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"I wouldn't let people get under your skin like that, ignore and do your own thing, don't let people know they have pissed you off it gives them ammunition to fire back at you." thanks i think i need 2 learn that but my dad as always said dnt take crap of anybody lol | |||
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"I wouldn't let people get under your skin like that, ignore and do your own thing, don't let people know they have pissed you off it gives them ammunition to fire back at you. thanks i think i need 2 learn that but my dad as always said dnt take crap of anybody lol" Better advice is not to take anything to heart. | |||
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"Learning when to walk away and leave things alone is sometimes the hardest thing to do, but shows you are the bigger person." Agree ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't let people get under your skin like that, ignore and do your own thing, don't let people know they have pissed you off it gives them ammunition to fire back at you. thanks i think i need 2 learn that but my dad as always said dnt take crap of anybody lol" Life is one big lesson, we don't always get it right but we can learn from our mistakes x chin up | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() Not strictly true though. | |||
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"Learning when to walk away and leave things alone is sometimes the hardest thing to do, but shows you are the bigger person." ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"And a bit of advice... When a moderator closes a thread. Best not to start another about the same thing" Couldn't agree more. ![]() | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() Very true but helps to not let people grind you down | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() No one is jealous of the OP. What annoyed others on the thread was wading through a personal conversation back and forth between the OP and another poster. How does that amount to jealously? | |||
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"I wouldn't let people get under your skin like that, ignore and do your own thing, don't let people know they have pissed you off it gives them ammunition to fire back at you. thanks i think i need 2 learn that but my dad as always said dnt take crap of anybody lol" Should'nt have to take crap from anyone. Was nothing wrong with what you posted earlier, maybe some were jealous because you were getting a lot of attention? Anyway, don't let anyone bully you or try to intimidate you into stopping posting, you have just as much right to post anything you like on these forums as anyone else (as long as don't break the terms of use). ![]() | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() Which I see happen all the time with regular posters yet ive not seen them be spoken to so rudely in the first instance like the op was, could of been said a hell of alot more politely. | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() I'm still trying to work out where jealousy came into it ![]() | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() Totally agree. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't let people get under your skin like that, ignore and do your own thing, don't let people know they have pissed you off it gives them ammunition to fire back at you. thanks i think i need 2 learn that but my dad as always said dnt take crap of anybody lol Should'nt have to take crap from anyone. Was nothing wrong with what you posted earlier, maybe some were jealous because you were getting a lot of attention? Anyway, don't let anyone bully you or try to intimidate you into stopping posting, you have just as much right to post anything you like on these forums as anyone else (as long as don't break the terms of use). ![]() Do not confuse rules with etiquette. Too much attention seeking and cliquishness spoil many a potentially great thread. | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() Well to be fair I'm newish to the forums myself so hadn't seen it. I was simply clarifying what the others were saying, and actually tried to help by offering some good advice. | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() i agree it sud have told in a proper way i wud have walk away but no | |||
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"Thought fab was fun x " Dont take it personally, dont let anything get to you and dont get pissed off by other peoples comments & you'll find it is fun. Insane but fun ![]() | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() See, judging by your reaction to me and those who were more polite I think your reaction would be the same. Posting repeat threads and statuses says it all. | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() You were offered advice by others (including myself) in a polite way though. No one wants to stop anyone having fun but my view is I don't want to have to wade through a thread and read ping pong messages between two people whilst trying to read the rest of the thread, it'd have been better suited in PM. It's not jealously on anyone's part, we are all here for the same thing - to have fun. The best thing to do would have been to have taken it on the chin and moved forward and left it all on the thread in question. | |||
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"Could you two take it to PM please? ![]() Stirer ![]() | |||
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"Ah ffs give it up you lot. It's like being in friggin kinder garden. You can't even keep it in one thread. It's spreading over the forum like a shitty nappy ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Ah ffs give it up you lot. It's like being in friggin kinder garden. You can't even keep it in one thread. It's spreading over the forum like a shitty nappy ![]() +1 Please? ![]() | |||
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"Ah ffs give it up you lot. It's like being in friggin kinder garden. You can't even keep it in one thread. It's spreading over the forum like a shitty nappy ![]() Just cause you've poo'd yourself again... No need to tell the world ![]() | |||
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"Thing is I see thread have personal convo's all the time, with in jokes with people who know each other outside of fab etc, the most random chat and ive never seen anyone but in and say take it to pm etc, not even asking politely, you didnt even ask politely though you quite rude about it and that got her back up because she felt she was being singled out when no ones else does, even at the start of the thread there was random chat but no one said get back to the point of the thread. And then started going on about using text speak etc, just came across as really catty to me." How many times do we see "it's a public forum, I can say what I like!" bandied about? | |||
