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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

As I've just been surfing profiles I was wondering is there any point in sending messages to people who you think are geographicaly to far to meet. What are other people's thoughts about this? As I see lots of nice people who I'd love to meet that's just to far and think there must be someone More convenient. Thanks Michael x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 minutes. 1 hour if they are something special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would travel max 2 miles, but prefer someone less than a mile away .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I've just been surfing profiles I was wondering is there any point in sending messages to people who you think are geographicaly to far to meet. What are other people's thoughts about this? As I see lots of nice people who I'd love to meet that's just to far and think there must be someone More convenient. Thanks Michael x"
get chatting to them, get to know them, you never know who you might meet... I'm trying clubs all over hopefully this year so the distance is no trouble at all.... If their worth it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only travel to my front door and back ..(to let them in)

But thats with plenty of notice so i can get myself geared up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends I think! For a spontaneous meet, for me, it would need to be local, as you really don't know how it will go - the same would go for someone who wanted to meet socially first. For someone I know then it is worth the extra effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can still chat with them, you never know, they could be up your way one day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger travelling a decent distance could be all part of the whole adventure. Now I find travelling a chore so don't even view profiles outside my area.

Some would take travelling a long way a compliment,some desperation depends on their mindset really. I believe if you can't find suitable local meets in this day and age,it doesn't exactly inspire confidence imo

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

In Feb I'm going to a social and I'll be meeting some really, really nice peeps there. Some I know from posting on the forum and some I've been lucky enough to exchange messages with.

Getting to know peeps is always worth it as you never know when you may meet.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"In Feb I'm going to a social and I'll be meeting some really, really nice peeps there. Some I know from posting on the forum and some I've been lucky enough to exchange messages with.

Getting to know peeps is always worth it as you never know when you may meet. "

Don't forget June

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"30 minutes. 1 hour if they are something special."

^^^^ this...

Unless I was going somewhere further away anyway... and that somewhere had someone on my to do list there

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Doesn't bother me at all. I visit a friend a couple of hundred miles away. Just fill your boot with snacks.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"In Feb I'm going to a social and I'll be meeting some really, really nice peeps there. Some I know from posting on the forum and some I've been lucky enough to exchange messages with.

Getting to know peeps is always worth it as you never know when you may meet.

Don't forget June "

I've not - I've put an asterisk on both my calendars, so it is OFFICIAL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we never contact anyone above 25/30 miles away.

if others contact us further away, we wont be ignorant and will obviously chat.

if htey are happy to travel here then we are more than happy, if we get along.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An hour at the most but I have met someone when I was visiting the Midlands for another event. Which reminds me I'm off to Scotland in the summer need to look further afield

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I drove 1hr 30mjns to my last meet and he was more than worth it.

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

I drive a few hundred miles, as long as there is over night accommodation.

Otherwise about 100 miles or less is fine.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

An hour maximum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hour each way, approx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see, i suppose it depends where you live.

if you live in central london, then there will be loads on your doorstep, but if you live in the arsehole of nowhere, then travelling is the only way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used to travel down to West Midlands from Glasgow after work which took about 6 hours due to traffic on the M6. Returned home on the Sunday which took about 4 hours approx.

10 hour round trip for a cracking meal at one of the best Indians I've ever tasted made the trip worthwhile.

Oh and the sex was great as well

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough


"Hour each way, approx "

Also depends on how fast you drive and traffic

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By *ubik cube OP   Man
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

The furthest I traveled was to isle of man only to be stood up

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hour each way, approx

Also depends on how fast you drive and traffic "

That's true if Mr N if driving we can be in twice as far as if I was.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"In Feb I'm going to a social and I'll be meeting some really, really nice peeps there. Some I know from posting on the forum and some I've been lucky enough to exchange messages with.

Getting to know peeps is always worth it as you never know when you may meet.

Don't forget June

I've not - I've put an asterisk on both my calendars, so it is OFFICIAL "

Yeeeeee-haaaaa xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only travel to my front door and back ..(to let them in)

But thats with plenty of notice so i can get myself geared up "

need to be careful you don't pull something

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Depends if they've got a Helipad or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its all dependant on the female or couple concerned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour at the most but I have met someone when I was visiting the Midlands for another event. Which reminds me I'm off to Scotland in the summer need to look further afield "

ah shame you like your men very tall, you could have stopped off at Durham on your way up there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The furthest I traveled was to isle of man only to be stood up"

no seats on the ferry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live at the bottom of britain nothing much happens round here,i will only travel an hour at Most for individual meets,unless party or Club 2hrs is worth it

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Distance isn't always an issue if it's someone you like and want to meet. It's more the fact that life gets in the way so you can't meet.

