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I often take naughty pics to send to Mr Ch33ky while he's working....that's why we have some selfies

To the OP we like to see pics of both people when chatting to a couple and also like to chat to both of them...if it's a profile of cock pics and just the guy chatting then we move on!

Mrs Dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I often take naughty pics to send to Mr Ch33ky while he's working....that's why we have some selfies

To the OP we like to see pics of both people when chatting to a couple and also like to chat to both of them...if it's a profile of cock pics and just the guy chatting then we move on!

Mrs Dirty "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they decide to take some selfies then who cares?

if the profile is verified then there can be no comeback can there?

they are obviously a rel couple"

That's why you need to look at who and how veries were left. Plenty of creative people here can fake veries. Loads have single and couples profiles.....not of course they would.... only the bad, fakes or trouble makers misuse the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken ones of myself, doesn't mean anything! "

No, but your single aren't you...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"well i saw the ops post as slightly hypocritical as, although there are pics of her fellas dick, thats pretty much it.

But u seem to miss our point...

And my original post was an observation to start a conversation on people's thoughts/views, nothing more, and definatly not meaning to sound like I am attacking anyone

What happens if couples want to meet only single men, no need to have any pictures of the male half.

And I think you are missing the point OP, what people do with their profile is up to them, if you don't like it then move on to the next profile."

I did actually say that I know people can do as they wish on their own profile and that I wasn't attacking anyone it was just my observation

I wasn't even saying anything about the way the pics were taken, selfies or not, just that it was only one sex showing and generally the female half of the couple

But u did make a good point about couples who only want to meet men, of which honestly I didn't think of, but that's the joys of the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do need to change my profile name and will do.

I originally joined fab as a couple, we split up, I kept the profile, hence photos of me. Worded by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken ones of myself, doesn't mean anything! "

But your a single not a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"well i saw the ops post as slightly hypocritical as, although there are pics of her fellas dick, thats pretty much it.

But u seem to miss our point...

And my original post was an observation to start a conversation on people's thoughts/views, nothing more, and definatly not meaning to sound like I am attacking anyone

What happens if couples want to meet only single men, no need to have any pictures of the male half.

And I think you are missing the point OP, what people do with their profile is up to them, if you don't like it then move on to the next profile.

I did actually say that I know people can do as they wish on their own profile and that I wasn't attacking anyone it was just my observation

I wasn't even saying anything about the way the pics were taken, selfies or not, just that it was only one sex showing and generally the female half of the couple

But u did make a good point about couples who only want to meet men, of which honestly I didn't think of, but that's the joys of the forums

Yes indeed and I don't personally think you have "attacked" anyone.

For what it's worth, my couple profile does show us both, but predominately me. We have private pictures showing us together (in a vanilla way) and we both wrote the profile text together.

Horses for courses as they say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wrote my couple profile and control it (guess I'm the control freak in the partnership) just because it's something we both agreed. Pics of us both are on there and face pics would be sent on request. Obviously any decisions are made joinly as both would be actively participating .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken ones of myself, doesn't mean anything!

But your a single not a couple"

No I am not, I have had a "posting" profile for some time and the pictures on here are the same as the couple account and taken together. I have maybe two I took myself which used to be on the couple account, however the point I was making was selfies on a couple account does not mean it is not a real couple account.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I have a couples profile with my fb. We don't live together so when creating our profile we used selfies as that was quicker and easier than waiting for a time when we could take pics if each other x

I can see that, but when its a married couple?"
. It may be a photo they took for each other while they were apart and decided to share.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken ones of myself, doesn't mean anything!

No, but your single aren't you..."

As per my last post - no and none of the pictures on this account were selfies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse is a Single blokes profile with a picture of a woman sucking a cock with her face on view yet only cock shots of him !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even worse is a Single blokes profile with a picture of a woman sucking a cock with her face on view yet only cock shots of him !"

Yep

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've seen some single guys profiles where I've had more of a feel of what his past conquests are like than for what he looks like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have taken ones of myself, doesn't mean anything!

But your a single not a couple

I see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why on some couples profiles are some of the photos selfies? Never understand why if its a couple the partner does not take them

I have a couples profile with my fb. We don't live together so when creating our profile we used selfies as that was quicker and easier than waiting for a time when we could take pics if each other x

I can see that, but when its a married couple?. It may be a photo they took for each other while they were apart and decided to share. "

The pics on our couple profile are selfies. Took whilst we were apart, for each other. Not fake! Yes there are fakes and time wasters on this site but also alot of genuine nice folk. All in different situations/relationships. So just because a profile has selfies doesnt necessarily mean it's fake.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Even worse is a Single blokes profile with a picture of a woman sucking a cock with her face on view yet only cock shots of him !"

I don't like those either: off putting!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I've seen some single guys profiles where I've had more of a feel of what his past conquests are like than for what he looks like

Quite a few of those!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll never please everyone - so pointless trying - whether it's pic content or text.

Those couples only meeting single guys, where the guy in the couple is straight - why would a profile viewer not be more interested in images of the female?

Those couples where they're looking for other couples, single females or (if bi/curious) other guys - why would you not give a decent indication of you both?

It is evident that some couples focus on the female - but it's often commented that they're doing themselves no favours. So I guess they have no comeback if they get no interest.

But personally I feel if you're playing as a couple it should be a 50/50 split - or at least a better percentage than 95/5 when it comes to images of female/male. But then that's just my opinion. And Fox's of course. Hence on the couples profile we like to see both parties equally represented.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You'll never please everyone - so pointless trying - whether it's pic content or text.

Those couples only meeting single guys, where the guy in the couple is straight - why would a profile viewer not be more interested in images of the female?

Those couples where they're looking for other couples, single females or (if bi/curious) other guys - why would you not give a decent indication of you both?

It is evident that some couples focus on the female - but it's often commented that they're doing themselves no favours. So I guess they have no comeback if they get no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things I never understand with some couples profiles"

I never understand why some people are so bothered about others. I prefer to focus on the ones that interest me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things I never understand with some couples profiles

I never understand why some people are so bothered about others. I prefer to focus on the ones that interest me."

makes sense

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