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What do Single Guys really think of the male half of a Cpl.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect?

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By *uckyinlustMan
over a year ago

manchester

What a fine chap he is .......

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Im very open minded so i say fair play n there in a very trusting relationship x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'Lucky fucker'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "

Yes, If I don't like the guy, nothing is likely to happen!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"'Lucky fucker' "

Indeed I am!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect? "

A star

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmm, well I've been on both sides of this. As a single guy, I _iewed the couple as one. They come as a package, both open minded enough to not be jealous of watching their partner with enjoying themselves.

As part of a couple watching a single guy pleasuring my partner. I like to see her happy,but at the same time I know that no matter how good the guy might be sexually, I'm the one with the emotional connection with her and that is the true strength in any relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there normally secretly gay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex .

Yes, If I don't like the guy, nothing is likely to happen! "

100% . I'm into MMF or being watched/filmed with the lady , so if your going to to do any of that you have to be totally at ease all 3 of you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, well I've been on both sides of this. As a single guy, I _iewed the couple as one. They come as a package, both open minded enough to not be jealous of watching their partner with enjoying themselves.

As part of a couple watching a single guy pleasuring my partner. I like to see her happy,but at the same time I know that no matter how good the guy might be sexually, I'm the one with the emotional connection with her and that is the true strength in any relationship. "

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as we all can get along and know what things not to do to the lady then its all happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay "

Says the guy with no meets....pffft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay "

How to ensure you don't meet a couple in 2014

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay "

Are you for Real ?

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I _iew the male half is as the male half, I'll chat have a laugh etc etc, the only thing I cant be arsed with is a porn directing wannabe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

Says the guy with no meets....pffft "

LOL ..... I'm straight as a die , but I've done DVP which was great . It doesn't make me gay FFS.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus."

I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

chopped liver.

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By *athylacyTV/TS
over a year ago

Maidstone


"What a fine chap he is ....... "

For couples who invite me to play I think the guy is a nice chap and the woman is a nice girl....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

Are you for Real ?

Gary"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect? "

This is a great question, and one that has often crossed my mind. Will follow this with interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.

I keep ferrets , that any cooler? "

Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg


"there normally secretly gay "

This is a statement most often made by secretly gay folk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

How to ensure you don't meet a couple in 2014 "

Hmmm this ^^^^

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect? "

I see my presence in such situations as being part of their fun/fantasy. The fact that I get a kick out of it too is a bonus...

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

As they assume that, like them, everyone is secretly gay. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.

I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?"

I could go in the shed and tinker with my Lawn Mower?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

This is a statement most often made by secretly gay folk. "
or green eyed

Nette

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

This is a statement most often made by secretly gay folk. or green eyed

Nette"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.

I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?

I could go in the shed and tinker with my Lawn Mower? "

You're making me nervous playing with your tools, I'd rather face the ferrets...how about we leave your missus in the shed and have a pint, I've got a headache anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay "

From the lad who describes himself as "curvy" loooool

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"there normally secretly gay "

I think I've just spotted why you seem to be struggling on this site.

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By *UNCHBOXMan
over a year ago

folkestone

I prefer meeting couples where i know the male half of the couple enjoys or gets turned on by seeing her with another male. I don't think it really works otherwise, as jealousy will become an issue if he is only going along with it to keep her happy.

As a single guy ive always tried to act as if i was in his position, so that means me being respectful, non pushy and communicating with them so their happy with everything.

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts


"there normally secretly gay "

bugger, just when i had read all your other threads and was going to offer you a sympathy shag too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" They think if I pretend to like him and be his mate, and tell him yeah I'm really interested in your collection of racing pigeons,and would love to talk about how macho you are then maybe ill get to tonk your missus.

I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

Bugger I'm not sure I could hold em pretending to be relaxed as the little beggars may bite me. How about I give some money to clear off down the pub for 5 minutes?

I could go in the shed and tinker with my Lawn Mower?

You're making me nervous playing with your tools, I'd rather face the ferrets...how about we leave your missus in the shed and have a pint, I've got a headache anyway "

Now that's a plan!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I prefer meeting couples where i know the male half of the couple enjoys or gets turned on by seeing her with another male. I don't think it really works otherwise, as jealousy will become an issue if he is only going along with it to keep her happy.

As a single guy ive always tried to act as if i was in his position, so that means me being respectful, non pushy and communicating with them so their happy with everything. "

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"there normally secretly gay

This is a statement most often made by secretly gay folk. "

and blokes who's only 'meet' is with Mrs thumb and her 4 daughters..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

bugger, just when i had read all your other threads and was going to offer you a sympathy shag too"

Gary

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect? "

They would probably say "thanks very much!"

and follow it up with

"i'd never let my partner do that".