If they are someone really nice and we get on then i will make the effort to meet them

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

London/Suffolk

I travel hundreds of miles regularly with work, so I guess I have a different mindset to visiting others.

I used to see a couple in Northants regularly and had a FB in Shropshire.

Yes it is nice to have spontaneous meets closer to home but not so close that we see each other in the checkout queue down Sainsbury's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As my playtime is limited I tend not to drive more than 30 mins as much rather be having fun than driving x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In Feb I'm going to a social and I'll be meeting some really, really nice peeps there. Some I know from posting on the forum and some I've been lucky enough to exchange messages with.

Getting to know peeps is always worth it as you never know when you may meet.

Don't forget June

I've not - I've put an asterisk on both my calendars, so it is OFFICIAL

Yeeeeee-haaaaa xx "

We are going to the Sussex Social in Feb, where's the one in June s we would like to come to that one if possibly date wise

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

50miles max

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Well Id go to t' foot of our stairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Upto an hour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can still chat with them, you never know, they could be up your way one day."

So true! I'm very much hoping this is the case as I've been chatting to my absolute ideal man who lives over 100 miles away but I fancy the pants off him and we click. So who knows?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I've travelled from north of aberdeen to liverpool for a meet, and also had someone who used to travel regularly from glasgow to mine to meet, guess it depends on the person.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I get a lot of messages from guys saying they'll be in my area soon and do I want to meet. Further questioning usually results in finding out they consider my area as being Manchester or Newcastle

Anyway my response is for them to contact me when they get to York, and I never hear from them again.

I love travelling and am down in the South West a lot of my job, so will make an effort to arrange a meet when down there. I am also travelling to clubs more than before so meet people I wouldn't usually meet (fingers crossed!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see it as a problem, I've travelled the full length of the country to watch 90 minutes of football.

So meeting someone I like is not a problem with a little planning..

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By *utterflywingsWoman
over a year ago

Creswell Derbyshire

My answer is really easy.....i dont travel

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By *000_6ftMan
over a year ago

Norwich

I'd travel a few hundred miles for the right lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as too our location 30 mins just about gets us to towns so for us an hour to hour half is a must !!

this we are sure why we struggle to get meets xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll megabus to either end of the country...it wouldnt be for a quick shag though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour at the most but I have met someone when I was visiting the Midlands for another event. Which reminds me I'm off to Scotland in the summer need to look further afield

ah shame you like your men very tall, you could have stopped off at Durham on your way up there x"

My geography for a lot of places outside Wales is crap lol but I assume Durham will be on my way

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The furthest I traveled was to isle of man only to be stood up"

Don't fret. I heard they're all Manx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will crawl out of my neck of the woods this year and travel a bit. Would love to meet a few off here, perhaps halfway, perhaps all the way Sarf. A good natter and a nice meal are wonderful, and dessert - although nice, wouldn't be considered compulsory. A few days spent together, seeing things, going places, will fill my plate nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk 500 miles then i eould walk 500 more lol jayxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I traveled 2.5 hours on a bus on NYE yet it was only 65 miles.

I don't drive so travelling can take a lot longer (its only 1.5 hours by car) so I take that into consideration as well as cost.

I have had men travel hundreds of miles to meet me and one or two have done it more than once, I never expect it and do appreciate the effort so make sure I spoil them a bit eg on the rare occasion I accom I will cook breakfast and bake something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like travelling and new places so quite far actually. Few days off work and make a weekend of it.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I've had a few drive 2+ hours to see me....I would do the same if the occasion popped up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour at the most but I have met someone when I was visiting the Midlands for another event. Which reminds me I'm off to Scotland in the summer need to look further afield "

You could stop in Yorkshire for a couple of days, and I will happily give you a guided tour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An hour at the most but I have met someone when I was visiting the Midlands for another event. Which reminds me I'm off to Scotland in the summer need to look further afield

You could stop in Yorkshire for a couple of days, and I will happily give you a guided tour "

Now there's an offer Never been to Yorkshire either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would only travel to my front door and back ..(to let them in)

But thats with plenty of notice so i can get myself geared up

need to be careful you don't pull something "

True........

last time i did it , i pulled something full of shite

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