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"Thing is I see thread have personal convo's all the time, with in jokes with people who know each other outside of fab etc, the most random chat and ive never seen anyone but in and say take it to pm etc, not even asking politely, you didnt even ask politely though you quite rude about it and that got her back up because she felt she was being singled out when no ones else does, even at the start of the thread there was random chat but no one said get back to the point of the thread. And then started going on about using text speak etc, just came across as really catty to me." ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thing is I see thread have personal convo's all the time, with in jokes with people who know each other outside of fab etc, the most random chat and ive never seen anyone but in and say take it to pm etc, not even asking politely, you didnt even ask politely though you quite rude about it and that got her back up because she felt she was being singled out when no ones else does, even at the start of the thread there was random chat but no one said get back to the point of the thread. And then started going on about using text speak etc, just came across as really catty to me. How many times do we see "it's a public forum, I can say what I like!" bandied about? " Exactly ![]() | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() Oh come on, whatever the reason, you and others comments on 'that' thread towards the OP were uncomfortable to read to put it mildly, gang mentality springs to mind! ![]() | |||
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"Seems if you are not part of the regular forum clique on here then you are not allowed to have a conversation on a thread? Also non of the men seemed to be annoyed by what the op wrote in the other thread. Looked to me like a group of women ganging up and trying to intimidate someone. Really was not a nice thing to witness ." Is sexy brain now a woman too? He also commented. | |||
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"I see it as " look at me"...sorry ![]() ermmm yes..as the other people are clearly stating give it up" I'm seeing this as dragging it here, there and everywhere, so yes " look at me" | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() ![]() I suggested politely why others would be annoyed and that when others mentioned writing in English, they were referring to her text speak which again I was polite about. I'm not part of a clique and certainly wasn't involved in a gang mentality. Geez, if offering polite advice to someone has you labelled as a bully/jealous old woman then I don't think I'll bother in the future! | |||
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"What did I miss ![]() Nothing of interest lol | |||
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"I see it as " look at me"...sorry ![]() u can think that but i knw its not true on well | |||
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"I see it as " look at me"...sorry ![]() I would just leave it now, everyone has said there piece including you, chalk it up as an experience to learn from and walk away and enjoy the site. Too much negativity is never a good thing for anyone. | |||
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"OP, next time someone has a go at you for having a convo with someone on a thread.... Ignore them and carry on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"OP, next time someone has a go at you for having a convo with someone on a thread.... Ignore them and carry on ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() I'm sorry I personally think it was 6 of one and half a dozen of the other ... But you were asked nicely by the Male OP of that thread and you were very rude to him !!! | |||
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"You can not defeat the clique. The end." Coz those in it think it's an urban myth. | |||
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"You can not defeat the clique. The end. Coz those in it think it's an urban myth." I've been accused of this clique thingy, not sire when i joined,how i joined or who else is a member but let me know when you guys find out and when the next AGM is ![]() | |||
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"You can not defeat the clique. The end. Coz those in it think it's an urban myth. I've been accused of this clique thingy, not sire when i joined,how i joined or who else is a member but let me know when you guys find out and when the next AGM is ![]() Think you joined it same day as me, was hoping you'd remember how and when as I've forgotten. | |||
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"It's the group that continuously licks each others' arses. ![]() Ah I'm not in it then, haven't partaken in any arse licking for quite some time. | |||
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"I don't lick arse, rimming isn't for me ![]() OK - KISS arse, then ![]() | |||
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"damn....all this talk of rimming and penetration.....must be bed time ![]() Good idea. All this hair sp(l)itting ![]() | |||
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"And as for this particular thread .... There was only one regular poster involved !!! Hard to have a clique single handed !!! " *cough* | |||
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"And as for this particular thread .... There was only one regular poster involved !!! Hard to have a clique single handed !!! *cough*" As you are not so subtly disagreeing with me I shall go read it again !!!! ![]() | |||
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"I think its not those who are accused of being in a clique that make it so !!!! Its the people who think there is one !!!!! And as for this particular thread .... There was only one regular poster involved !!! Hard to have a clique single handed !!! " Very interesting who you see as being a regular poster. Very telling indeed! X | |||
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"Do I need to do my teacher look? Maybe this can be left and I won't need to get my red pen out and glasses on to look down my nose. OP fab is fun, people just don't take kindly to others being rude. " no complaints if you do ![]() | |||
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"I wouldn't let people get under your skin like that, ignore and do your own thing, don't let people know they have pissed you off it gives them ammunition to fire back at you. thanks i think i need 2 learn that but my dad as always said dnt take crap of anybody lol" Actually it was probably Yul Brenner ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thought fab was fun x" Don't waste your time on them. As soon as somebody gets nasty press the block button. | |||
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"Just see it as jealousy is a bitch sometimes and more for them ![]() and there we go again, a young slim woman posts something about others and thy are being nasty because they are jealous. bugger all to do with having a genuine difference of opinion learning more from life having been around longer so having a different perspective, and so on no, it has to be down to jealousy. ridiculous. OP, you will need to grow a much thicker skin if you are to both use the forums, and be on fab as not everyone will agree with you, or blow smoke up your arse. you dad was right, dont tae shit off anyone, but also, dont care what someone who doesnt even know you says. it wont change your life. unless you ask for advice, you dont need to listen to any offered (much like what i have just written) | |||
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