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I keep ferrets , that any cooler? "

Depends.

WHERE do you keep the ferrets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect?

They would probably say "thanks very much!"

and follow it up with

"i'd never let my partner do that".

"

I suspect so

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

Depends.

WHERE do you keep the ferrets?"

Under the bed, obviously

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

Depends.

WHERE do you keep the ferrets?

Under the bed, obviously "

Depends.

Are the ferrets straight, bi, or gay ferrets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I keep ferrets , that any cooler?

Depends.

WHERE do you keep the ferrets?

Under the bed, obviously

Depends.

Are the ferrets straight, bi, or gay ferrets?"

Off topic now guys....

Come on really, be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to like and get on with the male half of any couple I meet. After all the idea is for you to all have fun together and for me that would be impossible if he was a knob or a jerk, no matter how attractive his wife or partner is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the utmost respect for both the hubby and the wife concerned. This is a joint decision after all and nothing happens for me without all three gaining some pleasure from the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex .

Yes, If I don't like the guy, nothing is likely to happen! "

More importantly treat my lady as anything other than a princess and it's not happening, she has one arsehole in her life ( me) she doesn't need another lol

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"there normally secretly gay

Says the guy with no meets....pffft "

Didn't you ask for honest answers?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

Says the guy with no meets....pffft

Didn't you ask for honest answers?!! "

Indeed, but not banal or just deliberately provocative

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

I understand the lure of this as always wanted to watch my wife with another male for years however it never happened

I always wanted to see her enjoy whst I felt I couldnt give her

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"there normally secretly gay

Says the guy with no meets....pffft

Didn't you ask for honest answers?!!

Indeed, but not banal or just deliberately provocative "

So what you really wanted was the usual sycophantic responses to massage your ego?!!

Gotcha!

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

some will be throughly decent lads

some will be twats.....

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Some might even have a Pool Table.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Please let people answer honesty without attacking their profile

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

I like this question, but sadly not many people have answered it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield

Thanks mate ? !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if I've learnt nothing else from this thread, at least I've figured out I'm a homosexual. What a relief.

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't think of him as 'him'.

I think of him as part of the couple.

It's the couple I'm meeting, not 'him' and 'her'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that's my opinion on what I have experienced calm down

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I do think of the ferrets as 'them' though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's my opinion on what I have experienced calm down "

And you are fully entitled to that (unbelievably wide of the mark) opinion

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By *ames blackMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

I like to be on friendly chatting terms with him & just follow his lead as to what & when. We are all there to enjoy the experience

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"I do think of the ferrets as 'them' though."

You are a Ferretist!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's my opinion on what I have experienced calm down "

did u experience cock then?

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

We all know people will want to get on before meeting... but the question is what do you men think of someone letting you share his wife?

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I like this question, but sadly not many people have answered it."

I would but I'm not qualified I feel left out

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"I do think of the ferrets as 'them' though.

You are a Ferretist!"

There is room on this thread for people who are both pro and anti ferret.

It's a lifestyle choice, like any other, so just because it's not one person's cup of Darjeeling doesn't mean we can't all be inclusive and respect others.

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By *ebsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Orpington/london


"For me , it's almost more important I hit it off with the man more than the woman .i had one experience where I met a couple at a hotel. The guy was a real nob , so I baled out . Since then I take time to get to know the guy , and this works really well and I've made some good friends as well as had some mindblowing sex . "

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By *ensualfire88Man
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"We all know people will want to get on before meeting... but the question is what do you men think of someone letting you share his wife?"

WHOAH, Rugby!

'letting him share his wife'?

I would like to think that his wife had a full say in whom was in her womb, so to speak.

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By *punkloverCouple
over a year ago

hatfield


"that's my opinion on what I have experienced calm down "

Wow, sounds like you have had a few dodgy meets then !

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo


"We all know people will want to get on before meeting... but the question is what do you men think of someone letting you share his wife?

WHOAH, Rugby!

'letting him share his wife'?

I would like to think that his wife had a full say in whom was in her womb, so to speak."

lol Spanked good style.

I would rephrase but you probably know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

I think I've just spotted why you seem to be struggling on this site. "

I'm still considering that tenner oops wrong forum lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

Says the guy with no meets....pffft

Didn't you ask for honest answers?!!

Indeed, but not banal or just deliberately provocative

So what you really wanted was the usual sycophantic responses to massage your ego?!!

Gotcha! "

Fair point, but incorrect.

Not looking for sycophants or bullshit.

As an ex single guy I was looking for other guys/cpls opinions and thoughts.

Naturally it's also usual to expect the daft responses too.

