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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well don't accept any more. Simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its so they can see your private photos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?"

Presume they want to look at your pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?"

So that they can see your pics, simples, if you had a pic on view people wouldn't need to bother.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos"

They can't be that desperate!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?

Presume they want to look at your pics"

Yep then they block you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well don't accept any more. Simples "

I have it on my profile that I think it's rude to send them. My friends are people I've met, intend to meet and a couple I banter with on the Forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies mate I meant to reply but deleted by mistake

But like the other said pic collectors or wanting to have a cheeky peak. Delete block and move on

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!"

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So they can see pics some people are just nosey

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Why would you accept it, if you didn't know them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!"

I think its just them being nosy rather than desperate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate? "

Ha hah! Desperate to see my pics, the are nothing spectacular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well don't accept any more. Simples

I have it on my profile that I think it's rude to send them. My friends are people I've met, intend to meet and a couple I banter with on the Forums. "

I have found a higher class of people IMO in the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate? "

I think he might have been joking about hes pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate? "

most people come across as desperate, reading my messages and the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?"

So why do you feel the need to accept?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get lots of requests , I don't accept them but have been know to have a peek when they are off line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate?

Ha hah! Desperate to see my pics, the are nothing spectacular"

But they wont know until they see them will they

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate? "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, duly I have accepted and sent a polite "hello how are you" which promptly gets deleted. Why do people feel the need to collect friends for no other purpose to boost their numbers?

So why do you feel the need to accept? "

I'm a friendly sort of bloke, if they genuinely want to be friends then great

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

London/Suffolk

I think thec"desperate" comment was self deprecating.

Sadly a friends request out of the blue rarely seems genuine in my experience.

They're frequently from people who don't match your profile and often those who vanish from the site almost as quickly as they send out friend invitations.

But hey others may have had different. experiences.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, s?"

The proper method of dealing with FR's from those you haven't spoken to:-

1 check they are offline

2 accept FR and perv their private pics

3 fab at least one private pic to show you were there

4 delete from friends list , block if required

This will eventually cause all pic collectors to implode with frustration

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, s?

The proper method of dealing with FR's from those you haven't spoken to:-

1 check they are offline

2 accept FR and perv their private pics

3 fab at least one private pic to show you were there

4 delete from friends list , block if required

This will eventually cause all pic collectors to implode with frustration "

we follow and subscribe to this

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By *ercedes62Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"Well don't accept any more. Simples

I have it on my profile that I think it's rude to send them. My friends are people I've met, intend to meet and a couple I banter with on the Forums. "

Totally agree

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I think a lot of random requests are from people who simply want wank material. I leave them sat there - don't accept or delete - and then they can't send another which must be frustrating for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its so they can see your private photos

They can't be that desperate!!!

Why is it desperate?

They look at your pics, decide they are not interested so don't contact.

Why would you assume its desperate?

Ha hah! Desperate to see my pics, the are nothing spectacular"

you have NO public pics, so they need to see what you look liketo know if you are not for them.

put one public so people can see you and the FR's will drop substantially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The words Rocket and Science spring to mind

Gary

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By *uietlykinkymeWoman
over a year ago

kinky land


"I have been sent a few FRs recently out of the blue, s?

The proper method of dealing with FR's from those you haven't spoken to:-

1 check they are offline

2 accept FR and perv their private pics

3 fab at least one private pic to show you were there

4 delete from friends list , block if required

This will eventually cause all pic collectors to implode with frustration "

I did this years ago; however once I delete their request, they can re-request. So now I just ignore their request permanently and they cant re-request.

If someone I send a friends request to, is on the list, they are removed from the list and the friendship is instantly accepted

Much easier for me, and I dont even check who has sent one, I just click it and go back out to zero off the number

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