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Lead me not into temptation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

However it's everywhere.

In real life there is a man I know, not very well but see him once a week at rugby, very good looking, we have a laugh, get on great and he's heavily hinted at wanting fun....sounds great doesn't it? Except he's married!

Now I'm a good catholic girl and tend to stay away from married men but why is it so hard.

2 sides of me

says have fun, he's the one who's married

says how would you feel if you had a husband and he played away

Bugger to having a conscience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toss a coin...

Honestly, only you can decide what is right for you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Toss a coin...

Honestly, only you can decide what is right for you xx"

Oh I know, think I know my own mind and I truly would hate to be in the wife's shoes with a husband wanting to play away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Heads do it , tails don't ... What came up ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on a site like this surely there are much easier options available to you??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being on a site like this surely there are much easier options available to you??"

There is, much easier. It's just something that's keeping me awake.

As I said, whilst tempted, very tempted. I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

if you are having to have a lengthy think about it you know the answer.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with your conscience. .. how would you feel if it was your other half fucking some chick at the rugby club. Sometimes you just gotta rise above it.... its not like he's the only hot guy in the universe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you have a conscience don't do it.

If you don't then do it.

Remember though it could be you getting a phone call or a chap at the door from a very irate wife.

I've thought of that when I've met married women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with your conscience. .. how would you feel if it was your other half fucking some chick at the rugby club. Sometimes you just gotta rise above it.... its not like he's the only hot guy in the universe x"

I know, I was just putting it out there.

The fact I'm over thinking it does mean that I know it's best to steer clear.

I don't have a other half but I'd hate it if I was unaware of it happening.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being on a site like this surely there are much easier options available to you??

There is, much easier. It's just something that's keeping me awake.

As I said, whilst tempted, very tempted. I wouldn't want to be cheated on myself."

I have always been lenient with cheaters as I feel that sometimes it's something that can't be helped, spur of the moment, or deeply in love with each other or something like that. But cold and calculated?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

...it's something that's going to remain on your conscience for a while. If it doesn't go accordingly your going to have to live with it.

But, that's how my mind works anyway. I think about things a bit too much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do whatever the person you would like to be would do.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"However it's everywhere.

In real life there is a man I know, not very well but see him once a week at rugby, very good looking, we have a laugh, get on great and he's heavily hinted at wanting fun....sounds great doesn't it? Except he's married!

Now I'm a good catholic girl and tend to stay away from married men but why is it so hard.

2 sides of me

says have fun, he's the one who's married

says how would you feel if you had a husband and he played away

Bugger to having a conscience."

I have this same dilemma. There are a few married/attached men on here I'd love to meet for play. I don't judge them for being on here because I'm not in their shoes but I decline to meet.

However, I often wonder why. They're meeting anyway, their partner is at risk of getting hurt anyway and it's their marriage, not mine. Sometimes it seems the only one losing out from my principles is me.

Then again, I've seen two married men in the past and I got hurt twice.

I do still mull this over quite regularly though.

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