Obviously not you Miss

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

So what did you used to think Classy when you were a single male?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect? "

I'm always hugely impressed by the strength of their relationship and the fact that they swing together. It's something that will never happen for me so can only imagine what it's like.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk


"there normally secretly gay

This is a statement most often made by secretly gay folk.

and blokes who's only 'meet' is with Mrs thumb and her 4 daughters.. "

Oh well said...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So what did you used to think Classy when you were a single male?"

We'll, tbh it really depends on the cpl.

Some guys co-erce partners into swinging, which most guys pick up on. I have left in the past when I have sensed that.

Some guys just get off on seeing their wife have fun....That's me, so I get that.

Some guys want to direct a porno.....odd

Some guys are cuckold or feel they can't satisfy the partner....I don't . But understand how guys can feel that way.

So I suppose no single answer, it depends on the cpl and the husband.

I class myself as -

A. Very Lucky!!!!!

B. Happy to share,

C. Slightly Pervy as I enjoy seeing and hearing my Mrs have a great time....

D. Not Gay!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least."

Possibly a fair comment!

Had a cpl of stupid e mails too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least.

Possibly a fair comment!

Had a cpl of stupid e mails too! "

Useful as an idiot filter though.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger. "

I'm with this chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Based on comments on previous threads I'm amazed nobody has yet suggested that they are incapable of satisfying their partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.

I'm with this chap"

Why meet with couples then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "

That's a shame, people should never lose respect for others based on what they get up to in the bedroom (as long as it's, erm, legal...)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "

Do you lack respect for the women too?

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.

I'm with this chap

Why meet with couples then?"

I don't. Well, I have in the dim and distant past and those limited experiences have put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry

That's a shame, people should never lose respect for others based on what they get up to in the bedroom (as long as it's, erm, legal...)"
no they shouldn't, each to their own, I see things I don't like, but I don't lose respect for peoples kinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.

I'm with this chap

Why meet with couples then?

I don't. Well, I have in the dim and distant past and those limited experiences have put me off. "

Okay - (on your profile it still says you do)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "

Though I've been on here as a single male I've never really _iewed singles meeting singles as swinging. But I have enough respect to appreciate that it's each to their own. But I fail to see how somebody could frequent a site and go to clubs where they lack respect for the core ingrediant - couples.

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By *r Mahogany70Man
over a year ago

Leicester


"If I'm being honest , I don't get it. But then again, I'm not a swinger.

I'm with this chap

Why meet with couples then?

I don't. Well, I have in the dim and distant past and those limited experiences have put me off.

Okay - (on your profile it still says you do)"

Sometimes the female wants to play independently of her partner

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Based on comments on previous threads I'm amazed nobody has yet suggested that they are incapable of satisfying their partner."

I was expecting a lot of answers like this....hopefully the ones who do think this are not wary of posting it incase people get defensive....after all it is just a _iew and could be true for some couples.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "
I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.

I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least."

You can if you follow the party line: deviate from it at your own peril!

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"After a quick flick through have realised this is one of those questions that for the most part seems best not answered. On here at least.

You can if you follow the party line: deviate from it at your own peril!"

I stand by my comment unless the party line is 'we're all in this together' in which case...oh yeah...I'd dive in

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry

Though I've been on here as a single male I've never really _iewed singles meeting singles as swinging. But I have enough respect to appreciate that it's each to their own. But I fail to see how somebody could frequent a site and go to clubs where they lack respect for the core ingrediant - couples."

Lots of people post this sort of stuff here, it always puzzles me you expect this sort of total ignorance from outside the community but its pretty crap when it comes from people who are VERY active within it.

Puzzling indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.

I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either. "

Find this really interesting. To me love and sex are quite separate, as are making love and a good fuck.

Why somebody could respect peoples decision to have sex with multiple partners when they're single, but not respect a couple that choose to do the same, I find bizarre - particularly by people that choose to sign up to a swinging site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.

I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either.

Find this really interesting. To me love and sex are quite separate, as are making love and a good fuck.

Why somebody could respect peoples decision to have sex with multiple partners when they're single, but not respect a couple that choose to do the same, I find bizarre - particularly by people that choose to sign up to a swinging site.

"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry I wouldn't apologise for not getting your head around it, it just means this type of play isn't for you.

I don't understand the losing respect for someone though, but know it does happen, as people who don't use swinging sites to find multiple partners will probably not respect that either.

Find this really interesting. To me love and sex are quite separate, as are making love and a good fuck.

Why somebody could respect peoples decision to have sex with multiple partners when they're single, but not respect a couple that choose to do the same, I find bizarre - particularly by people that choose to sign up to a swinging site.

"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hmmmm, well I've been on both sides of this. As a single guy, I _iewed the couple as one. They come as a package, both open minded enough to not be jealous of watching their partner with enjoying themselves.

As part of a couple watching a single guy pleasuring my partner. I like to see her happy,but at the same time I know that no matter how good the guy might be sexually, I'm the one with the emotional connection with her and that is the true strength in any relationship. "

Great answer!

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By *appyfuckerMan
over a year ago

in a happy place north wales coast

think it depends on the guy himself ive met some great fellas happy for me to pleasure there partner & either direct/vid or even join in think the wife is lucky one though she has 2 cocks mouths & 4 hands to keep her satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect? "

You I presume want an honest reply so lets look at it objectively.

Firstly not all couples are seen in the same way by myself and I would guess many others. There are guys who like to watch their partner be pleasured, those who like to feel humiliated and feel inadequate and many other kinks that are associated to inviting another male into the bedroom. In the main though I will get to know a couple and in the main respect them him and her. I do like to chat to him find out what does it for him what he is expecting and don't really judge because in the main I get it. I don't play with couples if I don't like him ok that may be strange but I do like to have a chat a drink and get on with people I play with. I know some people can think the male side is a silly bugger but I don't see it that way myself its just a kink like thousands of others and if you chat t people you usually get it and it works for all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "

Oh dear, that's a shame. Not understanding is one thing but lacking respect quite another. There are aspects of what you enjoy that I don't understand but I'd never allow it to affect my respect for you as a woman.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also with the opinion that you need to gel with both the fella and his other half. I've got to get on well with them or nothing is going to happen.

I definitely don't think any less of the bloke for letting another fella do his misses as I put it down to all part of their own sex games and wants that happen to overlap with mine.

Having said that, I'm not comfortable being with newbies if this is uncharted territory for them as I don't want the responsibility of it all being perfect for their 1st or to deal with any sudden hang ups they have - like to know all the boundaries from the off and what they like.

It's always so much better of you all genuinely hit it off and not pretending just to go through with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Curious here, we meet single guys and we both enjoy a lot.

Sometimes I join in sometimes I just watch...

So what do Single Guys really think about guys who invite others to Fuck their Wife?

Honest answers, I don't expect?

You I presume want an honest reply so lets look at it objectively.

Firstly not all couples are seen in the same way by myself and I would guess many others. There are guys who like to watch their partner be pleasured, those who like to feel humiliated and feel inadequate and many other kinks that are associated to inviting another male into the bedroom. In the main though I will get to know a couple and in the main respect them him and her. I do like to chat to him find out what does it for him what he is expecting and don't really judge because in the main I get it. I don't play with couples if I don't like him ok that may be strange but I do like to have a chat a drink and get on with people I play with. I know some people can think the male side is a silly bugger but I don't see it that way myself its just a kink like thousands of others and if you chat t people you usually get it and it works for all. "

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is always my policy to treat the male and female of the couple equally, and to involve both parties with everything. I even chat to both parties on the phone for almost an equal amount of time each after the meet. For me, it's about making friends with both the male and female, as well as the fun itself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd sort of assumed people on here and at clubs were of a similar mindset but the replies on here have been enlightening

My honest feeling is that I can understand now why some prefer to give single men a miss - I think we will too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there normally secretly gay

Says the guy with no meets....pffft "

Are you surprised ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that's my opinion on what I have experienced calm down "

On what do you base your findings ? For me, your response is a little like saying, if you watch porn you must have gay tendencies because there are usually guys. Naked guys at that. Guys fucking women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I quite simply dont understand it. Im here for single guys that are single. You asked for an honest answer - I lack respect for those guys that do this. I really cant get my head round it - even tho I try x sorry "

I respect your _iew, but struggle to understand why you are using a swingers site, that is overflowing with couples that openly have sex with others, to find your sexual partners, if you have no respect for most of the people here ?

That's not to say you shouldn't be here. That's your choice.

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By *eyKMan
over a year ago

North

Don't mind if the Male is straight. Non of this orally Bi stuff

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By *otTheReal01Man
over a year ago

London

I tend to spend more time chatting to the men than the women but I have to get on with both (unless it's a gangbang type situation where there's little or no conversation).

I'm also impressed by the strength of these relationships as I couldn't share a partner with another guy.

So hooray for these awesome guys and gals!

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

Reminder to give an answer when sober.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had the full range of reactions from single guys towards Mr - from pointedly ignoring him (quickest way to a thanks, but no thanks) all the way to the 2 guys discussing MMA for an hour & sidelining Mrs

Most single guys do 'get it' & 'play the game' - involving both of us in chatting/introducing themselves, asking questions etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I am honoured to be there with them and Id never blank the bloke out..

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